Hey so last Friday I was at a party, and I am a virgin. While I was there there was a thicc qt that was flirtinf with me. I didn't end up making a move for two reasons. First the cops busted the party, but also I don't like this girl or anything and have feeling for this other girl. I didn't want to lose my virginity to a hoe. My friend says I'm making a big deal out of it, and should've at least asked for her number. I just don't think I would've enjoyed it or be satisfied if I didn't do it with someone who I atleast liked a bit. What do you guys think?
>>18486049
always get the number first, then decide later. you might be misjudging her. ALWAYS get the number, then get to know her and decide if you want to dump sum fuk into her.
>>18486054
I honeslty would feel empty after, mostly because I'm infatuated with this other girl. I don't know what to do in terms of this sometimes. Sometimes I think "Screw her I'll find someone." But I can't seem to develop these feelings for other girls, then again maybe I should engage other girls more, but it's going to take a while before I find anyone that would make my heart beat faster.
How do I let go guys ;_;
>>18486085
>>18486107
shit, my nigga. I call this "song". Every day I awake hearing some girl's song in my head. Song is the essence of a woman, her call. I have many loves, so every day I hear another woman's call, and I live my day based on it. It's hard to get rid of a woman's song if you don't want it there. I have no idea how to get rid of a woman's song except to get another's woman song in your head. So, my advice is to just try to get to know other women. get numbers, text them, get to know them, you will be surprised at how you connect with other women, then the original woman's song will be much diminished in your head.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lciJZWD_Fmw
>>18486049
I used to be like that when I was a young lad...
Now I've learned the truth, you can fuck anyone. If you hate her, gorilla fuck the bitch.
>>18486085
You're thinking of girls as an either or kind of deal. You can fuck this girl while still hoping for things to work out with the other one. You don't need to declare your undying love to every girl you dick. It'll give you a good sense of perspective of sex vs love.
Also the way you talk about it makes me think you've made no moves towards this other chick. Do something about that.
>>18486113
Well there is this redhead qt I see at my college's library. I don't think she's doing the summer semester tho, will have to wait till fall I guess.
>>18486129
Amen brother..
I've had girls that neither of us gave a shit about the other one (no talk of personal life), just fantastic sex.
I feel my current lady was so good in bed though, it drew me to like her...
>>18486129
Thing is....she's going out with someone who's kind of a friend of mine. I mean I don't like to say we're friends because I want to steal her from him. The reason I don't do it is because that's wrong, and because we've always gotten along. So the social backlash wouldn't be worth it.
>>18486140
she's dating your friend?? and you refused to get another girl's number?? over a girl who's dating your friend?? wew fucking lad
>>18486154
:/, I mean I liked her before he even met her. I just stopped flirting with her when I found out she had a bf out of respect. From what I've heard he was doings things with her while she was still going out with that other guy. Seeing that wew lad though did put things into perspective
>>18486163
Move the fuck on man, it's an amazing feeling when you know you don't need a specific person and you can easily go find someone else