>Be in perfect relationship
>Still have the urge to sleep with other women, like a gorilla during mating season
How do I make it stop?
Just fuck them
>>18569683
>>Be in perfect relationship>Still have the urge to sleep with other women,
that's not a perfect relationship you are in
>>18569890
This
Well either your relationship isn't actually perfect, or you have personal issues that makes you avoid full commitment. Perhaps you draw your sense of self-worth from fucking as many women as possible. Perhaps you learned to accept this as normal behavior after seeing one or both parents do it. Maybe it's a combination of things.
>be me, a 32 yold guy dealing with depression for ages
>be doing an internship as printing factory operator for 4 months and know your already low intership grant is cutted by 30% on the day you are expecting getting fuly paid
>stopped going to intership and saying closed at home for almost 2 months
>previously started buying computer part to build a pc for games and shit, now no money to continue
> trying to figure out what to do next
Hey guys, give me some advice.
I just graduated college, and getting out of my summer internship. I'm living in the south but I think its time to move to find employment more related to what I do.
I have 4 choices in states with family, what state sounds better?
Los Angeles, CA
Austin, TX
Atlanta, GA
Orlando, FL
Charlotte, NC
>>18569678
That's 5
With the use of google, your u can research the employment rates and economies of each city.
I would immediately rule out LA as it is expensive to live, crowded, high in unemployment and is unfriendly to employers with high taxes, numerous laws and regulations, and a budget problems from a host of problems most of which were brought on by itself.
>>18569681
OMG, that's hilarious. I guess OP should learn to count before graduating college.
I contracted oneitis but I fixed it. She's a great gal but I was always conflicted. I liked being friend but, at the same time, I wanted more. I told I liked her but my feelings ate at me afterward. She was practically my best friend...
I told her what I was thinking and she told me she wouldn't hold it against me. I down a very good friend but also free from the overbearing feelings while talking to her.
Did I do the right thing? Did I make huge mistake?
So because I'm the good guy of the group, I've been accused of throwing away a dude's goods and spoiling his leaf, for the second time. I tried dealing with him face to face but it just made it worse and now he wants to meet in a public place. What the fuck can i do?
>>18569631
Stop hanging out with manchildren who smoke weed.
>>18569664
It's more secondary. I hang out with people who know other people. I'm thinking a bottle of vodka will do the trick?
>>18569631
>DUDE WEED LMFAO
>420 BLAZE IT FAGGOT
>A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED BUT A FRIEND WITH WEED IS BETTER
Just keep screaming this at him until he leaves you alone
How do you find old friends without using things like facebook /adv/?
I need to find someone I knew from two years back but everywhere I've searched has been a dead end it's like she just up & vanished
things like phone numbers or e-mail are pretty hard to find if you only know the person's name
>>18569623
>how do I find someone without using the most convenient and heavily used database of people that is available at my fingertips for free
>help me stalk someone so I can be creepy whole still maintaining my edgy contrarian status
>>18569623
>without using things like facebook
Why limit yourself like that?
>>18569674
that's because I know she wanted to go "off-grid"after the leaks from snowden happened
she was afraid of staying on anything online out of fear & general paranoia
Anyone knows where I can draw hentai to earn money or sell hentai artworks? Badly needed.
>>18569572
The first question is can you actually draw?
Patreon
Contact dem hentai pro sites like FAKKU
>>18569572
Patreon. The more niche fetish you pick, the easier it will be for you to find commisioners. Also devianart and or any furry sites. There are people willing to ditch 100$+ for single picture featuring their persona.
Simply build your portfolio first and with fame the commisions will come too.
Should I take out student loans?
I've got 10k debt from my freshman year that I bombed in. Now I'm trying to get my Associates but I don't have the money to finish it up. I'm about half way there and am now considering taking out more loans.
I don't want to work shit jobs for the rest of my life and it looks like that's not changing unless I do something. I just hate the idea of more debt.
