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Holy shit... women have depressed me? 2015-12-04 00:38:36 Post No.16529303
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Holy shit... women have depressed me?
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2015-12-04 00:38:36
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I feel like my life is dog shit because of how little experience I have had with women. For example, I am 24 and never had a girlfriend. I have tried and tried and tried. Been friend zoned countless times. I have been lead on? I asked one girl out on a date(I even used the word date explicitly) and after we went out she said she didn't think it was a date but us just hanging out.. We went out to dinner, just she and I. How the fuck could she think it was anything else. Anyway, I am actually depressed about not being able to attract women enough to have a relationship. I am missing some sort of masculine spark I think..
What the FUCK is going on!?
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Do you lift faggot?
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What happened with the girl you went on the date with?
You have to know what you want and you have to communicate that
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Change image.
And your mindset you fucking kek. When talking to a girl be clear to state your intentions. Dont be afraid to ask or to be sure that your not lead on again
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I think I have autism guys
>constantly get fixated on one thing
>deep thought patterns
>never sleep because I think too much
>have to force myself to socialise
>feel exhausted when talking to people
>If I find something interesting I get obsessed with it
>hard to make and keep friends
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>>16529301
Congratulations. We're all very happy for you
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>>16529301
It's a possibility, but those issues aren't necessarily related to autism. There's more to it than that. Those aspects could be stand-alone, or something entirely different, all depending on your situation.
I wish you the best of luck in coping with your challenges, OP. If things persist down the road, you can get a hold of a therapist/psychiatrist/mental-health professional to help you out.
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>>16529301
The fact you came to this conclusion yourself also makes it highly unlikely you actually do have autism. Aspergers if anything, but full autism is very unlikely.
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She flaked tonight (no call/text). Is it ok to send her a non butthurt text or should I give her the silent treatment ?
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if you are wrong, text
If there is nothing going on, text
If you talked as last, dont
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You should stop being a faggot, forget and next. If she texts you don't respond.
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>>16529276
No butthurt messages. Maybe say something, don't be a bitch. Then silent treatment
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How much should i stress myself out about getting laid? Honestly i can have a great day, but when i realize i have to get to that i get really upset.
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>>16529216
Not at all.
>i have to get to that
Wut?
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>>16529216
NOT AT ALL. Not ever having to worry about STDs or pregnancy scares is much better than worrying about getting laid.
I'm a 27 year old virgin, yet healthier and happier than 98% of 4chan
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>>16529216
Not at all. Don't stress about it, just pursue it at your leisure.
Your life is yours to be enjoyed, don't feel 'pressured' by others to rush into something, just go for it whenever you want to.
Shit ain't worth stressing over
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How do you deal living with normie people?
I mean im living with people whose main interests are:
Expensive cellphones(they don't have any idea of operative systems or programming android/linux, they just want it because they're trendy)
Big Brother
Reggaeton/Trashy hip hop music/Justin Bieber like singers
Lusting over "hot" guys/girls(usually niggers and people who dress like niggers)
Shitty thriller movies where niggers and cops(also niggers) shoot each other up
I on the other hand, love dramas, artistic movies(or movies with deep political/philosophical content), all kinds of music(jazz, bossa nova, blues, folk and so on), love history and politics and art. And of course i don't give a fuck about shitty tv programs, shitty movies, and my cellphone is old as fuck and i couldn't give a flying fuck about it.
I just want to puke everytime they start discussing over how slutty A is and how hot B is and how much money are they going to spend on clothes, cellphones and parties. I mean this is literally 24/7
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You're the freak, why are you talking as if they're the abnormal ones?
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idk you're the one from the lame ass "a" universe, everyone knows it is berenstein
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Sounds more like hipsters than normies.
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What are some cool Instagram pages to follow to see neat things? Things like are cool, cute things I can do or say to my girlfriend, places to visit. Things like that.
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>>16528985
bump
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Bum
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Anyone got a cool instagram page that I can find cool things?
