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desu with you op i'd be pretty fucking nervous if i found out my doctor was picking up medical advice from a Taiwanese goat showering board

>>18571552
Rhythm is fine. I'd be more concerned about the anterolateral ST depression in V2-V6.

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>>18571552
Well you aren't really asking for an advice (like opinion or guidance) here... You could try /sci/ next.

But what I gathered from a quick google search and living with a pacemaker myself atrial rhythm means the impulses of your sinus (like a musical conductor or mini-brain of your heart) aren't moving directly to the specific heart-muscle they are meant but instead all the muscles react little to all impulses and that creates that wobble in between the pulses.

Also here that picture is called EKG.

"Abnormal reading" only means "we see everything isn't normal".

Go when your friends aren't around and talk to her.

Go get gas there, or a soda or some shite. Walk in, hand her a bill and when she gives you your change, casually say she forgot something, when she looks puzzled thinking she forgot your change, tell her she forgot her number.i did this to a girl at a pizza place in a gas station and it worked

>>18571550
The problem is someone always tags along, its not exactly on the nearest corner from his house so its the most logical thing for more than one to go.

>>18571558
Might do something like that, but I want to talk to her a little bit first, to try to smooth things out, I only have to come around to that part.

>>18571500
It's just gonna take time man. Different people need different amounts of time to get over someone. You need time to let yourself feel the sense of loss and even possible grief. Trying to suppress those feelings to try and speed yourself along the process won't work

>>18571504
I know it's just been three months now and it still feels awful when I see her and I just want to be happy I guess

>>18571500
Presuming you're a good guy, if she dumped you, then that's her loss, and you should be pissed at her for wasting your time.

If you're a bad guy, then you need to fix the problems with yourself so that you can say "I'm not that person anymore."

>>18571475
Get her a hat, some wine or rare beer, scarf, sunglasses, tshirt, pads, or a buttplug

>>18571475
Get her nothing. Not joking. You're her gift, and she's yours. If you actually become close friends IRL, get her something like that for Xmas or her birthday.

>nor do I plan to start one

OP please. Don't get her a gift. This'll aid you in not making her think you're a bit much for when you grow a pair and ask her out in the long run.

>>18571405
Typically you both reply to special emails @craigslist.com, so they only see it if you fuck up in some way, like how my dad used to send his normal email footer on them by mistake.

https://www.craigslist.org/about/help/email-relay

>>18571443
How is that possible? So if I have my email footer as xxx111 it still show up in their email receipt?

>>18571405
Here's a thought: go to Protonmail or Tutanota, and create an account. Use that for your email address for Craigslist, and then download the appropriate app for your phone.

Then, IF something fucks up, no big deal, they still don't have anything important on you.

Could be a UTI. Don't have sex again until you know. You could drink cranberry juice (not cocktail), may clear it up. If there's puss or any discolored discharge coming from the area, you should probably see a doctor right away. The longer you put off going to a doctor, the more damage it could do, whatever it is.

>>18571375
If you're wanting plastic surgery, the first thing you should do is work on your self esteem, provided that you weren't in a fire or some sort of brutal accident.

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On Friday I confronted her and asked her why she had been so withdrawn from me lately. She told me she found me controlling, and after some back and forth, I told her that I'd call her to try to work things out over the weekend.

Long story short, she told me that she felt wronged by me and that no matter what I did to resolve things, the feeling would not change. I asked what she wanted to do about it. She said she wanted to break up. I had felt like this was coming for a while, and decided that if that's what she wanted, I couldn't deny it. Thanked her for the past few years, told her I would miss her a ton and that I was sorry it hadn't worked out between us. She reciprocated on all of these and we ended the call.

Well, here I am now a week later and I'm heartbroken. It took a good five days to really hit me. This morning I woke up and after letting my head clear I texted her asking if there was anything I could do to mend things. She said the same bit about her feelings remaining regardless of what I could do, apologized, and told me to take care of myself. We haven't spoken since.

