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Pilots! If you can remember that far back, how did you find your first flight? I want to get my PPL in the future and I was considering CPL, but I did an intro flight in a C150 a month ago and I got a bit panicked by the shakiness, to the point I actually felt stressed (I'm normally super chill) and the instructor turned it into a sightseeing flight. So do you ever get over that feeling or is it game over for my aviation ambitions?
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i'm super attached to my new girlfriend... i'm not clingy, but i feel super lonely when i'm not around her, and its not good for me. i'm not usually feeling lonely. i am typically very productive when i'm alone, but being with her every day this summer has totally ruined that.
its nice in a way, because obviously i am into her, but i shouldn't be sad because i'm away from her.
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>>18571344
ya it screwed up your daily routine. Also being around her alot probably fucked with your hormones. You get a high being around her. Then when your not around her the high goes away and you feel down.
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What can a total beta spaz who can't attention span for more than a second do to survive in this shit hole.
Is there any decent jobs for idiots or some way I can support myself? I went through like 10 jobs in 3 years. Im so fucking depressed and sick of struggling, I wouldn't mind if I felt like I had a connection with any fucking person alive or a want to live. I have no quality of life. Past eating, and smoking pot. Which I stopped because whats the point. My highest paying job was 8.75 I've given up on myself. Had my life almost "together" and it fell apart. Im about to be homeless if I don't do something but the only thing I can see is going back to min wage shitholes and once I slip up im going to be out of bridges. I don't understand this shit. I don't really think about it anymore just lay in bed watching mind numbing shit that I don't even enjoy waiting for my friends to throw me out because I already know im too fucking dumb to hold a job. Why? Because I 100% lack social skills as a male and am ugly foreveralone and people see they can push me around and try to bully me/take advantage of me so I spaz the fuck out on them what the fuck is wrong with me /adv/
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go back to school/college
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Kill
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>>18571335
fix your attention span
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This may be too serious for /adv/, but I don't know what to do.
I'm in the US and I'm about to lose my health insurance. I'm covered until November under my father's private insurance but once that date rolls around, I'll be uninsured. I've applied for medicaid and was denied, I don't qualify for medicare, and I cannot afford an insurance plan. I have health issues that cannot be left untreated, and without insurance, I can't afford it.
I'm a full time student working on an undergrad and the thought of having to drop out and work for 7.25 and live off of food stamps horrifies me. I'm terrified of having to let my career go. I've worked too fucking hard and came too fucking far to have it taken from me.
My current plan right now is to speak to my doctors and stock up on as much medication as I can so I can make it to Christmas and complete the fall semester. After Christmas, I'm going to apply for SSI since you'll qualify for medicaid automatically if you're approved, but I'll have to lawyer up and fight it, which can take around 150 days and there's no guarantee that I'll be accepted. I'm also not sure if it's possible to receive SSI benefits while attending college full time. I'll only need SSI until I graduate and get a career going, but from what I understand, SSI is meant to be a permanent solution and that's not why I need it. I've already spoken to an attorney and he told me that I MIGHT have a case, but more information is needed so that's also up in the air.
I'm lost and I don't know what to do, /adv/. Any suggestions?
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Go onto your state's health marketplace website and look into your options. There is a lot of assistance out there outside of medicare. Also, Monday I would call whatever number is on the website. I had issues the first time I applied for it when I was turning 26. It said I didn't qualify for anything, but I was just trying too early and ended up on a plan that cost me like 20 a month. Good luck dude it's super frustrating.
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How early were you? I've went through the marketplace (which is how I found out that I don't qualify for medicaid) and I can't afford the current insurance options. Should I wait closer towards November and see what happens? The good news, atleast, is that the state I reside in doesn't slap you with a fine for not having insurance until a certain time has passed, so I won't have to worry about that atleast.
I know that there's free clinics with sliding scales, but I don't know anything about that. Honestly, I just need my medication, nothing more.
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>>18571333
Looks like the days of wine and roses are over, dude. Time for you to go get a fucking job like everyone else. Some Georgetown bitch needs her free birth control.
Seriously, you're 26 and still don't have an undergrad? What have you done with your life?
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How do I respond to this? Just came across it in my emails now.
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Block it. It's scam lol.
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>>18571330
this shit was in may. Its probably fake.
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It's fake. Google it.
Poor OP thought he was getting rich.
Is having a foreskin pleasurable for both parties or does it just get in the way?
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Consider this: the majority of the world doesn't practice circumcision.
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>>18571325
foreskins make it easier to jerk my guy off and use my hand while i also suck his dick. plus it's fun sticking my tongue up under his foreskin and rummaging around in there, but that might just be me
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Where can I find a boyfriend to live off grid with?
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>>18571323
find guys who love nature and doing survival shit.
wood workers?
hippies
LSD users
vegans?
hunter?
look for traits in men who fit a off the grid lifestyle.
