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>>18562065
Go to payroll office or HR department. Under the circumstances they may give you a small advance on your pay (to be deducted from your first check).

>>18562065
So how come they haven't paid you for nearly 2 months?

> work 7 weeks
No paycheck , op your getting screwed over unless that check is supposed to conver 4 months rent etc

>>18562052
I know this is bad advice but you can try some drugs, that's a huge reason people love festivals so much.

Also if you honestly don't like them, well then I don't know if there's a way to force yourself to enjoy them.

>>18562052
You can recommend you guys do something else. Maybe something fun is in the area.

If they don't then maybe you guys have grown too far apart. It happens desu. I've had really good high school friends that I fell away after college and have college friends who fell away. It's part of life. You should cling to your friends because you're lonely or wtv.

Tell them you want to do something else. Talk to them. As long as you communicate and they give a shit about you then you'll be fine most likely. But keep in mind that things fall apart.

>>18562060
There will be plenty of weed there...but i guess i put weed in the "almost like beer' category, there's plenty of weed everywhere...nothing new.

>>18562047

Do whichever you would be happier with

>>18562101
Okay but how about earnings wise? Where can I make more money.

>>18562172
electrician probably makes more money . i'm sure it would be nicer as a job as well to drive around to different people's houses and sort their shit out rather than be in a hospital all the time

4 years university will cost tens of thousands too . unless you are dead set on becoming a nurse i'd go with being an electrician . even if you get tired of working with your family you can start your own business doing electrical jobs when you know you are good enough

>>18562028
Haha what's that screen shot from?

>>18562039
it's the class selection screen from bloodborne

Not a big gamer, before anyone asks, just liked that image a lot

Become another neoliberal idiot who works for the IMF

>>18561969
Sorry bro, well in life we all have to learn some hard lessons. He's been with her for five years and during the last year or so it seems like u treated her like shit she gave you plenty of warning to get your act up or else she's going to leave.

Seems you didnt show love back to her so she slowly was losing love for you. Nothing to do no blood just to prosper in the future and don't hang back on your ex fiancé.

Why'd it take you this long to change? I had a similar thing happen, and I don't think you can/should do anything. She's gone. Besides, even if she came back, you'd just start doing all the same shit again and go through it all later.

>>18561969
No
She asked you to stop being a useless stoner, you didn't give a fuck. There's nothing surprising in her leaving and no chances of her coming back. Learn from your mistakes and move on.

>Wake up
>Go to the Gym.
>Go to the store to buy lunch after work out.
>Spend an hour cooking a bad ass meal and eat.
>Waste the rest of my day off by watching Netflix or playing Vidya.
>Literally nothing else to do in 106 Degree heat.
>If it's not my day off I waste time on a computer just updating information on other computers.

Fun life, can't click with anyone out here either.

>>18561938
Wake up.
>Wash.
>Go to work.
>Be annoyed/envious of all the beautiful people to and from work, seriously, London seems to be culling the poor AND the ugly.
>Come home "play" vidya
>Go to bed

Same shit for weekends except I stay in bed all day.

>>18561938
>get up
>go to work
>come home
>sit on the computer
>cook dinner and eat it
>sit on the computer, play vidya or watch tv
>sleep

Weekends are the same except no work

how long do you know each other? have you had sex?
Pretty sure, you are not yet exclusive, so she takes that as an invitation to take you as a bodyguard and pretend to be BF if some creep approaches her.

have fun there on your own and make her jealous if you don't wanna stay in alpha cuck mode, you are just boring right now.

>>18561887
Just go out and do whatever you want to do OP, if she's going to be like that then you should enjoy the trip without her.
Cuck her back

>>18561887
You are wasting money on a girl traveling with her going to a foreign country. If she really wanted the fuck she would do it at home. I learned a lesson the hard way too I was a basic Veda who would be walked on and trampled by women. It wasn't until I wasted around 100 miles and gas then I realize I was taking the girls to see her boyfriend and her other job. When she asked me if she could have a ride somewhere in the city I said no and then she kept pestering me. I then told her TMS: Tounge, Mouth, Specialist. The bitch even remarked that I was the perfect guy not looking for sex but she said in the backseat I'll pretty dressed. I told her that it that shits over with me and if she wants a ride to give me a fucking blowjob or else leave me the hell alone.

We all learn from our mistakes

>>18561741
it certainly sounds like she's one of those women who want to change their man into something he's not and then leave because he's changed
that is unfortunately not just a meme, it actually happens
doesn't mean that will happen, but take things at your own pace
30 minutes water on hair (as a guy you should need 5 at best if it'd not a completely new cut) is extreme but acceptable for special occasions, if you do it all the time, just think about what you could do with that time

Here's how I would look at it. Maybe she is unsatisfied in some way with you, maybe she just wants the best for you. There's no way to know. But so far it seems like she has your best interests in mind. The worst that could happen is that you get ripped and hot and have mature interests and shit, and then she breaks up with you. Okay, that's still better than not getting hit and then her breaking up. It's not like she's asking you to change in a bad way.
Also she's hot, and if you don't lift you're probably not. Nothing wrong with wanting your SO to look their best for you. I'm sure she diets for you and probably works out to maintain the body that only you get to fuck. It's not unreasonable to want you to do the same for her.

