>be me
>be 22
>be single
>Friends have gfs
>girls dont know eachother
>3 of friends gfs are flirting with me on seperate occasions.
>one of these left her bf just to be able to have sex with me, considered cheating before.
>second one is flirting with me during a party with her bf present.
>continued flirting with me and shit talking him after having sex with him, claiming the act shameful.
>Third one usually comes and speaks with me when she fight with her bf. I Always give her the advice that she should leave if she cant handle him.
>she Always puts on extra makeup and sexier outfits when meeting up with me, something my friend Always complains about her never doing it for him.
I am positively definitely not coming on to these girls in any way, I am however always nice to them cracking jokes or just listening when they complain about stuff.
Is it because I'm showing a lack of interest in them emotionally that they swarm around me like this? Or am I doing something wrong by my friends for stealing their girlfriends?
Pic related, first gf trying to use me to cheat
Flirting isn't really "cheating" so much as it is just being social in social situations. The one you fucked was cheating though.
>lack of interest
partly, maybe. could be losing interest in the relationships, or hoes. But yeah women for some reason love it when dudes treat them like normal human beings, idk what that's about
bros before hoes always
>>18572707
Whatever you do -- don't fuck these roasties. First - you'll set a bad precedent for yourself as a man and second they are mental cases trying to fuck over your friendships. Any grill that goes after another guys friends is a fucking wack job.
>>18572714
>But yeah women for some reason love it when dudes treat them like normal human beings, idk what that's about
If by "like normal human beings" you mean "like human beings you don't care much about", then yes.
There's all these ideas for why this is... One I find convincing is that women always want to be with someone they consider "better" than themselves, and seeing a guy who cares little about them is some sort of sign of it.
Selling shit i find in the attic for money. I found this macys perfume set. The bottles are tiny but the brands are pretty well known.
How much could i sell this for? Need to feed the baby.
Thanks
>work 6 days a week
>usually just sit at home on days off
>get really anxious, bored, lonely etc and feel like I'm missing out on life
>basically every weekend
>go out to bars, concerts, etc try to have lots of fun and meet people
>absolutely hate everyone I meet and regret every decision I make and always end up blowing money on drugs or sex or other stupid shit
>cut contact with any new people I'd met that night and feel utterly disgusted the next day for wasting my time like that
how do I fix this? I'm having real trouble finding the happy middle ground I guess
Stop setting such high standards for life and enjoy it for what it is. Don't project your most likely unreasonable expectations onto people, let alone strangers you just met.
>>18572697
yeah but that's easier said than done, its not really a mental thing it feels very deep. Like my body is calling me to go do something social and not just rot alone in my room. I get actual anxiety, like heart fluttering and shit if I feel like I'm missing out on life
>>18572709
I'm still like that man, and it has lead me nowhere. Go out and do things that benefit you without the complete dependancy on others for enjoyment, like a martial art or sport. You still get something out of it and are more likely to make friends since you don't have to put your expectations onto the people you meet because you're not dependant on them for enjoyment.
What is it with you guys and forgiving cheaters?
>To err is human; to forgive, divine.
The only girl who cheated on me I physically threw out of my apartment, broke up with her, and moved 3000 miles away leaving her bawling her eyes out. I forgave her easily (we're all human after all), but forgiveness doesn't mean you stay in the same situation or do the same thing that got you in the situation in the first place. That relationship taught me a lot of good things about how to act in a relationship, and I'm glad I had the experience.
Forgiveness says a lot more about the person doing the forgiving, anyways.
You want advice or what fuckboy.
>>18572681
When you're not married and don't have children together it easy to forgive them then DUMP them. If you're married then that might not be the best course of action.
just tried to fap and stick a toothbrush up my ass with lube on it, i jizzed and felt incredible but i took the toothbrush out and had a bit of red on it.
perforation of the rectum, probably not serious enough to bother with medical attention but seek it if there's lots of blood or the bleeding doesn't stop.