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>>18571324
I don't want a crazy hippie though, and I don't like drugs....a hunter would be nice
I'm an introverted person. My friends want me to hang out with them all the time, and I'm happy to hang out with them sometimes but after a long week of work I really need a day to myself just to feel okay. I don't want to make excuses every time I just want to do my own things. What can I say that they'll understand? I just lied to them that I have to work tomorrow and I feel really bad about it.
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Just explain to them the same thing that you've just wrote...
Tell 'me that you're tired and not down for it..
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>>18571311
Should I tell them I lied about having to work or should I just shut the fuck up. I kind of feel like they already guessed but I dunno.
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>>18571317
bit too late for that. just don't lie in the future.
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Alright guys, just went on my first date and I'm clueless where to go from here.
>asked a girl out to a restaurant
>she seemed really happy, texted with exclamation points, called the day before to confirm
>go the place at the designated time, shoot her a text letting her know I'm there
>she replies she's on her way
>she shows up 20 minutes late anyway, apologizes at least, and had her hair and makeup done nicely so I guess that's why she was running late
>after we get our food she takes out her phone and reads a text
>leaves her phone out on the table (didn't look at it after that but it's a pet peeve of mine)
>complains that the food's not spicy enough (she ordered an omelette, not sure if it was a joke or not) and says that we'll have to go to some other restaurant next time (she said a specific one, just can't remember the name)
>despite all this, she talks quite a bit, I usually lead conversations but she must've talked twice as much as I did (not sure if that's a good thing or not)
>at around 1:00 I tell her that I gotta go pick up a friend from the train station
>reach for the check
>she interrupts me and insists that she pays for her half
>I tell her it's my treat
>she grabs it out of my hand
>decide to just give it up and split it if she wants to so badly
>as we leave give her a quick hug, she returns it
So uh, what next? I guess that went okay. Should I arrange for us to meet at the place she suggested sometime? How long do I have to wait before doing so? Should I send other texts before then? Any other advice for stuff I'm not thinking of would be appreciated. Also, we're both 20 if it matters.
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Firstly, don't overthink it. She wasn't on her phone all night or anything, which is a good sign. Secondly, an omelette can be spicy if you add the right peppers into them. It's not a reflection on you, just the food.
Paying for half isn't typical, but not a bad sign out of necessity.
Should have gone for at LEAST a peck on the cheek.
Now, here's what you do from here: wait at least 24 hours (3 day rule is so played out that it's cringe and everyone knows it), then ask her out again. Don't tell her when or where when you ask. If she says "yes," ask what day is good for her. Presuming she gives you a day that works for you, what you do is you go and make all the plans yourself, like restaurant reservations and what you want to do after, then go and pick her up at her place. YOU are the entertainment, and she is along for the ride.
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>It's not a reflection on you, just the food.
I get that, lol. Also, it was a sorta brunch date, I work nights and I was busy all weekend so dinner was out.
>Should have gone for at LEAST a peck on the cheek.
How do I do that exactly? Should I grab her arm/shoulder/back at all or should I just lean into her for a kiss (she's a good six inches shorter than me so it doesn't seem easy to do so)? Eye contact or should I look where I'm kissing? Never kissed before desu, and from what I've gathered from her neither has she.
I'll probably text her sunday at this rate. I don't know if going to pick her up is the best idea, I don't know her address and we really haven't spent one-on-one time besides that one date (don't know how much she trusts me), and she's a very shy girl. And even if I say, "I'll drive ya", what do I do if she asks where? Just tell her "don't worry about it"? Snarky stuff like that might work later but I don't feel like we know eachother that well yet. Another issue is that I'm going camping this entire weekend and working nights during the week so if we wanted a dinner date it'd have to be two weeks from now. Going without contact for two weeks doesn't seem like a good idea, would rather do something even if it's small before next week at least.
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>>at around 1:00 I tell her that I gotta go pick up a friend from the train station
you dumb fuck, what do you have to complain about. who schedules picking up a friend at the train station on your first date? seriously?
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I have no feelings or attractions for any other girls and I only like guys. But if I let a girl give me head and enjoy all of it does that make me gay? I don't give anything back, I only receive from her.
I also give her kisses here and there but they're not anything extreme, just quick ones.
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>>18571271
Are you some kind of trap?
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>>18571271
Sounds to me like you are a gay man that doesn't mind when women give you head.
You don't give head to a woman, you go down on a woman.
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>>18571271
your bi leaning towards gay
sexual orientation is a spectrum
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I'm 33 and I'll be a high school teacher soon. I originally chose this job because they get payed very well in this country, but over the course of my studies I realized how much of a misanthropist hermit I am and I fucking hate juveniles.
How do I pull through with this? I'm too old to remap my career now and my only other option would be to write a dissertation to become a university lecturer, which isn't exactly great either.
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>I'm 33
>I studied to become a teacher/professor
>I did not realize throughout the entirety of my 15 years of training that I did not enjoy teaching
>I can not afford not to teach
>What do?
You realize that your job is just that: your job. Most people don't enjoy their jobs, which is why they pay you for it. You're 33. How have you not figured this out by now?
