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Hey /adv/ I just started looking into the laws of attraction today and was wondering what your guys thoughts and opinions on the topic are? What law do you thinks the most important? Other related information appreciated.
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>>18563842
Any two objects that have a finite mass exert an attractive force on each other.
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How do you go about applying them to your life?
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>>18563866
Can you express this drivel mathematically?
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What's a good sign a girl really enjoys dating you vs. a girl doesn't enjoy dating you?
I think my brain is just panicking that I'm fucking up.
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She wants to fuck on the first date.
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>>18563811
Neither of us want to fuck until way down the road.
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>>18563812
Ahh, you screwed up.
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>be me
>america
>have long distance bf
>England
>decide to close the distance and spend the summer together
>about two weeks before his flight
>talk about babies
>talk about marriage
>he actually proposes over the phone.
>gets here
>perfect
>dick is gud, life is gud
>about three weeks later
>no longer wants to cum inside me
>wants to wait on marriage
>just generally seeming less in love
>feeling more like a fleshlight :')
what did i do, adv
how do i fix
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>>18563791
>what did i do, adv
Nothing.
>long distance bf
I'll just say the problem with long distance is creates a certain amount of dissonance where the reality of things rarely matches up to the imagined fantasy created through while distant. (The exact opposite often holds true too actually--the imagination that you need to exercise while distant feels completely lackluster compared to the tangible connections held in person).
The problem with a fantasy is that it's a lot more fantastical, when it's not real.
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>>18563831
:(((
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>>18563791
He sounds like some lonely kid who realized that bitches ain't all they cracked up to be once he actually had one for awhile. Alternatively you got meme'd and he just wanted some puss
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I'm buying glasses for myself for the first time in my life (currently 20, parents always bought them in the past).
Anything I should know before I proceed? I consider this a big purchase. I was hoping to get some RayBan frames or an equally as stylish brand
Captcha: pick all the sunglasses
sauce: Princessberpl
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>>18563789
No one gives a shit about the frames your glasses are using. Buy something that is comfortable and fits on your face properly and isn't too flimsy.
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>>18563808
i kinda meant advice for buying glasses, not what frames I should get. I just mentioned the frames because I like Rayban
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>>18563789
>sauce: Princessberpl
Thanks!
Now excuse me while I drain all my snake's venom. It's been feeling feisty lately.
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Anger disorder or Age? 2017-07-28 01:58:49 Post No.18563777
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What the fuck is wrong with me?
Every fucking person I meet I fucking feel are dumb as fucking bricks.
I know I'm venting but I also need to exchange ideas on what this is or how to handle this?
Sometimes I think I'm the only person around who's not a fucking idiot.
I don't like this, I used to be socialble, now I fucking can't stand people.
I get annoyed easily and can't have a conversation without feeling like I have to explain shit all the time.
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>>18563777
Sounds like you have zero social skills
If every person you interact with makes you angry, the problem is probably you.
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>>18563777
>777
why do idiots make you so angry?
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>>18563777
Do you live in an area full of idiots, like the rural South?
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>told a girl I had a 7.5 inches dick
>she says "show me"
>"you'll have to see it for yourself"
>"lol okay anon,what about saturday?"
>she now wants to have with me
>said yes
>she's coming over on saturday
how do I grow 1.5 inch in 2 days?
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You let me go instead.
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eh it's not like she's gonna bring out a ruler. just fuck her and you'll feel better
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>>18563775
oh no anon, i've seen 7.5 inches dicks online, they are significantly bigger than my 6" one
also, it will not be her first time, so I hardly doubt she will swallow my fake measurement
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>dating girlfriend for 2 years
>confesses to me that a year ago she hung out with her ex and he tried coming onto her
>she told him no and left
>told her to not talk to him or see him anymore and that was that
>one year later she's texting someone on her phone next to me
>ask who it is and she says no one
>point her phone towards me and see it's her ex
>says he was texting her out of the blue and promises that's the first time talking since they hung out a year ago
>checked the message history and it confirms it
>tell her strike two
Should I just break up with her at this point or believe her and give her one more chance?
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>>18563770
Kick her to the curb.
You can't have a relationship without Trust bro, and you dont trust her.
You also can;t have a relationship without Respect, and she doesn't respect you.
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Don't date women, moron
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>exchange numbers on a dating site
>trying to get my text game on
>she keeps calling me all the time
holy shit, its the first day. is this normal!
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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>>18563714
BUMP HALP
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>>18563714
Could be normal for her, some girls like phone calls. May just be she wants to hear your voice to prove something to herself. Online dating is weird.
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>>18563714
It's refreshing to get calls rather than texts. that being said, calling someone on the first day numbers are exchanged is a big red flag. know this girl is crazy, and that you are probably crazy too.
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"Your dog's dead, but you can still keep it" 2017-07-28 01:34:57 Post No.18563713
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"Your dog's dead, but you can still keep it"
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Can you realistically healthily be friends or even best friends after a breakup/manifestation of romantic feelings/rejection?
Why, or why not, and how?
Asking mostly from a scientific perspective but also from experiences/general opinions.
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>>18563713
Not really.
"Let's be friends" is basically saying "Yeah I'm done with you but I'd like a emotional tampon for when my future bf does something new during sex or when I get called ugly on the Internet and need reassurance."
>t. Guy who has heard the 'let's be friends' scham for years.
