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>>16527550
as reliable as a any encyclopaedia.

>>16527550
Wikipedia is written by volunteers. Some know what they're talking about, some don't and some are deliberately misleading. The editors try to control quality but can't be expert enough in everything.

It's a convenient place to start, and to get simple facts, like someone's dates. And its references might send you to other good sources.

But double check anything you find there. And don't ever use it as a source in a school paper or assignment.

I only used wiki during my schooling. I wasn't stupid enough to list it as a source, what I would do is is list all the references for the article as a source.

The notes on my papers form the teacher.
>That is an impressive list of sources you found.

I dunno, it seems kind of unnatural thus weird. It implies that you are attracted to people that lack discipline and that probably have some issues. Maybe you feel less intimidated and judged because they aren't perfect, just like you?

>>16527461
>implies that you are attracted to people that lack discipline and that probably have some issues

You can get that with skinnier chicks. Btw, I'm not talking about huge or even obese just slightly chubby or thick.

>>16527463
Sure. But they might appear "perfect" from a distance. Chubby girl have obvious "flaws".

Nah, just leave it. Then when you hook up with him again, subtley play it off as "I was kinda worried last time, so I wanna use a condom this time"

Its not a big deal.

>>16527459
Right. I tend to overcomplicate everything. Thanks anon.

Why have the IUD and ruin it with a condom?

>>16527322
Firstly, let me start off by saying nice dubs. Life is about happiness. It's not about how many things you have, materialism is a man-made idea. For all you know, you could die tomorrow & on the verge of death you don't want to vehemently regret the decisions you made prior to your departure. Take a vacation, treat yourself to a new guitar, go buy some whiskey & fucking drown yourself in it OP. This world is for men who act and not those who plan. More than half of the time nothing goes as planned because even the most minuscule detail can cause volatility. Focus on your happiness and not your materialistic bullshit, you fucking capitalist. Anyways, cheers lad & may your decisions be the best ones.

You're 23 on a regular full-time job, you can't be exhausted.

First comes the work, then comes the fun.

>>16527349
>Life is about happines

Also don't listen to the hedonists and faggots who come to this board exactly because they only see short-term gratification (who are those people again? oh right, MILLENIALS)

Challenge yourself, work, save money, have fun, rebuild yourself.

Why do you care what your 52 year old neighbour has to say?

>>16527269
I sort of respected him, part of the neighbourhood

>>16527263
anyone else had to deal with this type of crap?

>>16527208
Yes, it's weird, and no, it's probably not a great idea. A better idea would be to rehearse ahead of time, several times if need be, but not commit the words to memory or write them down. If you do you'll sound like a robot.

And pick a different setting. Her mind will be way elsewhere, and she won't be in the best mood. Also it's just weird.

That's not the best idea. But ofcourse we don't know how you know this person or anything if you two are relatively friendly already it might be ok. Just take mental step back and really think about your aproach.

Having a script is very handy from my own experience. Keep it short and simple and don't overly explain yourself, be brief and to the point.

>>16527208
It's not weirder or more awkward than any other cold approach. Keep it casual, talk to her like anyone else.

Mental scripts aren't a bad idea but don't get too detailed- you've got to learn to ad lib

Hot girls are annoying. They often say dumb cringe if you ever listened. It's not worth the hassle to pursue hawt gurl pussi when you can fax to them all you want

Because you'll make me look bad. I do not need people thinking I'm going to attack them because I had feelings for them in the past. They might even attack me, and that would REALLY suck.

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>>16527199

Break up.

>>16527192
I swear god that if a girl went through my phone without my permission I'd dump the shit out of her for starters. people need their own private space, just because he likes you doesn't mean he should bend over and take your dick up his fucking ass when it comes to everything in life.

>>16527192
>oh no he talked to another human being i need to search all his belongings to ensure that the only human he ever contacts is me

are you building a pit in your basement to trap him inside too?

jesus christ

>"find herself".
This is the point where she started cheating on you, and where I stopped reading.

You already know what you must do, stop being a pussy.

Seriously, you were dumped because you got too beta, OP.

