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>>16945905
>don't think I actually want to get married

Why not?

>>16945905

if you arent sure you are ready to get married, it might be time to have a serious talk with your partner.

why dont you want to get married? do you already live together and whatnot?

>>16945909

Reasons I don't really want to go into. I'd be marrying someone I wasn't in love with, who I have no spark with, just to appease family and friends who are expecting a wedding (because we arranged one).

I have absolutely no idea what I'm going to do.

>>16945871
Have you tried getting help from your professors? Do you try practice questions before the exam?

>>16945888
I always practice exams of last years, I even did It with a professor, I answered perfectly to the questions.

In the exam I had same this as practiced. and answered very good, but then my grade was Horrible. I didn't pass the semester because of it...

no one got the answer?

i really don't deserve this...

>>16945611
Turbo slut for sure. I wouldn't touch that with gloves op...

15 people?

jesus christ

turbo slut detected

>>16945618
>>16945630
That's what I thought. I cannot understand why she wouldn't feel shameful about it but she said it doesn't matter to her

What makes yours so special that you think it's going to be posted all over the internet?

>>16945443
>I'm scared they took screenshots/ recordings of it and it's somewhere on the internet or some CP site.

Highly likely, at least on someone's personal hard drive or that of a few people.

>Anyway, is there any online software that can match a certain face to all videos/images that have it on the internet?

Definitely not in the public domain. Almost certainly never something that would be so good it could match your face to a grainy 8-year old Omegle video.

If you never gave out your ID or spoke with someone you know you have nothing to worry about. The odds that someone will come across your photos and be able to positively ID you is vanishingly small. Even then, big fuckin' deal, what are they gonna do chastise you for being a horny teen when it means they have to admit to looking at CP to discover it?

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>>16945443
I am an internet porn historian, if you were to give me samples I could tell you wether or not your fears are grounded in reality.

Find out whether your municipality offers legal services for tenants. If they do, go to one of their tenant law workshops and talk to one of the pro bono lawyers there. They can draft a really nice letter for you to the effect of "If you ever do this again, you're losing your tenant and every penny of money that s/he can take from you."

>>16945420
I can sue for a dollar value if he does it again?

>>16945423
Depends on your local laws. Ask the lawyer. Generally speaking, however, the most you can expect is to be immediately freed of your lease and to receive your deposit (less damages) within 30 days.

>>16944771
she probably didnt have time to respond to every single birthday message she received from tons of friends/chads/beta orbiters, she also seemed too busy with her life to deal with the drama out of nowhere which is that last message (lol).

>>16944795
Yea, but its out of her character. Usually when she's annoyed with someone, she ignores them.

I know because I know her. You don't.

>>16944795
Besides, she literally lives on her phone. Idc...it is what it is. Just gonna let it go. Just feels like shit...

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>>16944160
But like I said, I'm very much, sincerely in love with her. Despite my grievances, any time I see her, talk to her, call her, or even receive a message via text or Facebook, it's always enough to be make me chipper for the rest of the day. I'm very happy with her. It's just that not having anything more than that is what keeps getting to me.

So I'm wondering what happens if I tell that I love her? How would it go? I really do want her to know, and I'm set on revealing it to her. But I still can't figure out how she'll react, and how anything'll play out between us. It won't be anything bad, I can promise you that. And yet I do kind of want to get some idea of what it'll be like between us. And if there's anything to do that could move us to more than we have now.

Any femanons willing to help? As in, if you were in her situation (or mine), how would you take to it? And how would you want a guy friend of yours approaching in this scenario? Or what would you want him if there was a chance of being more than friends?

As stated before, I love her so much.

Ever thought about growing a pair and dropping the cunt? The only thing worse than people who friend zone others are people who willingly get friend zoned. She's a stuck up cunt through and through. Get over it and leave.

If she were interested in you, she would have done something about it by now

sorry buddy. if it's affecting you this badly you should just leave or get a gf of your own. I was in a similar situation as you and once I was able to find a gf I was able to be friends with her because I found an outlet for my romantic feelings.

>>16944133

the biggest issue with break ups is that they tend to escalate. no matter where you are she can throw a wrench in your plans, but this ones pretty fool proof.

