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Try new things in the bedroom. I went through the same phase with my long term gf. She's probably gone through the same phase with you.

One day we went to the sex store and everything changed. I even jerk it to her now when she's not around. Never been more attracted.

>>18240433
Ïs she fat?

>>18240448
>>18240472
The thing is, I've tried to bring up my 'kinks' in the past but she just made fun of me or shot them down. I can't bring them up anymore. She only seems to enjoy sex in the missionary position. She's also sort of fat now, moreso than she was when we started dating. I'm almost not physically attracted to her at all anymore.

I did think about asking her to lose weight, but I feel it would only prolong the inevitable.

Is it wrong that I see the best way out of this being making her dislike me as a person? I do have certain traits that she dislikes, such as my obession with politics. I feel like it would be easier for her to break with me if she didn't feel like she liked me anymore. Am I Machiavellian evil or benevolent?

>>18240355

its a pretty rare occurrence, not because guys always accept their sex, but rather because they don't just offer sex. they usually put the bait out there and if a guy doesn't accpet it they just move on to other things. some fixate, some get upset, most just realize that they arent a mach

>>18240355
Well when I'm in the mood but my boyfriend isn't, I feel rejected, hurt, and unattractive

>>18240355
Felt unattractive for a while, then I realized I'm cute and have a pussy so I just chalked it up to him being insecure about his sexuality since he went to an all boys christian school and his best friend is a raging faggoty psychopath. Also he used me for my money.

Just don't shoot at anything that is way out of your league, friend.

>>18240342
Sometimes the things we used to find endearing or cute in our partner change into things that piss us off to no end. Sometimes people just grow apart, even if you do everything right

>>18240342
I had this happen to me where I was the annoyed one. I think it was because I was emotionally vulnerable to her. I don't know how to explain it. Like I subconsciously knew she could destroy me and I'd get annoyed at her over nothing. It was weird.

>>18240349
This might be the most insightful thing I've ever read on not only /adv, but maybe the Internet.

I sincerely salute you

It's 2 AM, if that means anything
She's a night bird. I'm sure she's awake.

self bump cause no answers :(

>>18240307
Retarded.

Stupid situation, question, your reply, all retarded.

Either start talking to her like nothing happened or keep doing what are you doing. Your choice. That message of yours is complete retarded thou.

>>18240274
>normal emotion
I havent been to iraq, but a lot of people are like you (me included).

If you dont feel like mentaly collapsing over dead dog, why do you think your kids would be different?

There is nothing to talk about. You and your kids will be fine.

>>18240274
Nah, you might be subconsciously hiding the emotions or rejecting anything that could cause said emotions. I don't think a human could completely become emotionless. Just try to connect to your kids more, bond with them or at the very least help them bond with you. Say I love you and all that good stuff. Ask them about what they did at school and give them advice.

>>18240299
I suppose. I just see a lot of people who get very wrapped up in their pets and who would be devastated if their animal died. My mother for instance was a mess for weeks when her dog died. I got none of that.

>>18240251
Idk but I'm a guy and I like women with accents-- at least, from the right places. So it probably goes both ways. Russian is an interesting one. Best if you know a bit about computer hacking or biotechnology or military weaponry or something else that seems particularly Russian.

Femanon here,

Unless you're trying to pull a Russian/English/Spanish/French/Nippon/etc. lit major, the language itself doesn't really matter. It's just the fact that you have something cool/exotic that you're passionate about that's attractive. I had an ex that spoke Spanish but he was impressed by fact that I liked to cook and write in the same way I was impressed by his language skills. If you just speak Russian because you're a Russian, I wouldn't be AS attracted, but it would still be kinda exotic and cool and help you start a conversation at least.

As for accents, I think Commonwealth (British, Australian, etc.) accents are cute but German and Russian accents are kind of meh.

>>18240251
Guys with accents are cool, but so are guys that just know how to speak a cool language. I once had a guy say something to me in Russian and the puss got way, way more excited than I was expecting

You probably won't get her back for good but I guarantee you could contact her and sabotage her current relationship. So hey why not

>>18240242
Beat up the other male
Become Alpha af
She will come to love you once again

>>18240242
>And after a lot of thinking and talking to friends, I found that the problem was me. I was not a mature boyfriend, and I did some shit which made her mad.
Give it a few years. I had one like you and to this day I still wouldn't get back with that fucking immature asswhipe. You write just like him, too.

Watch out. He fucked me over so bad I took him back sweetly and then dumped his ass out of nowhere and sent him to the mental hospital. You fuck with a bitch and you wanna get back with her? She might wanna get back at you.

Let's review

>She never told you after two years
>She likely would have never told you
>She knew it was bad because she didn't tell you

This is only the thing you KNOW about. There is likely more tgat happened. She's not worth trusting at this point, but it shouldn't matter because she's already done enough. She knew to keep it a secret because she wants you to always be her dream man while she goes about being scandalous. Just end the relationship, OP. Continue having sex for a while, but you need to lose your attachments and just go. Your relationship will never become good after this, there's no point to even try restoring it because you know she's a liar and a cheater.

