How do women rationalize being turned down?

>>18240355

its a pretty rare occurrence, not because guys always accept their sex, but rather because they don't just offer sex. they usually put the bait out there and if a guy doesn't accpet it they just move on to other things. some fixate, some get upset, most just realize that they arent a mach

>>18240355
Well when I'm in the mood but my boyfriend isn't, I feel rejected, hurt, and unattractive

>>18240355
Felt unattractive for a while, then I realized I'm cute and have a pussy so I just chalked it up to him being insecure about his sexuality since he went to an all boys christian school and his best friend is a raging faggoty psychopath. Also he used me for my money.

Just don't shoot at anything that is way out of your league, friend.

>>18240365
I have been with six women total - all of them except one was a long term relationship. Some were very attractive (at least one 9/10) and others were average. I had sex with each hundreds of times. What I learned from this experience is that no matter how beautiful, sexy, or fresh you try to keep the sex life, I will always get tired of fucking your pussy. There's simply too much variety and younger, hotter pussy to be had. It's nothing personal and I've never cheated, but if I am not in the mood that is likely why. The good news is now there's porn to add some variety.

>>18240442
I doubt that's why my guy is ever eh about sex. He just doesn't need to have sex every day like I do

Sex is more of a pain in the ass than jerking off. If you're coming on to me and want to fuck, you'd better be really attractive or you'd better be lucky that I'm in the mood. I don't want to have to deal with having you over or having to worry about pleasuring you or awkwardly telling you that you need to leave or sharing my bed with someone.

It's not worth it when I can go home, lube up, rub one out, and sleep all within 15 minutes.

>>18240480
Yup.

>>18240355
Well, right now I'm rationalizing it by listening to my boyfriend (of 15 years) who says he is trying to get to a more spiritual place & focus on getting his head together.
He's been depressed for a few years, so even though I'm not big on this idea... whatever.

>>18240495
I relate to that 100% right now. Unless he's lying, he's really not tired of you, just tired of his life. If you love him, let him do his thing, he'll come back under the right circumstances

>>18240355
You might as well ask "what is a woman's favorite food?"

The answer is going to vary greatly from person to person and situation to situation. Everything you see here is merely anecdotal.

I think you should not even care, worry, or think about what you're asking, and if you can't find yourself forgetting about this then you should really take a deeper look at yourself. Realize you need to get your shit together, because dwelling on this is asinine.

>>18240355
My dating experiences, there aren't many. I have two exs, a few in betweens that didn't form a relationship

So, out of the few I have dated or attempted to date, I have been rejected a handful of times.

My immediate reaction is to sperg outwardly while inwardly beating myself up for trying and begging the universe to reverse time so that never happened.

From above, you can tell that this makes for a very awkward moment in which the men I have been rejected by have handled it in various ways.

My first rejection was with a male friend I had been hanging out with quite frequently. We got along well, I thought there may have been some connection forming, we were even talking about sex and such at the time, so I attempted to kiss him when we were close enough. He backed up and it just got awkwardly silent for a while, then we decided to go meet up with a friend we were waiting on. We actually both mutually, but unspokenly, agreed to never speak of it again. I took the signs with grace and dignity and accepted the friendzone. I didn't actually have a big thing for him, wonder why i tried, i guess just to try

Second time I was rejected was when I ran into a guy that I had dated for a very short period in like, sophomore year. We literally just ran into each other, he said he was free all day and really wanted to catch up with me. So we were talking at a park for a couple of hours. He really didn't want to leave me, so I was thinking he wanted to reconnect somehow. It got later, and I told him we should really go out again some time. Then he started spazzing out and basically just danced around a big fat "no" while I began to sperg out and wonder what I just did until he left.

Third time was I was texting a guy who was really flirtacious with me and we had agreed to go on a date. Then the day of, he stood me up. I was honestly hurt by this one but luckily he didn't see me in person.