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A different kind of housewife 2015-12-06 07:32:29 Post No.16536989
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A different kind of housewife
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2015-12-06 07:32:29
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It seems like every housewife or stay-at-home-mother has the same hobbies:
> baking
> cooking
> cleaning
> crafting
> taking pictures of the foods and crafts they made
> writing blog entries about their children
> running a blog showing all of it off
Are there any housewives or stay-at-home mothers who like to program software? Such as writing scripts or making apps.
Does anyone know of any blog that features such a woman?
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>>16536989
If you want to do that, just go do that. Why do you need the validation of others to be the kind of person you want to be?
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Note that all of those interests you listed tie heavily into actually being a stay at home mother. A woman who's taking care of the household will either learn to like cooking or cleaning, or become very frustrated.
Are there women who like to code? Sure. But they're more likely to pursue a career.
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>>16537001
I just want to see if other women are doing the same thing and how they are. So far, I haven't found a single one, and isn't that a little odd?
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How do you figure out what your sexuality is?
I feel like mine has always been a bit blurred since I roleplay as female characters online on different sites and it sometimes turns erotic however, I'm a male. So now it's hard for me to get hard when thinking about straight sex, with me doing the plowing.
I get better results when im thinking about being the girl. Today I was feeling particularly horny and decided to play with my butt a bit. I never ever do this but it felt amazing when i did cum. My toes were twitching and i came a lot compared to my usual which isn't very much... Sometimes as little as a few drops if i've beated off multiple times that day.
I currently have a girlfriend and I don't get very hard when i'm fucking her, usually i have to pause a bit to fap and g et hard again during sex but i figure that's more an effect of jacking off pretty much every day multiple times a day for years now.
I don't find myself attracted to male's personalities and I never think about their attractiveness when I'm out on the street but once I'm home, It's like flipping a switch and I'm suddenly turned on by them.
It feels very confusing...
I love women too but i never usually think about plowing them... Could it be low self esteem?
Just looking for some thoughts, maybe answers or someone who's in or has been in the same boat.
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>>16536988
maybe you're trans
maybe you're a subby bisexual
maybe you're just internet gay
maybe trying to attach specific labels to something as nebulous as human sexuality is a crock of shit and you shouldn't worry so hard about what makes you hard when there are disturbing numbers of people who get off to cartoon horses eating people alive
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>>16536988
What makes you peepee hard?
That's what you're secuallyy attracted to. There's no need to label your sexuality- none of the labels are all-encompassing and without exception, anyways
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>>16537003
This. All of it.
Also, I just realized that as a straight white male, I fit into three minority categories these days...
how do you get a boyfriend in real life
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How do u get a girlfriend?
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>>16536967
Smile and play with your hair when you start talking to him, and when he tries to be funny, laugh and touch his arm.
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You can't "get" a boyfriend
You have to wait for a man to ask you out, and then then he has to like you, and then you can decide if you want to reciprocate
Guys have it so easy though. They can just walk up to the girls they like and ask them out. They have the power of choice. We have to wait to be asked out :(
Teacher update
quick run down of how she gave me her number
>lasts day of yesteryear
>one of the last students to leave
>making my way out the front parking lot
>on my way to the sidewalk
>she was sitting on a bench on said sidewalk
>gets up, walks along sidewalk to meet me
>compliments me on my year's performance
>gives me her number
>tells me to enjoy my summer
now
she's been insisting on me texting her more (I only limit it to school work and such) lately
wat do
winter break's coming up
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I have a teacher that I believe has been flirting with me.
quick rundown of her looks
>looks a little like jessica biel
>brunette
>hips and legs for days
>tallish
>full natural lips
>mid 30s
now the story
>just turned 18
>go to school early
>only a few students about
>hear someone walking behind me
>see her in my peripheral wearing form fitting pea-coat/scarf (sort of like pic related but with a crochet beanie)
>sneaks up behind me
>whispers in my ear "happy birthday, anon"
>frequently talk to me throughout the day
>school nearly over
>barely anyone around the room
>she goes up to me, grabs a seat, and we just talk for the last 30 minutes of the day
>think "holy shit, is she flirting with me?"
topic of how I plan on spending my b-day comes up
>she asks if I have any plans for the evening
>remember that I'm an autistic robot and have no actual plans nor many friends
>inner chad within me comes out
>jokingly* respond with "are you asking me out, (her first name)?
>she chuckles
>she lowers her voice and forms this sly smile
>whispers "that's frowned upon"
>winks
she's been spending the last 30 minutes or so minutes talking to me before school ends for the last month now
I'm also her top student.
wat do
*I've been described as intensely quiet (as opposed to my friends who are way more outgoing)
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Go for it
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Just remember to duct tape that hamster before you fuck it.