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Advice on becoming an adult 2015-12-03 22:07:52 Post No.16528939
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I need advice on life.
Im about to be kicked out of the place im living in.
I need advice on finding a place to live and acquiring a job.
Im gonna live on my own and i need to know everything there is to know about living on your own.
How to find an apartment.
How to pay bills.
How to find a job.
How to open a bank account.
And everything else someone needs to know in order to survive as an adult.
Ive already looked all of this on the internet but i wanna hear from adults who've actually managed to be successful living on their own.
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Go and ask for a big brother or big sister to help.
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How old are you? Do you have any savings? Any money at all? Do you have a vehicle? Answer these so we can better understand your situation
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Here mate
http://howtogrowthefuckup.com
Not a joke answer, lol. Lots of good info there
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Hey /adv/
I got into an accident a couple of months back on my motorcycle and sprained my ankle. I missed two weeks of work. The other party was found at fault and I hadn't heard from their insurance company so I called an attorney.
The attorney sent me to their doctor who also does physical therapy but I don't want to rack up a huge bill and get a tiny settlement. Should I wait for the X-ray appointment before doing anything else? I don't want to rack up huge costs. I do have health insurance through my employer which could offset the costs but I'm thinking it might be better just to wait. Do I necessarily have to enter physical therapy to get a settlement? Will this be favorable for a judgement?
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>>16528839
That stupid hierarchy never fails to trigger me
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>>16528839
>Will this be favorable for a judgement?
Yes, it will - which is why your lawyer sent you there in the first place. As far as the courts see it, if you need physio it must have been a serious accident, therefore you need compensating for it.
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>>16528848
oh man I came here to say anyone who likes that pyramid is a friend of mine
>>16528860
OP I am with this guy. I would not wait on necessary care and you need to prove you were hurt enough to "seek necessary care" so....?
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Anyone have experience dating girls with mental problems like bad anxiety or depression? Or as it's more commonly called here, sticking your dick in crazy.
I ask because my gf of 2 years has those two diagnosises and it can be difficult as shit sometimes.
Anyway she's a great person and I know i'm gonna get some posts saying "JUST RUN". Im not looking to break it off, just looking to hear some experiences, advice, and whatnot.
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>>16528822
Just remember it's not your job to "fix" her. By all means support her and be there for her, but don't get caught up with thinking her illness is your responsibility.
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>>16528822
While you're in the honeymoon phase it'll be fine but after your first fight or the moment you try to dip (whichever comes first) expect to have your testicles put on a skewer and slow roasted.
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I'm actually mentally ill but not bat shit to walk in somewhere and waste people with an ak. I'm emotionally distressed from years of abuse and it's no fault of my own.
Best advice I can give is show her love as much as possible. Because of my condition I'll never be married or have kids. It's sad to know there are people out there who are way too far gone out there than me yet are in a relationship.
Just love her as much as possible.
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After I masturbate, my mood drops and I feel like shit. I am not ashamed of my penis, or what I am masturbating to, but my mood just gets so negative and eh after I have an orgasm. Can any anon explain why I feel this way?
>pic sort of related?
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>>16528802
I'm a girl and I have the same problem, after like 5-10 mins I start feeling like crap. Any anon know any reason why OP or I feel this way?
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>>16528820
>the pic isnt related at all
I'm OP, I looked it up some, and most people say they're happy afterwards, because of a chemical is produced that makes you happy, so I still have no idea why you and I feel this way
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>>16528824
original post pic*
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How can I make this go away? It itches a small amount and it looks absolutely terrible. I need to get rid of it. It just started about a month ago I have used moroccon oil shamp/conditioner for years and I just bought this ion healthy scalp stuff and it has made it worse. Please help me
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>>16528777
Bump
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Just use regular head and shoulders M8
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I've been staring at an empty Word document all day and I've only managed to write a single half assed sentence. I have six more pages to go and if I somehow am able to get into it I might be able to finish tonight.
