Hey, I'm trying to increase my sexual endurance. I know there are pills and gels, and they help, but I'm trying to get to the point where I can fuck for an hour or two daily. Besides daily exercise, what other methods are good for increasing your time in the bedroom. Currently I'm only at around 10-15 mins per fuck session. I think that's a good start, but I don't know how it is compared to others.
Any suggestions?
>>18426412
Why do you want to last that long?
>>18426412
Don't use gels or creams, they work by desensitising the area, and you don't want that. Other than developing better pacing, the best thing to do would be to increase your libido and decrease the length of your refractory period, so you can cum and just keep on going.
>>18426430
Yes but how?
>>18426422
Personal reasons.
When I and my girlfriend are having sex, there're a position (image), she really likes this position, but she said that my pelvic bone hurts her (I am a bit skinny).
What you guys think i have to do, so we can have sex in this position without hurting she. Gain some height? workout? please help.
The easiest way to fix it would be to put on a few pounds. You probably need them if your bones stick out like that.
>>18426390
Gain some weight or put some padding there
>>18426402
pounds = pillows?
What should I do tonight?
I need a night time hobby because I'm bored and don't want to get fat and spend money on alcohol.
>>18426331
yoga
>>18426331
night jogging/bicycling.
going out into the woods or a state park.
Most nights I listen to music and play chess on chess.com, that or watch streams or youtube.
Drawing could be a good night time hobby, you're not making noise doing that.
I'm considering a cornstarch and water based personal lube(can't afford real lube), but I can't find if it would be safe to use anally, advice?
>>18426244
now how the fuck do you think that's going to make proper lube? can you really not afford a $2 tube of lube? if you can't afford two fucking dollars you don't need to be having sex.
Use your spit.
Never stick questionable things up your ass. Google is your friend.
So story time: I took this chick to a wedding as my date. After ignoring me all night and flirting with every other guy at the reception she asked me to walk her to her car for a cigarette, and I ended up going down on her. After that the night ended pretty unevenftully. Fast forward a week I am in the hospital with a viral infection and a bacterial infection in my throat, and tonsillitis (I almost died). It has been three months and she has not spoken to me once since the wedding, but tonight she found out via one of my friends what happened, and sent me this:
""Hi. Rob told me what happened. There are no words I can say or things I can do that will make this right but I want you to know that I'm sorry... so so so so so sorry. I wish this didn't happen. I feel horrible. More than horrible. I don't think there is a word to really describe how bad I feel. I would never intentionally harm you in any way. I love you. My heart is broken."
So 4chan what do I say? I want your best here. Don't let me down.
>>18426207
by asking if she had any symptoms of her own either before or after
Pfff what a nasty bitch
Don't even reply...
>>18426256
2nd this
How do I stop masturbating if getting laid isn't an option? I masturbate every day and I know it's not good for me but sex isn't in the cards for the foreseeable future. The longest I ever managed to go without jerking was like one month and I just ended up losing my streak to jerk off to an omegle girl's nudes
masturbation is healthy
>>18426181
how is it unhealthy?
regardless, lets assume it is unhealthy, but for a man orgasms are a need. would jerking off once a week really be that big a deal?
>>18426191
>>18426190
I know it is good for the prostate but I feel drained and sluggish when I masturbate regularly, and I already have energy problems. Also, I don't think my testosterone levels are very high so I do not like wasting hormones.
>once a week
I've tried that, but it just opens the floodgates to daily masturbation again.
On a psychological health level, masturbating leads me to using darker and darker porn and it makes me uncomfortable
Where can I meet tall guys? I'm 5'6'' and I don't like being the tall one in the relationship :(
>>18426163
>5'6"
>tall
>>18426163
This bait is not serviceable quality.
they're plowing 5' sluts, sorry you don't make the cut
How do I get xanax? My drug dealers can't get their hands on prescription medicine for some reason.
darknet markets, are you from 2005?
>>18426126
stop taking drugs you degenerate. if you actually need anxiety medicine see a doctor.
>>18426176
Fuck off retard.
I met a girl online and I'm trying to get her to like me.
We live pretty close, and I am thinking I have a genuine shot with her, but I need some what of securing it for sure.
Shes into video games, Art, and Bad Sci fi movies, shes latina, and chubby, also is insecure about her freckles and frizzy hair... she really likes first person shooters, specially old ones, and is on the fence about buying Payday ultimate which I am thinking of buying for her...
How do I get her to notice me.
>>18426086
Get her the game, play together. Simple. Coming from a girl, I love playing video games with my partner, good times.
>>18426215
Its hard to, we play very different games, and she plays mostly single player games... Doom 2, Quake, stuff like that. Payday 2 is the only thing we play together, but I can't always get her on it.
>>18426366
Shit she into those classics! Hot damn! OP you need to get into some deathmatches with her
I need some serious advice.
So last night my mother came into my bedroom telling me to sign something, a piece of paper that was in her hands. I asked her what it was and she said stop talking back and sign it. I looked at it and it required my signature and social security, full. I asked her again and she said something about food stamps, and that I need to stop being disrespectful before she beats me. So I did, though I didn't want to.