This is my first breakup. I'm so incredibly sad and depressed and the worst thing is that whenever I felt this way before, I would talk to her...and now that's gone. I really feel that I screwed things up. She was perfect for me, we had the same fucked up history, but now she's gone and I just don't know how to deal with it.

How can I deal with this emotional sickness? I have bouts of intermittent crying (which I haven't done since my dog left a year ago) and it's even making me physically sick. I have no experience with breakups and all the depression and loneliness I felt before I began dating this girl has come back tenfold. My self esteem has been destroyed, I wonder if I was really controlling and spiteful and I just generally do not like myself right now.

Beyond immersing myself in distractions, what should I do? Apologies for the long winded post.

No breakup advice, eh? Figured the post was too long.

Grieve. It'll hurt less if you stop trying to fight it.
Don't contact her. Don't check up on her. Don't follow her social sites or anything. But grieve. Let it out. Wake up in the morning and get out of bed. Eat every day. Focus on your work or studies. Work on things you wish you were better about. Get healthier, learn a new skill, improve yourself according to what you want for yourself, not what you think she didn't like about you. Set goals and achieve them. In time, all will be fine.

>>18571370
>let me prove to you i've changed. I want to gain your trust. I do care about you.

what was the argument about?

Well they've said their piece; they don't want to have you as a close friend again. I personally wouldn't reply, but then again, I wouldn't block someone because of a stupid argument either

>>18571370
Looks to me like you were a beta orbiter that got salty that you were stuck in orbit. She doesn't want her beta orbiters to give her attitude.

That's what I'm getting from what I can see.

>>18571366
How old are the two of you? Generally I wouldn't recommend crossing national borders for a girl but my best friend is engaged to a Japanese girl so what do I know? Just ask her out, you literally have nothing to lose

>>18571376
This.

Long distance within the same country is hard enough I can't imagine making this work.

>>18571376
>>18571384

That is what i was thinking at first, but im pretty aspie when it comes to socialization and have a pretty isolated job (tier 2 tech support) so meeting someone new is pretty difficult.

>>18571364
Yep. I did that for a few months, left with some pain. Did it again for 9 months, left decently fucked up emotionally.

>>18571381

What happened?

>>18571364
To date, or go on dates with? You can go can go out and do things without it leading to anything else.

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I want to chase chunky tumblr sluts, but my current girlfriend and her family are perfect. I found "the one" but I'm not ready to settle down yet.

What do I do?

>>18571383
Come to the server and find out, man

We got 4 chicks now. one's a pre-op tranny

you need to reinvent yourself. become the best version of you. getting over someone u rlly like is tough, but i promise you will learn a lot about yourself once you move on.

gotta love yourself before anyone loves you. sometimes its easy to forget that when you are invested in a nice relationship. but just know that there are so many amazing people waiting for you... each person is a different story and you will meet them. just have to give it time and be open minded

>>18571353
Girl your filling your head with bullshit lies about how the world is.
you are an insecure loser realizing this is your first step to figuring out your shit.
Your mentality is feeding off of your insecurities
>All good guys taken
false

>I can't talk to anyone else the same way I talk to him
I totally get where you come from. i'm the same way. But now that i've been opening up my self to more people i realize i can do it with more then one person.

Its easy to go back to the ex. its scary to go out there especially if you think theres no one else

he didn't change you know this.

Work on yourself esteem issues and dont go back with him. Theres a bunch of great guy out there that want to get with you.

>>18571353
He' "changed" but is still calling you derogatory words and having a short temper with you.

Stop yourself right there.

>>18571352
Think about this way. If she does it again can you go through this again?

>>18571360
I know if it ever happened again I would instantly leave her, but right now idk

She did it once she'll do it again.

What would she do if you just had someone you "only made out with and get a bj"

>>18571349
only one fix.

shave head grow a beard works every time.

I know it use to be a conversation piece but now you beard can be the complement generator.

>>18571354
LOL, I can't grow facial hair. Never could. I'm just straight up fucked.

fin and min, it works

t. guy whose hairloss has been almost completely halted