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Just went on a date with a cowoker last night....only to have her tell me the next day that she thinks I'm great but she doesn't date coworkers, as a rule. Should I take this as being rejected? Any hope for a relationship one day if/when we aren't coworkers?
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>>18570404
>Should I take this as being rejected?
Yeah. Unless she didn't know you were coworkers before you went on the date it's likely she doesn't want to continue with you and went for the most convenient excuse she could find in order to spare your feelings.
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Right now I'm dating a girl who's a real caring and sweet person but she's kind of a diamond in the rough. She used to be hot but she went through a rough period before I met her and became a crazy cat lady and overweight. She also is kind of annoyingly quirky by making up words. For instance, she calls sandwiches, "sangwiches". Another example, crazy is "craypant".
She's actually kind of brilliant and incredibly smart. She's a supervisor in a laboratory and I can see the potential in her if I fixed her up. I've spoken to her about the quirky stuff and the weight and she's actively trying to change those aspects.
The problem is...the amount of fixing makes me not attracted to her. She has so much potential and I feel should could be amazing one day. Should I continue trying to help her live up to her potential? Or should I cut her loose? I'd feel terrible since she's a total sweetheart.
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>>18570397
well i wouldn't try to change her quirkiness some people just like to be silly theres nothing wrong with that learn to loosen up.
When it comes to losing weight. How about you do it with her. Exercise with her and eat the same stuff. make healthier food. This will help her stay motivated and it could help you too, if you're a bit fat.
Ten you get a hot ass girl who's also smart and likes to be silly. If you put long term effort into something the reward is always bigger. She already is thinking about changing which makes this whole process even easer.
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>>18570397
shes not fixing her self bc ur an ugly asshole, when she meets someone better than you shes going to look how she did a year ago
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>>18570997
>getting this triggered over nothing
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>be me
>be 18
>be depressed
>no friends, no social life
>was in online school the last 2 years
>during this time, have not interacted with anyone outside of my family
>don't know how to drive
>no job
>going to the local community college (online classes since I have no way of getting to the actual campus regularly)
What should I do? I'm in decent physical shape (run 3 miles daily), a 4.0 in high school and 4.0 from one semester of community college, but I'm depressed as shit and don't know what to do in terms of direction. I was working on joining the military a year ago but I don't think that it would be a good idea for a depressedfag like me to join right now. What do?
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hmmm... what else are you interested in? You could try going out more often, doing things to meet people with the same interests as you (eg. You like cooking, join a cooking class) even if it's just a one-off. If you like keeping fit, go to the gym sometimes? If you're wondering what to do job/career wise, find something easy for the mean time (retail, hospitality) and maybe do a course or something that you're interested in that you could use later on in life
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>be me
>be 18
Dude, you're just fucking 18...
>be me
>be almost 27
>no friends, no savings, no happiness
>no social life
>still living at parents house for free
>parents old and only got 10-15 years left
>no fucking clue how I will manage life
>seeing everyone else happy and successful
>staying in my room all day long
>lonely every fucking day
>broke up with my gf which was my only friend too
>literally got no-one and nothing
>regret wasting my time but feels like I cant escape
So tell me, can you please swap with me? I can't get back the last 7 years I fucking wasted trying to figure shit out but I did nothing to make it happen except wasting it away on all talk no action bullshit.
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Join the army and become a new man
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18 years old
I have red hair
Glasses
Pale
Skinny as fuck
I'm pretty self conscious about all this shit and I just want to feel good about myself how can I go about doing this
(I'm not a virgin loser before I get all that shit in here)
Just want to look better
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>>18570378
get a haircut that compliments your face shape, if the style looks good the fact youre a ginger won't matter. get contacts, if you're weird about putting stuff in your eyes (i am too dw) get a good set of glasses that suit, again, your face and eye shape. Also, try and fill out a bit if youre skinny, if you're short don't buff up too much or you'll look like a walking chode, if you're tall then hey that's a plus with the ladies and you'll look even better. Its all about working with what you have.
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>>18570430
Thanks man I appreciate I'll try these things
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If you can grow a beard, do it.
A full ginger beard is objectively the best kind of beard.
>end of job interview
>person interviewing me says 'see you soon'
Am I reading too much into this?
Do you think it's like when you tell the cashier to enjoy their meal too even though they aint about to eat a meal?
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If that's the only thing that makes you think you did okay, you're definitely grasping for straws.
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>>18570382
Don't presume that is the only thing that made me think I did OK. I just thought it was a weird thing for an employer to say if they weren't going to offer me a place?
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>>18570389
jesus op seems you are bad at reading everyone. good luck working at a grocery store, i'm sure you'll get the job! kek
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Hey mates
I'm currently in high school, and even though I am always surrounded by people I don't have anyone I can trust out of them. I trust only myself, and I feel as if I haven't found anyone I could call a true friend - everyone has been fucking me over some bullshit, or some have even betrayed me. How can I find some true friends, and where can I search for them?
