Hi guys, I need some advice on what to do.
My sister and I have always had a close relationship, but I've recently moved to university and my thoughts towards her have become more sexual.
Earlier this year I broke up with my first time girlfriend because she took too much time away from me and my sister,so I'm serious.
I'm not messing you around, I need some advice on what to do, since every time she visits or vice versa I'm finding it hard to control my urges.
Only serious responses please.
>>16538260
swear i recognise her from somewhere
Does it seem like your sister feels the same way?
>>16538307
I'm inclined to say yes because of the amount of time she spends with me and the amount of times she messages me.
On the other hand, I might just be kidding myself.
would you choose to be a porn star/stripper or gamble for getting money fast?
Guy or girl?
Gamble no, porn star no, stripper yes.
If your a girl/cake boy crossdresser, just do camwhoring for easy cash
>born to mentall ill/mentally retarded hillbillies
>they are literally abusive heartless monsters
>my room is so full of black mold I can't even sit in there without smelling it and getting sick
>have to sleep in storage closet in the hallway with no door
>have thinnest walls in the world
>can literally hear everything in the house even the slightest peep
>parents room is right next to storage closet and kitchen is right under it too
>this is where my parents apparently spend every waking minute
>mom currently downstairs slamming dishes for hours on end so I can't sleep
>wake up every day to them stomping around and yelling
>they keep me up every day by drinking yelling and running around
>every time I wake up they are around the corner being insane
>every waking !moment they are awake they are being unreasonably loud and they literally never sleep
>all I want is to work and have a normal life
>I'm too afraid to pick up jobs because of how sleep deprived I am
>every day they keep me up until 4 am and every day at like 9 they start slamming shit and being Loud a as fuck
>every day theyn wake me up they're either being loud as fuck so I can't sleep or they're blocking off the bathroom so I have to go piss outside
>this is literally every day I've never woken up on my own without my parents rudely smashing shit and stomping around me for hours every morning
>if I play music even slightly loud my mom will kick in my room door and scream at me but its ok to make noise between 9 am and 4 am all day long with no breaks in between
They don't feel bad for giving me this shit life. In fact they feel inclinded to torture me.Every time I go to a friends house its relaxing and quiet and they're parents are just smiling and making food next to a cozy warm fire and I get home and its cold because we can't afford heat, my parents are in the kitchen slamming dishes and yelling while drinking stomping around and being mentally ill.
Smoke marijuana
How old are you, OP?
>>16538132
I do
>>16538134
Old enough to leave but that doesn't stop the fact that I'm crippingly tired and even if I did try to leave they would just ask for all my money anyway
How do I deal with my inescapable ugliness, /adv/?
smoke marijuana.
>>16538135
I can confirm this does help.
>>16538114
Brush your teeth
>Few weeks ago
>Girlfriend's period hasn't started even though it's been a week since it was supposed to
>She's terrified she's preggers, even though I've never gotten semen in, on, or even near her vagina
>She takes a pregnancy test
>It's negative
>Present day, almost a month since her period was supposed to happen
>Still no period
>She has vaginismus like whoa, and is terrified of going to a gynecologist because she thinks (I have literally no idea if this is true or not) they'll shove in some tool to forcefully open her vagina and it will be ridiculously painful
The fact that her period hasn't happened yet will continue to bother her until she has a proper reason for its cause, but she doesn't want to undergo extreme pain to find a reason. What should we do?
>>16538102
Your gf sounds like a retard.
You can drag her to a doctor and put up with her short term rage which should hopefully vanish once everything's fixed.
Or you can leave it to her to go get help and have her blame you forever for this episode of pain because you didn't make her get help right away.
If it was me, I'd take her to get help and if she kept giving me shit after she was better I'd dump her ass. Adult life is hard enough without someone mindlessly raging at me for making appropriate decisions.
Women skip periods under stress, as its the body's way of preventing pregnancy when the woman can't be a fit mother. Ironically, the stress of her worrying about her period is making it worse. My ex skipped 3 months once due to school. Give it time and she'll bleed
>>16538123
Her period has been delayed by stress before, but periods can be outright skipped by stress? If that's the case, it would make sense; my girlfriend deals with anxiety quite a bit.
How can I compliment a girl that I have a crush on over text and also in person without coming off as a weirdo, because I don't know if she likes me more then a friend.
Example of what happened over text
>She got her nails done and showed me a picture and all I could say was they look nice
>>16538022
Bump
This is a free bump because I am interested and suck at this as well.
>>16538053
Beta boys unite!
You don't need to read all this. I just wanted to vent. Thanks /adv/.
Man I woke up and was a little sad. After getting laid off in October, I decided to take care of some medical things first and then get back into the workforce. Decided to stick with retail since it's not out of my league. You know just to have a job. But it made me kinda sad remembering that retail typically doesn't pay too well.
The place where I genuinely want to work has not given me any contact back. It's a close-knit Germanic line of stores called Aldi. What's weird about them is there isn't actually a phone number I can call to inquire about my application status. I've tried. They are extremely different. Hell, the application was even paper, not online.
