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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2017-07-27 09:59:22 Post No.18561416
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
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I geniunely dont know if I want to be just really good friends with a girl, or if there is something more to it and I suspect she has the same dilemma. So what to do, how to decide?
We have really high quality time together.
Is talking to her straightly like that a bad idea?
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Ladies, what does the ideal male physique look like? Post pictures.
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i'm confused about this girl i just started dating. When i kiss her she kisses back and stuff but she never follows up or initiates. Feels like nothing happened at all. Yet she tells me she had a fun time and wants to see me again.
My thread was deleted, but I need to have sex. How do I come about it?
Not hooker/prostitutes tho, I'm deep in California.
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>I want an answer to this
>But not the only correct answer
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Just fucking attend a RSD event
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>>18561393
truth be told, sex it good but it's overrated
but if you really want sex, go on the hook up website and look for really ugly or fat chicks, they put out easy.
How do I let go of someone who ghosted me? I was so shocked. I've been feeling pretty sad lately and it makes me can't do anything right. Help me.
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>>18561346
Realize your own self worth, and come to the conclusion that it's their loss for not valuing you, and better people's gain, because you'll have more time to spend with them.
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>>18561348
I always try to distract myself from having thoughts but it never works. I hate myself. I've always been a loner.
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>>18561346
Talk to more people
The more success you have with others the sooner you come to the realization that things just aren't meant to be and it's dumb to try to cling to it. You've got your way and it doesn't please them so on to the next.
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How do I know if i'm depressed? From the symptoms i've heard of I very well may be, but i'm honestly not sure and I feel I aught to know whether I am or not. Not to bitch and moan about it mind you - I would never want to do such a thing, but I believe that if I knew it may become easier to solve my issue. After all you can't solve a proble if you don't know what the problem is right? Anyway.
I don't feel particularly lonely, i've always been pretty quiet and although I enjoy being around others it's not what I consider a necessity in order to feel happy or anything. Nor do I feel that i'm "alone in the world" or anything, I mean technically everyone is alone but I mean I just don't feel like noone understands me or connects with me or the like.
I DO feel as if I am becoming a rather bitter individual, I used to not get angry very often but more recently I find that I can become frustrated, annoyed or even angered by things that would not used to make me feel that way. I also always feel very hopeless and feel that i'm a failiure - that i'm not good at anything.
I've felt this way for a while so although i'm used to it, I still don't feel good about it, which I probably shouldn't. I don't really think about killing myself all the time, however I do think that i'm unimportant and that it wouldn't matter if I was dead or not. My friends and family would probably miss me yes, but I still don't believe that my own life is worth much of anything. Hell i've even though that some people's lives would improve if I was gone. No matter how much that person may miss me.
I really just don't know what to do. I certainly don't enjoy this constant feeling of hopelessness, and aside from bitterness that's primarily what I feel nowadays.
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>>18561345
Have a look at one of my favorite videos https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LO1mTELoj6o
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>>18561345
The pic actually gave me a chuckle, so here's another.
But that aside, it's not depression...yet. Thinking that it is depression will actually make you depressed. It seems you need an outlet a hobby would be a good start.
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>>18561351
Good video, thanks lad
>>18561356
Those are some nice nice lobsters, and yeah I suppose think it may make it come true, only makes sense. To be honest i'm not sure what to think about it, but yeah i've been exercising a lot more aswell as trying to learn some new thing or skill. Still need to decide on the 2nd part though.
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>friends with cool guy
>start catching feelings
>notthisshitagain.tiff
>one night he tells me he got a gf
>stomach flips, still put big boy pants on and act really happy for him, grats man
>be realistic and logical
>understand that we're both damaged individuals and have very different personalities and ideals and a relationship would never work, it would just be madness in the long term
>realize that nothing of importance was lost anyway
>mfw can't hang out with him anymore because the jealousy makes me physically ill
>he's worried about me, keeps pressing me on and even getting angry to know what's wrong
How do I win this battle of my logic vs my gay shit feelings?
Should I be honest and have an adult conversation and tell him what goes in my mind and heart?
Should I drop any connections with him because things get even worse? Or do I keep it?
Why does the heart choose who it chooses - and what do I do about it? Realistically and logically I don't want this. At all.
And yet my chest quite literally aches at this shit situation.
Will this pass on its own? Is there anything I can do?
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He is definitely wondering what's going on. You should tell him how you feel and that it is why you can't hang out with him anymore. At least for now until the feelings go away.
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not homophobe or anything, but something I thought about when reading Carl Gustav Jung
Every personality has its shadow image. Maybe you're just confusing admiration for love. He has something that you feel like you're lacking yourself. Fall in love with the hidden potential in yourself, and keep your friend as a friend you admire.
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>>18561340
>until the feelings go away
But do they really?
