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Sounds like you both need a degree of stability that neither of you are able to provide.

Also, forgot to mention:
He's quite stubborn, and I tried telling him that he shouldn't take some things so personally.
He just said, "you're my girlfriend so I take everything extremely seriously", but it makes absolutely no sense to me.

I feel like it would be quite hard to get him to change this aspect of himself. He's been treated like shit by most people so I think he just thinks anything is way worse than it actually is. But I dunno.

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>>16948495
That's because you basically reminded him that he has no job and also told him that what he accomplished today doesn't count as work and that he is a lazy piece of shiz in general. Good work op. That's the material loving relationships are built on. Keep it up. Pic related

I have always wondered the same thing.

Seeing as I'm 6'5" and my gf is 5'4" this unnecessarily complicates things...

No idea. I've tried with 2 different guys who were different heights. If it's a tub-shower or an other wise large shower, the girl can bend over at the waist, but that's awkward even outside the shower.

Possibly with the girl up against the wall with her legs up, supported so her weight is more on the wall than the guy's arms. If you trust your walls.

Or just don't. Sensually touchin' in the shower is gr8 by itself.

>>16948120
I have the same question, but my dick is a bit too large (9.5x6) so it's not like usual sex with my gf on top is easy. She definitely cant take it from behind. I dont have a tub btw

>>16948061
yeah, stop being a faggot

>>16948061
Get over it. Have nothing to do with her.

>>16948061
Has she owned up to it? Find out what she has to say.

Either way though, I think this is more than enough reason to break up. You shouldn't be with someone who has proven to you that they can't be trusted.

Fuck you.

i dont know this feel im living the single life and fucking sluts on the reg

You're a shitbag, OP.

>>16947949
Conversely, here's a question for girls:
I had an ex that would ALWAYS make me cum down her throat. Her explanation? It's just easier and I don't have to taste it. Now, I understand that not everyone probably has the ability to do that without gagging, but honestly...

>Why hold it in your mouth and run away to spit it out?
>Why not just swallow it?
>What's weird about swallowing it?
>Why not just spit right there?

My current gf doesn't like swallowing for some reason (and I have no idea why, I really don't get it) so she either just spits it back onto my dick, or spits it on her tits. By spit, I mean lets it dribble out of her mouth, down her chin. It's fucking hotter than shit and doesn't ruin the moment at all. Why don't all girls that feel the need not to swallow just do that?

femanon here
>>16947949
>sorry babe, that was my teeth
>maybe we should 69
>nah
>can't breathe, time for the handjob

I mediocre bjs (fucking gag reflex) but they're good enough for the bf, who seems to prefer hjs once it's lubed enough anyway.

>>16947987
That's actually kinda surprising to me, that she won't swallow it, but will keep it in her mouth long enough to let it drip. I don't really like the taste and try like your ex to make sure it's as far down as it can get so I don't have to taste it, lol.

>>16947949
Every man should taste his own semen once in his life, to know what he's asking girls to do.

No, it just makes you one of about a million people on here who didn't bother to find out what "cuck" meant before using it in a sentence.

If you're content with not dating, why do you care whether you fit the category of a meme phrase coined by bitter virgins?

>>16947503
Lots of people have STD's and I can only assume it's going to increase given how kids these days fuck around.

Don't let it get you down. It's just a skin virus. I know people who have had HSV2 and are now married and have kids.
Just be open to any future partners and tell them before any intimacy.
You could also try those std-dating sites and find yourself a girl who also has HSV2.

I was falsely diagnosed by a GP with HPV (warts) many years ago. I got so fucking depressed and when I finally snapped myself out of it and went to seek treatment from a specialist she laughed and said it wasn't warts and my GP was wrong (was fordyce spots).
Don't fall into the depressed state I did. It's not worth it. Live life and be happy (and be fucking grateful you didn't catch something like HIV).

>>16947554
>>16947521

Thanks... I suppose it's not so bad. I've read that more people than one might think has it. I did tell one girl that wanted to fuck around and she was cool about it. We didn't end up doing anything but she thanked me for telling her. Was depressing until I found out she had a boyfriend anyway 0_0

>>16947493
how fucking old are you lmao, you're definitely not mature enough to even be thinking about sex

>>16947493
Or you know, don't obsess over it?

I'll never understand the obsession people have with virginity.

No, fat women are the equivalent of manlets/homeless men/unemployed deadbeats. Plus you smell bad, and are likely to ruin the fun in most social situations. Fat girls are notorious cockblocks

How fat

>>16947429
You're taken less seriously because you're a girl. Good looking girls are not taken more seriously, they're just paid attention to more. In reality, ugly women are probably taken more seriously in general, fat or not, but a fit ugly woman will be taken more seriously than a fat ugly woman. That's much more close to the difference between how a fat guy vs. fit guy is regarded.