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>How have you not figured this out by now?
Of course I have. I've had all kinds of part-time jobs over the years when I was studying. Some were nice, some were not so nice. But I really feel that teaching is horror. You're basically the center of attention each and every day. The subject of laughter to a horde of hormone-ridden apes who feel just as much enthusiasm to be in the class room as I do. How would YOU like a job where literally everyone around you sees you as 'the enemy' or just some ugly old man talking shit all day. Your job is basically to get ridiculed every day. Great outlook.
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Are you self-conscious of what a puppy thinks of you? What about 5 year olds; if they think you are a dick, does that really bother you? If so, why? If not, what's the difference between them and "hormone-ridden apes?"
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All my life I've been praised for my alleged intelligence, been called Mensa-smart, scorned for my book smarts that absolutely do not compare to another's street smarts, but I have never felt more than merely competent in areas I was told to learn.
Whenever I try to learn something new, I either get frustrated with the tediousness of the beginning or overwhelmed by the enormity of the concept, and end up giving up and getting depressed because I did so. I second-guess what I do know, and will often underrepresent myself in a way that leads to my rejection in areas that would have the potential to challenge me.
I have become stagnant in my volunteer job because I didn't feel confident to pick up a real job after years of wallowing in self-pity after high school, and now that this position has run its course I find myself in need of a breakthrough lest I find myself in bed for weeks on end once again.
The people I know aren't any help: they think I'm Einsteinian for being able to pick up mail merge in a day, and I couldn't bring myself to ask anyway out of fear of sounding pretentious or pathetic.
Ending ones life because one can't play a musical instrument without taking time to thoroughly learn it first is nonsense, but I can't seem to find purpose in life, and can't bear to live without it.
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You write like a faggot.
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>>18571262
Folks I know love my writing, but they think my resume is outstanding because I added some border lines and paragraph spacing to the lines I modified from job descriptions.
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My grandfather is offering to pay for my housing/food if I go to community college(free for me) as a transfer student. Where in the USA should I go? I was considering New England or Pacific Northwest.
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>>18571252
have you chosen a career or a major/degree yet?
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not sure yet, STEM comes off as especially vocational, but I'm not some idiot that would pick a major that doesn't require being taught. I used to want engineering, but it looks like a major trap of a career. We'll see. I don't want my degree to push me into a singular career, too boring of a life. I mostly want recommendations on where to live as a young white male in the USA. I read a lot, exercise, want to date, etc...
Seattle seems nice and they have a lot of community colleges so that'd be easy, but it seems like it's becoming extremely gentrified, low vacancy rates, higher rent prices.... it also seems a bit isolated in the top left corner of the country like that, with just portland and vancouver 3 hours each way. not too interesting, especially since it seems like a lot of jobs there are microsoft/amazon/boeing/spacex or whatever, lots of chinese/indians... not my scene. Otherwise, seattle seems to read a lot and are educated.
new england doesn't have as many community colleges, but it seems like there is more going on what with such major metro areas from Portland ME down to rehobath beach, and it at least looks like there are pockets where I can find something not extremely expensive. my grandfather wants to keep monthly expenses at ~$1,100 top, and that's just rent and food, and I already cook my own food and such so that's inexpensive for me.
Both places seem very pretty, their nature I mean.
TL;DR not important just want location recommendations
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I applied to a position. I forgot to attach my application letter the first time round and resubmitted my application 2 days after with one.
It's going to be two weeks by this Wednesday. They still haven't replied. It says in the ad they were hiring immediately. It's online work (though full-time) for a biotech firm. I fill all the qualifications (STEM degree) and I have certifications for online classes from UC Berkeley and Chalmers, Sweden.
Have I been rejected?
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How the fuck are we supposed to know? Contact them and ask.
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>>18571236
You think it's not inappropriate?
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>>18571245
Why would it be inappropriate?
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Question: Do girls like men without penis or testicles? Saying this as a trans man, I couldn't believe when one girl called me a "fucking freak" after I revealed I didn't have genitalia. I mean, I didn't tell her I was trans or make any hints whatsoever, but she should be expected to know this, right? It just utterly blew my mind that I was about to have sex with this transphobic cracker ass cunt. So, do women like men who aren't actually men? Oh also, I'm a feminist, so no transmisogynistic or heterosexist comments please :33 (◠‿◠)
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On the off chance that this isn't bait, no, I wouldn't want to date someone who wasn't biologically a man and lacked real male genitalia
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>Oh also, I'm a feminist, so no transmisogynistic or heterosexist comments please :33 (◠‿◠)
Clearly bait.
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>>18571205
i'm gonna be straight with you.
The only people you can date are BI girls. STRAIGHT women want dick. They dont want people that look like men that have viginas.
the sooner you realize this reality the better off you will be, doesn't mean there aren't women out there that want you, there out there but not straight women, they want a man with a cock. its a prerequisite to being a heterosexual. By definition if a women likes you sexually as trans, she is either BI or lesbian because vigina.
Your gender might change but your sexual organs do not.