>>18561492
>homophobe
How does this statement make you a homophobe at all, anon?
And is that one of those "if you can't love yourself, you can't love others" cases, huh?
This is another reason why a relationship with this guy - or anyone else - would never work out. I know I'd just be using them because I can't love myself so I want them to do that for me.
And yet here I am, still feeling my chest tighten up and my stomach flip at this whole situation. I don't know man, maybe I have food poisoning or diarrhea.
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I have this hot guy over tonight. Anyone have any ideas on some sexual things I can do to him that will blow his mind and load.
Pic unrelated.
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His laundry.
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punch him in the balls when he cums, it will blow his mind 100%
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>>18561324
He has nice balls though. I'd never hurt them.
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Sex between my bf and I has been sporadic, dropping to around once a fortnight if I'm lucky. This has been going on for around nine months and is, as far as I know, is due to a physiological response to stopping long term use of a prescription drug.
Last night we were in bed and I'd had enough of the dead bedroom. I started kissing him, he was reluctant at first but I explained that it didn't need to turn into anything. It was nice to have some form of physical thing going on.
He got a boner, so I went to go down on him. He literally pushed me away and told me that I'd just said it didn't have to result in sex.
I'm hurt, frustrated and confused. We haven't done anything sexual for three weeks, this has been going on for far too long and I don't know where to turn.
I've tried speaking to him about it and he tells me it will improve, but if anything it's getting worse. The more I mention it, the more it becomes an issue where I'm to blame for putting him under pressure. When we first met, we had amazing sex and I really miss that close connection it brought us.
What can I do?
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>>18561259
cheat on him with chad
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>>18561263
No thanks. I don't want a chad, I just want him. He is my 10/10.
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>>18561266
obviously he isnt, his sex drive is too low for you. get a bbc sex toy or something if you dont want to cheat now.
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This may well be the most generic question ever asked but.
How do I become a better person?
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-55y5DDpPIU
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>>18561232
nobody knows what makes a good person so this has no general answer. its a personal thing and if anything figuring out what it means for you is part of growing as a person already.
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Ain't that the million-dollar question.
I don't know the full answer, but I think that being honest with yourself (sometimes brutally honest) can't hurt.
Good luck to you!
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When is porn use a problem? My boyfriend has a massive porn collection. Gb and Gb of pictures and weeks worth of videos saved. He's constantly on tumblr searching through porn blogs and saving pictures. He's also constantly saving pictures of girls faces he has added on Facebook and then looking for look alikes so he can fap to them. I finally looked at his phone because I thought he was cheating. He dissappears for an hour sometimes to go to the bathroom while we're in the middle of hanging out and comes back out of breath and thinks I don't know what he was doing. I don't care that he faps... I do too... but this is multiple times a day. The past few months he's been totally uninterested in me and it's the equivalent of fucking a corpse. He's always buried in his phone. Downloading porn like he's gotta collect all of it or something. I don't even feel attractive anymore. What do I do?
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>>18561208
Pic isn't your boyfriend is he? kek.
Until he admits that he has a problem he won't seek help, you either bring up the subject and hope for him to have a realization that he has a problem or deal with it until it put so much strain on your relationship that you guys break up.
P.S you are beautiful Anon, don't think or let anyone,even yourself, tell you otherwise.
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>>18561208
I've been married for 6 years, and here is my mentality regarding porn: If I have an itch, it's going to get scratched. My wife is always my first choice, but if she declines to be involved in any way (understandable, since I usually get the urge multiple times per day), then I will go to something like xvideos, and just browse the new section until I see something I like, and get it over with, so I can get on with my life.
I feel that my system is reasonable. If I needed to take hours out of my day just to scratch an itch, I would think that it is a problem.
I would just talk to him about it, personally. Taking hours out of your day to jerk off isn't normal.
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>>18561208
I don't know anyone with a gf that acts like your bf. Are you sure he is real? are you sure you are real?
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How do you have very loud sex if you can't afford to rent a detached house?
GF is hard core masochist and likes to be heavily slapped around.
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Don't, deal with it.
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>>18561206
No other options?
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>>18561203
Gag her, she is a masochist after all.
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What would you do if someone admitted that they masturbated to pictures of you that they got from your social media accounts?
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>>18561176
Couldn't happen. I don't have a social media account that uses pictures of me. If they were wanking it to my pics, they would be wanking it to a single picture of a Smith and Wesson Bodyguard revolver.
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1 shrug
2 ask what the fuck kind of social media I have.
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>>18561198
If you don't have a fairly generic facebook for the event that a prospective employer asks for it, I don't know what you're thinking.
Aside from my profile picture, my facebook is the most boring shit by DESIGN, and I only need to log in for 2 minutes, twice per week, to curate that shit. I literally spend more time brushing my teeth per day than I spend on FB per week.
