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Has anyone got rid of acne and how?
Tell me what method worked for you.

>inb4 eat healthy:I had no fast food,sweets,alcohol or soda for 1 year
>inb4 wash your face and sleep--well of course duh

I also tried some stuff i found on the internet like honey and cinnamon masks or whatevs but nothing works.

>19 yo
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My advice for getting rid of acne: Never have it.
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Pic related and Accutane

Protip: don't take Accutane when you're 11.

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I'm starting to feel like my life and schedule completely revolves around my girlfriends and i don't know what to do about it.

Lately whenever we see each other it's me coming to see her, she says she just feels the most comfortable at her own place and my house is too crowded because i still live with my parents, as does she but that doesnt bother me. She used to stay at my house all the time, but over the last year or so she has told me she just wants to stay at hers and likes me coming to see her so i do. Another thing is the time we spend apart is often dictated by her, i love seeing my friends too but i often arrange to see them when she is seeing her friends because she plans it days in advance and my friends are more day by day people, this makes me feel like im filling in the time while were not together because shes choosing to see her friends and im simply following her footsteps even though i do want to see my own friends too.

Its a strange situation but i feel almost like i'm dependant on her, and she's calling the shots although not verbally or directly but somehow through her actions we have wound up in a place where she chooses when she wants to see me or see her friends and where we hang out (her place).

Very lastly i want to add that i absolutely love spending time with her, and im pretty certain she feels the same so when i do get the opportunity to see her i almost always take it.
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That thing with scheduling time with friends seems like a natural result of her planning ahead. If you want to change that, plan ahead yourself. About when to see each other and where, talk to her about it. Say how much you like sharing your living space with her or something.

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As a 27 aged forever neet that's diagnosed schizoaffective and only underage b& click with me. Live with parents that I resent; lost love but play house for free room and bored. No social life currently nor work history either.

Honestly I dont expect anything to ever get better, I'm just gloating here lol. Already getting advice from the psych majors. They want me to take antipsychotics. Do not want dot png.
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>>17384509
*Board

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Here's the deal. One of my best pals lost his brother last night. He died of sarcoma. I'm still in shock but I want to know something: when should I give my friend a call? I don't know what to say or do and I don't wanna hear his cries. It would completely kill me inside.
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>>17384444

I would reach out immediately, just let them know you are sorry for their loss and are there for them if they need you, whether it be to hang out, grab lunch or whatever. Just put yourself in that situation, would you want your friends telling you there are there for you, or to just ignore you in your darkest times.
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>>17384469
Yeah, that's what I intend to do. I'll give him a call in a bit. Thanks anon.

What are some good full-time or part-time jobs where I can goof off / do something else, while also having access to a computer and wifi?

Not necessarily the entire shift, but a third or more.

Right now I work a part-time job online, and if I could essentially work while on work, It would be neat.

I've heard that some night-shift jobs allow you to goof off.


>Inb4 those jobs don't exist
I am working on right now, but it has very few hours (5/week) and no access to wifi. I don't work 50% of my shift, because my job is mainly making sure the place does not implode on itself.
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>>17384412
Valet

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Questions That Don't Deserve Their Own Thread

Had to create one for the trivial questions here.
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I am addicted to the web. How to cure my internet addiction?

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How to deal with regret and anxiety to possible STD after being with a hooker?
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>>17384408
Driiink.
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free clinics
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>>17384408
at least you are not a nigger

My grandfather is old but well for his age. My mother is a narcissist and I want to ask my grandfather about how she was as a child and if he has ever noticed that her behaviour isn't normal. I haven't told anyone in my family (I'm not really close to anyone and although my father is the one I'm closest to he enables my mother's behaviour even though he knows she's unfair to us) about my mothers abusive behaviour and the mental health problems she's caused me (generalized anxiety, moderate depression, social phobia, eating disorders and self-harm) and I'm worried about how my grandfather would react if I suddenly tell him my mother's been abusing me mentally and I'm also afraid that he will get angry and not tell me anything if I ask him about her childhood, as in him assuming that I'm blaming him for her behaviour though that isn't the case. I can't picture my grandfather as a narcissistic type himself so I don't think he'll automatically take my mother's side though. He's stubborn but not the dominant type like my mother. Has anyone else been in the same situation? General advice?
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>>17384398

First of all you need to cut of contact with your mom. You staying with her wont make you any happier or healthier.

