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Thursday night I was at work and tripped and fell and broke my Tibia and Fibula. I had surgery this (Saturday) to install a titanium rod to the Tibia (smaller front bone). I'm going out of my mind here. Any tips for entertaining ones self?
Anyone else break theirs? My meds are barely taking the edge off. I'm getting 2 7.5 pink norco every four hours and 4 units ( I have no idea exactly how much, I wanna say microgram?) of Morphine when the Norco doesn't cut it.
Plus seriously, breaking two bones from tripping? I feel like this must be a joke.
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>>18571000
you have internet, thats more then a lot of people had back in the day to keep themselves preoccupied, you could also try meditation
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Valid point. I've been having a bit of difficulty keeping my eyes open for more than a minute or so at a time.
I was watching Star Trek:TNG (more listening than watching) but I can't keep much focus.
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I recently moved across the country to be the "unicorn" for a married couple. If it matters, we're all cis. I'm a woman dating a man and another woman. Anyways, the guy is kind of rapey and I don't know how to deal with it because I have sexual trauma. He tried to fuck me after I took my ambien and a huge dab. I had to tell him no twice. I said I couldn't consent and then had to flat out say "hey no." He thinks he's cute and charming when he does this. He tried to put his hand in my panties this morning but I have a urinary tract infection which makes me feel gross and ashamed. I told him he better not. I might be more okay with random sex after I feel less gross but idk. He even admitted rape/the person being asleep are part of his fetishes. Part of me thinks it's flattering but overall it makes me uncomfortable right now. How can I get more into his kink? I don't want my trauma to ruin intimacy for me.
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What the fuck
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>>18570994
fucking sit down and talk about it. does that not cross you mind?
Tell him you want to get more into his kink but need some reassurance and trust or something. Nothing gets done unless you talk about stuff.
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>>18570996
right
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Been seeing this girl for a few months now. And have recently found out she's friends with her ex whom she were together with for 4 or so years.
She hangs out with him, just the two of them. And she tells me when she does and says she doesn't keep any secrets of any kind about their relationship, but i just cant seem to calm my head about this.
I guess my question is wether this is a girl i should continue to be with, or if i'm just wasting my time here.
She seems quite honest, and i'm known for worrying a lot and letting things get to my head (i get jealous quite easy).
It's difficult since i really like her, and she seems really into me, but the worrying is really tiring stuff.
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>>18570985
well she did spend 4 years of her life with this guy. But i'd question how they broke up. Maybe the fell out of love but still liked being friends. You can also put her through some truth tests.
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She tells me he started ignoring her. And didnt feel she was being "seen" or something in those tracks. It's just odd. They have regular contact, and talk as far as i know pretty much everyday on facebook, and hang out once, and sometimes two times a week.
I cant make up my mind on wether she still has feelings for him (She claims she doesn't) or not
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>>18571039
ya i get it, it is fucking weird. If he was "distant" then wouldn't he still be like that? why would she hang out with someone who's distant? how long ago did they break up?
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Hey, /adv/
The advice I need isn't necessarily for me but for my friend's sister. She's a 15-year-old with gender dysphoria, self inflicted wounds, anorexia and possibly schizophrenia.
She's fucking "edgy lol rawr xD" but besides that, she says she hears a specific voice in her head named Alex and cuts herself often. I don't have the full picture of her psychologically but she did say she was admitted to a mental hospital and consistently sees her therapists. Her future is gonna be cut short, and she even admits she doens't want help.
But I wanna help her bros. Any ADV on how I can? I'm desperate.
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>>18570978
>doesn't want help
you cant help people who don't want it
anything beyond that. you just have to be more forceful or hit this problem at every angle till you find a crack in her wall she built.
why do you want to help her?
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>>18570982
I've known her for years and I don't want to see her die by suicide.
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>>18571088
then do anything to stop it. become best friends with her make her feel needed idk any shit that doesn't make her feel like killing her self let her know theres someone out there that cares about her.
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I'm on day 2. And I was just reading online that month 3 is supposed to be the hardest? What the fuck? There are days that are harder than your first second and third day?
Also, people say they cave in and start smoking a year after quitting, does this mean ill be a smoker who's not allowed to smoke my entire life?
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>>18570961
if you fail just buy a loosie or two or three or four. don't buy a pack. harm reduction.
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>>18570962
failing isn't the problem, I feel okay right now. I mean its hard, but i've cut down at least 5 major cravings today.
My problem is just that I dont understand why people go back to smoking a year after being quit, does that mean smokers never turn into non smokers? They're just smokers who aren't allowed to smoke?
Also, people are saying the fatigue from quitting doesnt go away 4 months into quitting?
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>>18570961
why not vape?
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Is there a way to kys but make it seem like you just disappeared? Isn't there always going to be something for them to identify the body with, like fingerprints?
A-asking for a friend.
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>>18570949
Sail out into the ocean and tie cinder blocks to your feet and jump in.
