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Hello /adv/
I have been out of work for 3 months now and I'm having a really hard time finding a part time job to work while I am going to school. I'm a junior in college and only being able to pay rent by borrowing money from my parents. I feel like shit leeching off of them and I'm tired of being broke all the time.
I have been thinking lately that I might stay dealing to make ends meat. Are they any anon here who dealt while in college and can give me some tips? I don't know how easy or hard it is to get in the business or to get out.
Do you think that it would be worth the risk or should I just keep looking for a shitty part time job barely scraping by?
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I sold for one summer so I could sell half of a bag and smoke the other half for free.
It wasn't very hard, in my hometown I bike around a lot in the summer. I mainly sold dub bags. If you're smart about it it's really no big deal.
dont sell concentrates
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>>18011189
>dont sell concentrates
you mean like LSD?
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>>18011189
Thank you
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A former friend added a meme photo to fb and tagged myself and another friend in it. I noticed the photo tag has me as the face of the person in the meme and the other tagged friend is some tagged to some random part of the photo.
I dont think the photo is directed at me but found it odd that my tag is the face. Does facebook just autoadd the tags in a specific position? (Meaning the former friend didnt intentionally tag me as the face rather facebook autodid it when he added tags). The only reason I ask is because this former friend used to be a bit of a dick to me so Im not sure if its a subtle dig. To see that Im tagged as the face you have to open thr full photo
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Pretty sure it's a dig, but I don't use facefuck anymore so... Just my 2ยข
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The meme isnt of a bad looking person or anything I just found it kinda odd but assumed fb autotagged my tag as the face? Someone else commented on the photo saying how the person in the meme looks like the former friend who posted it so Im quite confused
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What is the meme?
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ITT: Be honest /adv/ do I not have what it takes to be a lawyer?
Today, I had my first debate for my pre-law course in college. I wound up getting in front of the class, freezing up from stage fright, and representing the side I was supposed to be in opposition of. People laughed and one girl even loudly exclaimed "What the fuck is she doing?" I was absolutely mortified by the time it occurred to me what I had done wrong. I'm pretty sure I'm screwed now and everybody is going to just assume I'm a moron from here on out in that class.
I should have known it was a stupid idea, but later on I posted in our online group asking if people would like me to post some great study material I had found and wanted to share. Well the teacher immediately hopped on and posted a condescending note that people needed to learn to understand what was in our chosen material for the class and then deleted my post.
Now I feel like complete and utter shit. I'm beyond embarrassed and I don't even want to go back to that class now. Luckily Pre-Law is only my minor, not my major. I'm thinking just based on how emotional I am over what happened that I should probably just cut my losses now as I've only taken this one class in the minor.
Other than this experience, overall the people in pre-law are not the kind of people I'd want to associate with. They all seem to have "holier than thou" attitudes and act like sharks. My confidence has already fallen through the floor as I'm typically an honors student and well thought of.
I don't feel this way in my classes for my major (Healthcare Sciences) and I happen to be doing very well those in those.
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>>18011109
The biggest part of being a lawyer is memorization.
Can you do that?
Once you understand that then the rest is trivial
Those bitches laughing at you? Can they memorize like you do?
Confidence is from the ground up
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Lawyering is not just about advocacy. You could work as a lawyer and never public speak again. So dont worry.
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>>18011146
This
I have several friends that are personal injury attorneys. They rarely ever go to court because most of the cases end in settlement before they even take off.
They're making money too.
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Like an attempt to chemically castrate the crazy people. I have very little interest in sex these days, but if I accidentally miss a dose my libido is back, and I am thinking about intentionally missing doses sometimes when I want to go out and get laid.
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Serotonin and dopamine largely regulate your humor and disfunctions on them are intimaly tied with depression and other mental illnesses
Do the math
Just go to your doctor and complain about this side effect, ask him to change your meds
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hopefully. that would imply that there is a shadow government doing population control. that would be neat. either to join expose or destroy, who cares, but it would be neat either way.
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>>18011090
>chemically castrate
>reduced libido
Are you fucking retarded?
>almost 19
>live with parents in rural area
>30 - 40 hour a week job at mcdonald's at minimum wage
>was planning on moving in sister's apartment which would have costed 200 a month but things didn't work out and I can't do it anymore
>don't know anyone I could room with
I was really hoping to be able to get out in the next few months but that won't work out anymore. It's not viable to live where I do without a vehicle and I feel like a sponge relying on my parents for drives.
Do I have any options with my current job or should I look for something else? What should I do?
>p.s I do intend to go back to school in the future
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>>18011087
This is sfw board weeb
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>>18012160
And that's a guy, so it's perfectly in line with the blue board. :^)
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>>18011087
Probably ditching that McDonalds and finding a proper job is a step in the right direction, although I'm not sure how hard that is for you.