Now, for context I'm 18, about to go to college in less than a month. I really don't want to be on foodstamps in college, but I think she's just going to use it for herself, as she's fucked over people like this for years. But I don't want to just blatantly say that she forced me to be on foodstamps in college, precisely because I don't exactly know what the form was. Can someone please explain to me what I may have signed?
Did I sign my life away?
>>18426040
>Can someone please explain to me what I may have signed?
How the fuck are we supposed to know, it could have been anything.
>>18426046
From what I could read, it was one of those pages that had the "I, (name here), hereby..." at the top, 9 spaces to the side of that for my SSN, and my signature at the bottom. She wouldn't let me look over it, so that's all I could see
Actually, I found the form online. Here it is.
So tell me, am I fucked?
A person shared a secret to me and now i can't talk normally to them anymore
is this normal ? will it go away after a while?
i want to go back like i used to be with them but i feel anxious talking to them now
they had already shared a lot and none of them fazed me but i can't help but be bother by this
i feel like a horrible person because they trusted me
Also i dating this person.
>>18426025
I had an almost opposite situation. I told a friend a secret, and I could feel it bothered him. He couldn't give me what I needed :/ I needed to feel safe and instead we argued about technicalities... There was some romantic interest involved...
I don't know if your feeling goes away :/ but try to remember that they are more than their secret, if that makes sense in this case...
>>18426131
I'm sorry anon
In my case i really want to make this work but recently he called me and i was holding back my tears i couldn't talk like i used to and i think he noticed
>>18426200
I think you should at least give it some time, but I don't know how bad it is...
You probably shouldn't talk about the problems all the time, sometimes it helps to talk, but if you talk about things too much, you just dig a deeper hole and bathe in the negativity...
I have spent the last five years toiling away in school. I got a chemical engineering degree and I don't currently have a job, aside from tutoring part time. I spend all of my time in school studying, except towards the end when my soul and dreams were crushed when I just regressed into wasting my time on the internet like I did in high school.
I am currently living with my dad. I have a car. I have been using dating sites because I have too much time and I am bored.
I have been on two dates so far. They were coffee dates and awkward because I am a really boring person. The first one, lasted three hours and we both desperately wanted to connect and find something to talk about anything. I felt like I got put in a trance because she was talking so much . I apologized to her when I got home and she texted me back saying she had enjoyed talking to me. I think it was clear to both of us that we didn't form a connection.
The second one, was with someone who was really enthusiastic to meet. I wasn't, but I had free time so I just met up with them anyways just for practice.
In college I wasn't able to connect with anyone because I don't do anything interesting. I never got to know anyone in group projects. I am an extremely defensive person and I suck at conversation, likely due to lack of practice. I just always destroy the topic of the conversation by steering it in the wrong direction. I tend to isolate myself and it was not uncommon to spend a whole weekend without having a conversation with another person.
I messaged a girl last night and she gave me her number and told me to set something up. I haven't yet. I am willing to do another coffee date, but the last two didn't go well, since I am so boring.
>The point
how do I hide my lack of personality from my date? What is the best thing to talk about considering I have no friends and haven't done anything exciting or interesting in the last five years?
Think you should get rid of the idea that you're not interesting
You know tons of stuff and might even have a few hobbies or favorite shows? Go into the date trying to be yourself and if it works, so be it.
Learn. There's thousands of years of history, brutal, beautiful, incredible history to talk about. You were actually born yesterday, compared to the incredible richness of stories and topics that have literally never been easier in human history to find.
Learn about 16th century shipmaking. Learn about traditional Indonesian instruments. Learn about the father of the impressionists. Read Moby Dick. Read White Fang. Read the karma sutra.
Go to the beach/park/mountains/on a drive/whiskey tasting/fishing/to renaissance fairs/glass blowing classes/abandoned buildings by yourself, for no reason other than to enjoy and learn. If you don't do cool things, GO DO THEM. That's it there's no codeword (although most urban exploration communities have to know you for a while before they open up about places) to go do interesting things.
If you meet somebody at pottery class or a rodeo or flying stunt kites at the beach, there's an excellent chance that's something they usually do and that makes them a more interesting person. If you meet them online, or at a shitty dive bar, that's what they probably do a lot and they're as boring as you are now.
Learn about everything you can. Take up hobbies, and not to impress somebody specifically, on your own, now. Practice speaking and do fun things.
Being interesting isnt like hair color, you arent "born with it or not". You don't hide lack of personality. You go fucking get one. Do what you enjoy and what makes you better until you find someone else doing similar things and bang each other.
And wear a condom dumbass.
>>18425903
Talk about what you find interesting, and I don't mean chemical engineering, I mean something that she could relate to emotionally that excites you.
Sometimes it doesn't even matter what it is that you're talking about as long as it makes you excited. If she likes you, she'll follow suit.
If no matter what you get excited about, she doesn't seem interested, then it's probably not that you're not interesting, it's more that she just isn't in to you.
