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Yes it will suffice. C++ has been around way longer than quad core processors, you'll be fine

As long as you don't use some resource hungry IDEs, old computers shouldn't face much trouble. Rest assured.

>>18486654
> weak ass quad core processor
First thing to learn is probably how fucking fast that "weak ass" quad core processor actually is.

But sure, it should work just fine.

Doctors dude

Red blood means it's on the lower end of the intestine, which means it isn't getting digested, and is likely from the rectum. Though it may not be. If you are constipated or haven't been having enough fiber, that can cause hard stools which causes bleeding.

But if you have a family history, go see a doctor to make sure.

>>18486588
Yeah I guess thats the obivous choice, honestly scared to find out whats wrong which in the back of my mind makes me want to put it off. Fuck it I know your right tho I will force myself to make an appointment tomorrow morning. (might switch doctors since last one is 100% incompetent)

>>18486582
Leave the house every day
Get a job
Talk to a lot of different people

Get a job and start lifting.

I'd start with two things-
1. Get a driver's license.
2. Get a job.

Even if you're just flipping burgers, give yourself a reason to leave the house. Heck, your family might appreciate you taking the initiative and will help you out.

I can't exactly tell you how to change your self-esteem and such, but you can at least try. Try to improve your self image, eat better, get out to the gym from time to time.

It's good you are aware of yourself and want to change, you just gotta take it in stages.

>>18486535
I've had suicidal thoughts before, and it isn't as dramatic as it sounds. Sure, if you really sit down and think about it you'll freak the fuck out, but when you're in the moment it's more like trying to pick which room to clean first in your house. It's not an overwhelming, pulsing urge. It's just an option that seems to make a lot more sense than it actually does. That's my take on it at least, don't know how someone else would deal.

Suicide is for pussies and serves no purpose. You're probably like 15-30 in age which is a fucking speck of time in your full lifetime. In fact if you were only 15 and not 30 you'd have a full time life again to live before you're even 30. People who kill themselves are idiots because life will and can always change.

>>18486535
Suicides are often spur of the moment impulses in most cases, they come from thoughts like >>18486549 mentioned. There are however some people who have long since considered the pros and cons of suicide and opted to end their life through a well planned out method, generally you only see that in people with a very long standing untreated mental illness or a terminal illness. There are also other cases were the thought of killing oneself becomes an overwhelming invasive though because no other option seems viable in life.

>>18486531
>Please advise me how to sense a nice guy or at least a guy won't go after a hookup?

Well first off you do NOT want a nice guy.

If you want a guy who isn't going to immediately try to grab you by the pussy then go after a guy who doesn't display much interest in you. Look for someone that can be in the same general area as you that doesn't give you unneeded attention. Then give him attention,get a date and shit test him to see if he can consistently establish he cares about himself and won't sacrifice so easily for you(EX: "Can I drive your car"). Assuming he passes, you have your guy.

>>18486603
If I go after a guy doesn't show much there's chances he doesn't like me as well.
I just don't know how can I choose guys badly, always ended up with chad.

>>18486531
Let me translate this topic for you guys:
>I'm looking for beta orbiters. Who wants to provide for me xD!

>>18486526
"If you will slip me a child, I will break up with you and rather go to jail than pay child support".

There you go.

>>18486526
I would wait. I'm 31 and I had my son at 29. I feel like that is around the right age to have a kid. Early to mid 20s should be about having fun, dating around, and establishing yourself at a job.

>>18486526
>when is the "right" time to have kids?

It depends on the person but I think the best is when you're about 30. By then you've probably made all the large personal expenses you have wanted to make for yourself and have a job you can see yourself doing up until retirement

20-26 is just too damn early IMO. You've still got potential left to adventure there.

When you remove suffering and pain, what remains must be what is called happiness.

>>18486513
How do you remove pain and suffering?

>>18486513
without suffering and pain you can never hope to achieve inner happiness.

>>18486408
Yes, Top in the country doesn't mean you're going to like it. Also if you can't afford it you won't be able to go anyway maybe only the first year.

Shouldn't you have saved up before applying...?