Also Narcissistic people tend to be very two sided, so it is possible that your grandfather hasnt seen her behaviour that she has around you. But thats very unlikely since its her dad were talking about.

Overall Id say go for it. If it gives you and understanding and maybe a reason to forgive her for her behaviour then why not. Dont be scared if your grandfather gets mad or upset with her because she deserves it. She will blame you for it but thats what needs to be dome imo.

Try to become independet from your family.
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My mother is super special awesome, but she can be extremely controlling (my stepdad is pretty much a cowering yes man to her.)

My main issue I had when living at home was my parents habit of getting pissed off wine every 2-3 days, so much so furniture was thrown and my mum would randomly fall on my bed and wake me up at 2am saying she loved my like a drunk 13 year old, only to scream at me when i tell her WTF get out. They bicker constantly and my mum is a professional at emotional manipulation. My best friend growing up and on a forum I would moan on could see it more than I could, being a big contributor to my bouts of depression, low self esteem and social anxiety.

Everyone said move out and once I did, although tensions can be high and there is the odd explosive fall out (when I lived at home I rarely argued as it fell on deaf ears) when we do get along it is much higher quality than my years as an adult living with her.

My mother is an amazing person and sees the drunk her as a bit of fun but living with her drunk is another story.

Move out if you haven't yet and keep a bit of a distance. My mother is desperate for me to live in the same town as her, she's not getting any younger (which she tells me all all the time that makes me feel like shit living 200+ miles away) and, as much as i'd like to support her by living closer as her health likely declines, I could never live round the corner from her.
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>>17384925
Heh, maybe you should video their "fun" drunk times and then show them when they are stone-cold sober.

>be me at 20
>high school diploma and a few IT courses
>local industry runs on gas and oil
>no tech jobs for another 500 miles
>everyone has graduated and moved away
>everyone has kids now or is getting married
>no money, no job, no one hiring
>two year shut-in with diagnosed social phobias

help me, /adv/, what can I do? I need to make money to move out. I want to go I to photography and live in the backwoods. My graphics and trades in tech exceed the required experiences for hiring business, so much they won't hire me.

an hero is not an option, and yes I want to change. couldn't give less of a fuck about dating or having a family, and sex bores me anyway, so that leaves plenty of time in the day.

>pic related, it looks like how I live
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You've done a very good job at framing your own suicide. Adjust your attitude and look at your situation again.

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Hello /adv/ice.

I met a girl, we feel good together, we had a few sexy times, but she told me that every time she tries to have "actual intercourse" (penis-vagina, let's be clear), she has a panick attack and can't manage to do it. She has no trouble during sexy times, we did a few things and it was great, but once she had this kind of panic attack in front of me. She tried to have sex with a few men but it never worked, she always had that problem when she tried to have sex.

Do any of you have a similar experience? I think I love her and I'd like to make love to her one day.
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>>17384188
So do other stuff and enjoy yourselves. When she's ready she'll let you know.

A bit of ancient history: in the pre-pill days, "everything but" was very much the norm among young people. And even today there are lots of couples who, either from pregnancy fear or moral decisions or just preference, have at least temporarily satisfying sex lives that don't include "going all the way".
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>>17384188
Has she been raped before OP? Kinda sounds like it homie. Patience.
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>>17384188
>sexy times
Reddit is a cancerous place. You should stay there. It's your containment website.

