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bumperino

>>16526258

>I've since been completely infatuated about her and cant stop thinking about her

No you don't. If you really like her, forget it. You're already in the friend zone.

Anyhow, don't worry you'll get over the infatuation thing. I was infatuated with a chick 20 years ago and I just found her all these years later by googling her name. I was heartbroken when I got rejected, but dude, you should see her now! I don't feel so bad about it anymore. She got fat and ugly as hell, and she's obviously high maintenance and stupid because she lives in an expensive house that is way too small for the money, it has no trees, its situated on a _flood_plane_. I am relieved. I am a little older now and I know that I don't dig fat chicks and I sure as hell don't dig stupid people. Years later thats what these hot young creatures turn into. Natural course of aging reveals them for their true nature. Try to imagine this chick you're infatuated with as someone older and uglier and ask "do i really have anything in common with this person"? Matter fact, imagine this were a dude. When they no longer are a member of the opposite sex, attraction goes away, and now you truly are left with common-interests and common-personalities. Just about what marriage is pretty much. If you can't honestly admit you have anything like that in common, forget it cuz it wasn't meant to be and you'd have been miserable anyhow.

>>16526277

I guess you are right, while i truly agree with everything you are saying, i still really like her for now.

've already signed up for some classes with her next semester, i'm not wasting my money because they are also required for me.

I'll still follow her around for a bit to see if it changes, but if still doesnt go anywhere, i'll do as you say.

But i gotta ask one more question, do you think she had any genuine interest in my?

Watch popular shows, sports and The Walking Dead, Game of Thrones. Normie shit like that.

Then when someone inevitably brings it up you can talk to them about it.

Or you can be like me and not conform to societies expectations and only engage in meaningful conversation.

Practice my autistic friend. It's the ability to say pointless mumbo jumbo in the proper tones, times that makes u look like normie

>>16526187
what else should i watch

Just break up then

>>16526154
/thread. What the heck.

I know it seems like a pain in the ass and pointless, trust me I hate that shit too, but you most women (especially the type you're describing) would take it extremely personally if you didn't go

Pretty hard unless you can work less

Co-workers. Also, if this job doesn't make you happy, why not grabbing another one with less hours but that is able to sustain you.

>>16526135
That was me a year ago at the shitty slaughter house I worked at, same exact story, I quit after a yr

>>16526113
Sucking dick.

Have you considered sucking cock?

>>16526113
You should suck dick

>>16526090
In what ways do you ruin your relationships?

OP I think Im the same way....

Sticking around for answers to this phenomenon

>>16526128
Don't allow myself to feel good with them (emotionally and otherwise), as in I suppress them when I feel them, which leaves me mostly with bad memories and I treat them like trash without realizing.

I remember pushing this one girl away hardcore because I couldn't believe it was real and thought there was a 'catch' to my good feelings.

I didn't realize all that back then of course.

>>16526081
Fuck medication OP just go out do more man, I'm telling you just get out there. It sounds like you want medication to ease the pain. There's better alternatives dude. Medication is just gonna fuck you up more in the long run.

Good luck.

>>16526132
PLEASE listen to this guy he knows what hes talking about. Ive been through the same thing and it worked for me

thats the thing, im shy and awkward, i dont know how to keep a conversation going. i feel worthless and like no one wants to hang out with me but apparenlty my friends think better

>>16526044
Well op, il post my experience if noone comes with it first.

>>16526044
Anyone?

>>16526044
Feels bad man.

OP here. Am I ugly?

>>16525999
Go attentionwhoring to /soc/. If pic related is you, you're generic 5/10

Vagina is Vagina. Just never masterbate and you'll be golden (maybe).

>>16525971
Do you have autism or are you an attention whore? You've been posting the same shit for a month now.

Start talking a lot about a bf. Though he may get jelly and be a little less sociable in general.

>>16525971
If he does make a move say something like "you're making me very uncomfortable and I don't like what you're doing at all"

Try a hooker or escort first

L2 Control your dick.

>>16525939
You could ease into the whole woman thing by starting off with strippers. This way you'll get used to having intimate contact with a woman and get used to feeling boobs/butt. Then move onto the whores if that doesn't satiate you. That's what I did and now my woman-pedestal hangup is completely gone.

>>16525921

Sounds like you're in California.

If you actually look up jobs you will see that sysadmin positions say "degree in IT or related field." If you're not looking to work in IT you shouldn't be getting a degree in IT; if you want a software engineering position you are going to be expected to show a body of work given that your degree is only in a related field.

You will likely be making sub 50k, it sounds like you have no work experience whatsoever. It doesn't matter if you have a CIT degree, nobody wants an analyst/web engineer/sysadmin with no real world experience.

One of the things that CIT is most useful for when an IT career is taken into account is that more and more employers are waiving their comptia requirements in lieu of the degree.

>>16525956
nyc. I dont think i want to do software dev. Im up in the air on CS or CIT, im not bad at math, but im crunched to finish school and CIT will get it done quicker.

Im trying to get an idea of a starting salary, but hard to. I just dont want to end up working for 30k. I make 30k now keeping books lol.

>>16525984

Nice, like three years ago nobody had ever heard of CIT.

Hate to break it to you but if you graduate with nothing on your resume but your degree and irrelevant work experience you're gonna end up on help desk, if you can find a job at all. I say if since you're going to be overqualified for help desk and underqualified for everything else.

>>16525910
Because you have attachments and a identity you cling to.

>>16525910
Because you're afraid of dying.

It's pretty reasonable, although think about it, once you're dead, it's over. No more taxes, ex girlfriends, or shitpost /adv/ threads.

Instead of being afraid of dying, why not relish the moments that you're alive?

>>16525932
Is that what you do?

>>16525882
Any nigga that says something disrespectful is gonna get kick in the throat!

>>16525882
Save up money and get surgery to change your eye shape.

>>16525882
your eyes are fine, your problem is confidence.
on the bright side you look like josh peck before he got super handsome so maybe you can also be the most attractive man.

>>16525860
Zero. I've had one date all year and that was in January. It was only one date because she was 8 years younger than me and didn't let me talk the whole time.

>>16525860
Who is the one taking those photos????


And I'm in the same situation but with the other gender.
I interact with guys who text me but I'm taking online classes and work at a botique so I like never see boys

>>16525860
Zero. Women in public aren't worth the risk that they're a femnazi.