Hopefully you get the former and not the latter. Good luck!
I'm still a virgin, she's not, and I'm really into her and want her to be my first, we talked about this and she said she's worried about me being pressured to perform well. I just hope I'm not being cucked and sex never happening. Should I just make a move when I see her next or wait until we're both comfortable, I just have no idea how to go about this.
Make a move bro and have fun, you aren't going to be an expert the first time nobody is. You learn from experience.
Yeah. Dont make a big deal about it and if shes half as considerate about it as you make her sound shell probs make sure its a good time for you. Just keep an open mind and have fun my dude and dont hold back getting frisky if the mood is right -when you are cuddling hanging out alone etc.
I was in the same situation in high except I wasn't a virgin. It was sophomore year I only had 2 girls under my belt. Dated a girl who was a virgin for 6 months and she'd tell me we were going to do it every weekend. Well, every time we started messing around she'd get all skiddish and weird like I was trying to rape her or something. So I'd just stop and cuddle with her so she didn't feel bad for not being able to do the dirty. That went on for a while then finally one of her close family members told me she was sexually abused by her father. That explained a lot. And it also made me realize she was a budding psychopath. At around that time I found out she was talking to both me and my best friend and neither of us knew. She had him convinced that me and her had broken up (to this day I still don't know why she did this) but anyways we both found out and decided to drop her and stay friends. Long story short sex saves relationships.
So I've been seeing this girl for almost 2 weeks now. Nice girl. Seems extremely interested in in me. We text each other everyday. When it comes to intimacy, the most we've done is kiss one time. No sex. As of last night, I started chatting with another girl whom has a little more in common as I do. I honestly find her slightly more attractive than the other one which is also a plus. I'm debating on whether or not I should date this new girl just to see for myself whether or not she's better for me. However, I really don't want to give the first girl the wrong idea about me if I decide to stop seeing her for said reason. What's the best way to handle a situation like this?
>>18424012
>We text each other everyday
right there. It was the third sentence of your post. This is where you are fucking up
>>18424012
As long as you are non-exclusive in dating, you're good.
The moment "so are you seeing anyone else?" pops up, you'll need to make a choice.
Take this situation very slowly. Don't base your decision off of attractiveness or convenience. You could be playing for keeps. One of those girls could end up caring about you more than anyone ever has.
One day one of those girls could be bending over backwards for you and helping you get through life and all its complications. It's all about choices. Examine the choices they make in the next couple weeks while you get to know them, then make your choice of which is best for you.
Also, no matter how convinced you are that you can completely trust someone, stay on your toes. Don't get played. Females become more and more sinister with each generation. Always make sure you're aware of their motives.
>be me, 24 y/o male with a B.A. in Psychology and no idea what I want to do with my career
>Currently living in Spokane, WA (small-ish city of about 300k people with little to offer for young people my age other than a plethora of bars and plenty of hard drugs)
>Recently lived in Las Vegas for ~4 months (first time living without my parents and outside of Spokane)
>Didn't work out and recently moved back home (went there with a girl and came back b/c she dumped me and I had no way of staying in Vegas)
>Trying to figure out wtf I wanna do with my life now that the plans I had made with ex gf are ruined
>Feel like I need to get out of this boring little town
>No clue how tf I could afford it on my own
>Don't know anyone that lives anywhere I want to go that could help me out
So anons, does anyone have some good advice for moving to a new city all by myself? I have a decent work history, but all my experience is in customer service, which is not really much of a career option and is unlikely to be able to provide me enough income to support myself in a larger city. I've been doing a lot of research and I'd like to move somewhere like Portland, OR or Seattle, WA, but rent is so expensive there and I have no clue how I could afford it without getting a roommate (which I'd prefer to avoid for many reasons). Is there some kind of secret or is my only option to apply for and hope to get a job that will pay me close to $20 an hour, or suck it up and have a roommate?
I'm desperate here, I'm so sick of this town but I don't know how the fuck I'll ever get out of here unless I start a career here and hope to make the move after I've had a couple years of experience in whatever field I wind up in. However, establishing a career and gathering experience is kind of the point of moving to a new city as Spokane is small and doesn't have as many opportunities as a bigger metropolis would.
Pls help
>>18423643
Anyone?
Also if more info is needed, or if anyone has recommendations as to where a good city to move to is, let me know.
>>18423643
There's no miracle answer to these problems. You have to compromise on some things. Can you really not accept having a room mate? If you cannot live with another person then I imagine you're not going to be great to work with either and so will be limited in the jobs you can do too.
Learn to compromise. Beggars can't be choosers.
Aside from that pick a cheap city. Living in an expensive city with little money quickly turns the place into a nightmare. I lived in London, England for a bit on minimum wage and the result was that I now hate the place haha
>>18424471
I get along with people just fine, I'd just prefer to take extra steps to ensure I'm not dependent on anyone else, if at all possible. That is good advice though, and you are right, I'd rather live with a roommate than attempt to move by myself and fail.