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Yeah I think you're being unnecessarily harsh (and no I don't have it and would not particularly like to catch it if I can avoid it). You happen to know all about it - most people don't even know that cold sores are a form of herpes. You are reacting like he willfully hid this withheld this information from you, when it sounds like (and it completely realistic that) he just didn't realize it was relevant to begin with.

Don't you have the best resources to look up what you can do to protect your health? Otherwise I'd ponder on whether you want to stay with him. Even if oral's off the table (and he's okay with that), what about kissing? And personally I would not like to date someone who treated me like a leper for having an extremely common virus that I never personally saw as a big deal, when I could just date someone who already has it herself or shrugs off the risk.

why do people freak out over this? literally everyone has herpes in some form. get over it and deal with it

>>18009800

i hope you're a troll.

sorry but you know the statistics that 97% of first worlders are going to get this. the only guy i know who doesnt have it is a literal virgin, and even other virgins tend to get it from their family or a childhood kiss.

if you are concerned about this then its YOUR job to ask about it. there is no social norm that says you need to tell people you had a cold sore, cuz everyone does. thats like asking expecting someone to warn you if they had a cold in the last six months.

its stupid to be cautious over oral herpes, but if you are it is YOU responsibility to be cautious dont pretend like teh entire world is doing you an injustice here when you're the weird one. he didnt do anything wrong. he had no reason to believe that he had to tell you, it goes without saying. they even talk about cold sores in childrens cartoons

... because you ate too much?

>>18009742
any tips to increase my intake since i don't wanna experience this when i'm eating out at all

>>18009750
Just eat less dude

Both sides are infantile and are a symptom of a society that is quickly debilitating intellectually, becoming less able to conduct reasoned discourse about itself without shitting the bed. It's resulting in both sides becoming increasingly extremist and turning to echo chambers for emotional support.

Both regressive liberalism and the 'alt-right' (fascists) are both self-destructive mentalities that just go about the destruction in different ways. There used to be a time when people of different political persuasions could get along as friends without wanting to see the other one murdered, sad to see it come to this.

All that said and done, decide for yourself whether you like him as a person more than you value the esteem your supposed political-credibility affords you. It seems like a whole load of bollocks to define people by their political beliefs rather than their actions or the content of their character any way.

don't worry too much about your social life. The US will cease to be a superpower starting 2020 so you can just focus on trying your hardest to live without society or trying to switch countries.

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>>18009776
>This is what Chicoms & Vatnik's actually believe

>>18009688
Do it tonight bro

Wait. He needs time to decide, just because he's done with interviews doesn't mean he's made his decision

>>18010733
I was just thinking showing initiative ya know?? Could be a bonus to the employer. Maybe give him a boost? Just call tonight!!!

for extrovert girls, yes. for the rest, not so much

>>18009659

Do you have friends? Then you should be alright. Just show to them that you are not a solitary hermit and it shouldn't be a problem.

>>18009659
Perplexing picture.. and confusion of the upstairs and downstairs mind

oh jesus. I'm home from work today because my back hurts too much to go in and I've been thinking the same things. my stem degree is just biology and it's almost 9 years old, but still.

>>18009652
>fell for the STEM meme
Should have went /biz/ degree. You get a cushiony desk job and spend like half the day just talking to people

If you do something you're passionate about you're way more likely to find people that you actually connect with. Nothing long with being a recluse for a little until you can make that happen. You'll be happier for the rest of your life because of it.

Or you could never find a job and become really depressed idk

because it might be the end of theor reputation and to a lot of people that's the only thing theygot going for themselfes. in that case it IS the end of their world

>>18009643
Also afaik mugshots are only for relatively severe crimes

>>18009699
What's afaik?

Literally just talk slower.
Eitber read some texts or chat with a friend, conciously talking slower

record yourself to really get a sense on your talking speed

How do i do the reverse i talk too slow :/

delete snapchat, i need more context, does the person know you irl?

I mean, if you're going to actually go as far as reporting the dude and launching a case, nothing is deleted forever. Snapchat can retrieve whatever if they get a subpoena. Chances are though, given the fact most online "death threats" are just bullshit children with no actual intent to do anything the cops aren't gonna take it that far and it'll be far more expensive than it's worth to take them to court.

Block the dude on snap, if he's making multiple accounts just don't add anyone you don't know. Make a new account yourself if you have to. Or delete snapchat, as has been suggested. Don't interact with the guy and he'll get bored and leave you alone.

