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Get mad, fuck her. Good she left. It was her fault, she's missing out. You don't need her that stupid bitch.

I try to fill my time with alot of stuff but I mainly intoxicate myself with alcohol almost every night. I just can't get over this shit

>>18561104

Need to find another girl maybe, at least to talk to. On craigslist they have ads for platonic freinds I think. Maybe start a conversation about it.

>>18561089
Depends on what degree you're going for. If it's related to English, then it will help. Otherwise, its just an elective, and nobody cares.

Also, if you're going for an English degree, you're an idiot.

>>18561130
Well, I'm not 100% sure what I want to go for but I figured I may as well aim for an engineering degree in order to make the biggest ROI. I've considered becoming a secondary teacher before but I have not heard good things about the pay in that field.

>>18561144
>I'm not sure what I want to go for.
Then don't go until you are.

>>18561079
Stop putting if off, ie no "summer workout" or "new years resolution" or whatever, just go to the gym now. If you say you're going to work out at a later date you're not going to work out.

>>18561079
Go work out. There's your answer.

If you want "motivation" realize that motivation means nothing if you don't act on it. Motivation doesn't get you out of bed every morning to work out, discipline does.

Like your muscles, discipline has to be worked to become stronger. Good luck anon, it's do or die.

keep posting on 4chan

Whoops, I meant fiance.

>>18561052
Try and see things from her point of view. I get that prenups are practical and a good way to save your ass from getting fucked in case of a divorce, but prenups also say "I'm worried you're a bitch who is unable to respectfully and fairly split up, so I'm going to protect myself from you possibly doing that to me. By the way I love you!"

>>18561052
You really can't unless she happens to be a logic-centered woman that would accept the argument of smart fiscal sense. Any emotion-centered woman, unless she's been screwed herself by not having a prenup, will likely see a prenup as exactly what you think it'll be seen as.

There's a slim chance she's just laidback enough to go with whatever you say because fuck it, she really wants to marry you, but I'd say that's pretty much nil.

You're not autist you fucking retard, you're just an introvert!

>>18561045
No your suffering from special snowflake syndrome.

This is the problem with the mass shilling of 'mental health awareness'

It causes everyone to self-diagnose themselves with autism or adhd and other things even when they simply have different personalities that don't conform to the extroverted 'norm'.

You're fine lad. You probably just lack confidence when dealing with people, like me. But that can be changed with practice.

>>18561000
trips confirms it
also have fun sticking your dick in crazy

>>18561000
Girls will claim they just mean it in a Dom sub thing but they secretly have the Electra complex

>>18561000
How many guys really dig this?

>>18560995
You're good friender. I'm 23 and living with my parents. Bout to leave for a 3 month internship, but then I'll be back looking for the next job

>>18560995

there is no answer. you will get a lot of different answers, which proves there is no 'absolutely'. its really less about where you are and more about what you're doing.

if you are going to be with your parents indefinitely, then thats bad. but if you got real goals and a real plan then it doesn't really matter.

>>18561001
I've been working full time since I moved back in from college, two years ago. A combination of poor money management and low pay has kept me at home.

I'm currently looking for new jobs, and my goal is to find one that pays well enough to afford living on my own. Hope to move out by the end of this year, but then again that's what I said in 2015 and 2016...

>>18560985
I've never made plans to spoon or make out with someone that I considered to be just a friend.

I did spoon a chick friend that I had once, because she was hanging out in my place while some serious shit was going down, and basically got so exhausted that she just laid down on my bed. It wasn't a romantic thing - just the fact that there wasn't room in a dorm bed for two people to lay without spooning.

>>18560985

you'll need to provide more details.

>>18560994
>>18560993
I'd been seeing my best friend heaps lately and I told her I liked her. She's super hesitant because she broke up with her long term partner at the start of April but says something might happen.
The other day we're having lunch and she says there's a band she'd like to see that I'm already going to. She asked if I'd like to come back to hers afterwards to make out and spoon, but "definitely nothing else for now".

You are your own worst enemy, anon. Overcome him and nothing can stop you.

Godspeed

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>>18560969
Give em' hell OP!

>>18560969
good luck anon remember to wear a rubber

>>18560952
washington has an $11/hr minimum wage, I'd go there. Baltimore is pretty dumpy unless you work in the intelligence community or the military.

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I want to move to Seattle, I live in Jew Angeles currently. The weather seems great there and lots of evergreen trees, a big change from the South West. I have no idea what Baltimore is like, but there are a lot of dindus there and I've heard that crime there is pretty bad.

So in other words, Seattle for sure.

>>18560952
>Moving to a coast
Enjoy your rent.

>>18560935
sit-ups/push/ups/ammo cans is a 2 minute timed event.

>I run a mile and a half in a little under 16 minutes
oh anon

>>18560935
What do you mean requirements? You're already signed up and going. Just work on your cardio for now and the strength and stamina will come during boot camp.

>>18560923
It's certainly possible, especially if she's acting unusual. Or, something else happened and she strongly suspects anyway? I can't really speak to being closeted outside of my gay ass sister and our mom had NO idea till she came out, despite being your prototypical softball lesbian.

You're not closeted dude, you may think you are but parents know.

>>18560938

My dad made a joke involving me doing a heterosexual thing the other day though, the implication of the joke requiring me to be straight.

Also, there's a much deeper history about why this chick is a bad person. It's just cycles of her manipulating everyone in our friend group.

You can't dictate what your friends do. If they want to hang out with her, you have no right to demand they don't.

But you also have no obligation to be their friend. If they're going to hang out with her despite what she did to you, then reconsider being friends with them.

>>18560927
Say if I wanted to cut friendships with them, (they're going off to college anyway) would that be a bad thing?

>>18560880
>Major in nuclear engineering
>Attain 4.0 gpa
>make money
>get plastic surgery,
Women will now sleep with you regardless of your experience in bed.
>gain confidence

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Hey dude, you have a huge potential! If you wait 10 years more, you will become a black wizard, you'll get terrible powers! So don't waste time with pussies, don't worry about that, just chillax and wait till your 30th birthday

>>18560880
Ditch cuck porn. Stop seeking external validation.

>>18560848
>what signs can i look out for?
"What is a Sociopath for 800 Alex"

>>18560962
not helpful, what do guys do when they're into you?

>>18560965
> didn't speak for a few months because he cut everyone off
He made the effort to recontact you for one reason or another, he could have just skipped you but he didn't.

>>18560962 (Me)
Long run it won't be a healthy relationship, if he was willing to just off and cut ties with everyone out of the blue, family and friends, chances are he's going to do it again. It'll put a strain on the relationship, you'll start questioning yourself, doubt yourself eg. "should I have done more?" "I could have done more", "I didn't love him enough", arguments begin, break up, sad life, post back on /adv/ asking for /adv/