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Literally just talk to him about it as you just explained. No hard, and if he is decent he will understand where you are coming from.

>>18434206
Have a discussion, say you are going to get off the pill for your health and to stock up on condoms. I installed the "Clue" app on my phone and he could check where I was in my cycle to see if we had safe days or not. Sometimes we would go without if it was particularly safe (like right before a period).

Consider also the copper IUD.

>>18434206
If you cant speak frankly to your significant other as you have with us, i feel bad about the kind of relationship you're in.

Also, eat less or& exercise more.

>but my hormone imbalance does it

God fucking damn i hate people that dont understand the physical laws of the universe

>>18434152
It's interesting because traps are feminine and heteros would be attracted to said femininity but I'm attracted to the fact that there's a dick somewhere so it's gay in that sense. I think if you're aware of the taboo it's perfectly fine but really you shouldn't concern yourself with labels. Like what you like and fly your damn kite.

>>18434152
Yes. You're watching too much porn and buying into this degenerate culture promoting such mental illnesses.

Cease it. Once go that way you will lose any attraction any women might have for you should she ever discover it. Believe me. My ex did. You could literaly hear the relationship shatter. It's not only gay but also using mentaly ill people for your lust.

yes. but being bi isn't as bad as you think it is.

>>18434136
is your boyfriend a radical muslim?

Refusing the chance of getting horny? Seriously? It seems you got a case of an over-possessive bf.

>>18434139
not at all. he's not even religious.

>>18434159
it's true, he gets horny extremly fast and he's also rather big. i think his concern is that his erection would be clearly visible and hemd be embarassed about it. but that's not the only issue, obviously, since he wouldn't want me to wear it when he's not around either.

Tell him her that you are going to do it whether or not she approves, so please help you come off safely. She knows that you have to come off medications very slowly, or you will have a lot of really bad side effects.

If she still force you to take SSRI without a valid reason, make arrangements for seeing another psychiatrist.

>>18434135
They should honestly have you check a box when you begin to see a physiatrist that you understand that you will never be able to join the military/work for the government or a contactor/get licensing for many jobs
It's a fucking life ruiner

You don't convince her. You inform her that you are going to stop taking them, and she can help you do it properly or not.

Americans realize the true value of humans. If you don't have any to us, don't bother.

Not an american but I think most of them got every right to be xenophobe. They mostly got bad experience with foreigners; spic stole their job, jew stole their money, blacks stole... literally.

>>18434071
Your argument is only based on your subjective view and experiences? I'd say that you're wrong to put all Americans in the same pot but i can't really say that you're wrong because i've experienced similar.
Apart from origin maybe it's just society at it's finest, making real friends who don't gain anything in particulat from the bond is hard in general, everywhere.

>>18434047
Mind I have only been in the workforce for 6 months

>>18434047
Whom you're supposed to report to while she went on vacation? Who's the person that's going to taken the blame if an angry CEO is he pops up suddenly in your department?

>>18434075
Her manager. I can't contact him. I dount the CEO will get involved just because an intern didn't make it. It's a big company.

I find my job very therapeutic, coming from a NEET of 4 years. Pretty much same as you though, only doughnuts.

>>18433868
Do you have any academic background? Go find a start-up on an area you enjoy.

>>18433868
I want to be productive and contribute to society. I think working at McDonald's is kind of an uncomfortable deal with the devil, but you could at least day dream or try to stay in the focus zone while you work all day. You also get paid a lot by most McDonald's standards. If you don't want the job, get a new one. If you have the job, try to appreciate it a tiny bit at least.

just pull your teeth out and get dentures

>>18433857
Can you get invisalign?
Also do you mean adult braces?

>>18433857
people don't ridicule me because my flat affect shuts everyone down, and I'm capable of being extremely psychologically abusive

anyway stop being pathetic and get the braces. it'll make you significantly more attractive to mate with.

>>18433856
Tinder?

>>18433866
He is 18, no one wants to date an 18 yo

>>18433934
You'll be surprised, don't knock it till you try it

He's crazy. Dump him, cut your losses, and move on.

I know the lyrics to every Taylor Swift song and have about 800 pictures of her on my computer. The only thing wrong with it is his shit taste in music.

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>>18433849
he sounds creepy as fuck

>>18433733
If you are ugly and have a shit personality, it will be harder for people to love you for who you are. It doesn't seem like a super complicated concept.
People love you for who you are if there is something to love about you.

>>18433733
>he fell for the "Just be urself" meme
Some people don't deserve love and respect and should do everything to change themselves.

Because some traits are more attractive than others. Shocking, I know. If you don't have attractive traits, then why the fuck would you expect to be able to get a SO?

>Doesn't this go completely against the concept of love being accepting other people for what they are?
Don't get all holier than thou and act like you'd date any girl, regardless of her looks, personality and background.

>>18433694

Wet dreams dont break your streak. Wait the full 90 days and then go for it. Never consume porn regularly and be aware what porn does to the brain

>>18433702
Things is, the reason I didn't fap for weeks was that I was too busy. Then I thought I might as well continue, but I didn't know that nofap doesn't allow porn, so looked at nude photos of some hot girls, yesterday. But I didn't masturbate. Does that mean my 4 weeks went into the trash?

Should edge instead

>>18433558
How are you health wise, mentally and physically?
Lets rule those out first

>>18433571
I'm fine in all three aspects, no major issues.

>>18433558
The problem is you. Force yourself to go out, meet people. Maybe you're just meant to be alone

>>18433500
> holding hands before sex
are you 5? it's perfectly fine, go for the pussy and enjoy whatever she is going to do

>>18433500
bring a box of condoms and a box of chocolates you bloody queer

and a bottle of something to wash it all down with

What are you, a fucking fag? Go slay some pussy before you regret it.

yes. the extend of human stupidity is infinite.

Anyone can "code" but not many can be software engineers. If you keep at it and you're a brainlette you'll probably find yourself on web development (hint, you mentioned python so you're already on your way there) - meaning you'll probably get paid alright but never work on interesting problems. If you're ok with this keep going.

But if you're wanting to get deeper and don't have the willpower you'll find yourself stuck and just be mad at yourself. Don't bother in that case. Find something else. Engineering isn't for everyone.

>>18433381

LOL op you got a chuckle out of me.

Listen, any monkey can put a couple of variables together and read the manuals of libraries. That's the easy part.

Coding is a vast subject and there's a lot of things that go into it, be it the general specifications and nature of the language you're using, or those of the framework you're using, or which patterns you're working with. It's all a big mess and there's a metric fuckton of books to read and things to learn if you ever want to be good at it theoretically

Don't be sad if you don't get it right away, computer science theory books might as well be post modernism philosophy books for how far up their own ass they are. They pretty much speak a language you have to gradually learn while reading them. Coding might be the single most poorly thought field of human knowledge as far as I know.

I wouldn't recommend going into these books right away, you should probably keep tinkering around and try to do increasingly more complicated little practice programs untill you get the hang of things. Try to do a program that list your folders based on a pathname. Try to do a program that can sort your folders. Try to do a program that can send requests to an IP and a port. That sort of thing will gradually give you familiarity with the concepts untill you're ready to get into the thick of things.