On the off chance he's actually serious/persistent from here on out save EVERYTHING. As the kid of a lawyer, that's the number one thing I've been taught all my life. Document every fucking moment of your life, you never know when you'll need evidence for something.
Give something for the police to look into, and if he dares to make any physical move (IE stalking, showing himself physically in front of you, sending shit to your home address) call the cops immediately.

>>18010147
>>18010130
i know the guy but we are not very close friends, cut contact 3 years ago.
so i was sitting in my room, he was having a party and the music was very loud, i went upstairs, ringed the bell and told them to turn the volume down, i was being friendly and all. i return to my room, its quiet now and in 10 mins i see a police car outside the window. well obviously someone else had call the cops on them. they disbanded the party and in 30 mins i was starting to get death threats that if he finds out i was the one who called them, he and his buddies would come and fuck me up and that he would personally supervise that i would get beaten to death.

>pointless drama in my friend group
it's called feelings and if you had any friends you'd care how they felt and why. try being less of a piece of shit all the time

>>18009631
Horrible advice. OP already said he stays out of it, give him the benefit of the doubt that he's not in the wrong.

>>18009624
Without more information, the best advice I can give is to remain neutral. If it really is pointless drama, they have no right dragging you into it and if they get mad at you for not taking a side, fuck em. Hang out with them individually to avoid drama if you can.

>>18009631
Well, right now there's a feud between two sisters (it's usually always them against each other) because the older one (with whom most tend to side with) had declined to join in on a group hobby that the rest of us decided to try, and now that most of us ended up really enjoying it, she feels excluded of the group.

The younger sister pointed out that she was the one who decided to decline in the first place, so it's all her own fault if she feels like everyone's abandoned her. I mean, she's right, BUT she could just put an end to it by saying it nicer and offering to include her next time, but unfortunately the younger sister is the human embodiment of "you're not wrong, you're just an asshole".

I do care about how they feel, the problem is them not caring about each others' feelings.

I'm 31 and would kill to be in your shoes.
faggot, just do it

>>18009608
One of my best friends is 27/28 right now and has only recently gotten his bachelor's degree in environmental engineering, my other best friend is 25 now and getting his degree in renewable energies.

Don't sweat it bro, from my point of view you're alright.

>advices from r9k
Dude, if you get everything right you will be 25 with a degree, there is some 35yo here studying

>>18009587
I'm basically asking, if I did, what are the chances she got pregnant?

>>18009591
100% chance she could be pregnant

>>18009596
dont lie to him, anon
its actually a 112% chance shes pregnant, and a 200% chance that its black

>>18009548

1) Confessing is never a good idea. Asking a woman out makes it pretty obvious that you like her.

2) If you see each other in person, asking her out by e-mail or text is not gonna roll. Bad idea.

3) This is not that impressive:

>She catches me with a hello first most of the time. One time she walked by and waited looking at me as I was communicating with someone else until I was free to say hello to her.

>She also tends to laugh when we talk. I don't know if she's started to do it more often or if I've just been noticing it but she laughs at things I do or say that I find dumb or even awkward.

She probably is just nice, that's all.


Finally: Ask her out in person. Don't be surprised if she says "no". But hey, maybe she says "yes". Good luck.

Don't get involved romantically or even casually with coworkers.

>>18009621
Fair enough. I don't necessarily think those bits you quoted mean anything more than her just being friendly; I wanted to note them because it helped provide context. I hardly consider them impressive when I've never dated a woman before.

Can you? Probably not.

Should you? Certainly not. Atleast wait until she's no longer your teacher.

>>18009513
Similarly I want to fuck my writing instructor. He's communist liberal piggu, and he's fucking hot. He gives me hundreds on every single thing while everyone I've asked has gotten shittier grades. With that said,

>>18009523
This is probably the answer.

>>18009523
>Atleast wait until she's no longer your teacher.

How should I start warming her up to the idea?

>>18009491

two dudes or do you mean 'going down on you' when you say head?

>>18009493
F and M. I've stopped reciprocating because it makes me feel resentful even though I generally enjoy giving.

I've cleaned everything, shaved, powdered, tried every approach. I don't know if he thinks it's just unmanly, or lazy, or selfish.

I haven't climaxed from sex with him in 3 months.

No I don't think you are selfish. Been together with my gf for 4 years and we still fuck 4-5 times/week.

It seems like your sexdrives aren't compatible.