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Where can I find good grills to date?
Like I want girls who share conservative values and who dont have the thot aesthetic that is so common today.
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Amish country.
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>>18482604
Go out, meet people,, find those with your values, flirt, and eventually one will date you. If you share those values, just do the things you like and you'll meet girls that think like you.
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>>18482611
I am not really into inbred girls.
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listen up /adv/ i fucked up completely and i dont know how to get out of this shit
>be me
>random female from lithuania
>date a guy from luxembourg over a year ago
>long distance starts killing me
>i leave him because i get too depressed
>never actually met him
>new bf year later
>half a year later i found out my ex has been dating my only friend
>calm myself down because i convince myself there was no reason for me to know
>get dragged into their bullshit and learn that she was calling me a whore all the time for having 2 boyfriends in a lifetime
>oh thats new, great
>they break up a few months later
>learn that my ex has tried to kill himself several times because i left him
>oh shit the guilt
>message him to ask if hes okay
>we end up talking all the time
>yay im helping!!
>he hates me
>nothing new
>current bf finds out im talking to my ex
>threatens to kill himself
>leaves me
>oh
>got back together after i explained him the situation
>yay?
>ex still seems mental
>current bf seems mental
>shitwhatdoido.jpg
>keep talking to both of them
>ex says i ruined his life
>said he finally will jump in fornt of a train
>please dont
>current bf only forces to have sex
>please dont
>threatens to jump off a bridge
my anxiety, depression and my ed are at the all time high and i dont know what to do because its hard for me to just let both of them go
help
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>>18482515
your and their age ?
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>>18482515
Cut contact with them they can only drag you down. They can kill themselves for all you care. But they won't. They say they will to get your attention. You should surround yourself with people with a positive outlook on life if you want to grow as a person and out of your mental problems.
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>>18482532
im 18, ex 22, current bf 19
>>18482540
problem is im not very social and those two people are the only people in my life
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HOW DO I FIX MY LIFE PLEASE
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I'VE BEEN NEET FOR TWO YEARS
PLEASE HOW DO I FIX THIS
THANKS VERY MUCH
THANK YOU
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Get a job
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>>18482235
That sounds like gash, why don't I just go on holiday or some shit, I've spend fucking years working jobs and saving my fucking money when I could have been out having a good time and partying with people. So I should just go fucking travelling basically. Yes?
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SHAMELESS BUMP
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How can I come to terms with things?
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How can I come to terms with things?
Last week my gf of 2 years broke up with me. Instead of wasting time thinking about I decided to use tinder and POF, thinking I would find women easily.
I was wrong every time I tried, and believe me I kept getting rejected, I tried to not show in any way that I was desperate or sad. This rejection got mixed with the lingering feeling of not having a gf.
Man I got so mad. I was feeling pissed that these girls thought they were all hot shit; they all believed they were unique, but all they were just basic bitches.
These women are boring as shit.
How do I come to terms that I’ll probably be single for the rest of my life?
How do I come to terms to the fact that traps aren’t gay?
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>>18482165
>Implying all of that shit
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>>18482192
>got rejected
>"bitches are just shit."
"you're just mad"
>implying shit
So do you want advice here or just people who echo your opinions?
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Me and GF been together for 7 months. Haven't hugged or kissed or anything once. I want to but have 0 experience with girls and have an irrational fear that if i try it'll just be awkward.
what do /adv/?
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How the fuck did you even get a gf in the first place
7 months jesus christ? How old are you?
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>>18482138
i was in your shoes once, i just asked to lick her butthole and that broke the ice. It may sound weird but trust me and give it a shot.
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>>18482150 okay, thanks?
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20 year old girl who lives with parents, has no friends, no job or job experience and abusive parents. I can't take it anymore. What should I do?
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>>18482072
"It's easy, son. All you need to do is show up, speak with a manager, look him in the eye, address him as 'Sir,' and give him a firm handshake."
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>>38129131
Can't find a job because I have no experience and I'm looking for jobs in particular places for graduate school :/
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>>18482074
>20
>looking for grad schools
bitch wtf r u doin
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Have you ever met a girl, who is in some sense introverted/humble(?), and dresses accordingly, and at least moderately looking (somewhat cute) and moderately intelligent?
Have you been ever given the chance to show someone how much you want(ed) to give, or feel like someones wants you to come to somewhere, or be cheered by your sole presence?