Also, learning to drive is also a good idea since you can drive instead of your parents, unless they veto their powers and drive you instead.
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My best friend and crush is texting me while horny, but she already has a boyfriend. Any advice? I don't want to encourage her talking like this because it will probably end our friendship... And she just asked if I'm attracted to her...
<<pic isn't her but looks like her
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>>18011083
It looks like someone mashed Anita Sarkeesian and Laci Green
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>>18011092
You would've never guessed this, but she's actually a Republican.
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Romantics will say that you should refrain from expressing your true feelings to avoid jeopardizing her relationship and that that you should value your friendship yadda yadda
I say don't chastrate yourself and take this once in a lifetime opportunity
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How do I convince my dad to get a real job. Ever since he lost his job 2 years ago he became a NEET yet still remaining to be a asshole saying my generation is lazy even though he leeches off welfare and cause my generation lazy. He has a "job" driving for fucking lyft with a TRUCK, he is fucking retarded. (Yes this is the US)
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>driving for lyft with a truck
lthat's funny as shit.
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>>18011098
I would be laughing too if it weren't that I knew I have some of his DNA.
He is so fucking crazy that now he wants to buy a a new 2017 car for lyft, how the fuck is he ever going to pay it off
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>>18011078
Let me guess, you're some high school faggot with no job of his own?
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Pls help.
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I've been in a 4 year relationship with an extremely abusibe girlfriend. I have wanted to leave for so long. This super super hot girl and me start flirting daily, and she ends up asking me out 1 minute ago. I want to leave my girlfriend and have wanted to for a long time, but how do I do it without feeling horrible? Also how do I make it seem like I'm leaving her because I'm unhappy, not because of another girl?
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>>18011054
Who gives a fuck whether she thinks you left because of abuse or another woman. The point is, she's abusive. Get out. Don't feel bad for leaving something for your own wellbeing.
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Just leave
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KYS anon
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Okay about 4-5 months ago I started talking to this girl on Facebook, we hit it off and had a lot of common interests and whatnot
We met up and went on a date and it went perfectly, the next day we were in a relationship
I switched campus to the one she was in, I was gonna move there before I met her btw.
Like acouple of weeks in I started to change, I started to have a lot of break downs and unload it all on her, I would worry about everything, I would even say some fucked up shit.
To surprise (at the time) she broke up with me for a lot of reasons but all I did was push and push, I would constantly talk about us and message her, not giving her any space. Result...she hates me.
It's been about 2 months since then and I've done a lot of self improvement.
School starts again tomorrow and I have to face her, how do I approach it? I just want to be friends and not have her afraid or hate me
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>>18010989
leave the ball in her court. you've done your damage. just stay to yourself and if she reaches out, be kind.
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>>18010996
Damn man. Not op but I just fucked up my relationship with the love of my life. It is irreparable. This is solid advice and what I needed to hear. Thank you anon.
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>>18011073
you'll say that about the future 'loves of my life' too
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this is my second semester of college the only class I passed last semester was arabic 101 no idea how when i literally cant speak or understand the language I'm stuck in 098 classes for both math and english which means I cant take any classes for my major until i pass them, they also don't count as credits how the fuck do i get my life together and succeed in life
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>>18010932
>I'm stuck in 098 classes for both math and english which means I cant take any classes for my major until i pass them
You say this like it's grossly unfair that you need to pass classes to take other classes
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>>18010932
Professor writing here.
Did you do the work? Did you attend all classes, do all the reading, hand in all the assignments? If not, do. Of all the ways students invent to sabotage themselves, the one I have never understood is paying the money, signing up for the class, and then blowing it off.
If you did do all the work, did you realize as you were going along that you weren't understanding it? That's what the professor's office hours are for. Believe it or not, we want you to learn and pass our courses, and we are prepared to give you extra one-on-one help to get you there. It is totally suicidal to know you are sinking and not cry for help.
Did you really think you were doing well in the classes and were surprised to fail? Go back to the professors and, without complaining, ask what it was that you didn't get and didn't even realize you weren't getting.
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You know they didn't
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Male here
What can I say to women during a conversation or text that's going to fire up her interest in me?
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I'm secretly Brad Pitt
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>>18010927
Do you want to see my collection of rare pepes?
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Ask for her address, then knock once on her bathroom window every 30 minutes or hour.
This worked for me twice now.
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I don't think I can go on much longer.
I have had to watch, my whole life, my mental and physical state deteriorating. Every year there's something new I can't do. I can't go outside of a 15 minute drive from my house, I can't eat or drink the same things I used to, every day I just feel like shit. I can't work. I've dropped out of college, unable to take it. I can't live without being a burden on someone. I don't sleep, I'm either sitting at my computer chair or laying in bed feeling like shit all day long, seeing as I lost every single good IRL friend I had a long time ago, I have no reason to leave my house. I haven't in four months, now. I'm 21, and I already feel like my life is over At least I'm not fat or ugly.
