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What are you good at? You must have some skill or talent that you've been praised for, that could turn into some kind of job

>>16947305
Take a career counseling class in your community college. Go to your local job agency. No rush to make a choice, unless you're truly in need of job right now.

That's never a "blank page" kind of decision.

How much do you need the money?
How much are you willing to stake?
How low are you willing to sink? (Example: working shit jobs part-time to afford courses)

>>16947281
What are you talking about OP? He looks like a swell lad.

tell him u betta respect this(you) nigga or else get the fuck out

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>>16947281
>wife's son

>>16947241
start saving up as much money as you can afford to go towards some decent cooking supplies. obviously, the stove and few pots and pans, etc. then once you have that make sure you have like $100-$200 saved to spend on ingredients and extra pans or stuff like that. usually supermarkets will sell what you're looking for.

>>16947262
(I am the same guy I just forgot this)
not to mention, the ladies love a guy who can cook.

>>16947262
good shit son, i just checked the price of more kitchenware on internet and i can probably afford a stove with my salary

>>16947239
Shit, I mean I have talked with my girlfriends about it. I'm on my phone atm Apologies for all the grammar errors.

Femanon here, but i have kind of an oral fixation and take pride in my bj's. You would have to tell us how you usually go down on him for us to be able to help. Be as detailed as possible. Little things make a big difference

General advice - always start slow. Make it sensual. A "good blowjob" doesn't mean finishing him off as quickly as possible by making it as intense as possible. Draw him out, tease him a bit, don't give him what he wants right away. Rather than having him tell you what to do, make him BEG you for what he wants you to do.

Don't ignore the balls, but always be gentle. Eye contact makes it like 200% hotter. And a little moan here and there REALLY seals the deal. Don't overdo the moaning or it seems fake, but like, if he makes a noise, answer it with one of your own

But really though, every man's a little different, and it just takes practice like anything else. I bet he really doesn't mind giving you pointers and "teaching" you. Honestly just the fact that you're eager to make him feel good and learn to do better, probably makes you better at it than 95% of women. Attitude is EVERYTHING when it comes to sex

I take like 15 Benedryl to sedate myself when that happens

I literally hung out in the back at work for like 45 minutes after my shift cause I didn't want to go home for similar reasons....

>>16947235
Watch Friends. Always does the trick for me, keeping my mind busy when I'm feeling miserable.
Real feel-good show!

>>16947248

>sedation

No..

But yes, sometimes I'll just stay at work because I know as soon as I leave I'll become depressed. It's like this everyday.

>>16947251

I might try that

>>16947231
Use a really big font

Either gets load of caffeine, postpone every other activity and get ready for the most fun and productive 24 hours of your life - or get thrown out without being a pussy about it

Quote as much as possible, even if they are random unrelated quotes, then try to explain that quote even if it´s the most obvious thing ever.

>>16947190
What bank do you use that charges you for not using your debit card? I've never heard of this practice.

As far as the $10 is concerned, do you have anything you can pawn?

>>16947201
Wells Fargo, checking account

I only have my laptop and no pawn shops will take it since it's three years old and all the shops in the area are overstocked with computers.

I'm posting on craigslist to offer Spanish lessons for cash and trying to like trade my laptop for a worse one and some cash, but I'm not having nay luck

>>16947207
Have any vidya you could sell to gamestop? I usually do that if I need cash and get them back when I'm able. Definitely think about changing banks though, that's a stupid fee.

>>16947189

He met someone in his vicinity that catches his interest, so he stops talking as much to the LDR.

>LDR
>"Took things too fast"

kek

>>16947196
But that's the thing, he talks to me quite a bit still, he just doesn't treat it like we're dating.

I wouldn't doubt if he dropped me for someone else though. I just hoped he'd just tell me straight up rather than backpedaling our relationship without even telling me.

Probably just doesn't want to pass up a chance to fuck you even though he has no interest in dating you anymore, that's why he's telling you to visit him.

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In her past she was one of the typical "It was rape" bitches, when it wasn't, she was just a slut and regretted it. She was apparently really slutty in her past, which she actually told me before except downplayed it, and i didnt mind toooo much, im here to judge her on her in the now you know, she said she was changed and the whole 9 yards.
She's also lied to me lots throughout the relationship, and apparently cheated a lot on bfs in the past. I'm new to the state and know no one, so I'd have no way of ever finding out.
I read a message of hers describing what she did to a boyfriend in the past, she said she wouldnt stop hanging out with guy friends just because they wanted to fuck, since they were still friends, but she ended up letting them feel her up and make out w her, because he was an asshole. Well she had some mental problem at the beginning of the relationship and thought I was an asshole (before i cheated, I was anything but) and she said literally the exact same thing "Im not going to stop hanging out w them just because they want to fuck me", well I also found out today, guys she was talking to and hanging out with at the time, she used to fuck regularly. She also lied and hid that someone she fucked before was hanging out w her multiple times. Also another occasion where she was supposedly messaging a guy she fucked before, purely for business reasons, as she did sell him adderall, but hid it from me. Still no solid evidence. But at what point does all of this add up to the point I can't ignore it any longer regardless of solid evidence? I'm almost 100% positive she cheated by now. But at the same time, I feel like I can't break it off after all ive done and shes done for me unless I at least know for a fact she did something wrong.