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>>18570986
How long would it take to pass out if you put a bag on your head? Sounds better than drowning.
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>>18570999
If you really wanted to kill yourself you wouldn't care about that at all
how do I improve my social skills while isolated?
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>>18570927
start of with the basics. Stop isolating yourself and start talking to people you interact with. Join clubs. Go to events and talk to people.
You cant get better at things if you don't do them, ie get better at socializing but stay isolated. Gaining more confidence also helps. Pep talk yourself.
your not in a deep cave or in space so theres no reason to be isolated.
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>>18570927
you really don't. that's like asking how to retain your gains while not lifting.
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Question for non-incels 2017-07-30 01:40:12 Post No.18570924
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I *actually* met an exceptional woman who I really relate to. It's not 'oneitis' (a.k.a. an obsession); I have fucked two girls since then, and I'm not in love with this person. I just sort of idolize them, because they are beautiful, kind, and a literal genius.
The only problem is that I was in a really pathetic state when I knew her, and I broke up with her friend/housemate, who was a fat bitch I'm probably going to get some cubicle job at an insurance company, and then won't meet anyone odd or exceptional anymore, at least not for many years.
What should I do? We stopped talking, and I'm either busy or depressed lately, but I would really like to see her again. She's public on Facebook. I don't have one.
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>>18570924
make a facebook and chat her up. Whats the worst thing that can happen?
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>>18570929
Given the context, I might need to make a more attractive offer than how I am in my current form. Does that make sense? Every year I improve. I'm still in proto mode right now, like a kid almost, although I do live alone. She's two years younger than me and has graduated an ivy league school.
In the past year, I tried to meet up with my ex desperately, then got drunk and called my ex a sociopath...over Facebook. She might know all this happened.
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maybe I should cover a song she likes? is that stupid?
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Who was in the wrong here 2017-07-30 01:37:35 Post No.18570916
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Who was in the wrong here
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>old coworker (not a superior) gets extremely buttblasted whenever he sees me lazing around (after I've completed the day's work
>gets buttflusterted whenever I take a lunch break a minute longer than the alloted half hour
>gets buttmad if I take a shit too long
>get buttroasted if I'm even a minute late
>one day orders me to go to the boss and tell him everything I did "wrong"
>I don't
>he complains himself but the boss takes my side since he likes me and says old coworker doesn't have authority
Who was in the wrong here?
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He's in the wrong for getting upset when he's just an employee as long as it didn't increase his workload.
You're in the "wrong" for not finding something constructive to do while still clocked in even if you finished your workload.
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>>18570916
sounds like he has assburgers or something.
Your defiantly in the right. You still doing your job. You're just a little more laid back with the rules. He obviously cant handle "rule breaking" just tell him to fuck off or fuck with him and make it seem like your doing even worse shit.
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>>18570921
We're maintenance. On any given day there are like 5-7 hours of work to be done in an 8 hour shift
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Any anons private investigator ? 2017-07-30 01:31:35 Post No.18570890
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Any anons private investigator ?
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Im very interested in being a detective or something crime related but I also don't want to be killed or kill anyone (unless it's necessary), Is private investigation a good choice ? Should I choose criminology or criminal justice ?
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>>18570890
you're not going to make it as a private investigator without the connections that you gain working as some form of law enforcement or you work under an actual PI and can use him.
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>>18570890
yeah get into law enforcement.
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>>18570900
So I should start as an officer ?
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I am supremely bored and it's exacerbated by just not wanting to do anything at all.
There's no shortage of things to do. I have some stuff around me to pick up a hobby, like get gud at a video game, clean up the apartment, cook a somewhat decent meal, play a song on the keyboard, volunteer, read, go for a bike ride, etc...
The thing is, I just don't want to do anything. I have all this shit I could be doing, but if I put myself to the task, I just feel shitty. I just wake up to work, sleep when I get home because it's exhausting, wake up to eat something quick, then usually just lay around until its time to go to bed.
I can cook delicious meals, but I'm so fucking lazy most of the time, and when I force myself, I just lose my appetite and end up tossing it or shoving it in the fridge until it goes bad. My pay also doesn't really let me go and do things, I don't even have a car.
I don't know where I'm going with this. My life just feels empty, but empty is the least painful state of existence too.
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>>18570883
A guess: You are putting too much pressure on yourself and carrying the expectations of others (parents?). Let go.
Its ok to live however you want. You have MY permission.
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>>18570883
thats the problem. When people have to many options they get overwhelmed and choose to do nothing. Cut down the things you can do to a few things. then work up from there. Like essential things that need to get done.
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>>18570883
get a better job. Build up yourself. you can go up or down. its up to you. find the thing that makes you tic and use it as emotional fuel to get yourself where you want to go.
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College Gap Year (Would-Be Sophomore) 2017-07-30 01:24:21 Post No.18570861
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Thoughts on taking a gap year after my freshman year?
