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Hello, /adv/.
Kind of a legal question here.
If I want to make art (mostly portraits) based on pictures of people on Facebook, without asking their consent, is that legal? Does it change if the person is a minor or not?
I do not intent to defame the subjects.

Pic related is an example of the kind of art I’m talking about.
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It is legal-ish, in the same sense that photo shopping would be. But it is also very easy for someone to have their likeness copywrited and then they would retroactively own your painting. At which point they could demand payment or its removal
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Laws are different in different places of the world.
Just for future reference.
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>>16946737
I see that this could be a problem. What if it happens after I publicize the art on, say, DeviantArt? I would have the copyright of my painting of their identifiable face. Would that prevent them from copyrighting their face?
>>16946747
Forgot to mention, the subjects are all American.

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any one know a good way in getting rid of sore tonsils? they really hurt
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Tonsillectomy is breddy gud.
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Gargle warm salt water. Make sure you spit it out.
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>>16946721
A shotgun blast to the back of your throat should clear it right up. Make sure it's a double barreled shotgun.

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Ex blasted me on facebook basically because I moved on. Not sure what to do. He also posted my number.
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>>16946688
post your tits so we can blastem
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Report the post to Facebook for containing your personal information, block him on everything you can.
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>>16946692
Numbers are public information

kek

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We've been doing long distance the last six months. I have traveled to see her about every two weeks, and so far she's only been home for christmas. It's fine, I have a part-time job, she doesn't (well not until last week) and she always appreciates that I come and visit.

Now she is coming home and bringing with her two of her friends from where she studies, and said we wont get much alone time, which is fine. I figured we'd all hang out together. We've talked about going to her fathers cabin all of us, but I didn't get the week off.
And now she's decided to go to her dads cabin without me, and without asking if I was okay with it. I got upset even if it was only for three nights. And said I would have liked it if she had asked me first.

She got defensive and said I was being selfish, that it wasn't my place to decide what she and her friends were going to do, after all she had to make her friends the priority. She's gonna hang back a week after her friends leave to stay with me, and then I am "all hers".

I don't know why but it hurts my feelings that she says she can't prioritize me, that I don't have a say. I feel like I have given so much, yet and get very little back. And now I'm considering if this is a relationship that I want to be in.

She doesn't really want to stay at her mom's place, which is the other option, because they don't get along that well, and the relationship is quite strained. But that doesn't change anything for me. We haven't seen each other for four weeks because my lack of funds.

Am I overreacting?
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If this is a relationship that I don't want to be in, would it be wrong of me to break up with her while she is here at home, visiting with friends?
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>Am I overreacting?
You do sound a bit clingy.

>She got defensive and said I was being selfish, that it wasn't my place to decide what she and her friends were going to do
true. I'd still be pissed, though.

Its well within your rights to want to be with her, and she's well within hers to prioritize her friends.

You might not like it, and you should voice your concerns, but do so remembering its her choice, in the end.

>And now I'm considering if this is a relationship that I want to be in.
THAT is the choice within your power to make.

It sounds like you need to cool down a bit. Once you have, think about what you want from the relationship. If you're not getting what you want, communicate that to her - again, remembering you're not entitled to her attention. Just define what's acceptable to YOU.

I hope things work out for you two
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I know its a long read, but I truly want to fix this. It just feels like shes not willing to meet me halfways. Help me /adv/

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Do Jehovah's Witnesses have strict dating rules? I want to ask for this girls number (high school) but my friend said he saw her walking around the neighborhood with her family, talking about religion and whatnot a couple years ago.
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>>16946562
If you have to ask they're not worth the trouble.
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>>16946562
Those people are a nuisance and unless she's super rebellious and ready to be excommed from her family she won't give any pussy
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>>16946562
>Do Jehovah's Witnesses have strict dating rules?
To a certain extend, it depends on the congregation and the family. That's not to say there are no commonalities -I hope you aren't expecting her to put out- but they can be a surprisingly diverse bunch. Some are quite strict, others, not so much.

>I want to ask for this girls number (high school) but my friend said he saw her walking around the neighborhood with her family, talking about religion and whatnot a couple years ago.
First question: are you sure they're Witnesses? They're most famous for doing this, but they're not the only ones.

What makes me wonder about this is the fact that your friend recognized her. Witnesses don't usually go out in their own towns. The normal procedure is to get together with nearby congregations and rotate through each other's territories, but never their own. They do this so they WON'T be recognized, and in practice it works pretty well. People do get recognized from time to time, of course, but it isn't common. If your friend is right, that was quite a lucky catch.

Second question: are you sure they're still Witnesses? People don't tend to change religions often, but it does happen.

Third question: are you sure both her parents are Witnesses? Interfaith marriage isn't encouraged, but it isn't forbidden, and isn't even all that uncommon (though it's not the norm). Depending on what you're hoping for vis-a-vis strictness in dating rules, that could bode well for you.

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I need some /adv/... So there's this girl, she's pretty, she likes me and I know it... But, she's dating this asshole named Chase. And I feel there is something between us, I can feel it trust me. I'm a kind kid, I said I'd give anything for her. And that still wasn't enough. What do I do?
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You're probably imagining that she likes you back unless she explicitly told you so, familia.
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>>16946514
>I said I'd give anything for her
You fucked up. She wants to be treated like a human, not a charity.
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She did, we were talking and I told her how I feel, and she said I she does feel the same way.

