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I'm a loser nineteen-turning-twenty that's slowly entering college, if I've got nothing else going for me. I constantly disappoint my girlfriend lately (year+ relationship), and she owns it. Whenever I feel too depressed to do something she wants to do, she gets upset. Whenever I try to do something for her, I fuck it up. Et cetera et cetera. We've been trying to organize a meet for the past month, and now she's constantly bringing up that I seem non committed to the relationship whenever she tries to book everything. She's willing to pay and needs to know immediately for the highest savings, but I've never actually traveled myself before, much less fly on a plane. I'm staying in a hostel alone for the duration of about four nights, and I have major anxiety and depression if that wasn't obvious.
I'm paralyzed with indecision because of the potential of of wasting all of her money, as I lately do not even feel worth the effort to her. She clearly loves me since she's still more than willing to work our meet out, on top of paying. But even despite apology after apology of yelling at me, sometimes when I'm even feeling suicidal, it happens again the next morning. I'm so desperately worried that I'm going to disappoint her and make her despise me for wasting all of her money. I'm so pathetic. How do I stop being so fucking shit?
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>>17385476
>I have major anxiety and depression if that wasn't obvious
how do i make this sound as non-generic as possible...
suicidal thoughts and constant self-doubt of this magnitude arent normal. get yourself properly diagnosed if you havent already and begin therapy.
there is medication for this and it has helped people. you dont have to suffer like this for your entire life.
i wonder why your gf hasnt told you to do this yet.
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She hasn't suggested anything like that, no. I've had a really, really bad experience with a ward after a suicide attempt several years back and I thought it wasn't possible for me. But I'll try it again. I'm really grateful for your advice, anon. Thank you.
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i wish you good luck anon. everyone deserves a good life, its just not fair that some people are dealt shitty cards. i hope you can soon wake up and look forward to the starting day.
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How to have interest in life again? 2016-07-23 20:41:30 Post No.17385451
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How to have interest in life again?
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I'm 20 , I've no life (what a novelty!)
I've been trying to get out ,start work out or learn something , but I always stopped and masturbated instead
I did not have an easy school life ,probably thats why I'M being like that now.
And now I started to loose interest in everything, like I dont need women, I dont even want child, I dont even want to exist, I just look the streets in silence even when I'm amongst people. I basically have no energy to anything or will. I feel like a ghost.
I start to feel less happy, or sad, depressed or anything. I just lost interest in everything.
Whenever I asked somebody on this place ,I received that I am the problem, or just to get outside, which doesnt work obviously.
On top of that I think of women as vile creatures who handles men like objects, if they find a better theyll swap within a moment without regret.
People are just rude in general and they doesnt give me any reasons to invest in them.
Today I was at an english exam (b2, since I'm an eurofag) and I couldve made a friend here but instead I packed my shit and left after the exam was finished.
TL:DR :I've had a shitty life ,tried to break out but cant. And now I'm slowly loosing interest in everything.
Did anyone of you felt like this? And did you break out from it?
How to do that?
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nobody wanna help?
at least give me a thread that had similar case
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>>17385451
My guess for the pack of response is the tldr aspect and perhaps because this thread occurs a lot.
Uh, so my first thought would be to spend less time masturbating. Idk if, scientifically speaking, it dulls your senses or becomes an addiction, but doing something habitually without a good reason or desire to do it doesn't prove to be fulfilling.
Second, I get the vibe you look at humans from a wide perspective. 60 something people killed in an explosion in Kabul? Erdogan arresting teachers and judges after a suspicious "coup"? Americans unable to tell their right from their left? Yes, we look disgusting and rotten and incoherent from that scope.
But try looking at the individuals instead. Perhaps take some time to sit and people watch. Look at people who are rushing off to work and think about what story they have. Are they all dumb and rude? Somewhere in there you have a mix of cancer survivors, worried parents, ambitious students, and on and on- down to people like you who are afraid of losing their given ability to care about anything.
Wrt making friends, that's down to you practicing holding conversations. You could think of it as part of a necessary process in observing the people around you.
