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>>16526936
Be friendly, but do what you can to avoid leading him on. Don't accept gifts, money, favors, etc. If he ever confesses to you, make it known that you're just not interested in him that way and that it'll never, ever happen.

>>16526936
You're a gill right? Just be nice to his face and exploiting his time and money and then ridiculoule him behind with his black best friend.

I thought this shit came naturally to you.

It's not really OK to cut a friend out of your life for being into something weird -- provided you didn't, like, tell them "my boundaries are pretty strict, I'm really not comfortable hearing anything about your sex life" and then insist on telling you all about it anyway.

It is OK, though, to ask somebody for some space if you've found out they're infatuated with you. It can be a positive thing for them too sometimes.

Figure out, is it really that you can't be friends with someone with this fetish, or is it that you just really don't see him that way and it's odd for you knowing he does? Being squicked out by somebody's fetishes does contribute to "not seeing them that way."

>>16526900
bump

Be mature. Be independent. Know how to take care of yourself and others, and do so. Be knowledgeable, and pursue things that interest you. Be confident, prove yourself to yourself, and work to be the kind of person you want to be. Be kind and generous, be compassionate, be open to other points of view but know when to stand your ground to protect yourself and others.


In short, just try to be a good person.

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I am a man and I don't want to be.

>>16526853

You need to talk to the university you want to transfer to about reqs. Its going to be a pain in the ass. Creds from some classes will transfer and some won't/

It's not optional. Talk to the universities you will be applying to after community college.

To-do list
>Check the transfer requirements
>Talk with a counselor and see how many of your credits are transferable
>Reach your goal, make the move

>>16526853
If you want to be an engineer, don't go to grad school. Get a BE from an ABET accredited school, cheapest and closest one you can find. You're life won't be a roller coaster ride, but you will prolly never have money problems.

What do your parents do for a living?

Go to grad school if you are sincerely and deeply interested and dedicated to a specific field or furthering some knowledge... Don't do it otherwise it's a waste.

>>16526800
>how do i have a good time?
Stay home.

as long as she stays like this and i can stare, no problem

>>16526800
Get drunk to the point you don't care anymore and just try to have fun talking to people, but make sure you don't get drunk to the point where it might hurt your reputation at the office.

>>16526710
lel. i could fuck multiple women tonight without paying for shit. Stop respecting them, they don't need it and they don't want it. STOP BELIEVING THE LIES YOUR MOTHER AND WOMEN IN YOUR LIFE HAVE TOLD YOU. THEY ALL LIKE TRASH AND THEY'RE ALL FUCKIN GRUNGY ASS HOES.

Social justice is out of fucking control, yet all the music hitting top of the charts is about men breaking hearts or pimps. It's because deep down they're fucking dirtyyyy.

At least that was the revelation that made me realize I could do what ever the fuck I want to do in public without caring what people thought of me, the only thing that stops me now is what I'm legally allowed to get away with. People are shit.

>>16526734
>stop respecting them

Yeah, no, some (if not most) people get girlfriends without being a bunch of assholes. I know there must be another way.

>>16526734
Nice edgy post, but you missed the point I think. He seems already aware he should be more obvious about his intentions.

Also, I don't have any advise for you OP, as I also went on another fail date yesterday (at least I noticed the failure and we split the bill, it was bad enough wasting my time, I'd rather not waste my money on top of that).
I think next time I'll just don't give a fuck even if it feels weird to me, she may feel otherwise afterall.

>>16526655
Send her a picture of you in an identical pose.

>>16526655
Continue doing what you're already doing: nothing.

>>16526678
This

Also you should do the right thing and say I think you meant to send that to (bf's name)

>>16526630
Stop being friends with people you don't like.

>>16526633
>>16526633
That's the problem. I like him and we have a long history together. He didn't use to be like this and i think being a cocksucker is going to make his life worse in the end.

>>16526630
>close friend
>How do i tell him to man the fuck up
I think just tell him what you think when you are just the 2 of you. If it's really a close friend, he shouldn't get mad over you being honest.

Just make sure you stress enough this is your opinion and don't make it appear as a statement, if you see what I mean.

>>16526588
>help me
Why?

