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I want to learn how to drive a car, but my anxiety is holding me back from taking lessons, and my mom refuses to teach me.
How to overcome the anxiety of lessons? There would be 18.5 hours of classroom theory, as well as nine 90-minute road lessons.
I'm not so much anxious about driving on the road as I am about having appointments and driving with a stranger.
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>>16942858
>How to overcome the anxiety
By stopping being a weak OP. You either want to or don't. Choose one. Stop being weak willed.
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Learning to drive is pretty anxiety-inducing, I know. You just need to take it one step at a time. I can't speak for the driving experiences in other countries, as I live in the US, but if you can, try to get a friend or someone you trust that has a car to help out. Practicing in unoccupied parking lots could help, as that's what a lot of my friends did. Would anything along those lines be possible for you? The key is to become comfortable with handling a vehicle.
Anxiety about operating a vehicle with a instructor won't really go away, and is pretty normal for anyone of any age.
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>>16942858
You have your anxieties all screwed up then senpai.
I got my license and car in November and I've already been in two close shaves that weren't my fault. First was a guy indicating when he had no intention of turning and almost slamming into my side. Second was a faggot with a trailer slamming his breaks infront of me while merging onto a freeway.
The road's a fuckin dangerous place. Full of idiots. Have to take every precaution you can or fall foul of them.
Anyway just go do it. No ones going to bite you.
Does anyone here know of any small UK-based oil and gas companies?
I've been applying for a Year In Industry as part of my uni degree but i'm having no luck :(
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any help is appreciated :)
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>>16942856
>Does anyone here know of any small UK-based oil and gas companies?
Oil and gas are dead right now. No need to train new people when you are laying people off.
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>>16943398
I understand but do you not think its even worth for just a placement? Surely it'll get better again soon
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can we get an infographic thread? Im mainly looking for things like lock-picking, breaking into a locked vehicle, hot-wiring, shit like that.
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I don't think so, Jamal.
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how to encourage boyfriend to develop a better quality of life? 2016-03-21 20:13:16 Post No.16942840
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how to encourage boyfriend to develop a better quality of life?
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one thing my boyfriend wishes i could do is to "push" him to better his habits.
some things i know he wants:
>finding a better, less stressful job
>to be more fit, more healthy
>quitting his smoking/drug habits
>be more positive/happy
i guess he's asking this because he sees all these things in me. but i really don't know how to go about this. i'm afraid of looking like a nag or having him ending up resenting me. he has fairly low self-esteem and tends to be negative and get frustrated easily... but he's very hard working and seems like he genuinely wants change.
he's gotten much better with his attitude and overall positivity on his own, and he says it's because of me walking into his life. (i have literally done nothing though, except just try to be a good girlfriend)
should i just let him be and maybe he'll find his own way to his goals? maybe if he observes my habits a bit better, he might catch on? what are some things i can do to encourage him to get on the path to where he wants to be in life?
before anyone asks, yes, he is a wonderful boyfriend and all he ever does is encourage and support me. he's incredibly kind, honest, thoughtful and considerate, which is why i'm with him.
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Is he asking you to help him?
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>>16942861
yes, he's asked me twice now actually.
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>>16942840
>life gets better because of a grill
you should teach him to be independent regardless of his goals, cuz as it is he sounds like one of those pathetic fags who falls apart cuz no gf
So I've been talking to this girl, and sometimes she just doesn't reply for weeks for no reason. I stopped checking FB because I was tired of waiting all the time, and I just checked my email today and it said she had replied a couple days ago, making it a week. Should I even bother talking anymore, or could I make some sarcastic remark about how she's making a habit if being late?
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>>16942804
the answer is C) accept that she's not interested in you and move on.
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Yeah she's trying to be polite, take the hint.
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>>16942804
>we;ve been talking on facebook
>why doesnt she take me seriously
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explaining loser past to future gf
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My life has really improved in the past 18 months or so and I've had a few really good dates in the past few weeks.
But I'm already thinking ahead... even if none of these end up going anywhere, eventually I'll find a serious girlfriend. And eventually "what were you up to before you met me" will come up.
And that's the thing. Literally from the start of my teenage years until 24 I did nothing. I was never NEET but all I ever had were shit jobs and all my free time was spent on the internet. Eventually I was tired of being miserable and the rest is history, I'm doing really well and really happy now, BUT. As much as girls talk about "don't judge my past" I feel like they probably do care about this kind of thing towards guys.
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Depending on the situation try it with honesty. Something along the lines of finding yourself, slowly improving yourselfm changing goals very often, losing track, backtracking etc etc
Every single person on this planet has those phases and every single person will understand.
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>>16942789
I don't see why that would matter.
Who cares? Unless you've murdered someone or committed some other serious crime why would it matter to someone what you've done before you met them?
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I don't think it's a big deal, especially since you've already changed. Being able to talk about it shows the positive traits of openness and honesty. It also shows you can admit to and learn from mistakes- all very mature things. Hiding it would make it seem like a bigger deal than it is.
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Advice on quitting?
Which works better, nicotine patches and gum, nicorette gum, eating a lot?
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Get disciplined, you baby.
>Not doing something is easier than doing something.
Your new motto.
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Patches and gum have an extremely high failure rate. Everyone I've ever known who's actually quit just went cold turkey one day.
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>>16942757
I've never smoked but I can speak from experience with other bad habits.
