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What do you 'love' about this person?

>>16531775
I've been dating them for almost two years, we are thinking about living together. I'm 23. They are awesome in every way, kind and thoughtful. I just have desires to sleep with other people because I want the novelty, I want that amazement over my body and theirs, etc, but I love my partner and we have sex quite often as well.

>>16531767
Its called being a hoe/slut/bitch/whore. Hoes fall in love too and continue slutting it up. Just dont expect this someone to love or respect you back, what ever the fuck love means.

I smoke err'day and am slowly becoming less intelligent and more depressed. I think that's why

>>16531750
jesus fuck I thought this was some maggot infested gore picture but it's just pizza's on their side

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Smoking weed once or twice per week can't possibly do anything wrong for you. Like, it just can't. No matter what some stupid people might say, you'd need to smoke the ganja in great amounts every single day for a good while to feel a difference in your mental aptitudes. People hate it because they're ignorant as fuck - it is (or was) illegal, therefore it's shit, even though cigarettes and alcohol, which are fucking dangerous per comparison, are legal and sold everywhere. Shit is dumb. Don't worry about it and smoke if you want to.

>>16531733
S M O K E W E E D

>>16531742
please help man

You just need to learn how to learn bro. I wish I had this info when I was in school.
Google Brian Tracy accelerated learning techniques.
Do the work every day and you can get easy a's

>>16531674
You're obviously extremely depressed. It's okay, a lot of people are these days.

You should go out and be as gung ho as possible about it. Go out. Worst case scenario is that you have a boring time. Or you could meet a new friend or two. Or you could meet your next love.

Life is what you make of it. If you sit around at home, you can expect nothing to happen. If you go, the world of possibility opens up to you.

Always opt for the unexpected.

>>16531716
>If you go, the world of possibility opens up to you. Always opt for the unexpected.

Not OP, but I really needed to hear that, thanks anon.

>>16531723

Same

Don't forget sleep.

>>16531637
eat healthy. exercise. poop a lot. caffeine pills and aspirin helps a lot. lots of vitamins. having a satisfying, long, conversation session with a girl you really like...

yes, staying hydrated too with gatorade.

>>16531637
also, make more money, plan a trip to tokyo, buy something kind of expensive you really want...

mostly, stay really healthy tho.

The girl would have told people if she didn't want you around, so go.

>>16531629
It's a surprise birthday party. She has no idea it's happening, or that I would be there.

>>16531631
No, before. She would have said negative things before.

>>16531621
If only there were medical professionals who could give you a definitive answer on questions you had about your health... Man that would be nice wouldn't it? Maybe one day...

>>16531621
go get it checked...

do you touch yourself particularly roughly? do you use weird stuff on your penis? have you had sex recently?

i have a dry patch on my scrotum, about the site of a nickel. it's been like that since college. i've had my urethra swapped with a qtip and blood work done after receiving oral sex from a native american chick i met at walmart, but the tests revealed i have no STDs,

still have that dry patch though...

white/red pus filled pimples might be more serious tho

>>16531621
cancer , im not a doktor but ive seen cancer dick plenty . post a pic for a better answer

>>16531471
If you didn't go to college, you are pretty much stuck with grunt-tier, minimum wage jobs that are not so fun.
I did a gap year and 2/3 of my jobs was miserable with shit bosses. I love one job. I found it via networking. It was seasonal though and they didn't hire me though.

>>16531471
My recommendation?
Get working holidays visas and travel the world.
Yup, if you pop up in another country with no networks, you'll just end up in similar jobs in country #2. Doing this is not a problem for you though - you are stuck in similar jobs locally so there is not risk for you in doing that. (ie you are not giving up a nice job that you may not get back) For some reason, most people found their working holiday experiences to be very rewarding though.

>>16531478
Why should I be stuck with shitty jobs just because I didn't have the money for college/uni? I really don't understand

Do meth, increases stamina.

Or hire a prostitute and practice on her/him

my 2nd problem, part 2 if you will:

>be me, find qt that I hit it off really well with
>she lives a couple hours away
>have been in contact for a long time but only recently had opportunities to hook up
>first night she seems really affectionate and forward
>terrible sex, literally 15 seconds before I said aloud "this is terrible"
>after that she seemed to not really care one way or the other about me
>she won't talk to me unless I badger her, I've talked to her once in the last two weeks.
>she didn't even wish me a happy birthday

should I say something or just quietly drift away? i had mixed feelings about the whole thing. maybe its already over? in which case i probably shouldn't even bring it up cause shes probably forgotten about me. OR none of this is true and shes sad, in which case how can I gauge objectively whether or not its worth pursuing, given everything?

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Clearly you have more than one problem.

I don't know, if I would I wouldn't be lurking /adv/ so much.

>try to look your best whenever you leave the house
>talk to girls
>show interest but do not be a creep
>every rejection is a valuable experience

That and some luck, and skills, etc..

Spend 3 years lifting and making money. Then spend the rest of your life doing the same.

Honestly I started getting good at my passion and its finally starting to attract women. But then again I cook for almost 80-90 hours a week so I got gud. I might get a gf or fuck buddy on Monday wish me luck its be to long for me. You'll get there OP I'm not even good looking

Tell everyone and post mudes. Pretend to be cool but then take pics and put it on her fb

>>16531408
Tell everyone she knows

I wish I could but i dont have her on fb nor do i know any of her friends

My theory is that you didn't drink enough, hang out with enough white people, have enough casual sex, take enough selfies in front of historic buildings, post about it enough on social media, or put up a gofundme for it.

Better luck next time, pleb

>>16531298
you romanticized travelling the world too much, living in country B is not necessarily better than living in your own country (unless if you are from a developing country)
how did you travel the world? quit your job and backpack? work in farms around the world? taught english in other countries?

>>16531323
I traveled for my job.

no one has any tips?
I'm thinking I should script my next one, random rambles made up on the fly when drunk can't really be used to deliver a coherent message. but it has at least got me a bit of attention

bamp

>tfw my threads rarely succeed

You again? Didn't get enough attention last time?

>>16531175
The question I ask is somewhat different this time
> I am thinking about visiting her (vice versa is hard as I live in a big city and we won't be able to accommodate her in our small apartment), but it seems a bit odd to suddenly say that I will drop by.
Should I just suggest this?

Go just go!

>>16531149
join fb-groups on the stuff you find interesting, go to underground parties, art galleries and jam sessions. Join some art course.
how old are you?

>>16531149
deviantart and pixiv

>>16531166
>how old are you
21

To be honest I don't like to go to meet-ups where there's a lot of people and they're all strangers if I don't have a friend to go with. I just feel awkward, it's hard to approach someone in a big group, and nobody will approach some fagit first.
Maybe the course is a good idea.
>>16531167
I wonder if it wouldn't be kind of awkward to just try to make friends with somebody on such a site.