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>>18478977
Maths

>>18478977
chemistrys

>>18478979
10/10 would joke again

>>18478976

start talking to people in class. sit with random people in the cafeteria instead of hiding away in a corner. go to where students are simply lounging and initiate conversation.

the biggest step to take is initiative. people are so coddled these days they want to people to be FORCED into interacting with them so they can become friends.

no. go out and talk to people. its not comfortable but it gets the job done and will teach you a lot about life.

>>18479001
>after college / university
As in once you've graduated. I do independent contract work currently, so there are no colleagues I see face-to-face.

Work and friends of friends

>>18478964
Become the darkness.

>>18478964

you don't. fear of dark is healthy. we fear the dark because things can hide there.

to help deal with a fear of dark, either get an alarm system, a dog, or just keep small lights on in every room. its way more normal than you think. most of us dont realize that we dont sleep in truly pitch black rooms anymore once the power goes out people get afraid of the dark tho.

>>18478964
Did something happen when you were a kid that scared you while in the dark?

What kind of car are you living in and how are you enjoying your life so far? Would you change your living situation if you could?

Which was the most difficult habit to leave behind? The most important thing that changed in your life? Hints for people likely to become an homeless?

>>18479002

I'm living in an SUV. It belonged to a friend of mines father. Bought it for $2,500 USD at 120,000 miles. Blue book value at the time was about $4,500. Car Still runs great despite being older than ten years. Interior is kind of fucked up though, makes me look even more homeless lol

I'm not hating life persay, or enjoying it to its fullest, but being homeless isn't that bad if you know how to manage it. I try my best to keep busy by making sure that I'm going to work everyday, picking up extra hours when I can, and spending time playing music with my friends. It offers an escape from not knowing which parking lot your gonna end up sleeping in that night.

I'm not unemployed thankfully, but I am in a mound of credit card debt, and estranged from my family and many former friends, so it does make it difficult to change the situation.

I was dealt a bad hand in life, but I also made some bad decisions that ruined some of my greatest and strongest friendships. I would give up almost anything to have many people back in my life, but they have moved on now. I have to do the same.

>>18478900
It seems like most people that like games just do twitch

>>18478911
I don't really have a strong enough PC too do streaming unfortunately. I've tried before and ended up getting a very choppy stream that looked blocky. I mean I guess I could see 2d games or visual novels. Stuff that's less strenuous on the PC.

Consider becoming a streamer then. But be aware that although it may seen easy to do, it is difficult on the start. And you'll need to invest on your setup first

>>18478897
Where do you live?

>>18478952
North Carolina

If all you really want is enough to live alone and have internet, be a security guard

>>18478855
Isn't it obvious. Fuck her there. Then behave like a christian when she's moved to your state.

>>18478855
you gonna get v&, anon
dont do it
this could also be some sort of blackmail scam
either way, abort mission

yea don't do it

>>18478850

wew lad.

did/does he like it or does he speak of it with regret?

3 options.

1. You work this shit out on your own and learn to accept it

2. You talk to him about it and work through it together.

3. You break up.

I personally like option 2 because people should discuss their feelings in a healthy relationship. Also if he was 13 and his sister was 18 that means she technically raped him.

>Blaming your boyfriend for shit he did at 13

let me guess, you're 15

Why don't you just correct them?

You need to stop winding yourself out of control. Its obvious you get upset because your friend is stupid. Just calmly tell them the truth or correct them. If they give you a hard time dont rag on them for it. If they cannot realize their own stupidity.

Honesty is the best policy. If they truly are your friends they should listen to you. Or tell them to explain their reasoning and laugh at whatever reason they give you.

>>18478860
because I feel like an ass doing it. I used to correct them but it became very frequent. I don't want to seem like a know-it-all. No one likes feeling that they are wrong consistently.

>>18478873
>Or tell them to explain their reasoning and laugh at whatever reason they give you.

I like this advice because it turns the emotions from negative to positive.
As I stated above I do not want to constantly correct them because it makes me angry to do so and it also probably makes them feel stupid.

>>18478798
Avoid wearing hat's or anything in your head.
Use different shampoo and conditioner. There's this shampoo called mane and tail, you should probably get it.
When you shower, make sure you use warm water on your scalp, and when you finish use cold water to rinse your scalp off.
You got a hair dryer? Use it.
Start eating a lot more veggies and drink more water. Caffeine is a no no, as it has been proven time and time again that it can thin your hair.
Try to stay out of the sun for a long period of time.

If all else, use Rogain.

>>18478798
You are way too worked up about hair. It's not the end of the world. Be thankful that's all you're losing. There are tons of bald or balding guys. One day in about 10 years you'll look back in this and see how ridiculous this was.

>>18478822
Thank you i really appreciate all the advice, i'll start to follow this all.

Is finasteride/durasterine not necessary at all then?

>>18478834
I don't want to sound rude but "there are tons of bald or balding guys" older than me. In few years i'll be one of them (It's hard to fool around with genetics). I'd rather prevent this than look back 10 years later and regret being bald because i did nothing about my hair.

>>18478762
Find this symbol on your keyboard >
> use this symbol before text

>>18478762
>I didn't read the fucking FAQ
kys my man

#green in the email field

Both choices you listed are solid, but the following bits of logic:

>but I keep hearing about this "boring" to drive meme.
>may be a pussy magnet
>is "funner" to drive

are fucking stupid. Remove those from the equation and think over the pros and cons again.

>>18478761
get the civic what year and mileage, be mindful of if you go too a used car dealer ship most want just cash no bull shit, some will take payments

>>18478761
Lamborghini gallardo

>>18478752
Threes the average. Can't do it more than once it's normal but may be the result of different factors. Not eating or drinking right, low testosterone, lack of sensitivity to stimuli. If your not already a healthy or fit individual then try being one. If there is no change see a doctor if it concerns you.

>>18478765
I can masturbate and cum multiple times a day as a guy, does this mean I have a high sex drive?

When i was in my teens it was no problem cumming several times a day, and 3 times is still not a problem.

The problem now is that i don't get a proper errection unless i wait for atleast 3 weeks between faps.

That's more of a sad state to be in.

I guess it has to do with my general fitness-level which is at an all time low at the moment.

Why not just go to one session and really try to engage with it?

>>18478741

Maybe she just wants some hobbies of her own without your jealous ass breathing down her neck? Let her have her things and she'll respect your space to have yours too.

>>18478754
The problem is the girls and guys there kind of flirt with her

> I suppose we can't be friends anymore.

why are you posting here if you already solved your own problem

Do you not realize that he literally has autism?

>>18478701
That's not how all anime fans are, I don't say things that would spoil an anime, and usually only talk about anime with people that are interested in anime