Maybe go to a community college for your associates degree and apply for grants and scholarships and shit? I paid only like 2 grand a semester that way.
Nobody gives a fuck where your associates comes from. Its basically the new high school diploma.
My addiction to nicotine is very strong and it feels like I subconsciously correlate smoking cigarettes with feeling happy/not bored. In my brain it's like when I'm planning to go out, I base my happiness on whether i'll be smoking otherwise I'm not tempted to go out. I'm not a heavy smoker because I live with my parents but I don't want to lose my life to this shitty addiction. I don't smoke everyday but I'm always looking forward to smoking that cigarette, however trivial it may sound, because it seems like it's the only thing that will make me happy.
It's scary because I don't want to get sick but I'm always rationalizing that everyone will die eventually and my love for cigarettes isn't something bad. I've been a regular smoker for 4 years now and I really want to quit.
> Can anyone tell me how I can become mentally strong and quit smoking once and for all, without no relapse?
>>18569516
buying loosies, and never buying packs, and not having friends who are a bad influence.
that's literally how it's done.
>>18569519
>when the bad influence is your boyfriend
He's a heavy smoker and I don't see him quitting anytime soon, the shitty part is whenever we're planning to go out it's like we subconsciously just want to get our cigarette fix otherwise we get bored and really irritable.
switch to vaping, it may turn you into a living meme but at least it will make quitting cigarettes feasible for you since you're a weakling and cannot stop cold turkey
About a month ago I moved from Texas to Washington to work and live on a goat farm with my aunt and her wife. Things were going great, until about a week ago that is. They started showing less and less affection to each other. Loving words turned into hateful daggers, hugs turned into cold shoulders, and the whole situation just felt like a vacuum of positive energy.
Well, two days ago things escalated out of control, they got into a big argument (I was present for the whole thing, even tried to settle them down) and got in each other's faces. I go to into the building we were sitting in front of at the time to call an employee and friend to come help me with the situation. As I was on the phone my aunt's wife starts hitting my aunt, I have to go out and physically separate them. Cops were called, and she was taken to jail for the night.
Since this being a goat farm where we make cheese, my wife's aunt has to come here to work (she's the owner and also goes to farmers markets to sell the products), but isn't allowed to come up to the house. I'm now being harassed by her and dread going to work, that was until I found out I don't work for the next couple of days due to her "not having work for me." I fear I'm about to be fired, is there anything I can legally do about this? I've tried to stay in the middle of this whole situation and not let it affect my work.
We (my aunt and me) are going to have to move, but we have no way to make an income due to her wife "firing" us. So as the subreddit says, you guys have any advice on how I can most effectively handle this situation?
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Any general advice for planning a Casino trip? I'm thinking of either Foxwoods or Mohegan Sun.
don't go.
but seriously set a hard limit on your spending before you even go. preferably an amount that you would be comfortable just taking out of your pocket and lighting on fire or tossing into the wind.
>>18569489
Yeah, I already was going to consider any money (asides from emergency money that would never will be gambled) that I bring into a Casino as money already spent.
>>18569472
Mohegan sun has been good to me. Twin river isn't bad either but it can be hard to get a game in the non smoking area.
If you want to spend a longer time, roulette with $1's or craps cam take awhile. Blackjack can fuk you real quick.
So i need some advice. Ive been pondering a theory. So say for instance fat girls are old houses that need to be fixed. and hot girls are brand new houses. Is it worth helping a fatty deal with there problems, then get them on a diet and exercise regiment? Its like getting a hot girl but with a little more work. Is this feasible?
>>18569467
Never date someone hoping to change them.
>>18569467
you sound fucking retarded, like you brain is not fully developed. that's a clear sign of underage.
why are you even worry about fat and skinny bitches? just live your life.