I'd continue on with the self improvement. Push back on the things that you don't find value in, like I wouldn't spend 30 minutes on my hair, but maybe I'd get a different haircut that can look better quickly. It sounds like you have a great gf who can really push you to the next level and you should be proud of that

>>18561771
I don't wanna lie or exaggerate, but yeah..she pushes me a lot in a good way. Thinking about it i guess if i compare my look to her;s i guess i would be unsatisfied about it as well.
Furthermore, she says that "her body is all mine to have" I guess I didn't payed attention to those type of details..maybe she wants the same satisfaction I get when I see her

>>18561725
Nofap does jack shit. You only become sexually frustrated and start having wet dreams. Not fapping to porn on the other hand is a good idea.

Nofap raises testosterone but then it plateaus at around 14 days. After that the only benefit is self-discipline.

Don't listen to the gimps who do nofap then wonder why they haven't grown a massive six pack and got a hot girlfriend. It's to do with self restraint and discipline.

>>18561745
Do you have any source for that claim?

>Nofap raises testosterone but then it plateaus at around 14 days.

And what does "plateaus" mean? Sorry, I am not a native English speaker :D.

Does it mean that it just stays at the same level or that it goes down? So it's beneficial to nofap either way right?

It's a combination of things, usually.
What has she done to make you think she's interested?

You ask her out on a date. If she says yes, she likes you.

>>18561706

I don't know

doesn't talk about her love life to me

laughs at my dumb jokes

she brought me leftover pizza she made once

when I mentioned a YouTuber of one of my hobbies was cute she pretty much asked who it was and immediately looked her for some reason

said she hated X artists music when I asked her if she listened to the new album yet. then I told her I loved it and she should listen to it. about a week later she starts posting songs off the album on her social media.

how can you tell if she is just being nice or if she is into you that way.

>>18561575
Don't give a shit. I mean that. Don't try to understand women. Women understand women, and they hate each other.

You go to online dating and tinder like a normal person and wait like a good boy until someone shows interest in you.

Turns out women don't like being approached by strangers on the street. Bars, sure. Anywhere else? Not so much.

I know, I was shocked too, until I thought about it. I mean, who does?

The trick is to meet girls in a place where you have common interests and try to have the conversation grow naturally. I know this is probably just making you more stressed out, but that's the skinny of it.

Time for an escort unless you're cool with breaking a promise with yourself.

>>18561520
You, virgin and single, vowed to have another person willing to do something with you by a certain date? Are you fucking stupid? How the fuck do you figure setting arbitrary dates that involve other people's free will is going to work out?

Just get a hooker, you're nowhere near mature enough for dating.

>>18561520
Open up the yellow pages and look for Escort Services.

She's not the comfortable with you, not at all. But if she has money problems or isn't sure where you two are at then I don't blame her for trying to make money.

For all you know you're just a nice guy

>>18561517
LOL I would have done it and fucked the hell out of her, doing anal and shit because I would have paid. She would probably then ask for more, days later, and I would have charged her.

Curious how the world is evolving. I would get to know her better, maybe it's just a fetish of hers. Unless you got hundreds of girls to see other than her

>>18561552
This.

Pound her to the point where she craves your dick then charge her for wanting round 2

People normally don't feel like this until their 30s. It's a healthy sign but as you say, you have to wait until you're settled and have the means to provide for a kid.

If you're really horny for being around kids try and get a job in a daycare.

>>18561516
A woman's desire to bring children into the world typically peaks at age 26. It makes sense that there is a buildup. Going for a degree is a waste if you want children. You can't have it all - you can either be a good mother, or be a good worker.

>>18561570
When was the last time you've seen a middle class couple make due with only 1 source of income and a kid?

Trial and error, my dude.
You can't be good at everything from the beginning, start sexing some girls and get experienced.

say close to inappropriate or simply inappropriate things, sexual jokes, be cheeky
some of them will try to shame you but pay no fucking mind to it, they love it, its one way to get their attention

its not so much about the body anyway
your face is the first thing they see, then how you dress, then you open your mouth, only young chicks oogle at your muscles and that attraction is gone fast too once they are familiar with such thing

>>18561474
ok my man, this blog post from Heartiste gives you the skinny on this shit:
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2017/07/25/the-winner-effect/
TL;dr: get laid, then again, and again, by banging increasingly hot girls. But you got to start with the moonpigs if you're no great shakes yourself.