Have you ever had someone to really value you, to love you, other than your parents/family member?
But really, have you? Share stories, experiences, advice whatever.
Am I asking for too much?
>inb4 what do you have to offer
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>>18481635
You seem to want a cute girl to hold on your arm and show off that will not talk to much or make you do shit out of your comfort zone.
I feel valued by people all the time,people that come to me for advice, or just to share a drink and kick back. I know I can call my friends and set up something to do because they enjoy being with me and I enjoy being with them.
If you only focus on girls to date, though, I admit my pool has not being that big. Mostly lust instead of love, too. Only one made me feel loved and I fucked that one up for my own insecurities (I had my reasons, but we could've handled it better).
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>>18481635
I would say I am the kind of girl you described, so I guess yes.
>Have you ever had someone to really value you, to love you, other than your parents/family member?
Yeah, more than one person.
>Am I asking for too much?
Not necessarily. But, of course, you need to be desirable as well.
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>>18481658
I don't focus on dating girls, I mostly focus at making my self a better person.
I only have one close friend, which seems to share the same views as me, so some extent at least, and I really hope this will be a long-lived friendship.
I just never had received affection from someone else other than my parents, and the affection that I've ever received was limited.
I am just watching my self grow, and becoming a more and more bitter.
Help.
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So I'm heading off on a trip soon with a couple of friends. It should be fun, but last year on the same trip, there was some guy with us trying to fuck one of the girls in our group.
That's fine. The only thing is, he was under the impression me and her were together at the time, and despite that, he still made advances and I'm under the impression he was trying to do it for the pussy and to brag about "cucking" me.
They'll probably hook up on this trip. What do I do if he starts bragging about it? I'll have to confront him, but outside of yelling at him and punching him, I really don't know what I'll do.
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"I'm not her bf" should suffice
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>>18481622
this I don't understand how this is even a situation
is it not clear in your group of friends that you aren't dating? is this dude functionally retarded?
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>>18481632
He just assumes. He never asked around. I only heard about it because she told me he asked at the end of the vacation.
My worry is he'll assume I have a crush on her, and try to brag about it that way.
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My PC has been shutting itself down because of overheating. What can I do, I cannot get it repaired, I'm a femanon soI don't know how to open it up and fix it myself. I cannot afford a laptop fan either. Save me, I can't live without my laptop.
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>>18481323
If it's a Macbook, as in the picture, then yes, that's just poor design on Apple's part. Macbooks overheat under even a moderate load unless you have some sort of external cooling or the ambient temperature is fairly low.
Considering that a laptop cooling pad costs like $10-$20, you're a dope if you shelled out the money for an Apple product.
You can find videos on youtube for how to open most brands and models of laptop, as well as information on how to clean out dust and even replacing faulty fans. If you're not able to follow and figure out how to do it on your own, that has nothing to do with your gender -- you just aren't very bright.
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>>18481323
>>/g/
sqt
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What are you putting it on? If you're putting it on your lap or a pillow it will get up like crazy. You might be running too many things at once too. What type of laptop is it?
How do I stop getting depressed on the last day of the weekend?
I don't even do anything in the weekens except not looking forward to work. And then while at work my mind is occupied but I archieve nothing and then on friday i'm once more a day happy and then in the weekends I do nothing.
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>>18481310
Mmm sounds like you hate your job. Get a job you enjoy and your problem is solved.
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>>18481364
what if im kinda stuck due to lack of education and being old and having a horrible resume
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>>18481369
Your not stuck anywhere, that just an excuse. Age also doesn't matter. But if you think you can't. Then get a hobby you can look forward to doing everyday.
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Been dating my girlfriend for almost 7 years. I thought it was time to take the next step so I told her to move in with me (three times already). She refused and told me she wants to get married first before moving in.
Wat do. Being rejected after trying to give a huge step is bringing me down.
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Get married, dipshit. She flat out told you that's what her condition is.
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>>18481291
I told her that we are going to get engaged by the end of this year and getting married next year. The reason why we don't get married now is that there's no enough money to have a wedding and all the things come later.
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>>18481316
You've strung this bitch on for 7 years your damn right she wants some commitment from you. You better propose now. She doesn't want to hear a year from now. But now. Money doesn't matter dude it's the action she wants.