>>18569467
I use to have the same theory. I called it "investing" and it worked under the faulty assumption that women have something called loyalty. You may be able to help a fatty become thin and attractive but know when she realizes how attractive she is she will act like any other attractive girl that doesn't want to be tied down.
does anyone else get so worked up about opening their messages in case no one has talked or replied? i go for days even weeks trying to psyche myself up for going on social media. i've turned all notifications off otherwise i'm always on edge subconsciously waiting for the chime. it's so pathetic and mentally exhausting, how do i get over this stupid fear?
I understand how you feel, sometimes I turn on do not disturb, I dunno how to deal with it, I just try to focus my attention on enjoying what I'm doing in the meantime.
why do i feel so hard to be sexually arousal with opposite sex?
like if i am go on dates, i feel it hard to touch or holding hands or kissing them if i don't have the time to bond and to comfortable around them.
i think i might asexual, but i do masturbate and watching porn so i don't know what is the problem?
>>18569458
porn skips right to the payoff, without all that bonding and tension part of arousal. it's actually way inferior to getting laid. stop watching so much porn. consider porn a backup.
I've had this problem before for several reasons, including porn. It usually means you just need to warm up with the person and then get into the swing of it. you'll be obsessed with them and cumming too early in no time.
>>18569469
well i need to say that even if I'm off porn for many days, if i was with someone hot and all, i still prefered to do something else other than physical involved. needless to say i can never going through the casual sex thing without feeling gross.
recently i went on 3 dates with this one, liked each other, hit it off. still can't holing hands or kissing. still feeling gross, maybe i need more time to bond with that someone?
>>18569458
>why do i feel so hard to be sexually arousal with opposite sex?
No, it's not the grammar I want to point out here. But maybe there is a reason why you stress "opposite sex".
So either you really ARE asexual, or you need to bond in a different way or you are looking for the wrong people.
Why even live when I can't find a girlfriend/someone to fuck without puking when I see their face and without paying them money to have sex with me?
I was born as an inferior male, skinnier than your normal skinny dude (I think I have Kleinfelter's) and an unattractive, plain face. I was simply born inferior to most men.
I'm 21 tomorrow and have never experienced love. At this point in time my libido is non-existent, and I have no will to continue living honestly. Depression is going to be the end of me, seemingly. I have no access to firearms, and I'm too scared I'll fuck up breaking my neck while trying to hang myself.
I guess I'm writing this because I want someone to tell me "It's all going to be okay" well I fully well understand it wont. Obviously this isn't the only problem I've got since I'd have an otherwise great life, but this is the last nail in the coffin.
I honestly feel ashamed for making this thread but I can't help it, when you're depressed and have no friends to talk to and live alone, you resort to these kinds of things... I have to let it out somewhere, otherwise I'd go insane. I have to let someone know, even just as a small post in the sea of internet garbage.
I just honestly wish I was rather never born but having to go through this shit my whole life, being unwanted. It's so hard to find someone who likes you for who you are, aside from your family. Honestly fuck being born in this age where we're so overly focused on looks and vanity and cannot escape it. It's everywhere you turn. And it's going to take yet another life. But honestly who gives a fuck, there's already too many of us anyway.
>>18569455
you're a skinny guy.
Learn how to play guitar.
>>18569455
>how am I supposed to live without the succ
stop being obsessed with it
achieve something
then you'll get the succ
it's beautiful, really. good luck. or shoot a school.
>>18569457
To be honest I have more chance of getting plastic surgery in 5 years time if I make it that far than getting good at an instrument to the point where it wets the pants. Just doing the most basic things is hard when you're depressed, let alone learn an instrument. tnx for a suggestion tho man
>>18569460
>21
>achieve something
So basically I have to pay someone to fuck me. Right. If getting a high-paid job after years of blood and sweat just to support someone who fucked throughout their entire youth is an achievement in life, I'd rather be dead.
I'm just asking for someone who I won't be disgusted with (trust me I'm really not picky, just don't be overweight is the only requirement), I just want to know what it's like when someone is in love with you.