>write down your breakup speech
>make it short, it should fit in five sentences
>it doesnt have to be honest, but dont make it a lie
>"anonnete, we've had a lot of fun, but I'm just not feeling those feelings you're supposed to feel when you've been with someone for this long. I like you a lot but i don't love you, and I know there is somebody how there who does. I'm sorry, but we have to break up. i thought about it long and hard, and i wont change my mind.
>once you got it written down, memorize it, duh.
>then get a friend and ahve him drive you to her place
>you go in and say 'i cant stay long, my friend mark dropped me off, and he has to get to his grandma's catillion in 15 minutes'
>you proceed to tell her your break up story.
>she will have follow up questions, avoid at all cost. she will try to argue you into staying in the relationship, try to prove to you that your opinions are wrong
>DO NOT ENGAGE.
>simply restate that things have changed, its the way you feel, and you are sorry.
>after fifteen minutes your friend comes in, takes you to the car, and drives you away
>you immediately block her on facebook and on cell phone. you leave her saying she can reach you via email, but only if it is to pick up anything she might have left at your place (you will bring everything to her that you can find though)
>if she abuses this to try and make contact ofr anything other than the business of collecting something of hers, you block her email.

good luck

Bring her to a coffee shop so she won't make a scene. I did it with my ex it worked out great, she didn't complain make a fuss did get some texts about it. See nobody wants to embarrass themselves in front of a group of strangers unless she is psycho it will go great. Plus it's a coffee shop she will easily find someone else there.

>>16944149
Seems pretty fool proof.

I'll try to follow as much of this as possible, minus the friend-dropping-off thing. I dont have many friends in the area anymore.

Seriously Dude?

She cheated on you TWICE and you still want to get back together with her?

You broke up with HER and SHE is making all the demands?

First Girlfriend? Bro...

Let me ask you a question...

Are you comfy being a cuckold all your life? Because the best indicator of future behavior is past behavior. She cheated on you once and didn't care enough to learn her lesson.

She DOESN'T respect you clearly at all and thus does not love you. (Respect is a pre-requisite to love.)

You are just clung onto who you WISH she was.

Don't bother with her, move on...

Seriously not even a doubt...

This has to be a troll lol

>>16944111
lol
nigga you dumb
nice repeating digits though

>>16942019
>I don't like sex because I haven't had a partner I could love and trust

do you masturbate?


>I can't get a boyfriend because I don't put out.
This sounds backward. Do you let boyfriend candidates know up front that you won't put out? Because you don't love and trust them?

Or do you get into relationships with people you don't love and trust and then they leave because you won't put out?

There's usually a phase in every relationship between meeting and coming to love and trust that person that doesn't involve sex. Are you only talking to boys that expect to skip that part?

>>16942039
I try to masturbate every few weeks but I lose interest within the first 10 seconds usually.

I try to meet people but every time there's a chance I'll be left alone with a guy I get scared and cancel everything.

What kind of guys date girls that they don't expect to give it up?

>>16942048
>What kind of guys date girls that they don't expect to give it up?

It's a matter of time. Girls who permanently won't give it up? You're limited to guys who have lost their junk in an accident.

Beyond that, there are guys who will happily date/hang out with you until marriage without sex, over the course of months or years. And there are guys who will want it in the first week.

Your best bet for the "wait for marriage" guy would be a religious dude, as far as I know.

Don't then.. There is pretty much nothing European about many European cities so you will be much better off going to non-capital cities where people are normal.

Keep out of big airports too.. obvs.

>>16945267

The thing about this trip is that it's being planned out by a record label, and I've so far been on board with everything. The locations are not my choice, they're all pretty much major European locations (Paris, Brussels, Amsterdam, London, etc) that I see as crawling with people that might want to kill people like me. I would hate to cancel, and then of course nothing would happen during the dates I would have been scheduled to be there, but I'm starting to really worry about it.

I think you´re really over doing it. It´s not more unsafe than the states with all the teens shooting people and now the more recent "self radicalized" shooters.

Dump him. Nobody needs to put up with that shit, and this guy is clearly unstable. "The stresses of his job" is no excuse.

Ignore him for a while, devote your time to yourself.
He isn't more important than you.
Maybe consider other options as well.

If he's refusing to make any positive steps, there's not much to do but leave him.

>>16945108
It's a long distance relationship. It's not a huge deal. Just end it.

How often do you meet in real life?

>>16945064
>>>/o/
Polite sage

>>16945064
Learn how to change your own brake pads.

The squeaking is a warning that your pads are close to needing to be changed. If you use cheap pads they will wear down faster. If you let it go you might end up changing the rotors aswell and possibly the calipers too.

If you dont have the means of doing it yourself then the $100 at a shop might be worth it.

Doing it yourself will cost about $30 if you get good pads. If needed, rotors will probably run you $25 to $50 each. Calipers will prob cost $60 to $80 each plus a core charge but bring your old calipers back to get your core charge back. I am just guessing here based on the car work ive done.

Don't be gay, I guess?

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You look white-trashey enough for me to have big trouble believing that. Maybe it's your personality? Who are you?

>>16945030
A lazy NEET who spends all day long either playing shit tier games or watching anime while crying about no gf tbqhfam. White trashy? Is this an appeal I can use to my advantage for possible gf???