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Eat better, exercise, read books on cognitive behavioral therapy, force yourself to be social.

>>18416199

you don't really. you just keep trying to live your life and focus on the good.

when you feel sad do you actually do anything to fight it? do you take a night off to hang with your friends, or just have a beer and enjoy some video games, or listen to some soft but chill music?

most people start getting depressed and they just give in.

>>18416213
When I feel sad, I just lay in bed - if I'm not at work etc - and do only that. I don't have any pals that I can constantly hit up, as they live a few hours away, it's a bit lonely where I am.
But yeah nah, I guess you have a point - treat myself to good things rather than let feeling bad take over me.
Thanks for the advice.

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Just say, "I would not cheat on you and if i ever wanted to for any magical reason, I would break up with you first before having sex or go out with another woman"

Its reassuring. dont know how she will take it but thats what i would say

A relationship like that just isn't for you, you're just not compatible. You should try to find another girl and you should probably tell her you do need alone time. Or fuck, why not just try to get a fwb? maybe that would work better for you than a relationship (for now at least)

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>>18416200
I have more or less told her this exactly multiple times. She responds well to it but a few weeks or a month later it seems that we're right back to the same stuff.

>>18416200
I'm really not interested in casual sex so I've never considered the fwb thing. I would really like to work things out with her, she's a very honest person who wants something long term, to start a family, hasn't ridden the cock carousel and is pretty conservative, yet submissive (excluding this problem) and that's a lot of what I'm looking for.

>amazing body
>fat
gets my noggin joggin

>>18416123
Her fat doesn't sag. Like she's that was always skinny and ballooned in college. Shit is still tight and holy shit she's gonna start sagging. Fuck tHank you!

>>18416114
You don't really need to use math to figure out it's 1/5 green right? Like, all the smaller side bits can be paired with a bigger bit to make a square the same size as the green square I think.

>>18415995
Go apply at a fast food place. McDonalds pays over minimum and no union dues

>>18415995

That sounds pretty shitty Tbh

Take it if you have to, but keep applying for other jobs. As soon as you get an offer from a better place, bail.

>>18416006
I've been applying to tons of places

>>18416082
Yea thats what I'm thinking.

Pasante's ribbed and dotted are the best condoms I've ever used, and I've been through pretty much anything available where I live.
They also do some extra thin ones, might be worth a shot, but I've found that the overall fit is far more imoprtant than the thinness of the barrier - if what you're using today grips too tightly, essentially choking off blood flow around the base of the shaft, that's what you need to fix first.
You might not even notice it at first, but a good way to tell, is that if you get a distinct ring imprint on your dick after taking off the condom, it's too tight for you, and that's going to matter more than the fabric being a few microns thicker than one of those "extra sensation" ones.

The best advice I can give you, is to just get a bunch of different brands and models, try them out, and then buy bulk once you hit the perfect one for you. It's worth the investment, because you'll know exactly what to use for the rest of your life (or at least until you no longer need condoms).

Donkey punches.

>>18415969
skyn or anything else made from polyisoprene

>>18415873
If you have the smarts to do an engineering degree, pick one you like. Life will work its way to where you'll have to end up after that

>>18415938
I really don't have a passion for any engineering degree. I just want a job that's well paid and secure. I know it sounds kinda scummy and if I had a passion for something that could make money without risking to end up homeless I'd do that instead.

>>18415873
I got my license and degree in mech engineering but my current title is civil engineer. If you don't want to talk to people you're in the wrong career path. A stupid engineer that talks to, engages, and coordinates with people will fuck up a lot less than a smart engineer that keeps to himself. Unless you work for the government or something. Engineering for the most part is a social industry. As an engineer you will need knowledge of a broad amount of subjects and be able to call into the technical expertise of others often.

>>18415862

facebook literally does not affect whether or not you get laid.

Just use text messaging. Thats how I communicate with less tech savvy people.

>>18415867
Right, but what about first contact? Don't kids these days spend their days on their friend's floor swiping?

>>18415817
Be happy they invited you. Could they take all their friends,of course not. I'm sure there's only room for so many. If they didn't like or consider you a real friend they wouldn't offer at all.

>>18415817

depends really. you say this is the norm but how bad is this? do you invest more in them then they do in you? or are you just mad that some people who kind of know you invite you when theres room but havent taken the time to declare you their bff?

>>18415835

> do you invest more in them then they do in you?

No not really, good point.

> or are you just mad that some people who kind of know you invite you when theres room but havent taken the time to declare you their bff?

