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What did she do exactly?

Either the girl is trying to look for attention in older men, you being the closest outlet, or maybe she was sexually assaulted, like you said.
Try to get your wife to talk to her or anyone who is close to her and let her know that what she is doing is not okay on any level.
Does she have a father figure in her life?

>>17381960
Reminds me of the thread of the girl who wanted to cheat on her boyfriend with his father, she (probably a troll) said she would do what the niece has done.

>>17381960
I am in a similar situation with my wifes sister.

Its a teenage girl thing. Basically she can test out her sexuality on you with no commitment or danger.

Basically its a crazy girl thing. Wife gets to test your loyalty. Niece gets to feel sexy and desired. All at your expense. Welcome to the world of being a reeled in man.

critical mass kekkkk

>>17381928
In my experience with no fap, i can go about 4-7 days without my balls draining the excess in a wet dream. I am not sure if this is common but seems to happen when I haven't got my rocks off in a while.

>>17381928
Your body is always producing cum and it'll absorb the excess or make you spit it out like >>17381968 it only takes a few days.

>>17381909
You might start by learning the difference between counties, county's and counties'.

You know, there's this thing called "Google"
https://www.google.com/search?q=how+to+word+a+foia+request&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&gws_rd=cr&ei=qzuSV5P-MoyXjwTLtJv4BA

Gives you:

http://www.nfoic.org/sample-foia-request-letters
http://www.foiadvocates.com/samples/1.html
https://www.foia.gov/how-to.html

Im looking more for what phrase to use to inquire about inmates being housed in a county they weren't convicted in for income. I sure as hell not looking for you to type up a draft for me

Ask yourself, "is this what I want to be doing with my life?"

that's it. If you like it and are good at it, don't worry about "authenticity'. Your reasons for the initial interest don't really matter. Mozart only got into music because his dad thought he could make a quick buck off of a child star, but it was still his life's passion

>>17381878
that's the problem, sort of, i'm continuously drawn to music but my work honestly sucks and it's putting me off, i'm afraid of being the next viper the rapper, I kinda feel like I wasn't meant for music, because I have no formal musical education and mostly do things by intuition.

>>17381895
Well, if you're constantly working to improve and are realistic about your abilities and goals, I don't think there's much danger in pursuing it as a hobby. Viper's deal is that he's either an advanced troll or hilariously un-self-aware, something which you don't seem to be in danger of. Plus ya'll niggas ain't even smoke crack is a fuckin banger yo

Also, it's never too late to pursue education, and plenty of non-formally educated musicians made great music.

Pursue an interest because it makes you happy, and success will likely follow. And, even if it doesn't, you'll have spent your time doing something you love, which is admirable in and of itself

>>17381819
go for what you like.

>>17381819

What are you passionate about? Do that. If database development makes your dick hard, fucking do it. If you're only doing it because it's the easier job to get with your diploma, you're going to end up throwing yourself in front of a bus later on.

I would just say to do all of them. Become a full-stack developer.

I think you have the wrong mindset at the moment. You seem to think that school will teach you everything there is to know about programming, then you'll get a job. If you don't live and breathe this stuff you'll hate your life.

>>17381738
>genetics
People rape biology everyday, more and more with no end in sight.
This behaviour is learned, not inherited.

>feel justified
That's your problem.

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OP its time to go Alex Jones on your mind and start BREAKING THE CONDITIONING

I had to change a lot about myself. I was incredibly angry and extremely physically violent with people. Not just family. It took steps for me to change. I had to acknowledge this would take years to change who I am. Small things first, like saying thanks and please. Than walking away from confrontation.

The most difficult for me was to apologize. When I apologize, I really feel it. I open up and say, hey I fucked up and it was my fault.

Changing takes a lot of time, but it can happen if you want it bad enough. I found God and through him I learned how to open up my heart for people. To help the needy and hopeless. It feels so much better than beating someone to a pulp.

Change takes little steps and leads to remarkable monuments.

>>17381699
>The women are pure garbage.

Victim.

>>17381703
No seriously. A whole lot of females around here are super ghetto single mothers. Chain smokers abd drinkers too.

Im healthy and fit, I never get laid. I work 5-6x a week, eat healthy, sit around 10% bf, got everything checked with my doctor. I never get laid, Im pale as fuck and women are not into that.