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Thank you
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I got my wisdom teeth pulled 6 days ago. Am I ok to smoke weed again or should I wait a little longer
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I smoked green the same day. Killed the pain
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I'm just worried about dry socket
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>30 yo old
>dont have a lot of experience with girls etc
>turn my life around
>get hit on by 8/10 (27yo) very sexual cutie @ work
>she shows a lot of sois but doesn't seem comfortable to actually ask me out
>gonna do that next week
should i bring my inexperience in sexual things even up? she has a ton of experience and get hit on all the time but i also feel like i am a completely different person than i was a few years ago. and i am afraid that that will communicate that i feel unworthy of her. i like myself, quite a lot actually
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No, don't bring it up at all. Why would you? Just go for it!
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I'm very lonely, first time posting on 4chan 2016-07-23 19:57:18 Post No.17385403
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I'm very lonely, first time posting on 4chan
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Ever since I moved to the new office, I have no friends and no one to talk freely with. I'll out of nowhere feel really sad and depressed for a few hours or days and then snap out of it somehow.
pic unrelated, just something I shot from a car
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OP here. I'm also in a moping/whining and self-pity mood atm... literally nothing else to do, so posting here
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Sorry hearing that op. Don't you have any co-workers to talk to?
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>>17385403
You still here, OP?
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How to stop this feeling? 2016-07-23 19:53:54 Post No.17385399
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How to stop this feeling?
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I'm usually alone 24/ 7 since I live by myself here at uni. I don't have many friends (two live in the same city but I don't see them much) and never had a romantic relationship.
I just feel unmotivated to make new friends or to date. It all feels like it would bring too much anxiety or stress. When I think about having a partner I just think about the inevitable end to the relationship of us getting bored with each other.
At the same time I do feel lonely and often have zero desire to do even pass times or hobbies.
So how do I stop this feeling of not wanting to try and thinking relationships are just some necessary pain in the ass.
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people are conflicted. and its not going to simply stop because you want it to.
people who are single long for relationsihps and people in relationships want for the single life.
you end up choosing the one you want more and going with it.
so choose the side you want more, and go with it.
NO, there is no magic pill that will make you stop thinking a certain way.
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>>17385405
Would it be realistic to choose the side that involves being alone w/o friends or lovers though?
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This, also yeah relationships bring stress and pain that will most likely make you think its really not worth the hassle. Just remember that this is your life, and it’s ending one minute at a time - so do whatever you want.
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I'm 21, my niece is 20, And my sister is 37. She's one of those free love types, Almost a modern day hippy, if you will. And well, Lately, On FB, She has been posting pictures of her and her daughter, We'll call my sister A and her daughter E, She's been posting pictures of eachother, one where my sister, A has her head on my niece's E's, Shoulder and saying they both go on "retreats" Where they go on their own to the countryside to live in a cottage, alone. My sister is also, Bisexual, I don't know why I think it, but I just think they're could be something, going on. I don't know.
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It's not cool to want to bang your niece bro. Even if she's the same age. It's still not cool.
Quit being jealous of your sister being able to be close to her daughter. Don't be mad it's not you rubbing up on her, creep.
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>Being this mad
I don't want to bang my niece, but why the fuck are they so close, I want to shoot them.
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>>17385402
>why the fuck are a mother and daughter close?
I mean I get the liberalness bkthers you, but come on.
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Should I get a facebook account? 2016-07-23 19:10:58 Post No.17385339
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Should I get a facebook account?
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Greentext for brevity.
>never been on social media
>ommunicate mostly on messaging apps and texts
>have three close friends and several periphery ones
>am unifag and working
>don't feel compelled to get to know classmates and colleagues outside
Are there any upsides to having a social media account for someone like me?
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don't bother
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I keep having nightmares about going back to schooI. By the way i am 21. but i have a social anxiety and i hate being around other people and wandering around the public. I work at a grocery store in wich i like very much though. I want to go to school for music production but i dont know what to do. I dont have drivers license to travel, i am not an outgoing person and i isolate myself and i hate being around others. What do you think i should do?