I drink plenty of water (enough to where my pee is normally clear or slightly tinted), I eat fruits and veggies, lean meat, the works. I don't drink caffiene (I can't, seeing as I've suddenly developed an intolerance to it). I've been to multiple doctors, I exercise, I still feel shitty all the time.
How does one not commit suicide when they're in the situation I'm in? I'm asking a legitimate question here. How can anyone justify my existence? How could this ever be a life worth living?
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>>18010926
I am in a very similar situation to you and my honest answer is drugs. I am trying with my current prescription regimen and a little extra on the weekends and I'm gonna see what happens.
Also why can't you go for a walk anon? I find it genuinely helps, not to sound trite.
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>>18010926
is there actually something wrong with you or are you just being a homo?
>>18010946
dont listen to this idiot, drugs are usually the worst solution to any problem. walks are good tho
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It seems like this mode of thinking is incredibly common. I feel much the same way and I'm 30. More and more I find that things I use to enjoy I no longer enjoy anymore and there seems to be less and less things that I do enjoy to take their place each year. I feel pretty hard into drugs and alcohol for a few years and recently I've been trying to pull back. Drugs and alcohol can help for short term relief but be careful not to become too dependent or you'll just find yourself becoming more miserable every moment you aren't on them. A few of my go too motivational pieces: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck by Mark Manson (there's a book and a shorter article free online). 6 Harsh Truths That Will Make You a Better Person by David Wong. Want to Be Happy? Be Grateful by David Steindl-Rast (a Ted Talk available on youtube). And Minimalism: A Documentary About the Important Things, streaming now on Netflix.
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Would it be weird to give a box of chocolates to this girl on Valentine's Day to show her my thanks for everything? She's been unusually nice to me all the time, like getting food to me when I got a concussion, giving me food for an Army expedition I was going on, always asking if I was feeling better and even listened to a few troubles I had etc. She's basically the only one I actually see as a goof friend on campus besides my guy friends.
I'm not REALLY interested in her romantically, I just want to show my thanks since she's mostly helped me and I haven't really done much in return, plus my mom gave the box to me and I don't really want the chocolate in the first place.
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>>18010918
good* not goof lol
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Chocolate is painfully stereotypical romance.
Get her a gift card or something.
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If you're not interested in her romantically, why not give them to her on literally any other day?
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How do you help with depression?
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I can't stop crying right now. My girlfriend suffers from anxiety and depression and since a lot of time she has her downs and I do everything I can to help her even though sometimes I achieve nothing. Today she attempted suicide. She is fine but I reslly don't know what to do
I try to tell her everything I can and I just can't help her. I want to do more for her. I am really desperate. We have a long distance relationship and it's impossible for me to go see her right now. We were toghether quite a lo of time and spent a lot of time togheter. Anyone in a similar situation? How do you help someone with depression? I am trying everything to convinve her to stop wanting to kill herself, she says the only reason she doesn't do it is becaude of ke. And she would want not to be so in love with me so she could kill herself. I really don't know what to do. Any advice please
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This sounds like a very destructive relationship. Does she do anything for you? Or are you just her emotional support?
Honestly, I've been this girl. It took my boyfriend breaking down for me to realise I was being too selfish, and I put a hell of a lot of effort into trying to change. It was difficult but ultimately rewarding, and we're still together now.
She's being too self absorbed, and you're not allowing yourself (and she's not allowing you) to feel things and be vulnerable as well. You need to tell her how much of a strain it's putting on you, and remind her that relationships are about both give and take.
She needs to stop using her mental illness as a shield and an excuse for being a poor girlfriend.
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>>18010921
She is not a poor gf. Everything she can do for me she does it and always listens to my problems and shit and she always makes me get over them. I want to know what to do. I want to send her money for a terapist (no meds, bad experience in the past) . I want to go visit her as soon as I can. I want to call her now. I told her to promise me she wont do it. And she texted me. 'I wont promise nothing, now I am going to bed' and I cant convince her. Im just really afraid she has an atrack or gets really nervous during the night and actually does it
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>>18010936
This stuff is very manipulative. Like it or not, these kinds of behaviours are manipulation or obsession.
If you're seriously worried, I suggest contacting her parents.
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What should I say after this
I know I shouldnt have sent the second message, but at that point I hadn't the slightest expectation that she'd actually answer.
I mean, even if she was super busy, how hard could have been to send 1 message saying she's too busy to talk right now?
I hope I dont come across as a jerk I just dont know what I can say here that wont make me seem even more desperate.
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game over, move on
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>>18010886
If it was Chad she wouldn't have been busy
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>>18010890
I atleast want to respond.