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>downtown LA
>vacation with gf
>walking back to our hotel from little tokyo
>good evening so far
>notice she looks a little nervous and suddenly really close to me
>not a bad thing but it's weird for her
>ask what's up
>she says she gets nervous walking at night outside
>try and pry more out of her but she insists that she'd rather not talk about it
>bothers me for the rest of the walk back to our hotel
>we're about to go to sleep and i ask her again
>she hesitates before telling me her fears about getting jumped and getting assaulted by some random guy
>try and tell her it won't happen but she says it's just something that sits in the back of her head
I guess my question here is is there a way to help her not be scared? We're not with each other all the time so that's what makes me nervous. Are there things I can say or do?
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Any normal person is wary walking around downtown LA at night. I live here and wouldn't do it if I didn't have to.
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>>16946488
>I guess my question here is is there a way to help her not be scared?
Being scared of something like that is healthy. She should be cautious.
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>>16946488
there's nothing you can do

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Hey /adv/

Just recently I asked a girl out and she looked absolutely flattered but said she had to think about it and would get back to me. Am I completely fucked? Or is there still a chance?
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You are fucked
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Not completely, but nothing else at point you can do to increase your chances. She's thinking about dumping her current boyfriend or cheating on him. Can't rush these things.
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>>16946482
She doesn't have a boyfriend. Wish me luck lads.

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I fell in love with a friend since months. I just wanted to let it fade, but it doesn't. The more I see him the more I love him. I don't know what to do. We'll live in the same apartment in few months. I have few friend, and opening my heart may break our friendship, and i won't handle that. If not, it will make him to refuse to live in the same place as me. Please help me.

>inb4 Faggot
>inb4 Kill yourself
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>Do it faggot
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>>16946440
Tell him, get rejected, remain friends. Tell him, get accepted, start a relationship.

Or don't tell him and feel awful all the time.
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>>16946539

I guess with time I'll be able to feel the moment when I can tell him what I feel for him without loosing his friendship, will I?

But not yet. I'm not ready neither is he.

Both of your proposition are what I dream. But for now i feel that he will flee me as soon as he will figure out that i actually love him.

Moreover, i don't know how to tell him. I have thought of many way to tell him. Gesture, suggestions, simply kiss him, abruptly tell him.

I'm not feeling totally awful. I'm scared to loose him, and I miss him often. But that's okay.

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if something has a 48% chance of happening. whats the probability itll happen 8 times in a row. and how do i solve for this
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>>16946362
>>>/sci/
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>>16946362
Um like 4 lol
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Do your own homework.

How do you ask someone to hang out?
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If you can't even figure out something as basic as this, then there's no hope for you.
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>>16946359
"Do you want to hang out?"
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>>16946372

What the fuck?

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Should the mentally ill and the self-loathing stay away from people/society? Are we just a burden?
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No, you just need to get help so you can man up and stop feeling sorry for yourself.
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mental illness and self loathing are not mutually exclusive with productivity and positive social interactions. yours might be, but plenty of sick, hateful people do just fine.
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>>16946351
>Should the mentally ill and the self-loathing stay away from people/society?
No. In fact, for many of us, staying away played a big role in getting us to this state, and even for the others, it never helps.

>Are we just a burden?
To a certain extent we ARE a burden, but to a certain extent everyone is a burden. A person in society is like an engine in a car: it adds a lot of weight that has to be moved around, but if you take it out to save weight, the car won't run. The real question is whether the engine can pull its weight, and most people with mental illnesses are quite capable of that.

But for those of us lucid enough to be having this conversation at all, there is another reason to stay in: reintegrating is a vital step in the healing process. It may not get better even if you reintegrate, but it CANNOT get better if you stay away.

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I'm 25 this year and I'm feeling lost. I don't know what i am doing with my life and how do I gonna improve it. I had a shitty degree that won't lead me to anywhere. I'm not in any kind of relationship. The only thing i have is time and tim is flying real fast. I feel lonely and useless.
I'm working but not a stable job and didn't earn that much money (minimum wage),some days I got home really late. When I have free time most of people around me are busying with their work. I don't know for how long have I lived this way or how to escape from it.
I'm afraid of people seeing me like loser cause I'm old enough to have my own career or at least know what to do and how to make some businesses. But in the end,it's only because of money. If I have that much money.
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There isn't a single response to what you're, presumably, asking. I think most people are lost. I think the career by 22 is a meme that is a dead horse at this point. I think that people like you wallow in self pity because you refuse to accept that youre the leader in your own life not anyone else. I think that you're still immature for caring what people think about you. I think that you're blowing things out of proportion. I think a lot of things.
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>>16946348
I was 3 years deep into my career at your age with loadsa money, and I'm still a fucking loser. Money doesn't fix anything.
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I didn't even start on my degree until I was 26, and thank god for that. I know exactly what I'm doing and have a specific plan for my education and long-term goals.

This is why pressuring people to go to college too early is dumb.

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How do I explain to someone that their mental illness isn't a "get out of responsibility free card" or pass to treat everyone around them like shit?
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Pretty much just like that. Don't expect your words to change their behavior, though.
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>>16946354
What should I do in that case then?

I'm stuck living with my sister for the next 2-3 years (when she moves out or I finish my undergrad).

She constantly bosses everyone around because "muh panic attacks" and expects everyone to cater to her and my parents are almost starting to tolerate it.
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>>16946371
>I'm stuck living with my sister for the next 2-3 years when I finish my undergrad.
you're in college, you're an adult, move the fuck out if it bothers you so much.

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Everyone's happy... What am I missing in life? What am I missing that everybody else has?
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The ability to actually understand/relate to the people around you. Nobody's happy. You just think they are because you're looking at the things they have that you want. You're not seeing the problems they have that you don't
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>>16946305
money
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>>16946308
I'm happy (... not literally all the time, people have bad moods you know).

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