Pros for gap year:
>recently found out my financial aid is decreasing for the Fall 2017 semester, making it barely affordable.
>didn't really like it there. Made a few friends but overall just didn't like the vibe. It's a very introverted engineering school in the North-east.
>my mental health is about to hit rock bottom. It's been in decline for the past 5 years, my depression is hitting critical levels, I'm not joking. I don't know what will happen if I try to grind out the next 3 years.
Cons:
>Leaving all my friends
>Will have to start off as a sophomore in 2 years elsewhere.
>Risk not being accepted into a good school again. I consider myself lucky to have even gotten into where I'm currently attending, it's considered a very good engineering school.
>Risk getting an even worse financial aid package.
The last two points are my biggest worry, otherwise taking a gap year would be the clear choice. But I seriously have no idea what to do. So, anyone have any experience with gap years? How would it affect my future?
Also, are there any fees associated with dropping out? I'm not exactly keen on emailing the registrar about dropping out since I'm also in the middle of finaid negotiations...
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I'm 21, girlfriend is 19. Been together for a couple months now. Everything is perfect but the "act perfect" phase is now transitioning into the "how the rest of the relationship is gonna be" phase.
She lives four hours away and because of some issues with her car she hasn't been able to drive so I've been driving. Last time when I was coming back after staying over for 3 days, she told me to facetime her as soon as I got home.
I told her nah I'm tired I just wanna chill with my mom and drink tea with her (cultural thing) etc.
She kind of gets sad/frustrated and it kinda triggers me so I tell her that she should force me and control me to talk to her because it makes me feel suffocated. Again I've been with her for 3 days I just need time to destress and shit.
Its been two days and she's still giving me shit for what I said. I'm tired of it and she's not getting over that shit.
She wants me to text her and call her more otherwise she wont feel like I'm doing "anything extra to make her feel better about the situation because she feels unwanted" because of what I said,
Thing is though, we talk and text and are facetiming all the time and she wants MORE for her to feel better about the situation. I DONT wanna spend all fucking day texting and facetiming and shit because its just too much. I got other shit to do.
Like yesterday she gave me grief for going out to the grocery store with my mom and my brother and took too long. Then when she told me that she was going to sleep (passive aggressively telling me that i'm taking too long), I told her "okay good night I'll text you when I get home anyways in-case you're still awake. If not, then I'll talk to you tomorrow"
She got upset at me for that because I was supposed to say something like "no please okay don't go to sleep" Like what the fuck is this shit?
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Then last night I stayed up all night playing videogames with my friends. I don't usually do this. I'm a college student with some free time. I just wanted to play games with my friends.
Today she got mad at me because I slept in and couldn't talk to her. EVEN THOUGH SHE HAD TO LEAVE AT 8 AM. She was expecting me to wake up and text her all day.
Then when I actually woke up there was an emergency with my mom so I didn't text my girlfriend for like an hour and 20 minutes (I was sleepily texting her everytimeI get a text).
She got upset at me because I didn't text her during the emergency or as soon as I woke up.
And here we are now. She's still fucking mad at me. Literally feel like a horrible boyfriend right now but I know I'm not. She's just making me feel like I am.
"You don't try"
"You didn't even do what you were gonna say" (Text and call more than usual)
What the fuck do I do?
This is the only thing that's wrong in the relationship. What can I do to fix it? Is there even anything I can do to make her not act this way? Do I just abandon?
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>>18570859
She's insecure and probably doesn't fully trust you on some level. Try to talk to her about it.
Realize however that this is probably just her being her. And that leaves you with a choice: deal or walk. I know which one I'd choose.
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>>18570859
sounds like she has a lot of insecurity, possibly abandonment issues.
is she a good gf despite smothering you? is she loyal, good hearted, and nice to be around?
It may be worth sticking around if she agrees to go to therapy to work on her personal shit.
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Can someone explain this feeling?
I often feel like I'm missing out on the world. I feel like I've wasted the past 18 years of my life trapped in my small town.
I feel like I'm isolated and not involved in the bigger picture.
I have a burning desire to always be in the know and I long to see it all and be apart of the now.
But as I lay in my dimly lit room, staring at my screen day after day, I have never felt more isolated or uninvolved in anything.
This feeling drove me so nuts I enlisted in the air force.
Now I'm worried I'll miss out on my early twenties....
I just want to make the most of this life. I feel so trapped.
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I am 31. The feeling will get worse with age if you isolate yourself for too long. Your advantage is that you are still young. Force yourself to try new things. Casually chat up random people if you can. If you sit at the screen for too long I promise you will wonder where the time went 10 years later and you might want to end it.
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>>18570849
you have FOMO
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>>18570849
read the news
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How do I become better about showing my emotions and being outgoing? It probably stems from some shit in my childhood and I've had friends and family tell me that i'm too introverted and cold. I don't really know what to do but I feel like its been whats preventing me from having a romantic relationship. So whats the solution, just fake it till I make it?
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