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So it's Friday night and I'm on 4chan. Obviously, I need the help of a mental health professional. Short of that, maybe there's something else I can do so I can stop spurning every social opportunity I come upon. I'll spare you the stories. It's utterly tragic. Maybe I just hate people and if I'm going to make any headway in figuring out who I really am, like I've been trying to do for 20 years, I'll just need to quit my job, sell all my things, dig a hole in the earth and deposit myself there for all eternity, because there be your precious, God-given answers. Normal people aren't concerned with questions and answers, they're not really concerned with anything at all. They're just living their lives, putting their pants on in the morning and wearing jammies to bed at night, spending time with friends and family on regular occasion. That sounds nice to everyone ever, but for some reason, I get a huge, huge kick out of social isolation and the pure, unadulterated suffering it brings. I savor it like wine that you can chew like bubble gum. It makes my blood rush. It sets my brain on fire. I know that people like me and want to spend time with me, but I will actually break my own spine to avoid spending time with anyone. It's the BEST.
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>>17384145
Here's your (You).
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>>17384153
Mm, it says OP.

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hey /adv/,
So I'm a norwegian guy, who has lived in Spain for 11 years (I'm 19 now).
I have been managing with an out-of-date NIE-number (ID) since it only lasted for 3 months.
Anyway, I have been thinking about getting my Spanish nationality (including my current norwegian one)
to get some(many) benefits.
But before I start the process, I would like to make sure there are no consequences that would put me in a worse situation in the future. Any tips?
I've been told that by law you don't lose any rights by having double nationality, but still... my dad told me they recommended him not to do it.
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>>17384114
The only foreseeable consequence would be that, if you have children with a Spaniard, you would need to check what the Norwegian stance on them inheriting nationality is.

I'm a Spaniard and I've a Danish-Spanish friend who lost the Danish nationality because he knew jack of speaking Danish and only visited once every blue moon, on top of having been born here.

It's handy to have the nationality of the country in which you reside, and you can't ever lose your original nationality; I don't see the downside.
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>>17384114
My mother is born and grew up in USA, and moved to denmark with my father (danish).

Therefor i have double nationality, with 2 pasports.
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>>17384114
Some countries (including the US) used to make you renounce all other citizenship to get theirs, and treated your getting another citizenship as renouncing the US. But that has all changed and almost every country acknowledges dual citizenship.

But here's a really bizarre thought: Why not ask the Danish and Spanish citizenship offices?

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Hi,

I have this cabinet with a mechanism that inserts a bolt above and under the door when you turn the key.

The issue is, that the door is locked and the key keeps stucking at the part where the bolts should move into the door again.

As far as I know is such a mechanism pretty simple and I have no idea how this can jam.

Any suggestions how I can open the door?
I can't open the 2nd door or get a big enough gap for anything.

> pic related it's the door and in red the bolts
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I'm willing to pay a few bucks in Bitcoin if anyone can come up with a solutions that doesn't involve breaking anything.

also:
My WD40 can is inside the cabinet if anyone come up with this idea.
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Does anyone know how such an lock mechanism is called?
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This lock stucked so hard, I killed a key.

My luck there was also WD40 in the basement.
Shit is open now, one of the keys is dead.

WD40 is magic
WD40 is love
WD40 is life

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How do i become a butcher?

pic unrelated
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>>17384084
Go to your local supermarket.
Catch a butcher at a quiet moment.
Ask him.
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Ask google.

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Ayoo, so I'm a gal who loves spending her time playing games and watch eastern asian entertainment stuff. Basically,
>That's all I do and love in life
>hate socializing and meeting new people
>grumpy most of the time with shitty personality
>doesn't want to be the way i am for the rest of my life
>how do I WANT to be with people??
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>>17384079
this is b8
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>>17384082
no, it's a trap
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>>17384079
>plz
>Ayoo
>hey guys how do i fix my own personal issues within my character and personality
i don't fucking know.
As a reminder, you need to be over 18 to post.
>>>/trash/

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