how do I stop being a manchild? I am 20, no drivers license,

>>18486582
Leave the house every day
Get a job
Talk to a lot of different people

Get a job and start lifting.

I'd start with two things-
1. Get a driver's license.
2. Get a job.

Even if you're just flipping burgers, give yourself a reason to leave the house. Heck, your family might appreciate you taking the initiative and will help you out.

I can't exactly tell you how to change your self-esteem and such, but you can at least try. Try to improve your self image, eat better, get out to the gym from time to time.

It's good you are aware of yourself and want to change, you just gotta take it in stages.

>>18486597
sorry forgot to mention that I already have a job (at Sonic) I hate it, but it is a living

Lmao the wizard virgin jokes never get old

>>18486607
t.stacey

>>18486607
>beginning to understand the fabric of reality
>can feel the arcane energies coalescing within me
>only 5 more months until I am reborn

Dude if you wait out 10 more years you can be a wizard though

>>18486618
i would prefer not

I don't know what to tell you except that I am in the exact same boat. The anxiety is real when I drive

>>18486622
well glad I'm not the only that can stand to benefit from this thread

>>18486600
Do you live in Florida? Maybe central Florida? East Coast... Florida..

>>18486653
Texas

>>18486653
but how is that important?

>>18486582
I have a well paying job, car, apt, dress well, been lifting 2 years.... still no self esteem.

>>18486656
>>18486657
Nothing, thought you were a similar person who lives here. It gets kind of annoying ferrying them to and from Sonic every now and then when someone else isn't doing it.

>>18486659
I have lots of self esteem but no car or girlfriend and I still live with my parents.

I was in a similar funk at your age (25 now). The only things that will help are DOING something, as other people mentioned. Get a job, lift, work on hobbies, get your license, etc. As long as your motion is forward, you will improve and your shortcomings will fall further to the back of your mind.

The key, and the hard part, is to start the forward motion and don't stop. Once you do though, you will realise how stupid you sounded bitching about your low self esteem and feeling sorry for yourself while not actively doing anything to better your situation. Good luck anon.

>>18486584
This, but in my personal experience, I did this everyday and failed miserably, it only made me a bitter and cynical person.

>>18486582
Well, get a driver's license if you need one (in the USA, you obviously typically do - there is fuck all for public transport in most places)?

In most countries they basically hand them out to just about everyone, they're super easy to get.

And I guess you should aim for a job, 'cause money is an annoying thing not to have. Whether you then move out or stay at home is really your and your parent's decision.