bitch cheated on me. i pretended that i forgave. she's away currently, but we still chat via skype. i want to hack her accounts (reddit, gmail etc) and publish all info. ideas? probably need to catch only one password. fuck her.
You could just remove her from your life and move on like a sane adult. What she did was shit but revenge is immature and petty. Be the bigger person.
i know you're right. i totally get that. she fucking ripped my heart. i know she used reddit and gmail to talk with the guy she cheated. i just want to know when it started. i don't think i will publish any of her info.
I want to hook up a milf or granny so bad. Where should I start with ?
>>17382404
get a job at a place where there are a lot of older ladies, especially rich ones. if you're going to bang a milf, might as well get a sugar mama and get yourself added to the will. start lifting if you're not already. dress nicely. take a quick trip through /fa/. learn how to be gentlemanly but flirty. be the dashing young buck they would've loved to have had a fling with during all those years they were married to their boring-but-stable husband.
>>17382546
Indeed, I was gonna give a similar advice. I work as a security guard at jc penney and you wont believe the amount of older pussy walking around. The workers, customers, etc
>>17382638
In addition, gardening/farm club. Free cooking classes held by your local community center
Please no judgement, this has been torturing me for the last year and a half.
So, after I graduated college, I was so scared of finding a job that I end up procrastinating for a year.
I graduated from a reputable (I think) college on December 2014 with a Bachelor's Statistics and CompSci, and for the whole year of 2015, all I've been doing is basically look for a job online, read the description, and then imagine/visualize what my CV/cover letter would look like IF I applied for that job, and then just not apply at all.
Finally, at the end of 2015, I applied for a warehouse job and got it. The manager and coworkers were very cool people, but I left that job at the end of April 2016 because of a start-up project that I'm working on with some friends and also because of school (I went back to school just fill some gaps and gain some knowledge, I am currently taking some Master's level courses, but I probably won't pursue a Master's degree).
Now, I'll cut to the chase, I only have 2 important questions to ask:
1) How to get over the fear of looking for a job?
Basically it feels like the moment you find a job you'll get stuck in an office from 9-5 for the rest of your life, and that there will be no more elements of "unpredictability". So it kind of feels like the rest of your life will be written out for you the moment you find a "real" job, it is at that moment when you find out your purpose in this world, and it is very scary.
2) How do I explain my year gap?
Suppose that I do get an interview some day and when the interviewer asks for my year gap, what would be a good answer in this case? Saying I had depression is definitely bad. Maybe health issues? Sounds kinda bad as well... Maybe just say I worked some temp jobs here and there?
I welcome any advice you guys give me. It is highly appreciated that you took the time to understand my situation and I am immensely grateful.
I live in Canada by the way
1) How to get over the fear of looking for a job?
Stop being a bitch and just start applying. Yes when you get a "real job" you will probably be stuck in an office from 9-5 with a safe predictable job, but anon you picked a safe predictable major. You don't major in comp sci and stats to go travel the world; unless you are exceptional but you don't seem exceptional. you picked majors that were safe and had a high chance for employment.
2) How do I explain my year gap?
After college I wanted to travel and see the country. I spent some time connecting with my family and gaining life experience. Do not mention depression, health issues etc. Spin it positively. I took a gap year and it didn't affect my future employment at all, I basically said the above if they brought it up.
>>17382461
Thanks anon what you said helped lot. What kind of experience did you have when you were my age. Im curious to know. Did you experience fear, excitement, etc? what major are u from.?
PLEASE HELP
I need a student loan. Going to ASU next semester and because of some strange paperwork mistake I'm classified as out of state. Need student loan of $16k with a cosigner that makes $50k a year and doesnt have the best credit. Whats the easiest loan I could get? Don't care about high interest rates or nonbenefits since I'll receive a refund for a huge portion of the money once the paperwork straightens out.
TL;DR
>PLS HLP
>need private student loan
>bad credit cosigner
>what's the easiest private student loan I could get?
Don't do it.
>>17382386
Go to community college and knock off as many credit as possible.
Or get a job, save and/or sell Adderall.
>>17382386
Dude quit making sun devils look bad
>asking for loan advice on a armenian image board
why does my vision lag when ever i smoke weed? its almost like im watching a stop motion. i dont mind it, im just curious as to whats happening there.