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Is "everybody must be good at something" true? 2017-07-27 07:44:33 Post No.18561164
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Is "everybody must be good at something" true?
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I was always in gifted classes, always got good grades and test scores, seemed to be "smart" in school, but could never get the hang of anything I tried to learn due to a combination of lack of motivation and inability to internalize new concepts.
>play guitar since 3rd grade, still only half decent and not nearly as good as my friend who picked it up last year
>try to learn Japanese, all the kanji and grammar jumble in my brain forcing me to give up
>try to learn sailing, can't get my head around why you push the tiller away when you tack but you pull it in when you gybe, nothing makes sense, 420s always capsize when I'm the skipper
>try to read philosophy, don't understand shit and can't keep attention span up for long enough to finish books
>can't debate at all, keep switching my political views because I can't decide which makes more sense because I lack the ability to think critically
>shit at every video game I try to learn except games like Pokemon and Terraria which require no skill
>shit at every scholastic subject (science, math, history, etc.)
I manage to hold my own and seem like I know what's going on but there's absolutely nothing I excell at and nothing that piques my interest. Why is this? Is the idea that everyone is destined for something just Christian mumbo jumbo? Is it "wasted potential" if a gifted kid with a privileged upbringing can't accomplish anything noteworthy for the rest of his life, or is it all too common for rich A students to end up as plumbers and construction workers?
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>>18561164
You can either see it as you are not good at ANYTHING and bring yourself down.
Or
You can see it as you can be a jack of trades and be average at a lot of stuff, which is what i prefer to be, makes you have more interesting things to say and talk about.
All this of course is based on your world view of stuff.
Not everyone can be an ace, but a jack isn't so bad either.
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Someone posted this bingo chart on /int/ which is what triggered me to make this thread, this summed up my thoughts very succinctly (again, I tend to ramble because I'm not smart enough to use my words wisely and descriptively), so just throwing this in since my OP was kinda haphazard.
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>>18561173
But what is a jack of all trades' end game? How does their life play out?
The saying is "jack of all trades, master of none, but sometimes more useful than a master of one," but I don't see how, practically, someone knowing a little bit of German and a little bit of Calculus is more useful than hiring two specialists.
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I don't know why, but the way I speak, my gestures, my posture spreads the image that I'm a pretentious douchebag, but I genuinely don't think I'm superior to anyone, neither I think I'm great or something.
If anything I might even think I'm above average as a person, even though that's not the image people get of me.
What may have helped to influence that posture was my father which actually is a pretentious douchebag haha
How do I get over that? How do I change my posture, my mannerisms, my gestures so I avoid looking like one?
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>>18561121
OP here
I meant BELOW* average
fuck is that my unconscious speaking or am I just confused with comparison adjectives? haha
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>>18561121
Experience great shame due to your mannerisms and you will be forced to change your ways.
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What about the way you act makes you seem pretentious? Can you describe it?
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Should i buy a second hand bike for $150 or save up for a brand new one for $400
Anyone have experience with this kind of shit?
Im too indecisive
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>>18561117
"I used to be indecisive but now I am not quite sure."
But anyway... second bike $150 if you plan on riding with friends, it's always good to have a spare to get them into the hobby if they are ever interested.
$400 if you ride alone like a lone wolf.
Not the $150 one if you are trying to save money though.
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>>18561117
Go to Walmart and buy a new one for 100. Glad I could help.
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>>18561117
Get the cheaper one, it is less of a loss if gets stolen or damaged. I regularly see bikes left out in the city without seats, front frames, wheels.. anything thiefs are able to detach if not the entire bike. I also left my bike out in the city one night and the next morning the seat was wobbly (I was able to lift it off) and the chain literally crumbled when I unlocked it.
But I also live in the Netherlands where bike theft is very common sooo yeah. I had a 100 euro bike stolen then bought another for 25 euros and it works just as fine.
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DAMMIT 4CHAN
I matched this with this super cute asian girl on tinder (im white)
And we totally hit it off, chatted for a few hours. She wanted to meet up and go on a road trip together or some shit.
I called her a nigger jokingly for some reason I can't remember and SHE FUCKING UNMATCHED ME
THIS IS ALL YOUR FAULT 4CHAN, NORMAL PEOPLE ARE NOT OKAY WITH THE WORD NIGGER APPARENTLY
she was minty as fuck, I wanted to slam that little asian puss.
this is the second time you are ruined my life 4 chan, it will be the last..
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>>18561102
Let this be a lesson. You can't go around calling people niggers, anon, come on.
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>>18561102
>It's our fault that you don't know how to use tact in the early stages of a relationship.
Nigger, I was on 4chan before meeting the woman who became my wife (started surfing it in 2007), and could keep that shit under wraps. Once she got to know me, and knew that I wasn't actually racist, I slowly introduced the word into conversation. Now, she uses it more than me.