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>>18563713
The question boils down to this:
Do you really want to hear from the girl you loved talk about her day? Her new BF? Her new car that you'll never ride in? The fact that the lips you kissed are now being used to pleasure her current bf?
Then again this is all just my opinion/experiences but every one is different.
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>>18563759
What about the inverse?
A girl being cucked by a guy?
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Since /adv/ is like 90% relationship advice I'd like to have a thread about careers. Right now I am in a bad point in life. I graduated from college with a major I was interested in, but can't seem to find a job that fits me and I'm starting to hate the things I used to love to do. Whats some career paths to aspire to with high potential in making a difference in a state/country/worldly matters, but isn't inherently social like politics? Honestly I just want to read, write and help educate people in a sense but theres no money in that.
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Careers don't change the world, passion does. If you aren't passionate about it don't bother. Find your passion, work hard and stick to it, and if you are dedicated enough you will change the world. Look at pic related, just some random small town Austrian kid, nothing special. The only difference between him and everyone else in that town was that he worked harder than them.
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>>18563661
>read
>help educate people
hmmm if only there were a job where like, people taught a group of people all at once, in like a classroom or auditorium or something like that... too bad that shit doesn't exist, OP. So, dunno, babe, it's a mystery.
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>>18563699
Im 26. I should have at least found my passion by now. Obviously not full blown success or anything, but I feel like ive barely even started to find a direction.
>>18563702
Thats too small scale. You only help tiny batches of people, most of which will go on to do nothing anyway unless its a prestigious ivy league university.
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I don't know what I want to be 2017-07-28 12:46:32 Post No.18563584
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I don't know what I want to be
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I'm almost 25 and I still have no idea what I want to do with my life :(
I was thinking of going to college and studying math to either become an engineer or a computer programmer. I excel at math and I feel accomplished when I do it, but it's not my passion or calling.
I enjoy psychology but I'm not too interested in any of the careers I can get and the degree would take too long (Masters or PHD/PsyD). Dream job would be a fiction book editor, and my dream is to make my own comic book!
I would use the funds from my STEM job to hire an illustrator and make my comic book dream real.
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Become a quant traders so you can buy anything that you want.
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>passion or calling
Not to be a downer, but most people just work jobs because they get paid to do it, not because of passion or calling.
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So I met this guy online. Talked for a bit, exchange numbers and settled a meeting.
>first date was great. We talked nonstop. We hitting off.
>no text received from him which is fine because I told him I'll text him when he said tell him if I wanna hangout again.
>text a little but through out days after
>making a plan for hiking which I offered to do something else
>but he never mentioned about when or where to meet
>tomorrow is suppose to be another meeting for us
>no text no phone call
>I was the one texted him last
>don't wanna be the one initiating the text since I did it before.
>what do now?
Did I just got ghosted?
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Yes.
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>>18563567
But he kept asking me for another date not me?!?
Is this what men usually do to say No?
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>>18563583
I don't know.
Call him?
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I've been through a tough time the last year or so, and I think I might have come to a sort of start on the solution to literally all my problems.
I just gotta stop thinking.
Now I know that could be confused with a suicide threat but no, I've actually been there done that.
I'm genuinely considering about ways to just give up on thinking.
No more thinking about friendships, about work, about healtj, about love.
No more thinking about who I've hurt, the past in general, about hard times.
No more thinking about mistakes, doubting myself, hating myself.
Instead just NOT think. Just be.
But how?
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>>18563430
What's your country, OP?
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>>18563459
How is that relevant? I'll say Europe
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>>18563491
Why not travel to a country you've never been?
For me. Traveling really refreshes my brain. It stuck out to me that you said you don't want to think. Because when I travel, it's like nothing matters to me. I get so immersed in the trip that nothing else in my life matters except for the "now". It's a liberating feeling Tbh. Even after returning home, I just feel so mentally clear and refreshed
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Ya know /adv/ I've been thinking: when you go through a break up most people will tell you "there's always someone better" but how many of you are in a relationship that has been going on for 3 or more years where there was no unfaithful actions and you are still satisfied with the relationship. I'm generally curious, as I just went through a break up (about 1 month now) and I feel like there's not really any point in dating anymore.
>pic unrelated I just deleted all my pictures so I don't have anything else
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>>18563425
I don't see the point in dating anymore either. It's not worth the inevitable hurt and no one can compare to my ex so what's the point? I'd rather be myself and focus on my career and other hobbies.
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Eh I dated a guy because he was all I had broke up with me , eventually I did find someone who I actually like and then the same so it can happen
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>>18563489
That's exactly how I feel. My girl and I were great together but she said she fell out of love I don't get it. If that can just happen with anyone at anytime then relationships are just a waste. >>18563503
I don't see how I could be happy with anyone else though, like i was actually in a great relationship and then she broke up with me out of no where
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is buying sex a bad idea?( you might get STD)
i am a 27 yrs old virgin living with parents.
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>>18563393
If you think that is holding you back. Do it. I lost my virginity in my travel to Japan a few years ago. Pepe bless the soaplands.
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I once had sex with a prostitute to see what it was like, and I couldn't get it up for the first time in my life due to the stress. So it might not be as fun as you think.
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>>18563393
Just use a condom and don't buy the cheapest crack whore you can find, ideally you would go to a legit establishment that checks their girls regularly as well