The other places I could get into are Giant, Target, and Walmart. But then I realized Target might have some sort of despicable rewards program that I'd be required to pitch. Fuck rewards programs that no one really cares about. And then I remembered I had tried to get into 3 Giants, got as far as an interview for one, was never contacted again. Probably at the time because I had no prior work experience. And I really don't WANT to work at Walmart because I know I'll be miserable. But I know for a fact they're always hiring.
>Target
Might have disgusting rewards program I'm required to sales pitch to each customer
>Giant
Aren't I bothering them enough? Or should I keep trying to get in? I do genuinely want to work there.
>Walmart
Shithole that will probably fuel my depression even more but at least they're always hiring
>Aldi's
I VERY MUCH WANT TO WORK HERE but the suspense is killing me. I should've stapled my resume to my paper application before handing it to the man.
But if I could choose a job, I just want a place where I get along with everyone, something sedentary (or otherwise allowed to sit for 5 minutes when my arthritis kicks in). Someplace where I'd be respected.
If you actually read all this, holy shit you are a saint
If they had a paper resume a follow up visit isn't a bad idea. They seem a bit old fashion. How long ago did you apply? If its been a few days, go ask if they had a chance to look over your resume. Retail sucks ass, I'd hate having to go back, good luck.
>>16538028
Yes very old fashioned. I handed in my application, in person, on Thursday the 3rd. It hasn't been terribly long. The man said I should expect a call by Tuesday the 8th. It's now the 6th. I have a feeling "going in for a follow up" means going to the location I went last time and asking to speak to the manager. Tomorrow might be a good day for that.... It won't hurt, right? Because there isn't actually a phone number I can call.
Retail sucks ass yeah, sorry for all the poor souls working it. I don't exactly want to go back, but I'm going crazy here being jobless. Better just take what I can get up here. It's very hard to get a job where I live, beyond retail or food service.
>>16538007
I've worked at various Walmarts in various cities and various departments every single weekend and thanksgivings ng/black Friday for 6 years. I keep this job as a part time side job in tangent with my full time real job for extra money and to keep me busy on the weekend. All my friends are married and boring now anyways and its fuckn impossible to get laid so... I say fuck it, ill just make more money.
Anyway, Walmart isn't bad. Depending on where you work you can meet cool people. The best store I ever worked at was an inner city store in Syracuse, NY. Lots of Puerto Rican chicks there, etc. It was a good time.
Walmart will hire you without a GED or even if you've been in jail for assault or dealing drugs. In the country, that usually means lots of retards n drug addicts. In the city that means refugees, high ethnic diversity, and ex janitors hahaha.
Is 30 too late to turn your life around socially and romantically?
>>16537990
It's never too late
>>16538006
This. But it is hard. You've lived your life in a way for 30 Yeats and want to change it completely. It takes effort.
Tell me more about you OP. How is your life? Have you ever been romantically involved? Why do you feel you're going in the wrong direction?
Met this girl online, she is easily a 10/10. We got on to talking, the more I knew about her the more attracted I got to her, so I decided to tell her. Insta rejection, she said she does not date anyone she meets online, I was devastated, finally found a girl who I can connect with and it was not meant to be. We decided to remain friends. I was cool with it, not the first time I got rejected so, u can deal with it.
Fast forward a week later, we are still friends, we laugh we joke. It was still hard to be talking to her, while I am still in the process of getting over her, but I am dealing with it pretty well.
So while we were talking she dropped me this bomb of a text saying, you're the kind of guy I would like to marry (cos she said she likes smart guys, or something along those lines) , I swear I was smiling from ear to ear, but, the text did not end there, she went on to say, "but I don't date guys I meet online".
As if the rejection wasn't enough, now she had to throw a line and pulled it back instantly. This is the first time anyone had done to me, and I have no idea how to deal with it...... This sucks, this fucking sucks.. .
She's just playing with you. If she'd really like you she wouldn't mind how she met you. She just wants to olay hard to get or a bew beta orbiter.
>>16537984
this.
She's playing with you, back off a bit. Let her come to you now.
Maybe drop a few hints that you've been speaking to other girls? Play the game.
>>16537984
Apart of me thinks that but, maybe I am just in denial and rejecting any relating thoughts...
Hey, I need an advice from you. I kinda want to go to a concert, but I don't have any friends. Will it be weird if I go alone?
Pic is my photo because I have only pictures of myself.
>>16537945
No, its fine to go alone.
Nah man, go alone
omg ur hawt
Hi guys, I’ve met an attractive grill 10 days ago (lets call her Y) at one nice formal-style party. I haven’t been searching for a girl, I was just having a good time. I flirted with some other pretty girls there (women to men ratio was like 3:1 and the majority of men were old or French). Lot of wine was involved too, which helped. Well, this one was hitting on me pretty hard, later asked openly if I have a girlfriend and joked about sex. I took her home and, as the effect from alcohol already dissipated, I’ve just said goodbye.