>>17382353
its not your vision it's short term memory lapses,basically you just forgot what you are looking at half a second ago so you feel like life is laggy.
-try looking in the mirror
-try tasting salt
-try tasting nutella
-try smelling perfume
-try laying on your bed with music and headphones on.
funny isn't it ? I miss smoking pot desu.
ignore that other guy; i know exactly the feeling you're talking about. you're just getting too high.
finally break up with girlfriend.
when the "honeymoon" part wore off, I just couldn't get over the fact that she sidelined me in the beginning to party and then came back when that fun died out.
sure im a bitch who can't get over shit but it just got too frustrating as time went on, esp seeing the friend that kept wanting her to go out
I thought it was easy break, now she's saying i just used her as a fuck buddy and i never really cared. what do i say to this? besides the blatant of course not
Break all contact with her. Block her from all socia media and her cell number. Find someone else to date and focus on yourself.
>>17382350
>I thought it was easy break, now she's saying i just used her as a fuck buddy and i never really cared. what do i say to this? besides the blatant of course not
Cut contact.
It's hard not to when someone is attacking you, but it's clear she can't talk about it in a civil way, so just don't. You know the reasons you left her. She can say whatever the fuck she wants. Doesn't change the fact you guys broke up.
I smoked weed for the first time in forever last night. How do I get this shit out of my system so that I can stop feeling like a zombie
Eat and drink to flush your system out
Exercise. Time.
Dont smoke again, not worth it imo.
I'm thinking of getting my license , has anyone had any experience with it ? Advice ?
>real estate in Los Angeles
>how's the money ?
>what is it all about ?
>I literally don't know anything about it
Money is ok, very bad at first but once you get a reputation you can make dosh. Its all about getting people to buy and sell. For example, a client might want to sell his house for well over the market value. You need to set expectations and try to get his price down. Then you hustle hard and try and sell it, at which point you make a commision. I didnt make a single dollar for my first six months.
>>17382301
What courses did you take , and is college education a requirement ?
>>17382336
im not the guy you are quoting, but im also in the bussiness, no you dont need college education as you will receive all the basics from the course, still it helps a little the more you know...
How do you not get burnt out while studying for tests? Especially when you have several.
>>17382190
Study a little bit the whole quarter/semester. Do your homework. At this point studying should onyl take like 3 maybe 4 hours tops.
>>17382579
This. And make sure to pay attention during class.
Also, try to break your study sessions into 30 minute incriments.
Chunks at a time. You can set a certain time limit, or do what I do and keep going until you feel you're so burnt you aren't getting anything out of studying anyways. No point forcing yourself to keep going if none of it is sticking anyways. Take even just a short break, come back to it.
It could also help to have a place to study. Like, I find I can't study unless I'm at a desk or table, can't do it from my bed. Some people can't study at home, some need complete silence, others work better to music, etc. Gotta try some shit out and find what works for you.
have had a crush on this girl for a while, she recently broke up with her bf but they are still really good friends. I don't know if he still has feelings for her and if I go for her idk if he'll accept it. We're great friends but I think a girl would ruin that friendship. Thoughts?
wait a couple of months, then go for it.
>>17382167
Let things cool down between them two.
But don't get your hopes up. She might not feel the same way about you.
If you do get involved you need to let him know how you feel, but make sure it's for sure between you and her. Also, be prepared for your friendship with your buddy to be a little weird after. Sometimes it doesn't work out.
>Meet girl years ago
>She moves away
>We talk almost daily for 2 years
>Eventually she says she loves me
>I ask if she'd like me as a boyfriend, she says she's scared of commitment and gets bored easily.
>We still talk
>I get over her rejection, she still talks to me almost daily.
>I no longer feel for her since she said she doesn't really want me. She gave me the "You're too good for me" blah blah blah.
Well this is bizarre. She's a good friend but honestly, I don't feel love for her anymore. She still says she loves me from time to time which confuses the hell out of me. It doesn't help that thanks to her I think I've now got an Asian fetish. All my exes have been white, yet for whatever reason a bunch of Asian women seem to ask me out all the time.
sounds like a sagittarius
>>17382069
She doesn't know what she wants. You seem to have the correct perspective, so don't make yourself dwell on it.
>>17382072
She is actually. Funny how that works.