I have her social networking passes, still no evidence, just lots of little red flags, and again at what point do I say that's enough little red flags, something is fucking going on. I really want to say something NOW, but I also feel the need to wait for evidence, because thats the least I could do for her is give her the benefit of the doubt, and I cant reveal I have her passes until I'm ready for her to change them. But at the same time, this makes me feel so fucking god awful and sick, I called out of work today because of it, but I can't keep doing that, this needs to be resolved soon

PLS help

>>16947149

>I get that using copyrighted images probably isn't allowed for an slideshow

Dude if it's a class presentation I think it's completely fine, unless your teacher has specifically stated otherwise. Be sure to cite/credit your sources properly, but as long as you do that, you're free to use/mention as much copyrighted material as you want for a school exercise.

Copyright infringement really only becomes a big deal if you're making money, and you didn't ask permission. So if you were a major filmmaker, your movie was making millions, and you used clips from The Little Mermaid, you might get sued.

You could post your class presentation on YouTube for the public to see, FULL of copyrighted material, and the worst-case scenario is that you'll get a letter asking you to take it down.

>>16947149
you can totally use portions of a copyrighted work for that

>>16947149
Copyright
Unless you're doing it for profit or targeting a large amount of people, like thousands, nothing to worry about. Copyright isn't the big bad boogeyman hanging over everyone.

Read a book.

Leave 4chan.

>>16947143
Try watching movies
History and politics
Woodworking
Should I continue...

>>16947143
learn an instrument (one of people's biggest regrets later in life is that they never learned to play a musical instrument)
start whittling
learn to draw stuff that you enjoy drawing
or any of the other suggestions in this thread
just don't try and do them all at once. pick one, and stick with it.

don't be discouraged by that 10,000 hour boogeyman number that people throw around on how long it takes to master a hobby, you don't need to be a master. it only takes about 20 to become competent.

don't berate yourself for not being as good as others, only berate yourself for not being better than you were yesterday.

while you're at it you should kick the vidya or at least cut it down as much as possible

good luck anon

If pic is related, then just don't think so much about the date. Just be happy about the fact, that you have one. Be open and not to shy. A date is meant to get know each other.
Stop thinking about the future an stuff you want to control. That's the fun part of a date, that you don't know what will happen.

fart

>>16947138
Keep the conversation about the nearest context you two have in common (example: we're both in the same place, we're both students, we're both doing sports, we're both breathing oxygen right now)

Major con: unless you're smooth about it, people will sniff the awkwardness miles away.

It's convenient. That's the very reason why it's commonplace to talk about the weather when you don't have anything else to discuss - and why doing it is kinda sad. But fuck it, who cares.

None of it matters. Live in the moment, enjoy what you have.

Death is like before you were born. Nothing. No feelings, no existence. Almost like a dreamless sleep. It's neither positive or negative.

You didn't exist for billions of years to begin with so why care?

>>16947131
Do you recognize that it is ridiculous to worry that death is imminent for us all?

This is an existential crisis, which is a fancy way of saying that your mind is expanding into a greater perspective.

>>16947131
If you want a good story that can help you cope with your own mortality I would consider reading the Epic of Gilgamesh if you haven't already. I remember it really put my mind at ease about my own mortality. I was having thoughts similar to you in college and the Epic of Gilgamesh was required reading for an ancient history course I was taking. It is a great read regardless of whether or not it actually helps you. The story is nearly as old as history itself and shows you how long people have been struggling with this existential crisis.

>>16947109
You gonna have to get this nigga another fish. Find him a fresh 18 year old is your best bet.

Convince him to hold off for a few months until she turns 18, it's not that long of a time. or just switch to virtual substitute like I

I don't know what country you live in but i don't think that's how the laws work.

They only have 3 years difference.

For example, imagine a couple where a guy is 17 and the girl is 16. Once he's 18 and she's 17 he's suddenly a pedo?

>>16947101
Be funny like Seth rogen

>>16947101

Women don't have as high of a standard for physical beauty as dudes.

Be funny, confident, skilled, stylish but masculine.

>>16947101
Be with an ugly girlfriend.