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gotta figure out why this pattern keeps repeating
25y/o NEET here. Live at home (in the USA).
Need to do something with my life (and make money) but no idea where to start.
>no savings
>no skills
>useless degree
What do? I'm willing to learn, but I don't actually know what direction to take.
>inb4 kys
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What useless degree?
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>no skills
Bullshit, you got yourself a degree somehow
>useless degree
Unless it's in fine arts or something, it's all about how you sell it.
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>>18570369
...it's in fine arts.
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So, since there isn't really a /health, I would like to get some advice here.
A sleep specialist believes my symptoms are indicative of narcolepsy. While she would like me to take the test for the diagnosis, I have a driving job I would lose on the spot if I were diagnosed.
So, since I can't get the real meds for proper treatment, I'm looking for a way to combat my issues without outing myself to work. I'm non-cataplectic, so I don't lose consciousness, thankfully. Anywhere else I look is full of hippies that have access to proper meds, but refuse them.
>TLDR: Caring for Narcolepsy without a prescription so I don't lose my job.
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What are some good argumentative topics to write about? we get to choose our own and I'm hoping i could get some suggestions
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politics and religion
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is it possible to enter in a astrophysics phd course if i have a degree in mathematics 2017-07-29 10:10:25 Post No.18570316
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is it possible to enter in a astrophysics phd course if i have a degree in mathematics
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is it possible to enter in a astrophysics phd course if i have a degree in mathematics and not physics? im from the uk btw
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Need help finding this 2017-07-29 10:10:19 Post No.18570315
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Anyone know where I can find this short from Malcolm in the middle?
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Should i call the national suicide hotline? 2017-07-29 10:08:14 Post No.18570309
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Should i call the national suicide hotline?
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Should i call the national suicide hotline? Im not diagnosis with depression but every symptom of the depression fit me. And social anxiety. So after (insert unfortunate situation) happen i kinda get so down and think about suicide more then usual. I kinda like shrug it off as a meme but this one day when my neck was inside the rope(read:guitar cable) i was really thought i will jump. But well being a pussy i am i dont make the jump. I dont really feeling suicidal right now but i kinda really down and wanna talk to somebody so should i?
And what to expect?
TL:DR im not suicidal but im just feeling depressed should i call them or nah.
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>>18570309
may as well, can't cause any harm and it might help you. They'll be able to get you in touch with people who can help if they can't.
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>>18570313
Really tho ? I dont really wanna waste their time?
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Yes. Better safe than sorry.
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I live near a mobile home park in SoCal where the overflow parking ends up on my street.
One guy leaves his truck parked in front of my house 24/7 and no one else can park there. After a year, I've finally got tired of it and reported the parking violation. His car was towed 3 days later.
His truck is back. It sat there for 2 days then he rotated with his other truck. Now it feels like the other spots on the street are filled with his cars or his family's cars in spite of his truck being towed.
Is there anything legal I can do about this?
I can't report it as a parking violation anymore because the cars aren't parked there for over 72 hours, but they are obviously hogging the spots for themselves.
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You don't have any legal rights to street parking since it's a public space so no, you can't.
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>>18570308
Yeah that's what I figured. It's annoying that guests and house mates have to park down the street cause this dick.
I'll keep my eye out and repeatedly report it the moment a car stays parked for longer than 72 hours.
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I should add I don't mind people parking there. Quite the contrary. I want people to be able to park there. Currently, people cannot because this guy and two other people (they have like 10 cars parked on the other side of my street, 1 house down) hog all the spots to store their piece of shit vehicles that they dont drive.
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I don't want to restrict myself this much 2017-07-29 10:06:04 Post No.18570301
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I don't want to restrict myself this much
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I live in a little city and i have I have trouble meeting new people in general, (i am an avarage guy, 21 normal appearance) expecially new girls, cuz here we know each other, we know almost half city and I'm too insecure to go to a girl and tell her random stuff to know her cuz i feel like if i fail or i make a bad impression everyone will know and i will feel so bad.
I also have a lot of friend, but i regulary see only 3 of them cuz they are the best friend i have but they alredy have a girl and they make out with them most of the time.
What can i do to limit myself less?
(english it's not my main language so if i don't talk too well, i apologize)
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The only 2 people I could ever depend on basically just told me to fuck off since I broke contact with a girl I was close to (a good friend of theirs) for about 3 weeks.
All of this happened because of me falling in a deep, deep pit of depression, deeper than the usual crap.
I know that I should feel sorry for being an absolute dick, yet I don't feel anything. No regrets, nothing.
I tried to text all of them but they either ignore me or lowkey give me shit for everything I do.
What do to now /adv/? Dunno wtf I'm supposed to do.
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>>18570294
IF you were jerk to them, you deserve that response from them.I suggest you to go off social media and treat you depresion then come back to them if you get somewhat better .If they still give you shit, delete them all from your life and meet new people.