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She is your EX for a reason. Leave her alone.

>>18693104
>She is your EX for a reason
We were both dumb teenagers when that happened, now we're dumb adults. It's been 7 years since then and about 2 years ago I'd gone around and apologized to all the women I'd wronged in my youth; she was one of them.

>>18693113
My advice still stands, do not attempt a relationship which exceeds basic friendship.

There are plenty of other women that would be better suited for you.

>>18693033
>I am 23 and am still with my first gf from when I was 20

Oh wow what a champ.

Get the fuck over yourself.

yall are obviously going to grow differently as people, especially from your 20 year old selves. lmao dont expect live together for 50 years

>>18693033
People change alot over time. Thinking of fucking other people is actually normal among all humans (this doesn't include people who act on it). Its taboo to speak of it though. Now you mentioned the lenth of your relationship. Really think.. Were they enjoyable years? Do you think whoever she is going to become is someone you're going to adapt to as you change with time as well? If yes then continue pursuing your current relationship. If you feel as if youre going to act on your 'taboo' thoughts... Maybe review your sexual part of you twos relationship. Talk to her if yoi feel its inadequate.

>>18693025
Benzodiazepines.

They're the solution that third of threads on this board.

>>18693025
Subject yourself to it.
Feel it, learn, grow.

>>18693025
Expose yourself to it on a daily basis, like a sales or call center job.

/adv/ is not your personal tech support.

>>18693008

Says who

This would fit better in /g/

>>18692990
It is worth the shot. What do you have to lose by trying master yoda?

>art school
https://www.mcdonalds.com/us/en-us/careers.html

>>18693010
Idk my integrity or something. I'm afraid of them thinking I haven't tried to work for myself since that's what the school trained us to do. The school has connections with Marvel, DC and other comic book companies, but I don't have much of a comic book portfolio and I know it's mostly freelance work.

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>>18693078
>them thinking
Are you a bitch? Do it faggot unless you enjoy flipping burgers.

You don't know pain. Just get on with it.

>>18692969
I planned on enlisting straight out of school. Learning that my schooling will be prolonged makes me feel like a complete and utter loser. Especially just because I chose to fuck around and fucked up my own stuff.

>>18692979
It may seem like a big deal at your age but a years difference means absolutely nothing, just focus on your work this time and make sure its done well. Worrying about something that's too late to change won't do you any good.

Clearly there is an underlying reason why you hate your sex drive. Maybe you should work on addressing that instead of trying to neutralize one of your basic biological functions.

>>18692889
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>>18692889

I don't know, maybe, but this feels like a bigger issue than anything else going on in my life and has been genuinely making me unhappy.

I'd wait a bit until they're a little more advanced...right now they're little more than dolls.

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>>18692837
Why would you buy whole cow when all you want is one specific part to get your rocks off?

>>18692917
so I can get the full girlfriend experience

>>18692789
Suck more dick. Your throat will gets use to it.

>>18692800
Great bro go jerk off to that sweet roast u gave me.

Just sleep a ton, drink lots of water. eat some raw ginger, garlic or onions. Lots of vitamin c and eat lots of healthy food, your body needs calories and nutrients to fight it. And again, SLEEP

Fuck everything that you can.
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>>18692773
this

and
>she wants to take it slow
she'll want to do all sorts of fucked up things when you starting dating the other girl

>>18692779
>>she wants to take it slow

She wants to continue having sex with the other person incase they get back together... But if that changes... she'll let you know.

>>18692747
The best case scenario is that you get back together but you never feel any security in the relationship because your girl has proven she has a quick trigger finger on initiating breakups.

The worst case scenario is that you waste more of your precious time on this earth going back and forth with this girl only for her to one day decides she doesn't need her security blanket anymore (you) and moves on for good, leaving you bitter, broken and hoping in vain that she changes her ways.

>How do I know when she's not just "crying wolf"?

Better question, why bother being with a girl who does? Seems she is quite willing to drop the ball with that act.

>>18692747
>long distance roleplaying
Stopped reading right there

>>18692717
>Can I be arrested for aimlessly wandering around a place people know I don't live?
Maybe? I mean wouldn't you report a stranger walking around aimlessly in your neighborhood to the police?

Consider going to somewhere else like a regular park or other public venue where people often engage with other folks.

Why a trailer park specifically? Is there someone there you're trying to creep on?

>>18692777
That's just where there's a large number of people to probably engage in conversation with.

>>18692685

You can't stop thoughts from popping up in your head. All you can do is stop dweling on them.

Anyone can be dangerous, prejudices exist for a reason. Be careful when near gangbangers and white trash people

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>>18692698
White trash people mostly just fuck their cousins and do drugs, rather than hurting anyone, unless meth and psychosis is involved. Lots of bangers are latin. Most black people are just normal people, albeit poor in many cases.

What you really have to look out for is certain locations and occasionally certain times of day.

>>18692677
>i
if theyre that bad they shouldve be covered for free, if theyre not then theyre not that bad!!

>>18692677
>Im very self conscious of my crooked teeth. Ive had them since I was small and always had issues meeting new people, talking to them or talking to a group. It also makes me question my relationships with anyone I know because I keep thinking about how they look down on me.

So you plan on getting your teeth fixed, until that happens you do the best you can.

>I also gave online dating a try and I can easily get matches and chat with girls. But when Im supposed to actually ask them out I dont know how to do it.

You can frame it like a question, such as " -Would you like to go out with me?".
There are guides you can google if you want more of a script.

>It also makes me question my relationships with anyone I know because I keep thinking about how they look down on me.

You need to grow out of this and SOON before you get into a relationship. You're going to drive a girl crazy if she really is into and loves you and then you keep coming at her with this bullshit.

>>18692609
sleep really later than you usually do, so when you wake up your eyes are still closed, but make sure youre in a good mood

YouTube: ultra hypnosis lucid dreaming

>>18692609
>how to have lucid dreams
If you are born with a higher IQ then it happens without thinking about it. Have you tried that?
I normally eat really healthily and when I eat trash I have crazy lucid dreams. This last friday I had a dream my family went to some show and the audience gets called to do some part and I was called to sing some song I didnt know with 3 girls and we were all eating junk food and my old dead dog was begging for food. It was a trip. All I ate was a box of nutterbutters.