>At the end of the "date" I suggest we do it again, she declines saying that it would be contradictory because she previously insisted she isn't ready to date again,
Actually, nevermind.

You got SO beta, wishy-washy, romantic, non-confrontational, unleader-y, that you not only killed off her attraction to you FOR GOOD, but you also made her completely repulsed of relationships AT ALL, and she'll pretty much admits she'll be a long time in the cock carousel of casual sex until she forgets what a pussy you've became in the course of your relationship.

Hope that helped.

I know it sounds that way, but I'm almost 100 percent certain it's not because of someone else for reasons I can't be assed to explain unless you actually want me to. So let's assume it's not that. Now what?

You're most likely tripping out and nothing bad happened. I get literally the same feeling after I drink - an insatiable feeling that I fucked up or embarrassed myself somehow. That's why I never get smashed in public anymore, and save it for my boys. If the dude is close enough to you he would be open and tell you something made him uncomfortable.

Don't drink to shake off feelings. It will just worsen them and escalate things. Talk to a trusted person about your problems. Does alcoholism run in any of your family?

>>16527157
Yes and I'm painfully aware of the road I'm walking down but its ridiculously hard to stop for more than a few weeks. I've told myself I'll drop it if it ever gets to the point where I'm skipping class to get drunk but now I'm not so sure if thats the best point to wait for.

>>16527156
It's good to know I'm not the only one who frequently gets this post-drunk anxiety. Do you think I should just pretend it never happened and move on?

>>16527103
Blackmail/Extortion is illegal. Tell her that you've documented everything, and that if she continues to threaten you (or leaks said picture), you're not afraid of taking legal action.

>>16527103
Karma tbqh

>>16527109
This. Call the cops (non-emergency line obviously).

>>16527095
>Why are people still having them other than to make their parents shut up about "muh grandchildren?
It might be hard to believe, but some people genuinely like them.

I'm in a weird situation where, if I don't have a child soon, I'll probably end up completely alone when I'm a bit older. Aside from my husband, everyone I love is dead or will die very soon. But at the same time, I know how selfish we both are, and so I try to fight the urges. I feel like I'll regret it either way.

>I'm sick of being asked when I'm going to pop some out.
Make a sad, serious face and tell them you're barren. They'll stop asking.

>>16527104
I just see it as extremely rude to even ask someone if they're going to have kids. I will try the barren response, thanks.

I'm the same way with my husband. We just like how things are.

When people ask me how many kids I want I say "I do not know how many does it take to create a village?". They never ask me again.

Least painful way is obliteration with an explosive device.

Best way is either handgun/shotgun or jumping headfirst off an extremely high building. Good luck with that.

>>16527032
Depends. If you live in western country currently accepting muslim refugees, please do the rest of us a favor and suicide bomb one of the 'asylum' centers.

Explosive devices are the quickest way to go, and you'll be making you death useful for the rest of society.

>>16527032
100 pushups, 100 situps, 100 squats, 10, 000 km run ez

>>16526986
Give her a day.

it's almost like she has a life or something

>>16526990
A life that's fine without OP in it

Is this some sort of joke?

You shouldn't make a giant list of the things you shouldn't say. You should just practice talking to woman like they're people.

Unless you're SO clueless when you try to talk to women you just creep them the fuck out. Then you can ask for some pointers.

I have no idea what you're asking, so I'm just going to assume.

When complimenting a woman, don't use words like sexy or hot until you're actually in a relationship. Use words like pretty, gorgeous, lovely, etc. Remember, be the prince, not the bard. Unless you're just trying to fuck. Then be the bard. But for relationships be the prince.

Do ask her about her day. Do pretend to care. She says she didn't do anything today? Throw in a cute line like "Well, I was thinking about grabbing some coffee later if you wanted to come with. No pressure." If she mentions a hobby anywhere, two options. 1) If you actually share this hobby, bring it up. 2) If you do not share the hobby, do not pretend like you do because that's frustrating for everyone. Say something like "Wow, what a coincidence! I was actually thinking about getting into [hobby]."

Anything else?