We met day later in a restaurant near her home, talked a lot, turns out we don’t have a lot in common but it doesn’t matter so much. In fact, I have a FWB for over 7 months now and I told her so, she didnt seem to mind, and told me that she also has someone but they havent slept yet. She also seems to crave cock and one time a little drunk she texted me with her friend that she wants it really bad.
Three days later, we met again. This time, Y was really cool and we made out heavily after our meeting. However, when I was about to go home, she noticed that I have some photo on my phone screen. Retard that I am, I left there a wallpaper with me and my FWB. She insisted really hard to see, playing with me, I have finally gave it to her and she started laughing. Then we made out again, but I left with really bad mood, because I recalled that I have this other girl and wasnt sure about my feelings anymore.
So, the next day, Y texted me that she has to tell me something - she doesnt want to have a relationship with me. I fucked up and told her, that I think I need more time and hinted that the only right solution would be to never meet again. She acted accordingly and gave me time. I had to think over this really hard, and after consulting some people I think that if Y would be another FWB and K wont know about it, it would be okay. Cont.
Cont.
I tried to contact Y several times after that and she responded lazily or never at all. We ignore each other now, but as I have other things to attend to and dont want to spend time and energy thinking about this bullshit, I manned up and called her two hours ago, wanting to know if she wants to meet again or not. She answered with "Ill call you later". I am sitting in front of PC, trying to make some paperwork and thinking about all of this. If she tells me that she doesnt want to meet, I will be angry for my stupidity but will let her go.
What do you think about all of this? What is your stance on my view on cheating? I am morally okay or not? And how should I respond to her call (Y) ? Thank you for your patience and feel free to ask for more if you are interested, peace.
>>16537882
Cont.
One last thing : as I said, I have a girl FWB style for over 7 months now. When we started, she (lets call her K) told me that it would never be a proper relationship and that she only wants to be with me as FWB, because she cant resist making out with others when she is drunk and she had some troublesome relationships before. However, I think that it evolved into somewhat relationshipesque thing and I have already been invited to her family reunions, her family is great and they accepted me already, its great fun being with them (I was a formal guest to two weddings already, so I know like 30 family members). K, on the other hand, has never met my family, but it becomes more real every day. The problem is that under our agreement, I can sleep with as many people as I like, and she can too. I think that she has never used this privilege, because she is not that sexual, she is just that "makeout" type. I feel that should K find out that I have another FWB, she will be really depressed and maybe she would dump me. Sex is good but more importantly, I like her a lot and dont want to lose her. However, I ’ve never had an option to have 2 girls at the same time, and I think it would be a good experience before marriage (not exactly with K) so I wont have to cheat just for being curious till the end of my life if it would have been worth it. My faithfullnes has not been worth in the last relationship and I turned down some girls just because of it, I dont want to repeat the same mistake and I want to live fully.
UPDATE - Y just sent me a message that she slept and didnt hear the phone ringing. Also "hows it going" Wtf?
A FWB isn't a real relationship m8
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I'll be bumping with some scenery
>>16537847
Ask anything? O K. Who played Edgar in Laurence Olivier's 1980s TV King Lear?
>>16538115
Anything you'd like to ask where you would be seeking for an advice or a second opinion, rather than a trivia question anon.
if you get diagnosed with cancer do you have to get treatment for it? im 20 years old.
No. But it's highly recommended if you want to live.
Dying of cancer is very slow and painful and terrible. Sure the treatment is shitty too, but it's on a much shorter scale.
>>16537823
i dont need your preeching
>>16537820
you don't have to, no.
you might want to consider pain relief though.
He's 5 years old and will start school soon, he basically is whiny baby right now but I want him to get over that and learn to fight back when another child tries to take his toys or pushes him around.
>>16537802
he's 5, he is still a baby.
how do you expect a 5 year old to be in check of their emotions when most adults aren't?
>>16537802
>8
How about you teach him to not take the insults serious?
How about you teach him to deescalate?
How about you teach him that it's ok to walk away when you know the others will win?
>>16537805
I didn't say anything about emotion, I'm talking about learning to stand up for himself. 5 is not too early for that.
Hello guys
I am completing a year of dating, wanted to do a sequence of nice pictures, my idea was: a message from around the planet
so I need the help of those who dispose to send a photo with the phrase "the whole world knows that he loves you," along with its location. It can be a photo with a background referring to the place, using the snapchat location filter, write in a paper or something (which I think it's the more interesting) or only draw in Paint.
thanks in advance :^)
sorry for the bad engurish, pic related
>>16537797
That's a really nice idea, but I would recommend that you got people to physically write it, otherwise it could seem like you just grabbed location photos from the web and digitally wrote the signs yourself. It would be impressive if you had people actually write on paper they photographed in front of beautiful scenery from their location.
I might copy this idea, OP!
>>16537818
maybe put the person's name (in this case, the girlfriend) in the sentence, it would seem more original?
using google translate here, sorry
>>16537818
where you are from? you could take the test and write the phrase in a paper and take a picture from your window?