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Hey guys if i had a spare house on my farm and let somone move in in exchange for them working on my farm do i list them as a employee? Im not paying them, is it legal in that? The going rent on a comparable house in the area is 1000 a month. I would gess the value of the house would make me inclined not to work more hours than the value of it at slightly more than minimum wage. Is this tecnically slavery?
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>>18481258
I am providing all the chicken and eggs they want, goat meat when harvested, and whatever veggies are in and from the fruit trees. He works uber and his wife has a job but will help him as well when she can.
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>>18481258
In the old days we called this the relationship between a peasant and a lord, it's not slavery, it's the way of the future.
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>>18481277
They honestly could not afford better. They get a 'free' place to stay and food. They might be able to put away something for savings. They could not do this working uber and her grocery job paying rent at a apartment. The work is mostly just daily routine stuff they can scedual around.
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Dumped due to childhood abuse?
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I was in an abusive situation with a parent, as a child.
The situation was that the parent was the scientist and the child was the experiment.
I am 26. I have had some relationships, one I told her at 4 months, she cried and we felt closer than ever, then she dumped me a few days later when I would reference it in conversation. I was angry at her after.
I never told my next two girlfriends and they last over a year each, longest 18+ months.
I told my most recent girlfriend after a year of dating exactly. She broke up with me 11 days later, said that she was a bad person and couldn't handle it when I started referencing it in our conversations.
I feel extremely angry at the people I told but I also understand. Am I doomed to two choices
>alone and truthful
>loved and lying
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What do u mean by referencing it in the future conversations?
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>>18481248
Example the child was made to eat a paperclip sometimes. I don't like owning paperclips, girlfriend left forms from her work at my apartment. Ex cries and apologizes and takes all papers out of apartment
Example the child was locked in a room no food or toilet. Lasted over day multiple times to see if child could find a password so the parent would open the door. I mention it once when we watch TV game show. Ex cries and holds me
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>>18481248
No yelling or fighting. Just asking or mentioning in conversations
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I need to break up with my gf. We've been together 2 years and she's 29. I've never broken up with a girl before. What do I do? What do I say?
I was thinking of telling her that it doesn't feel like it will get to the next step of living together, because the thought of it actually feels like it would be hard.
reasons:
> she doesn't like the same things I like, and I feel like if I am with all the time, I will never be able to enjoy those things fully again.
> she's way too fucking extroverted to the point where she thinks introversion is bordering on pathological. She's told me something is wrong with me if I ever want to be alone. If I go to the gym alone, even if she doesn't want to go, she will think it's something against her personally.
> I feel she acts like a spoiled child the vast majority of the time. I feel like she's never been told "no" or "it's your fault" or "too bad".
> She doesn't seem to comprehend when things are important to people. This year I worked on getting buff, gained a lot of muscle going to the gym 5 days a week, and after three months she said "you look fat, lose weight". I had 5% body fat at that point. At one unrelated time, she would talk about one of her friends was so muscular and looked amazing, like it seemed to go completely over her head.
> We live in America, and she's from Asia, but she seems to not want to have a single thing to do with American culture. She seems to have an extremely negative opinion of America. This pisses me off because she's dating a 100% American guy, we're living in America, and seems to think I should change to match her culture.
I've been putting it off forever, but I feel like I have to do it now, today, or I'm fucked.
How do I do this? How do I open up this kind of conversation?
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>>18481176
> I don't think we're compatible enough to take our relationship further than we already have.
There's your opener. Or, if your're feeling blunt because she just pissed you off, open with the classic:
> Anon, this just isn't working out.
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>>18481176
Copy this all text you wrote, send it to her via sms and be done with it.
If you dont live together, you will be done under 5 minutes. Good luck op!
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>>18481225
I heard breaking up over text is bad, but I think it's way easier to write it down... I guess I will try it, and if she says anything talk to her
thanks anon
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Is carbon paper for the transfer of a tattoo stencil safe? Of what does the ink on the carbon paper consist of? Because it will inevitably go in as you prick your skin, so I want to know
I am preparing to do a diy tattoo on myself.
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>>18481124
>what does the ink on the carbon paper consist of?
Not the sharpest tool in the box, are you?
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>>18481124
>diy
please don't do this OP
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>>18481132
so is it safe then? Do you mean it's not ink?