Do yourself a favor, OP. Drop her.

>>18240208
Do u trust her? Ask her exactly what happened and get back to us. Ask her why she covered it up and did it go further. Sounds rough m8 srry to hear that

>>18240222
Thanks bro. Only reason I'm semi inclined to believe the story is because she's asking for advice from a friend on what to do, and why lie if you're looking for advice. But she could have just been whoring too. Fuck

>>18240154
Possibly a little bit, but you'll recover. Depends on how she reacted, too

>>18240154
Crop tops have been around since the late 60's. This isn't new. Do you even remember the 90's?
Also, how is this advice?

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>>18240154
They're literally just for slutty girls trying to push boundaries even further.

First it was tank-tops, then spaghetti straps, and finally in 2017 we have American Girls fighting for booty shorts and these half-shirt tank tops.

It's not "distracting" but guys like boobs and ass. Everybody knows girls find joy in being stared at, so what the fucke even anymore.

Lets just be naked from now on. Fuck clothes.

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>>18240079

I too ordered out too much, but mainly because I was drunk a lot and didn't want to drive drunk.

I think it mainly comes down to willpower, or providing yourself food at home and committing to a time to go to the grocery store weekly. Buy convenient foods for yourself, instead of cooking meals, at least temporarily. It's the convenience that gets to us. No dishes, no cleanup, no prep... So find some similar stuff.

I love these Bertolli frozen meals. One skillet, one plate, boom, food is done in 10 minutes.

Weight is a different challenge, but this is a start to weaning yourself off of ordering in.

>>18240079
get some damn impulse control fatty and stop contributing to my countrys obesity problem


also dont leave the house with enough cash to induldge ur eating fetish

>>18240151
>not even overweight

Thanks for the advice, though, cunt.

>>18240110
Thank you. Suppose I should start buying stuff like you mentioned first, then tappering off.

>>18240073
>lose your mind
>weed
Not really gonna happen unless you're already predisposed to getting bouts paranoia when you smoke.

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>>18240073
go huff paint or something you loser

>>18240083
I do

>>18240066
They say the best strategy to get pregnant is to not think too hard about it and have some sex and enjoy it. Stressing over it is counterproductive.

Ages? Past anti baby methods used? Fat?

>>18240078
I'm 180lb and she is 140lb.
We kinda are just making love, and just I Cum inside her in the off chance it would get her pregnant, but we don't just do it to get pregnant, we're just really horny.
There was a point in the past where she got pregnant. It was last summer, she had sex once in that month, with the thought of getting pregnant, and she got it. I don't understand why she got t so easily that one time, but now it seems so much more difficult. We're not stressed, that's for sure, but she does have a Cyst that bothers her so maybe it could be affecting the chances... please don't judge us on our age, we are well off and prepared (I am 22 and she is 20)

>>18240093
Forgot to mention, the reason we don't have a child now, is that we could keep the one she was having before... she ended up getting extremely sick and it affected the pregnancy so we had to have it removed...

>>18240020
I'm not the most qualified to answer, but I think most upstanding production companies straight up have an application process you could look into on their respective sites.

>>18240020

is the one getting fucked the bottom? I find him most attractive, does that mean I'm a top?

What if I'm feminine, can I still be acceptable to bottoms as a top?

Sorry to derail the thread, but these r burning questions

>>18240033
By definition, the bottom is the one getting fucked in every scenario. Twinks are typically the bottom if they're the only twink in the scenario, but really anyone can and does anything. There is also such a thing as a power bottom, which is essentially a bottom in a dominant situation.

It's entirely possible to be the compassionate innocent when it matters and have a spine when you're figuratively against a wall. So yes, I am going to call you a silly double nigger for thinking so black and white.

Your probably mentally ill if youre attracted to a girl who is mentally ill.

Innocence is for faggots who want to cling to an excuse to not grow up. "MUY INNOCENCE" the nu-males cry as they're forced to do... anything that involves being a man, really.

Well, guess what? We all have to grow up sometime, sweetheart.

You're a jackass for leaving someone who likes you and who you like back, just because you feel pressured to do what you're "supposed to do" as a young man

I've started dating at 18, and since them I only ever had a 2 months break. Do I wish I had fucked a few more chicks? Absolutly. Will I let go or cheat the girl I consider a jackpot for that? Bet your ass I won't.

Listen fag, do you fucking love her or not? If you do then man the fuck up, if not dump her

Also post original pic because she reminds me of someone I know (almost a lookalike)

>>18239868
You forgot to ask question.

And yes, you are dumb by refusing girl just because you are scared of commitment. Enjoy your one night stands and running from one relationships to another until you realize that stability is always better than fresh pussy.