How do I come up with the words to type?
This paper has been haunting me for two weeks now. It's all I think about. I can't allow myself to do anything else until it's done, yet I haven't done a thing with it. I feel like the past couple days have been one big blur and I'm miserable.
I am guaranteed to fail this class if I don't do it. The paper is already late. Why is this so hard for me?
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Are you the STEM major who posted yesterday (or maybe the day before) who couldn't write a research essay for English or something?
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>>16528753
Yeah.
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>>16528756
Yeah, you're fucked. You haven't even taken the advice we gave you: get off 4chan and do your essay
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This whole young woman career thing is really boring.
>got tons of extra money
>have no desire to buy shit anymore because I have everything I want
My friends are still working at Taco Bell with their Master's degrees and I'm making bank with my 24 community college credits. Hanging out with them feels like high school. It's weird and I don't know what to do.
I recently broke up with my boyfriend because he didn't want to have fun, was always negative, and was turning into a kek.
Is this career thing worth it? It can be isolating when no one you know is in a similar job path and it's really hard to find a patriotic white alpha male to enjoy the money with. I feel like something has change before I become an uncaring, unfulfilled drone.
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>>16528687
get a hobby?
money isn't supposed to be precisely what makes you happy, it's supposed to fuel the things that make you happy. So yeah buying things and hanging out with your friends after work is going to get boring. you need other pursuits.
if I had all the money I wanted I'd be travelling around the world, or buying all the art supplies I needed to practice enough to be a master, or spending it all on training and equipment to be a top fighter, stupid shit like that
if you don't want a boyfriend and find your friends boring, don't waste time on them.
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>>16528696
You're right I am wasting time that's why I'm bored.
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>>16529009
time to start investing in yourself in areas outside of your career
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Does this sound insane?
> Mint & Blue Curacao Egg Nog French Toast, topped with Chocolate and Candy Cane Pieces.
Seriously. Would you eat that? Would the orange and mint flavors go together? Would they go with the slight savouryness of bread? send help
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Too much.
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>>16528683
I figured it might be excessive on the sweet
I feel compelled to top it for aesthetic reasons. What's a good topping that won't make people go hyperglycemic immediately
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>>16528688
slivered almonds
In July 2015 I got into my first and hopefully only car accident. It changed my life forever. No one was hurt but my vehicle was totaled or otherwise undrivable; it had to be towed. All I did was bump into someone that was turning. I was going perhaps 40 mph and they were prolly going half that. I quickly learned from my errors and nowadays I am an extremely safe driver. Better safe than sorry. I don't take stupid risks anymore, even if drivers behind me get mad and honk at me. For a time I was legitimately scared of cars and driving, even as a passenger. But I learned and got over everything. Point is I'm better and safer, and slower now. Not reckless. I no longer drive like I own the road and I don't drive when I'm pissed off.
Anyway, fast forward to now. I've been paying $160.60 a month for car insurance though I've been accident free since July, 5 months I think. I think I have Allstate. I'm getting tired of paying so much for something I already well learned my lesson for. Can anyone give me on advice on who to talk to to see if I can get lower car insurance? It's only high because of the accident
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>>16528601
Go and talk to other insurance companies and see if they will give you a better deal. Honestly though, you're probably not going to find one, given you're probably early-mid 20s and the accident was pretty serious and cost the insurance company a lot of money, and it wasn't even 6 months ago. You could look around and see if there are any driving courses that give you some sort of certification that say you're a good driver or something which might help, but I wouldn't hold my breath. Your actions have consequences, and this accident has led to your insurance premiums being higher.
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Sorry it's State Farm. Was a little confused. See my dad handled car insurance for me when he helped me buy my car. I don't know a lot about this stuff
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>>16528640
Yes I'm 23 as of this writing. So I guess I'm shit out of luck for a bit. Well it was fun to hope
I did read that if I move states I'll have to change insurance anyway. I plan to do that someday but I don't truly understand the process