>>18572710
Perforation means you tore a fucking hole through it, it is definitely not perforation. Just minor tearing of the lining. Don't use rough objects. Put a condom over it next time
>>18572680
Check for bleeding, if its still red and doesnt heal go check yourself before you get infection..
Every time I look at complicated math problems I get like this haze over my eyes and nothing registers; I have always had trouble studying physics and maths because of this and I hate it because people keep calling me stupid and it hurts
Meditation, visualization and persistence.
>Anon is 21
>His girlfriend is 19
>His girlfriend is petite and almost always described as looking younger than she is
>Anon wanted to be a teacher
>Anon decided he'd teach at a boys school after only a few weeks as a teaching assistant at a mixed school
>Anon avoids public pools, beaches and water parks despite being in great shape
>Anon has a thing for high socks
>Anon and his girlfriend had the best sex of their lives when she wore normal panties instead of lingerie
>Anon sometimes calls his girlfriend princess
>Anon gets visibly pent up when his girlfriend plays up particularly bratty behavior
>Anon regularly watches documentaries on abusers and abuse victims
>Anon lives for "To catch a predator"
If we changed it to homosexuality(Girlfriend looks like a boy, avoids the man packed gym etc etc) we'd all say anon was gay right?
Well anon's my boyfriend and I can't shake the feeling he might be a pedophile.
Please tell me I'm overthinking.
pic unrelated
You're overthinking.
/thread
Being attracted to these sorts of things doesn't mean hes a pedophile. He's in a relationship with you, and you're not pre-pubescent are you? No
Stop overthinking it before you sabotage your relationship
>>18572619
He's likely not a pedophile. Pedos, from what I've seen and heard, won't go for adult women regardless of child-like appearance; even if a woman looked 7, pedos still want that childlike personality, and women (unless they're literally retarded) don't have that.
At WORST he's a hebephile/ophebophile, which means even then he'll likely just pursue legal girls that look younger (such as yourself).
Ultimately though I wouldn't really worry about it, you're probably overthinking.
A friend is trying to groom me into a dysfunctional relationship because I'm a self-destructive alcoholic and she's the daughter of one.
She's going to be worrying herself sick anyway but then again this kind of bullshit kept my dad alive for years, and while hers is a narcistic cunt I'm not merely flat-out evil and there's always the possibility she's going to find someone worse.
What do?
do you care for her or do you just see her as a way to keep yourself afloat?
do you think you would be able to help each other in the long term, or just stave off the inevitable?
>>18572614
I'd want her to thrive and be happy but I've known her for ten years and I know she is not going to, even without my involvement.
We are both miserable people but then again her dad is a cunt (he's my car man and odds are if I wasn't a friend of his daughters I'd want nothing to do with him) while mine was a harmless sperg save for the clinically depressed self-destructive bullshit, the dynamic she is used to is worse than what I've grown up with.
To be honest it sounds like you both have to work on yourselves before getting into a serious relationship, where your problems are just compounded. If anything, you could use the potential for a healthy relationship with this girl as motivation for improving yourself to the point where the relationship would work.
Its 9:40am and i already want to kill myself.
>be me, virgin
>have dreams about defeating an enemy or completing a difficult task like saving the universe from an evil force or some stupid shit
>dreams always focus on a relationship that is strengthened by the task because i havent dated anyone in years
>experience a pure relationship, never really about sex but more about loving each other for who we are
>todays was worse because something happened in the dream that made me have to leave for a while to go on some journey and she waited for me the whole time i was gone
>never had anyone care that much about me
>accidentally break 4th wall and think something like "man it sucks that ill never have this in real life"
>wake up and cry
Why do our brains do these things that make us want to die? Why cant i just be like the normies and dream of flying and fucking slutty women i meet?
>>18572589
Everyone has weird dreams, even "normies". And yes, sometimes you do sort of dream what you desire, or you dream up a recreation of a real life situation you want to emotionally understand better. For example, I'm still fucked up over an ex leaving me for another, and I still ocasionally dream of my other friends betraying me for no reason, or just not being there.