You don't replace something with nothing. If you really want to quit then you need something to do when you otherwise would be smoking. Maybe take a book with you and read for a few minutes? I don't know what would work for you but it won't be nothing.
I got a question to femanons (not interested in dirty talk or whatever bs, just seriously want some advice): I got a 7.5" dick and my girfriend recently has been saying that I'm too big for her. The odd thing is it didn't use to be a problem. It started like 7 months ago and it's during a little more of a rough fuck but nontheless it apparently hurts her so much that she doesn't want to fuck me.
Is that bull-shit? Cause' I can't understand how my dick could've tightened her vagina. Any of you has any idea?
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shameless self bump
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Cmon I'm losing my shit here. I've never thought I would say that but Im sick of getting blowjobs
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You don't her as turned on so it hurts now
More foreplay, the honeymoon stage is over and it might take more to get going
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Guys i need help. I need to come up with fifty bucks so i can renew my psn account. My family wont help me and i cant find a job quick enough so any advice would help me out. Please serious responses only. Plz halp.
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I can't experience sexual pleasure unless i'm on my back- is this normal?
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>>16942724
fem or male?
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>>16942724
normal, no. but its not unherad of. did you masturbate laying down your full life?
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>>16942726
Male
>>16942727
Yes
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Guys, I need your advice!!!!!
How do I start a rap career? I need to know, how to write a rap song.
Pls, help, /adv/
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ooga booga wooga nigga stole my bike
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Kinda catchy actually
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Nigga bitch hoe drugs pills high life aw nigga$ holla holla get dolla$ 420
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I work with my Mother. She's the boss. it wasn't a problem for 4 years, but now I think it's starting to be.
She recently left my Dad. My Dad had issues, he's kinda sad and doesn't do much. I worry whether it's time to start treating it as depression. Well, she left him partly because of this I suppose. Which I think I resent her for. I get the marriage was over, but I think it just would've been morally right to have helped him. I dunno. Instead she made a guy already kinda depressed even worse.
My 3 brothers still live at home (all in their 20s) and he basically cooks and cleans for them. They think they're supporting him I imagine, but I kind of think actually they need to move out so he can find his own life again and not just be a housemaid.
As for work. I used to be really good at compartmentalising her into Mum and boss. I think the line is finally starting to blur. I'm not sure if I'm pissed off because I disagree with her leadership or if I'm just pissed at her. Work's tough at the minute anyway, it's probably both. I think i should quit. She would never let me ascend too high in fear of working too closely with me (which I understand), but I've been successful enough to warrant better wages and a higher position. So maybe I need to find that elsewhere.
Been talking to my wife and friends about it for months and it isn't helping, so the next logical step, according to my whim, is fucking 4chan apparently.
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>I've been successful enough to warrant better wages and a higher position. So maybe I need to find that elsewhere.
That's it. The rest is just petty bitching.
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Figuring things out for yourself is the only freedom anyone really has.
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>>16942716
The whole thing is petty, that's for sure. Don't get me wrong, these are quibbles. Just ones I've been thinking about for a while.
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Met my GF 2 1/2 years ago. We had lots of great sex. We did everything all the time to pleasure us both. After half a year she had a yeast infection. She has one now every couple of months and the times inbetween she's also hurt. Means, we can't have sex. No treatment is working We're still jerking us off all the time but we're starting to go crazy. She can't handle not beeing able to have what she needs and also she can't handle not beeing able to give me what I need.
She's really depressed about it and I'm feeling the relationship breaking apart. Has someone of you anons/femanons experienced something similar? I really love her.
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Tell her to eat more yogurt, or anything that has active cultures (like kefir and such) and she will have less, or possibly no reoccurrence of yeast infections.
If it works for Thai whores, it'll likely work for your gf, too.
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>>16942695
yeah this is a diet thing... shes consuming too much sugar and carbs
try atkins or a protein/fat only diet. consuming enough sugar/carbs to have constant bouts with yeast infections is very unhealthy and will lead to diabetes if her diet doesn't change.
at the very least she needs to quit drinking soda
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>>16942695
anal
Hey, need some advice. Close friend fucked a girl that I have been openly having a friend with benefits thing going with for several months. This in itself doesn't bother me. What bothers me is that they tried (and failed) to hide it from me. This makes me feel that they felt that they did something wrong, or thought that I would be upset me. At this point im not sure how to handle it. Any advice would be apprciated.
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Despertion bump
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>>16942619
What do you want? An apology from him and her?
If that's what you want you need to find out if they agree they acted like dicks and then ask for it, m80
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>>16942619
On second thought, there's plausible reasons for their actions even if they didn't feel like what they were doing was wrong.
Your girlfriend might have thought to herself "Anon says it's ok for me to fuck other guys, but I don't want him being grossed out by the thought of Anon#2's cum on my tits, or I don't want them getting jealous and hating each other"
Hiding it doesn't necessarily imply wrongdoing. You can ask them why they hid it and see what they say.
After that I suggest you DP her.
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Is there a way to improve my socializing skills?I'm so bad that i dont have any idea how to even greet or do simple things.
Pic related my brain when im talking with people
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>>16942596
bumping out of sympathy and because I relate to that feel but not as extreme
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>>16942596
This is definitely me when talking to people. (meme intended)
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get a job in sales.
and not retail bullshit like consumer electronics and vacuums and shit... I'm talking about real sales, like insurance or automotive sales or real estate