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What is it about your old mindset that you want back?

>>18571749
I used to be an agnostic but now I feel like a religious but I'm always looking for signs from god on EVERYTHING I feel like every tiny descision now could have an effect forever I used to be in good shape and proud of myself now I like constantly want to destroy myself and I like feel bad when I'm doing good in my life and I used to think more short term now

I'm just freaking the fuck out about everything I think about soul mates and shit all the time and crazy shit I used to feel like being good would make everything work out now I don't believe it and I've been having shittier luck and I don't have the same morals and I'm not a good person anymore. I don't have one single thing I enjoy or relax me every hobby I have is like incredibly overwhelmed with pressure becaus I can't stop thinking. I always wonder non fuckijg stop about my future career and if I should go to college what decisions I should be making what's wrong what's right I keep thinking crazy religious shit like everything is evil and I have to change my life

Sorry for the rant

>>18571734
if you're not good with people, you probably shouldn't take it if it puts you in charge of them if it only means you get a little more work but are generally still able to keep working as you have before, it shouldnt be much of a problem

If you can't communicate well, you're going to be extremely stressed.

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Tell me about yourself.

Age, occupation, hobbies, etc.

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>>18571738
I don't see the point in that. None of it matters. Sorry.

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>>18571745
Well what the fuck do you want us to do?

Tell you it's all good and that everything will work out when we have no clue about you or your situation? What the fuck kind of advise do expect to get here when you aren't even committed to answering a few simple questions?

What are you talking about? I just clicked a random one after searching 'water drinking' in the Google Play Store and it gives you reminders

>>18571715
https://www.amazon.com/Inspirational-Bottle-Marker-Measurements-Positive/dp/B01NALLECK/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1501397851&sr=8-3&keywords=water+bottle+time

It literally tells you what time you should drink on the bottle.

>(you're already experiencing dehydration when you feel thirsty)
That's a myth, dude. A reduction of one or two percent in your body's water is usually enough to make you feel moderately thirsty. When that happens you go drink water and gain that percent back. What people call """dehydration""" (i.e. you've lost enough water that you start feeling sluggish, urinating and sweating less, you're putting yourself at risk for things like kidney stones and damaging your overall health) doesn't set in until you've lost around 5% of your body's water content, and unless you have some kind of condition you'll feel thirsty long before that, guaranteed.

You also don't need to drink eight glasses a day, I hope you realize that. That's another myth.

I have to watch my water intake very carefully because I'm genetically predisposed to get kidney stones, which hurt like hell. I don't have any apps to recommend, sorry, but in my opinion the easiest way is just to always pay attention to what your pee looks like. When you pee, it should be pale yellow. If it's darker than that, then go and drink a glass of water (or two) right away.

>be me (14)
>get a crush on best friends sister (13)
>hide relationship from everyone due to christian parents
>sneak around for years making out/eventually fucking
>virginity lost!
>shit gets serious 2 years into relationship
>sheistheone.jpg
>tell her I want to marry her, she agrees 100%
>still have to sneak around, she claims parents hate me
>try to pressure her into talking to parents
>she convinces me this is a bad idea and it will only make things worse
>worried because she wont tell anyone we are "dating" but love her so trust at 100%

Cont.?

>>18571724
Don't leave us hanging anon

>>18571692

This picture makes me laugh every time.

>>18571676
Go to a doctor.

>>18571676
i refuse to help you until you delete that disgusting picture.

op here, inb4 go for engineering and specialize in railways
no, railways aren't very relevant here, i've already searched and i have found nothing at all

What the fuck. You're smart enough to do computer science yet not drive a train? Have you considered semi trucks? Either way it shouldn't be that difficult to get a job in the train industry, the drivers are treated like shit. But paid decently for it.

This is some severed autism. Not even joking. Not sure why you're afraid to tell your therapist though. That literally the most mundane thing they've probably ever heard.

>>18571674
By walking away and finding someone that is willing to value you enough to find it worth dating you. Then you realize that the chick you're with is better than the chick you were orbiting, because she values you enough to invest back. Then you say, "Fuck that chick I was orbiting," and move on.

>Trying to leave the friendzone because you just love this chick you don't even know so, so much.

Never going to happen while you're this beta.

>>18571674
>show her who I really am
She already knows who you are. That is why she put you in the friendzone.

What changed in your life around that time?

>>18571656
You can't, and it gets worse with age.

>>18571649
There's nothing you can do if Steam won't help. That said, I can help you with shit in the future:

https://www.keepassx.org/

Sounds like you deserve to lose your account for being so stupid.

This also juxtaposes my problem at work, I'm starting to develop a crush on a co-worker, shes been on this job for 2 years, she already has a position and has established herself in this company and as a grown adult, for the first time in my life, I wasnt attracted to good looks, to good personality, or to chemistry, I was actually attracted by her accomplishments and thought that maybe this is what 'wife-material' actually is. Dont get me wrong, I love my girl, but her having no motivations at all is kind of turning me off, theres always a reason, theres always a rhyme on why she cant find a job, and when I try to push her to finish her studies instead so she could get her diploma, there it goes again, another reason, another rhyme.

What do I do bros? How do I get her to be motivated? How do I stop these crushes I'm having? Would giving her a timeframe of "get a job in 6 months or else I'll leave" work?

>>18571636
Why do you need your woman to be strong and independent? My wife didn't want to work, and I could afford it, so I told her that if she wanted to stay home, it was fine. She is in charge of all cooking, all cleaning, all shopping, paying all the bills. Literally everything that doesn't involve me working or raising children is exclusively her responsibility (I want to be a good dad, not just a wallet).

I get to go to work for 8 hours, then come home. No other responsibilities. If she wants to do that, what's wrong with it (presuming you can afford it)?

>>18571648
I live in a third world country, and I agree that it sounded too shallow and one sided, but I honestly cannot afford it if we live in together and its only me who does the work, and she doesnt even know how to cook, she was practically spoiled by her mum.

>>18571597
People who generalize instead of making the effort to get to know people bore me.

Even working in high finance I find the few women I encounter here feel low in drive and caliber compared to the guys

>>18571602
Go on then

>>18571577

make money

>>18571577
Yes. Go to school, graduate HS, get into an apprenticeship, save your money, and pay with cash everywhere. You can get cars for as little as 2k without even trying. You can buy a house with cash outright (although this will require saving). There's no reason you should ever need to go into debt, presuming you insure your shit (homeowners/renters insurance, health insurance, car insurance, etc).

>>18571582
I can only get a min wage job...

no you live in a garbage cuntry. which country is it?

Yes you're a slut. You're used goods and most likely wouldn't be loyal to a man.

>>18571570
>Is having sex once when I feel love make me a slut?
Does that sound like a slut to you? That said, it sounds like you live in a backwards Islamic shithole (don't take this the wrong way, I don't buy into any religion, nor do I hate any religion, but if you look at the impacts of each religion on a country, it becomes obvious which religion is better for humanity as a whole, and Islam is one of the worst).