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She ended up wearing a pencilskirt/heels combo again, and I complimented her as /adv/ suggested
it went like so
>comes in during those last minutes
>exchanged pleasantries
>compliment her
>she says thanks
>i expand on compliment by saying
>"special occasion?"
>she responds with "yea. felt brave enough to wear heels today"
>tell her
>"well, you look fantastic"
>"you should wear it more often"
day after
she did
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feel bad after ending fwb relationship 2015-12-06 07:13:07 Post No.16536937
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feel bad after ending fwb relationship
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2015-12-06 07:13:07
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Ok pls help i feel like complete garbage i fucked a girl and she was virgin after that we got on a fwb relationship but today she was messaging me and calling me like crazy and i decided to end it but she told me how stupid she was and that she ahted me and so on i feel really bad but i dont know she already blocked me but if she agreed to that its fair right? idk i feel pretty bad
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>>16536937
Get yourself neutered.
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>>16536942
apart from that any other sugestion?
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>>16536937
The only thing you should feel bad about is that run-on sentence.
Hey, so I have a question and I don't really know where else to turn, please help.
My girlfriend (of almost 1 year) had a younger brother with severe autism, no one else in her family has it, and no one in my family has it. I'm genuinely terrified my kid will have autism, and I'm not sure that I could love a child with the disorder. According to her family doctor, there is a test they can run before the child is born that has 100% accuracy in diagnosing the disorder while still in the legal abortion window. She said she is willing to get an abortion for me if it comes back positive, but I would really rather not deal with that situation for obvious reasons.
Does anyone have any good sources I can look at that give me actual statistical information of the likelihood that my kid will have autism, and what are your thoughts on simply ending the relationship and finding another partner?
I'm happy to supply additional information if you need it.
Please don't judge me for the question, I don't really have anyone else I can turn to for advice.
Thanks :)
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Yes, sort of.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genetic_counseling
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Very little is known about the genetics of autism, so drilling it down to an actionable percentage chance of your having an autistic child with this girl is near impossible. If nobody else in her family is autistic and nobody in your family is autistic, you're probably fine, and any child you have with anyone else is still going to carry the risk of developmental disorders.
Links to a bunch of studies at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heritability_of_autism
But nothing's been done regarding children of parents of siblings with autism obviously.
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>>16536916
I don't blame you for being concerned. I have autism and my parents don't love me, either. Tollerate perhaps, definitely pity, but that'd be about the extent of it.
Actually, top props for having a proper level of self awareness and not committing yourself to something you wouldn't be able to follow through with! I wish more people were like that.
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Asian femanon who took a liking to a Hispanic guy here. Should I ask him out? I know that my parents will not like the idea of me having a long-term relationship with a Hispanic guy with Hispanic nations being developing countries and all, but hey, my parents are not in America right now.
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do it fuck ur parents
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Your happiness trumps over everyone elses. Including your family. It doesnt work if everyone else is happy but you.
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RACE
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Student loans: Should I refinance, or do full payments?
I owe 75k and I haven't landed a full time job yet. I've been doing freelance with my skill as a somewhat well known contemporary fine artist, but print sales are not consistent and I can't support myself + my loans off of this. My loan payments start next month at $850 in total (one is 550, other is 300). My parents want me to do full payments and get it over with, but my quality of life will significantly plummet with this lingering bill. Blah blah blah, everyone is going through the same shit, right?
What are you all doing with your loans? Did you refinance? Or would you recommend busting your ass to pay the full payment?
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>>16536757
Why can't you do both?
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I don't have a student loan, but if I did, I'd pick the option that allowed me to pay it of ASAP. Especially if I owed $75k
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>>16536770
You would spend seven years of your life paying $850 a month as apposed to stretching it with $200 payments?
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What is life in the countryside like? 2015-12-06 06:07:49 Post No.16536735
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What is life in the countryside like?
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Singaporefag with UK citizenship here. I am thinking about finding a job in the English countryside. It really appeals to me as it's very different from where I am now. I've lived in homestay hotels in the European countryside and I loved it. I don't know if I am romanticising life in the countryside too much and I am wondering if I will get bored of it in the future.
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>>16536735
Maybe try >>>/out/, >>>/trv/, or >>>/int/
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>>16537096
No advice here?
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>>16537096
>>>>/out/
It's not like I will be backpacking in the UK
>>>/trv/
Or travelling
>>>/int/
Kek I don't want people to tell me to fuck off and stay away from their homeland
What are some good texts that I can send so she texts me back?
Its been two weeks since I talked to her and I dont know what to do. The simple Hey or Hello wont do the trick anymore.
