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>>18690989
It's not weird. I'm a guy who listens to it, and it's just something that helps me relax and fall asleep at night. It puts me in a state of restfulness. Maybe you could make him some ASMR of your own for him to listen to?

>>18690996
It seems weird and cringe

Have you ever held a pillow in your arms to fall asleep easier as if you were cuddling with someone? It's like that but sound instead of physical touch.

They sense your desperation, calm down and read some books on relationships. Try something like Models by Mark Manson

>>18690888
>I never end up asking them out because I don't know how dates work, where to take them, how to act like on them, etc.
So instead of learning by doing, you just figure your best course of action is to just not do it?

>I don't ask girls out
>I don't go out with girls

Gee, ya don't say!

>>18690886
How much exactly did you drink? I find it highly unlikely that a first timer never felt a buzz.

you just didn't realize you were drunk

>>18690886
Become a con artist
>become "friends with someone"
>go for drinks
>get them wasted while you are fine
>get them to reveal info/lend money/photograph them in situations then blackmail
>???
>profit

>>18690864
Only as a hobby and if your musical career takes off then you can monetize on it. You need a backup plan.
I make my own music too but its more of a just for fun thing.
Check out "lube - I Shit in Your Mothers Eyeballs" on YouTube if you have a minute to spare, its what you can be if you put your mind to it.

>>18690864
if you are actually good at it, like it, and believe you will be able to make a living off of it then yes

>>18690891
I wouldn't feel confident I can make money doing anything even if I was in college

I seem to do it a fuck load tho

>>18690861
Yes my dude, it will get better. There are other people out there like you, and if you keep looking, someday you will find them. You just have to keep trying.

You can't change who you are. It's better to accept you as yourself and find people that will do the same. Once you are happy with yourself and you have support from others around you, there is nothing you have to worry about.

The short answer is yes, it will get better, hang in there buddy

you're not autistic
don't blame your parents unless they abused you

just get your fucking shit together

>>18690857
You're gonna have to give us some more details. Who are you messaging?

ayy bat u want some fuk?

>>18690878
Friend gave me a girl's kik.
>>18690881
Uhhh can't say anything about fucking.

Yes. Do not delude yourself into thinking otherwise.

>>18690849
Not exactly.
In my experience it means "I am not that interested in you anymore but I'm going to keep you around just incase I can't find anyone else". Usually the best thing to do here is to just terminate the relationship. I wouldn't even consider a relationship to be serious if one partner said "I need space", its just a juvenile thing to say.

I should probably add that she handles all parenting of her son right now. She's never asked me to watch him or anything smiliar.

3 months is short. See how the relationship goes.

Remember that love you nurture and keep is better than serial honeymoon phases.

She's trying to trick you into being the kid's dad. It's up to you OP. Are you willing to raise another man's son?

YES the porn is like drugs and your. Mind is starting to prefer it you will destroy your relationship if you don't quit the porn right now. Many websites can help you with it.

>>18690765

He is meme status at the moment or whatever but he explains the whole porn thing nicely https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=oTjZvlKfNtk

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>>18690780
This is a bit extreme, but if you really do jerk it in the shower EVERY morning, that will definitely affect your ability to perform, which indirectly affects your relationship. Instant gratification detracts from the slow build up of pleasure when you actually have sex.

This might sound stupid, but try planning sex ahead of time, then tease each other throughout the day. When it's time to finally get down, you will both be so wound up and horny that it will intensify the whole experience.

Of course, if you wack off in the shower beforehand, you won't be as into it. You really don't have to be Neil DeGrasse Tyson to figure that out.

Masturbation is not a crime, but if it is literally a part of your daily routine, that is a problem. You owe it to your wife to have some self control. Limit yourself to 3 times a week, max.

There are lots of places that need a writer take video game studios. The writer makes the story for the game. Look for jobs like that will help the major in mind to get that job.

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You are over thinking the choice. Take a breath and write a plan out. Many people get no degree at all or a job unrelated to their field. Its your life at the end of the day.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2013/05/20/only-27-percent-of-college-grads-have-a-job-related-to-their-major/?utm_term=.45607ea7b3e9
If you enjoy writing you should pursue it. Just do your research first. Maybe talk to some local writers or authors. Start researching jobs now and take on part time freelance writing. The degree you get will effect many aspects of your life, but the individual is also important. Some fags who get a degree a "secure" field have shitty job searching skills. Before my recent wagecuck job, I was shitty as fuck at landing jobs. If you have little time to write, find ways to get better at it. Rod Serling used a tape recorder. He was also in the military which helped his writing. He also got fucked over many times because of censorship. Many freelance websites pay a decent amount. Part time(if you are a good writer) you could bring some decent extra money every week. My family member is writer and makes full time income.

>>18691073
thanks man, appreciate it

>>18690739
/r/personalfinance

>>18690739
You have to apply for a credit increase. Sometimes they will offer them to you but more often than not you actually have to apply for them.
My personal advice is to keep it at $1000. I have two $2000 credit cards maxed out. It just happens so fucking fast. They're evil and designed to take your money.
If you really want to build credit get yourself a car loan. They really help when you go to get yourself a mortgage.

call them and ask for a credit increase

obviously you're putting < 30% of your credit limit on your card and paying it in full each month, right OP?

She's a nice girl, be patient and kind

>>18690734
either she hasn't fucked yet and is scared because of lack of experience.

Or she did fuck and then got dumped and thinks marriage is the next step. which she would be right if you just want to pump and dump.

I don't have the answer but a question instead
I have a really cute neighbor who seems into me, but her family is catholic, I've seen them coming back from church
Do you think it's a bad idea to approach her? I'm an atheist and I don't know if there's any chance to make it work, we literally conceive the world in opposite ways. Sex isn't my main concern, I've been a virgin for 21 years and I can hold up some more time
fun thing is I've gone to a catholic school all my life and she's gone to a public (lay) one instead

>>18690650
learn from your mistakes. Dont put all your eggs in one basket. Also never put your emotions in someone else's lap. regroup make a plan to get your life back and dont do this again.

>>18690650
Want to just hang out so you could try forgetting about her?

>>18690697
Hang out.. I can barely get up from the bed.. Alone in a hostel in eastern Europe.. How?

Can't wait for fucking americans to get first world socialized health care so they stop posting their stupid cancer here.

>>18690685

I'll never have health care because if I don't want it, I shouldn't be required to have it. Just like Obamacare. I refused to pay into it and I just don't go to the doctor because fuck doctors.

So no one has any ideas what it is?

>>18690595
Seriously cut all ties with her OP and wait for your obsession to fade

I just wish i could have gone out with her once I don't know if I will forget her tho. She was THE one you know like I wrote her in a perfect version of the world besides the whole rejection get me bit of the story.

>>18690622
you've romanticized your relationship with her in an unhealthy way. she doesn't feel the same way about you and it will never work out the way you want it to in your head. it's painful but you have to get that through your head and eventually move on.