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therapy
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I've had chlamydia once a couple months ago. I got tested, treated, told my partners, then got tested again to make sure it was gone.
Today, I had an erection this morning and jerked off a bit, but didn't finish so I went to go lift instead for an hour. I came back home, took a shower, and saw some gooey white stuff dripping from my dick. In the past month, I've had sex with 2 new girls and nobody else and I actually used condoms this time.
Furthermore, I don't know if it's my mind playing tricks on me, but my dick is feeling a little... sore. No burning when I pee, no itching, just sore.
Do I have Chlamydia again?!?? fuck fuck fuck
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you'd know the symptoms better than I.
sounds like you should do whatever you did the first time... get tested? see a doctor?
jfc
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the antibiotics probably didn't clear the entire infection 100%, and you were re-infected by some colonization or something
you'll probably have to pee in a cup again and get another course of antibiotics
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I'm long term disabled, so I use online dating just to keep up social skills since I don't have the stamina to leave the house for long.
But what do I do when they ask what I *do*? I obviously don't work, and I don't do much that's constructive.
I mean I've been basically housebound for 2 years with no end in sight. I want to have friends and a gf but I just don't know how to do it, how to make people want to come spend time with me when I can't do much, live with my parents, and am 30 min or so from the major cities.
How do I deal with this /adv/?
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Catfish.
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Working on literally nothing. I tried doing constructive things like recording music, making a visual novel, learning coding, but I lost motivation for all of that kind of stuff. I sit around watching movies or playing video games, whatever I can to relieve the boredom.
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What
I mean like people, even IRL, that ask what I do with my time basically, who don't know that I'm sick
How do I make people want to hang out with me at that point
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>>17385266
Catfish. Lie and become a better liar.
How do I get my victim-blaming family to take me seriously after I got sexually assaulted?
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You make 6 threads about the same shit on 4chan. Now fuck off.
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Please stop serial-reposting this. You go to the police, and you press charges. Your family will not be pleased, but damned if they won't take you seriously after that.
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(Serious) How to stop masturbating so much 2016-07-23 18:28:39 Post No.17385196
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i Jerk off too much im on nofap but i barely watch any pr0n excep i asturbate waaay to fucking much
ive tried cold showers exercising but i still feel horny asfk what can i do.
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Get a boyfriend, faggot
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So my online friend in another country is going through some really bad depression atm, the antidepressants he's just started apparently make his suicidal thoughts worse for the first month. I'm currently going through some depression myself, just no where near as bad of he is. But because of that I have no idea how i can help him. The last thing he sent me he was saying how hard everything is, I tried to give some advice on that it was worth the effort in the long run, but he just sends back "Kill me". How am I supposed to respond to that? I love his guy, and I want to help him, but I've never got help for my own depression, so i have no idea how to help his. What do?
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If you can fathom it, tell him exactly what you needed to hear when you needed help. As a fellow depressive, not only advice but human to human contact is such a lifeline when it comes to this. I know you're in another country, so maybe also try encouraging him to meet up with friends. He'll shit all over the idea because that's what depression does, but if you could somehow get one of his friends to meet up with him, that could help.
Is it possible to live in nyc without some major skill or college degree? I don't care if I'm poor as fuck and working 2 jobs. I don't really want anything luxurious I just want to live in a ghetto with a couple of roommates.
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Not a chance. It takes three high paying server jobs to live with roommates in a semi-gentrified area with roommates. Without serious experience and connections in the restaurant industry, you won't survive.
What's the point in living in New York City if you don't have the money to enjoy it?
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If you want to test out whether living poor in NY is right for you, try this test right now:
1). Move your mattress into your closet.
2). Get a lawnmower and run the engine 24 hours a day in what used to be the bedroom outside your closet.
3). Use a 5-gallon bucket to store old food waste and your urine. Keep this in your bedroom just outside your closet door.
4). Rent your old bedroom to a feral black woman and 16 asian grandmothers.
5). Rig a car horn to a 12-volt battery in your old bedroom, and set a timer so that it beeps randomly but at least thrice hourly, but 6 times hourly after dark.
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>>17385234
Id be fine with living conditions like that