>>17381687

Well, if you wanna be a Programmers Analyst you should learn languages such as C, C++, C#, Java, Ruby, etc. Most job opportunities out there asks for C# and Java.

HTML, CSS and JavaScript is useful if you're planing to be a front end developer, but I don't think it's your case.

sounds like autism son

You don't develop feelings for someone overnight. It took me 2 months of sleeping with my partner to "feel" for them. Not to say I didn't like them as a person before, but love isn't something you find, its something that takes time to build.

Keep at the noise complaints, and you need to tell the landlord about the garbage problem as well.

>>17381621
Talk to him you faggot

>>17381621
It may be that he simply doesn't know the rules. Have the landlord speak to him about proper disposal of garbage, "quiet hours" specified in the lease, and the like.

Or do it yourself, but in a friendly, not complaining way - "Maybe you didn't realize that in this building. . . ."

What if it lasts a year?
We re good at sex. We like each other ,(put some other crap like we understand each other and we have mutual thinking on subjects and pepper bullshiet to fullfill her "i want a knight on a horse" dream).
It's gonna be a year full of experiences and happy moments.

Then say something like "Dont be so negative. Who knows, maybe im the guy who changes your aspects in relationships".

>>17381598
Ask her who put the curse on her family so you can have it removed through some Sherlock Holmes-esque investigations.

Or tell her to stop looking at shit so negatively like the little doom and gloom bug that she sounds like.

Or dump her, I'd personally dump this thing, she already handed you her exit interview pre-breakup; kinda fucked up, desu.

thank you

>>17381570
Easy, stop laughing and stop pretending they are funny.

Look at the person with great confusion at every single joke and say "What? I don't understand."

Then make him/her explain the joke from point A to Z, every single fucking time until, and when they are done, say with even greater confusion "I don't get it."

When you laugh/chuckle, they think they are being funny and you're lending to the problem. Don't be the problem, be the solution.

>>17381575
This. You'd be doing them a great disservice if you encourages the notion that they were funny.

>>17381564
>insect bite
Jesus.

>>17381564
bro that looks like a raging infection. even if you're an inconsolable alcoholic you need to put down the bottle for two weeks. here's a link to a fairly well-researched data sheet about the negative interactions of alcohol and some antibiotics, including the sulfamethoxazole-trimethoprim you're taking.

>>17381905
shit sorry, forgot link: http://pubs.niaaa.nih.gov/publications/arh23-1/40-54.pdf

>>17381521
I guess look up coaches like you've already mentioned.

Then go audition on Broadway, or any city with opera houses and/or musical plays. Don't move to any location, just fly in/out for auditions. If you're really desperate and auditions aren't going your way, do some of that Voice/X-Factor shit for at least minimal exposure, toss shit up on YouTube, etc. When you land a gig, grab a few Tony Awards, buy some coke, snort it off hooker tits. Sounds kind of fun actually.

>>17381525
My last plan was the ape-in-overalls. So many bastards have apparently just gone to the reality show auditions in unlikely clothes (including the british plumber in his overalls and an american fuck in goth gear) and surprised them just with sheer wrong first impression. Though that trick is probably old by now.

>>17381513
This is your life, not your dads. You need to do what's best for you, when your dad is dead and you have to live with the decisions he made for you- will you be happy that you did something to please him? One thing, how are you 19 and in your third year of college? Is this common where you're from?

So basically, go talk to your counselor about switching. Third year is late, but often you can find some common ground with what you have taken for your current major with your desire towards a new major. Worst case scenario you may have to add on an extra year. What have you been thinking about switching to?

As for your dad, sit down with him and tell him that you will be switching to x major. You are not happy with your current course of study, it's not working, and you'll be making a switch. You are 19 years old and an adult now. You are going to be required to make decisions for yourself pretty soon so it's time to start now. If he says no, tell him it's not up for debate, it helps if you've already made the switch.

>Only one year left till i graduate

graduate
it feels long, but its just one stupid year
once you get a bit older youll notice how years go by
your dad will be happy, he probably wont be much of a shithead anymore
you will get rid of all the shitheads without dropping out

just graduate okay? youll be free after