Complicated maybe, but that's how I see it play out IRL.

>>16947422

>I've been drinking it every day for almost two years

I cannot stop laughing at this whole situation

Did you not realize it wasn't helping you??? In two years? I'd be shocked if it wasn't making you sicker. An "herbal elixir" to cure what problem? Alternative medicine can be fine, but do you not do ANY research before you just start putting shit into your body on a daily basis?

I hope you don't have any serious health problems or anything, but damn OP, you failed the idiot test harder than almost anyone I've ever seen

What.

10/10 masterbate

Do you have any skills? Education? What kind of job are you trying to get?

Usually you gotta go through someone that knows you. Work your network. Ask around

>>16947413
Apply for things you aren't qualified for yet but establish you have the drive and natural quick wit to pick things up on the fly. Alternatively do volunteer work for free in the field you want and get some experience you can cite.

>>16947413
Put in appplication for some entry level place. Retail, fast food, what the fuck ever.
Call the place. Visit it, let the managers/employees know you want to work for them. Make a good impression. I had to visit my first job's place three times before I got a hold of one of the managers but I got it. Then I quit when I found out how corrupt they were when they got me involved in it

>>16947287
Some people are just irrationality hostile towards some people. Never underestimate someones level of pettiness and shallowness they have towards others. Don't mistake this for cynicism, just the way it is sometimes. Who knows, you might of done something to possibly piss him off or not unknowingly. Who cares, sounds like you did nothing wrong.

>>16947287

Eh, don't make a big deal out of it. You can't read his mind, and it doesn't sound like he's actually being mean or really even disrespectful in any way. Maybe he just doesn't wanna be your friend. Who knows why? Not everyone is gonna like you, I do my best to get along with everyone, but sometimes there's just a bad fit. Doesn't have to be a big deal if everyone can keep their cool and be civil.

If you're ever in a situation where he's actually talking to you and you feel like you can bring it up naturally, ask him if you did something to upset him. But don't force it.

>>16947304
I would like to be friends with him, or at least be neutral with him, I'm just sad that he's not friendly towards me because he seems like a really nice person when he's talking with people he does like.

>>16947049
Everything in life is a competition, sure there might be more jobs in other fields, but it is also more competitive. There are more potential candidates to sort through, so employeers can choose to be picky and only take the best.

>>16947049
Do you have debt? If you graduate without debt you're fine.

What kind of job do you want? Plenty of opportunity in business, just maybe not degree related.

>>16947049
You should take a trip to whatever historical place you are most interested in. Also learn to write. Become a teacher maybe.

>>16946989

1) get over yourself and admit that you'll likely fuck it up before you 'git gud'

2) get two hobbies, one personal/introverted one social/extroverted

3) get the fuck off 4chan

>>16947001
what are some good social/extroverted hobbies? i've looked online for lists, but most of them are sports-related and i'm not good at sports (i workout, and i'm thin, but i can't throw a ball or anything like that)

>>16946989
Nothing you could've said would have gotten you the intended result that you wanted. You have to learn how to get people's interest, and you need to be interested in other people.

>There is nothing interesting about me
>My unnattractiveness
You are unconfident and shallow. You have the ability to change this howevwr, but in the meantime you must learn to accept it, while simultaneously making a conscious effort to change it.

When I flirt with someone, I get into it. They become the focus of my attention, or at least that's the impression that I give them. If someone appears confident, I point out the faults in them that most people are too scared to. Both of these work, but unfortunately you cannot fake this feeling.

Nothing you say will serve it's intended purpose if you do not feel confident in it, because you will choke. You are going to chome, because it is not a facade that you can put on for long.

In order to form relationships and get what you want from people, you must learn how to understand people. You must understand what the fellowship and why, or at least have the confidence and social experience to ask why.

This comes from experience.

>I'm a Kissless virgin with no friends
Good. I used to be exactly like you. I was also a compulsive liar that was diagnosed with depression and nearly drove myself completely insane at one point in my life.

What is it that you think prevents you from being able to relate to people and make friends?

>>16946884

Sometimes it's by choice, but people that are truly alone are lonely. Loneliness is horrible.

For a lot of people it's too easy to end up alone, mostly by the nature of their habits. And being alone can turn into a habit of loneliness all its own.

Some people like being alone, but humans crave social interaction. Times have changed, and now people do more lonely things, sometimes together on the internet.

I'm alone. I go out alone. I don't always leave alone. No, I am not constantly surrounded by people. Maybe if I started dealing weed I'd make friends... oh, wait... "friends."

How do you know she thinks you're hot if you never approached her?

>>16946753
I have some girl friends that tell me that it's weird that I don't have a gf since I'm good looking

>>16946753
That's actually what most autists think. They think girls like them but they're single because they're shy.