I *actually* met an exceptional woman who I really relate to. It's not 'oneitis' (a.k.a. an obsession); I have fucked two girls since then, and I'm not in love with this person. I just sort of idolize them, because they are beautiful, kind, and a literal genius.
The only problem is that I was in a really pathetic state when I knew her, and I broke up with her friend/housemate, who was a fat bitch I'm probably going to get some cubicle job at an insurance company, and then won't meet anyone odd or exceptional anymore, at least not for many years.
What should I do? We stopped talking, and I'm either busy or depressed lately, but I would really like to see her again. She's public on Facebook. I don't have one.
>>18570924
make a facebook and chat her up. Whats the worst thing that can happen?
>>18570929
Given the context, I might need to make a more attractive offer than how I am in my current form. Does that make sense? Every year I improve. I'm still in proto mode right now, like a kid almost, although I do live alone. She's two years younger than me and has graduated an ivy league school.
In the past year, I tried to meet up with my ex desperately, then got drunk and called my ex a sociopath...over Facebook. She might know all this happened.
maybe I should cover a song she likes? is that stupid?
>>18570950
then explain to her if it comes out that your different back then and your trying every year to self improve. The best thing you can do is talk openly and honest about your intentions and feelings.
>>18570957
Sure why not. I did a cover of harry potter for my ex and she loved it. But makes sure your also talking to her. don't be cryptic about your desires.