He is the scum of the earth and i absolutely despise him, I'm sick of him constantly bullying my sister

Also he is like the worst person ever (that is obviously not true but whatever) and i'll give you 10 reasons why

>>16526571
Stop being so shitty at writing papers. An associates degree is essentially 13th and 14th grade. People bang them out working 60 hours a week all the time.

>>16526621
I understand that a lot of people are way more efficient than me. I work really hard on my papers and they always turn out really good. It takes me a lot more time than other people because I need to get really immersed in my topic. I can write a shit paper in a couple hours that'll get me a C but I hate doing that. I think everything will get a lot easier after next semester, I'm about to finish the only English class I'll need to take at this school.

>>16526661
Time management is an important part of the college experience. Nobody is going to pay you to get immersed in the art of widget making and take 4 hours to produce a widget when your peer can produce 16 widgets in the same amount of time.

Sounds like those guys have self-esteem issues.
There's also that fun double standard where guys only deserve the best but gals should accept whoever wants them or they're picky bitches.
Try to let it roll off your back whatever way you can. I'd probably tease/ask them why they're so sensitive around the subject of sex, but I suppose that's a little mean. But so is chastising you. Hmn.

Because you women are notorious for your shit tastes in men.

The reason why everyone hates you is because you keep siding with and fucking those who are no good for anyone.

>>16526560
What do you find sexy in men?

- Work
- How much they hate work
- How much they hate the people at work
- "That one time at work when..."
- TV Shows
- Sports
- Pop Culture
- Movies

>>16526426
You can meet all sorts of people at school, work, outside classes, through mutual friends, online, even places of worship. You can talk about all sorts of things, like things you're experiencing and have in common (the class or job if you met them through that for example), your family, recreation, hobbies, interests, dreams.

Although I admit I'm not really sure about what you're asking.

>>16526436
Work seems to be the way I suppose. I work in a fuckin' grocery store with old people on great union contracts, retards and highschoolers..

I wish I could be fucking pleb enough to ACTUALLY care about sports, tv shows and that kind of shit.. I watch sports hockey but I don't understand how you can connect on that except getting together and drinking and watching hockey.

Isn't it weird to just bring up shit like TV shows/Movies etc. when you're flirting? When I'm not coked up I just can't chose the words to convey what I want to say. I would come off as autistic if I started talking about random shit like that I feel.

How do you casually start a "relationship" with someone you meet, how do you ask a girl to hangout with you and see if you connect? HOW DO U BRING THAT SHIT UP??? fuck I probably seem autistic. I just have leaned on drugs my whole life but I'm getting really tired of my only social interactions being partying or leading up to getting fucked.

How to you casually bring up wanting to get to know someone?

Help me guys, I don't want to be alone again. She showed me what it felt like to be loved.

>>16526351

Robot here.

Right now, she's fucking someone else while she thinks about what she wants.

Y'know, research, finding out which of you guys is better for her. She's tryin' to come to a sexually informed decision.


That's exactly what's going on. You're getting kekked.

Don't believe anyone else who says otherwise.
Dump her before she dumps you, and tell her you like trannies better anyway. Charlie Sheen showed you the way of the future.

>>16526400
>waaaah!

get over yourself, your born alone, you spend most time alone in ife even if you are married and guess what? you face death alone

get over it move on

It's a fragment of bone from your jaw. Over the course of weeks/months it'll rise through the gums, break through and eventually work itself free.

It's annoying as fuck but absolutely harmless.

>>16526313
Wtf. Can you post a link about this or what it's called? Not op but need to get my wisdo. Teeth removed and this scares me

>>16526323
Just Google "jaw bone fragment." There's absolutely nothing to be scared about. It's basically a large splinter. Chipped bone isn't dangerous, nor is waiting for it to work itself free.

post a picture of yourself and we will see what we can do to help you improve. somewhere out there someone is wondering what it's like to meet someone like you. don't kill yourself.

>>16526275
>And being a 20 yo virgin is fucking pathetic.
No its not, you been brainwashed by the liberals. Virgin is the least of your problems. It's a symptom of your attitude.

No picture. I deleted every last one, and destroyed the paper ones. I don't want to see myself. Really. Nobody would want 20yo virgin with ugly face and broken inside. It's the truth. Thank you for replying tho, I was sure that I 'll be ignored and laughted off as always