Should I move to a city first and then apply for jobs when I'm there, or apply to where I want to live and then move when I have a job secured?
(USA male here)
>>17382065
The second, but if you have $10k or so you'll be fine with the first.
apply for job, get job, move
There's a girl I've decided I'm interested in. We know each other well, but as of recently she's out of the country until the end of summer, visiting parents in a nation she doesn't live in. So I've got two options if I want to do this thing.
1: Wait, ask her out in person.
2: Do it now, over the internet.
2 is attractive because then I don't have to wait around to make the move, but it's the easy way out. 1 will require the guts to actually take her and physically say it, which I suspect is really the better option. Except for the waiting. We had good chemistry but I was ambivalent. Should have done it earlier. But I'm sure now. Just need to choose which way.
one
grow a pair
>tfw no dad to build your cats a bunk bed
>>17382040
wait til the new year. the chances of her picking up a new boyfriend while in a country she doesnt fucking live in are pretty slim to one, and while girls are generally either 'in or out' in terms of a relationsihp, this is horrible timing.
just wait til shes back, hang out once, then ask her on a real date.
Hey advice.
Something happened last night that's kind of bugging me.
>I'm at work (I work mid afternoon to late night)
>girlfriend texts me, asking if we can take her car down to a local garage after work, her tire is hissing air, and her male friend works there, always gets good service
>of course
>after work, I tail her down to the garage to drop off her car
>she parks, puts her keys into a key box, and as she's returning to my vehicle, pulls her shirt up and flashes me
>i'm looking at my phone, not at her
>when I do look up, she does it again, then gets into my vehicle
>we have a laugh as we realize there are security cameras around, one pointed right where she was standing while flashing me
>I need gas, and on the way to the gas station she says " I texted Friend, told him I dropped the car and the keys off, and not to look at the camera. I know a bunch of the guys that work there.
What the fuck? Don't look at the camera footage? You know a bunch of the guys that work there? She might of well have texted "I dropped the car and the keys off, and if you want to see my tits, have a look at the camera footage.
I mean, it's not really that big of a deal, but fuck, what an attention-whore thing to do.
Whatever. How would you guys react with your girlfriend doing something like this? I'm sure I'm overreacting, but it still miffs me.
id laugh it off, apparently youre too insecure
its just tits, on a security camera, far away from them...
>>17382033
You are overreacting.
Honestly she was just trying to be cute with you so try not to be such a dick about it.
About two months ago now I went out on a date with a girl and basically fell for her there. However I made a few mistakes. I was nervous on the date and didn't go for a few obvious plays, like when she put her hand really close to mine as we walked and I didn't hold it, or when my plans for the date sort of fizzled due to unforeseen circumstances. Either way, she said she would go on our next outing but only as friends, and I asked what she meant by that. And that's the last I ever heard from her, despite a few more attempts to get in touch with her before giving up. Well, for the most part. I tried messaging her again about 1 month ago. No response as I expected. Now I find myself keeping a photo of her open in one browser tab. I'm still looking for other people but it's hard to move past this one, because I can't help but get a strong impression that she did like me back (we kissed goodnight for example, several kisses to be exact). The feeling that she's still out there, the knowing that I could be with her if I wasn't a fuckup who gave into his feelings and came off desperate, it's very hard to move on from that. we met on match and I can see from her user activity that she's still on there regularly, so evidently she's still looking too. I dunno, I know it's not right but I can't help but still want to be with her, and I don't know what to do. Please help this despondent loser in love.
>keeping a photo of her open in one browser tab.
Stop that shit and move on. She doesn't want you and your about 1 step away from being a stalker.
Move on, you're acting like a kiss less virgin.. Go bang a hooker or something.
>>17382008
It's funny because I'm not, I guess more feeling really alone. I'm a fine conversationalist and don't have much trouble talking to people, I guess it's more that I feel like few/no people really resonate with me and so it doesn't matter if i can talk to people because I just can't be the person I really amm. And then I find someone that I do resonate with and get all excited and fucking ruin everything. Maybe it's just because I didn't feel much from my first time combined with a really bad second relationship that has me feeling like a ball of hurt stupid. Like I'm emotional baggaged but still back to square one. It's hard to describe. I closed out her pictures, now I'm just back to waiting to see if anyone replies to me on tinder (half a dozen mutual likes but no messages).