So yeah at night your brain sorts all those files you produce while being awake, so you end up having dreams related to your waking experience, or what you strongly feel is missing in it.
My brain creates scenarios where I'm powerless and tired to fight. That's because I am mute and never interact with the world around me. Sadly my brain is incredibly antagonistic and this "training" does not help me.
Guys, how do you get a gf? Can I have the no bs rundown? I really don't know.
>>18572588
Quickest rundown I can possibly give:
Not at bars or clubs, those do not last
You will likely fail multiple times
Talk to them and if they show interest make your intent clear
Do not take bullshit or 'I'm busy', time is precious
Do not buy anything pricey for potential gf
Compliments in moderation, you get sick if you eat too many sweets
She doesn't care about your hobby unless you share one
Confidence is key, you can bluff or talk your way through anything if you look and sound confident
Common sense makes up the above and everything else
>>18572620
Thx f a m
Good place to hangout if you have nothing better to do, don't have friends, and just want to hang out? This is for today so if I could get immediate answers that would be nice desu, thanks
Only if you're homeless and want to use the outlets and wifi
Most people hang out at coffee shops, for what it's worth.
>>18572575
I like bookstores because they're very /comfy/ and you can typically take in a coffee. Also, you can strike up conversations with people in sections that you like because they probably have the same interests as yourself.
Me and my friends often meet up to play PS4 games together with the good old fashioned split screen
Only 1 of our friends has a PS4 and it doesn't even have online
What 3 player games can we play together? I will go to Cex and pick one up
Hu
minecraft splitscreen
Here's some i have in my own collection i enjoy. They're all offline multiplayer splitscreen goodness.
Jstars victory vs (a weeb 3D fighting game, good shit)
Puyo puyo tetris (Tetris, but with puyo puyo too)
Terraria
Jackbox party pack (good if you each have your own smartphones to play.. it works like kahoot)
Those are only some, i'm sure there's more. Also, if you want way more, get a cheap gaming PC, because steam has a lot more CO OP games than PS4, and not needing to pay more for internet on a specific system is great.
So a good friend of mine showed up at my door in tears after having found out his alternative/goth girlfriend had cheated on him with another guy. These things happen I suppose, but the weird thing is; several months up to two years ago I've known several close friends who've been cheated on (even in kinky ways) by their alternative girlfriends. Yet with "normal" girls they didn't have that whole kind of "backstabbing with some random metalhead thing". So my question to all people (alternatives, goths, metalheads, and plain folks) out there is: Is there a correlation that alternative girls are more prone to cheating? And why? Thanks!
Post nudes
How far up your dads ass do you live that you think there is such a thing as normal people.
>>18572578
It was just a question, no need to be mean
I've been playing clarinet for years and I really want to switch to saxophone, but I've never try playing it before. Should I just go ahead and buy it without trying the instrument before?
It's pretty weird that you play clarinet but don't know any saxophone owners, but they're pretty much the same so go ahead
>>18572545
Most instrument stores will rent you one for a month
How much of my paycheck is acceptable to give for an apartment?
I'm a college student about to move into my own apartment. I've had a well paying job (by my country's standards) for over a year now, but have been living in a dorm, where the rent plus expenses is 10% of my monthly pay.
Now that I've started to look for an apartment, I've realized that unless I want to live in a dump, I'll have to give about 30-40% of my paycheck for rent and expenses.
Is that acceptable? I make 1200€, current pay 120€ for dorm, and the apartments I'm looking at are 350-400€ per month. Am I being a jew, or is that a lot?
>>18572508
Yeah, it's common for 30-40% and even higher of millennials' gross monthly to go to housing. I believe 30% and under are what boomers and established gen x'ers say, but it's not really feasible for many young people.
>>18572541
So it's normal? My sister says that she'd never pay that much, but she's living in our parents' house, with no rent.
1/3 of pay is normal for people who aren't impoverished