And then i had avoided her on school until the semester ended, only to regret that decision
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throwing insults usuallty works to grab people's attention
you won't insult her obviously, but maybe saying something challenging in a funny way might work
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"Why are gorillas always frowning?"
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But seriously, a "Hey I saw your twin today!" usually does the trick. Unless she's Asian, in which case you can still do it but it has a more interesting twist on it.
Hey guys. 21/m/USA. Parents abandoned me when i was 12. Was raised by a family friend until I was 19 when she passed away. Losing friends to their colleges, careers, moving, and outright disliking me, don't have much family left (not that they associate with me, anyways.) Living on my own, working a full-time shitty job where I'm constantly put down by shitty blue-collar co-workers. I graduated advanced with honors in high school and with college course. Just now finishing my associates 3 years later. No motivation, out of shape, unhappy. Feeling lost and worthless. any advice?
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>>16536612
Prove them wrong op. Get fit, keep doing good in school, prove your a better person than the ones in the office. Most of the time self improvement can solve your problems man. Just can't give up and keep pushing.
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>>16536612
Whoever that family was who raised you, do it for them. Think about how amazing that was, and help them prove to the world that you are special, becuase thats what they did for you
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DO IT OUT OF SPITE
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Why do people pursue their passions in terms of their jobs? 2015-12-06 05:15:47 Post No.16536539
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Why do people pursue their passions in terms of their jobs?
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Yeah, pursuing their passions is a good thing, but don't they realise that they are probably romanticising a job too much? A job is not meant to be fun and every job has its own terrible aspects.
Why would a Brit who got top grades in his finals pick Mathematics instead of Medicine? Isn't doing research more stressful than being a doctor? If you have nothing published, you will have no funding. Chances are such a person will struggle to find a full-time, tenured post as almost all unis are hiring a lot of adjunts. At least a doctor has a high income and career stability.
And then there are people who pursued Designing as well instead of Law. Designers have to deal with picky customers - it's not like their jobs are always fun and their income may be unstable depending on the number of clients.
And what about people who switch careers? Why switch from being an engineer to teaching? At least engineers do not have to deal with bratty, out-of-control kids who do not care about their homework. A teaching job is not necessarily better than an engineering job.
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Are you the same person who can't understand why people would want to travel?
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>>16536543
Yeah, all these people who pursue their passions in their jobs or give up theirs jobs to travel/backpack are irrational!
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>>16536549
What are you even talking about
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What's the most effective natural birth control? My boyfriend is allergic to latex so we don't use condoms. He just pulls out and it's such a pain. I get anxious whenever he feels like he's about to cum so we just consider pulling it out and finishing it by ourselves.
I also don't want to spend much money on contraceptives so I'm trying to look for better ways to have safe and enjoyable sex.
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>My boyfriend is allergic to latex so we don't use condoms.
You pretty much have to choose between natural condoms and some form of birth control for you. Pulling out is not safe at all.
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Lambskin.
Non-latex condoms.
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>>16536441
Here you go
http://www.cdc.gov/reproductivehealth/unintendedpregnancy/pdf/contraceptive_methods_508.pdf
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awkward situation (?) 2015-12-06 04:49:00 Post No.16536433
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I'm an 18 yr old girl and i happen to be talking to my older brother's girlfriend's baby daddy. Is that weird? He says he wants to be with me and stuff but I have my doubts about this all. Any advice?
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>>16536433
Don't go for it. If he is the baby daddy of another girl all he wants is sex. He doesn't care about you.
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>>16536433
>Is that weird?
Yes. You're just going to end up ruining your relationship with your family. Stop talking to this person, because that is incredibly trashy.
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>>16536433
It sounds like he probably wants to piss off his ex. This is an incredibaly weird situation. If its true love then roll with it. But your 18, young, dumb, and soon to be full of cum.
Remember this guy got that girl prego
And remember youd be making your brother REALLY uncomfortable
If you go through with it expect to lose your brother
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I need help /adv/
I'm a 22 year old from /r9k/ trying to improve my life. The problem is I have literally 0 experiance with dating/relationships. I lack the flirting gene completely, and my self confidence issues led me to not bother chasing girls at all.
I realize I can't live forever like this and have two dates off tinder lined up, but seriously I'm freaked. I've never been on a date, or even honestly just hung out with a girl alone. I'm a fucking train wreck, how do I fix myself?
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>>16536398
>I lack the flirting gene completely
Even if it was genetic and not a culturally thing it would definitely be the result of more than one gene.
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>>16536398
it's okay. i havn't got laid in 5 years. i don't know how to even either. your'e not alone robot.
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>>16536416
or lack there of.