Yah most of them don't know me all too well, so I guess I'll just take the grateful route and be happy with the invite.

Thanks for the words.

>>18415829

These words are good too, many thanks.

>>18415805

I'm the anon who made the Zoloft thread.

Have you thought about talking to your doctor and maybe getting some feel good pills?

I mean they really do help!

I say work. Just spend every hour of your time doing something productive, doing something that will benefit you in the future. Do what you know you should be doing right now to be where you want to be in the future. Thats the only thing that seems to help me.

>>18415805
>What do I do.

get a hobby

sum of all forces must equal zero on the woman
T + W + Fwall = 0
split into x and y components and solve

Also keep in mind that friction scales with force applied perpendicular to the surface, so you'll have to use the Flegs, some trig and this 15 degree angle to calculate that.

>>18415796
But what about N force extending opposite of Flegs?

What country are you from and what city are you going to visit?

And it in generally depends. Here in Poland we were supposed to be known for our hospitality and being open, but now our government is far right so dumb racists and haters feel like they are doing the right thing and are more rampant. Students here tend to drink heavily, but not always in a form of a party. But there are a lot of shut-ins that just want peace and to actually learn something, so it's not like everyone is loud. You'll fit in, one way or another. Give your conversation partner time to respond, prolonged silence is not always bad. I don't know how aggressive you are when you're joking but playful insults are not unusual between friends here. Just be polite, don't hesitate to ask about our language or the city and some people will take care of you. At least here in Wroclaw cute female students tend to be the ones who are active in programs like Erasmus.

You can't imagine my saltiness when my obnoxious, loud as fuck Ukrainian roommate kept hanging out with the prettiest girls in the whole dormitory.

>>18415845
I'm from italy
Actually I'm going to wroklow
Then I hope to seduce you and all of your friend

It's not as if I don't like party. I love to drink and have fun but the last time i went to poland the only thing we did was going to the disco and I really suck at dance

>>18415845
You're a man so forget what i sad about seducing you, just your friends

BECAUSE YOU SMOKED WEED YOU STUPID FUCK YOU SAID IT YOURSELF

>>18415716
When I smoke I feel like I'm going crazy and trapped inside my own head. Drugs are drugs man, sometimes they just don't go well with you

>>18415716
That's the best part

oh, i feel this is kind of relevant: this person often strikes up conversation with me over facebook, and also has sent me hearts etc out of the blue. i am not messaging out of the blue myself here.

>>18415658
Messaging him would be a good way to communicate the idea that you want to be back with him and you have put your shit together and surpassed whatever obstacle you had before. But this is not the case (still living with another ex?) and you are just confusing him more. Leave the guy alone, get yourself together. Cut contact.

>>18415690
thanks for your reply.
it's true, i have not yet moved beyond my obstacles. cutting contact is not really possible as our social circles are extensively overlap.

i am trying to get myself together, i thought sending this message would be a step in that direction? if I just get a confirmation that everything is over between us I feel like I'll be liberated, and absolutely freed from most if not all of my anxiety, which is largely based around "I fucked up and need to make things right". I know there's a chance of the answer being yes, but I really want that "no, it's over".

Can't you kick him out?

Or at least keikaku a plan so he get kicked out?

>>18415632
Sounds like you need to move with your GF
not necessarily in her mms house, but in the same town. Get a cheap motel room there until you can find something better.

>>18415648
Can't, long story short, can't leave the state until the end of the year. On top of that, I got car payments and credit card bills that need to be paid off. We'll go our seperate ways but we'll see eachother again, its always been that way with this girl

>>18415646
He wont move out, i've already tried. Even if he did, I dont know who would come live here. I could get a better job and pay his half of rent myself, but hes not moving, I already asked him, and were both on the lease.

>>18415557
Why you give her your number? What are you, a pussy? Are you insecure and scared? You have to dominate man, YOU take her number next time. And you let the bitch wait then for your call. So turn this shameful page and write a new one.

>should i wait or just give up?

Literally what difference would it make? Youd be doing the same shit either way. Keep moving forward bro. You can only worry about what is in your control and this one isnt. The only "difference" in those two options is your mindset. Obviously go with the mindset that is most beneficial to you ie. dont get hungup on a girl you barely know.

>>18415608
i didn't want to be too forward and look weird. i wanted to look friendly and make it seem like i wanted to get to know her more and become friends
>>18415627
the thing is i've been thinking about her non stop ever since i talked to her. i've liked her for about half a year before we even talked for the first time. i would love to not think about her, but i thought she could be my chance at a girlfriend. (btw she's about a 3/10 in looks)