>>18486414
I know I'd like it, i just want a good degree

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bump, pls gib reply

I know my questions are broad but even a little piece of advice would be nice.

>>18486399
>>18486561

Post a picture of a girl you'd be interested in dating. doesn't have to be someone you know, although it wouldn't hurt.

>>18486583
If the point of this was to make me think about the kind of girl I'd want to date... you got me. This seems like the easiest part, but I have no idea really. Or more accurately, I have very vague and conflicting ideas. How big of a problem is this?

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>>18486230
Let me clarify that I do have one good friend I've know my whole life. Nobody else now--I only had a lot of friends before high school happened.

>>18486239
known*

>>18486230
Nice pic. What are your dreams OP?

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>>18486049
always get the number first, then decide later. you might be misjudging her. ALWAYS get the number, then get to know her and decide if you want to dump sum fuk into her.

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>>18486054
I honeslty would feel empty after, mostly because I'm infatuated with this other girl. I don't know what to do in terms of this sometimes. Sometimes I think "Screw her I'll find someone." But I can't seem to develop these feelings for other girls, then again maybe I should engage other girls more, but it's going to take a while before I find anyone that would make my heart beat faster.

How do I let go guys ;_;

>>18485885
bump

>>18485885
Friendzoned by a lesbian, wew lad

>>18485985
It's not a friendzone technically, but yeah.

>>18485826
you can always take a year off and work. then make your mind up theres no rush.

>>18485826
Trial and error will determine your career or even if you attend college. Just go into a general field of interest. If you like science and law go to a state university. You can always transfer later if you don't like the school.

You're panicking for no reason, play by year and take life as it comes. Not everything always goes to plan.

>>18485861
Please listen to this. Don't go to college straight away especially if you don't know what to study

What's wrong with feminists?

>>18485821
bait

>>18485779

wanting a wife is taking what most people consider a very romantic concept and turning it into a basic business transaction.

if romance is supposed to be special than how can specifically looking for a wife be special?

another problem is you already know the answer, church, but you are too good for church but too good for normal girls and are expecting a magical third option.

conservative girls are like anyone else. they're everywhere. if you go out and interact you'll find them. they may be more rare, especially at 28 cuz most of them would have already settled down by now.

I have a short fuse, they help with it. A lot.

I posted in the scuicide thread same info-
Back when I was going to off myself I decided to try and get better.

I took Prozac to get myself on track back when I wasn't eating, couldn't get out of bed, and didn't even bother showering for days. Really bad depression- I wanted to die.

I took it long enough to start keeping up good habbits like exercise, healthy diet, and getting regular sunlight.
The doctor said once you start you have to stay on for almost ever and that's fucking bullshit.
I know these are meds made my companies trying to get you hooked and paying- but I needed the seratonin boost in my brain if I was going to get better.

Research SSID's and how they work.

I took it long enough to maintain being healthy and happy for about 2-3 months, then quit.

You'll get a depression drop for like 2 weeks but if you hang onto all your good habbits and exercise you'll come out fine and much better than before.
I first attempted scuicide at a very young age and have been chronically depressed my whole life for no good reason.
( I did have very good reason to be depressed when I started the Prozac however)
I'm the happiest and healthiest I've been all my life now at 27 years old. It's been 4 years since I hit rock bottom and I still take prozac sometimes.
It takes about 2-3 days to feel the effects and I only use it for about a weeks time- I don't feel the depression dives anymore when I hop off either.

Hope this helps!

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>>18485737
been on sertraline since march and this has been the result so far
>no longer contemplating suicide
>motivation has augmented itself enough that I now can feel like starting and doing things again
>no longer feel like the miserable secret of life's true pointlessness is exactly true, or, rather, I just don't think about it, which eased up my existential crisis by a hell of a lot
>no longer have sudden lows where I end up crying for hours

The not so good part about it are the side effects like major derealization, but that eventually disappears.
That aside, in my case, antidepressants still haven't cured my trouble getting up in the morning where I just feel miserably tired and can barely keep my eyes open, but then, I don't a lot of people who take antidepressants face this shitty ass curse.

Long story short, they're definitely worth it if you feel like you've hit (or are about to hit) rock bottom and can't get your shit together med-free.