I have been sexually assaulted and no one believes me -.- What do I do?
>>17385111
Well, maybe do what I've done - deny it happened. and get on with life
Kill yourself
I denied it and kept quiet about it for years and there's nothing noble about it I'm in utter pain and I have Ptsd.
Got my heart crushed in such a way I'm wondering if it destroyed my ability to love. How can I be sure?
kys
love is a battlefield. we live heart ache to heart ache.
>>17385132
NO PROMISES
NO DEMANDS
How do i tell my over protective dad that i dont wanna go to school anymore and that i wanna take a long break from it?
Why don't you want to go to school anymore? Have any other plans?
>>17385100
what are you studying in school?
>tfw had a dream that my HS crush threw herself onto me and nuzzled her head into my chest, while I stroked her hair
>I wake up, realize it wasn't real, and genuinelly feel like shit
I was never bothered by this before, but now that I expereinced such a life like occurance, I feel defeated and empty now. I've never even held a girl's hand let alone do anything. All HS I just ignored girls and rejected a few even. All of a sudden I regret my actions and want the warm embrace now. Why is this? How do I not fuck up in college? I have no experience talking and dealing with girls.
>>17385097
You really only have one option if you are serious about your HS crush. You need to get in contact with her in some way, work out if you have things in common, give the friendship some time before asking her whether she would like to date you. if she says yes - success. If no, that's okay - you tried your best and now have an answer to your question. This won't happen over night and you will have to be realistic about your chances and honest about your feelings. Give it some time and things might work out well.
Side note: I have also had this happen to me. I had a dream about a girl I knew in University and woke up feeling a profound connection to her for like no reason. She lived in a different city so I didn't pursue it and got over the dream. No regrets.
Hey guys
About two weeks ago i lost all of my friends
Long Story short
>Last year i quit drugs and the general party life because it didnt made much sense to me anymore and my friends didnt liked that, called me a traitor and dumped me
So now i am most of the time lonely, cant really sociolize with other people because i am too shy und generally fucked up because all the drugs i did in the past
How do i get on with life? How do i find new friends? Do i need friends to live a good life?
>>17385068
Get on with life, learn, live, work, etc.
In a few years you will be the one who escaped 'loserdom'.
I think I have misdiagnosed Autism and the label is become painful for me. help?I have Ptsd from a sexual assault I never told anyone about and I think that's what my problem was all along. My mum is very Munchausen by proxy about it (the Autism) and everyone thinks I'm lying about what happened.
Find someone trustworthy
OP I went to a therapist because I've had 13 heavily traumatic events, some of which have given me symptoms of ptsd. They tried to call it aspergers. Because my mannerisms were somewhat withdrawn. While talking about trauma.
Sometimes shrinks are fucking dicks looking for an easy solution for their books - not to help you.
I'm still figuring out what to do.
Same and I had only one event but that doesn't excuse this behaviour from others.
Heya /adv/ legal question
So, my dad was having an operation on my 21st birthday, he died.
I'm not sure of all the details, but his stomach filled with blood and he died while op was on. They're holding the body for a few months to look at it.
Is that normal? Did they mess up?
Somebody told my mum to get a lawyer, I can't afford to care for her.
I'm sorry for your loss. What surgery was he having?
Holding onto the body for examination would be normal, but that only takes days, not months. Something smells wrong. Find a lawyer.
Hey adv i got a pretty fat benis (but not as fat as ur mum. Lol)
And I get self-conscious about my bulge. As a result I try to wear looser pants than most people (with a belt).
You feel that's the right thing to do?
Be proud of your bulge. Guys dont care, and girls like to look
Any asocial/antisocial people here with parents that seem dissapointed in them?
Will they come to accept that i'm not unhappy, I just wanna be left alone?
Feeling rejected by your parents sucks
Why are we so similar? 100 years ago this would be rare but now there are people just like me.
And my parents are okay they just don't accept or understand me.
Tell them you could just get knocked up/ someone knocked up, deal with drugs and be in a gang, the social life in those activities are very busy!
Seriously though, your happiness matters, not there's. Try and show them your interests, if they see you are activity enjoying life doing y our hobbies/ following interests, they may not understand them but see you are at least happy.
I have done a lot academically for my parent's to be proud of, not so much career and socially wise. I like video games, online funny crap, making things and anime/ delving into cosplay. My mum has spent most of my life trying to get into going to parties, drinking wine (I rarely drink), addict myself more in the way I look with clothes and make up rather than my interests.
She is also an amazing cook and gardener which are not in my interests but have at least tried to learn but my mum is so spectacular at it she always expects me to be brilliant at any effort in i do so I loose interest.
I used to feel bad when my mum has more interest in my sister (who lives abroad and has a more volatile relationship with) in what she has to say and do all of my life as she was the pretty fashionable one and I was the overweight geek.
I like my hobbies, I enjoy food but continue to try and improve my fitness and diet as life goes on, I like what I do and I am learning more and more to love myself rather than focus on what I am not.
Be and enjoy who you are, not be unhappy at what you are not (or made to feel you are wrong in life as long as you are not some baby rapist terrorist)
>>17384923
Let's all love Lain.
So, I've been using two types of cream for my acne problem for the past year. Their role is to make all my red spots and marks from acne go away.
The problem is that this is making my face really oily. Up to the point that friends stop me by and ask me why I'm sweating during low temperatures. What should I use, mostly interested in international stuff or stuff made home because I live in Europe.
Pic related, but I'm a male.
>>17384920
Fellow acne-cuck reporting in.
I used a variery of different shit and some meds, even custom made cremes just for my acne 'types'.
Really the only thing that has been working out so far is Ro-Accutane or just Accutane depending on your country.
They do exact opposite and dry the shit our of your skin, all around, which forces u to stay lubed up.
At this point the only thing left is for my inflammation/red spots to go away, but the amount of scars I'm potentially facing is disheartning.
>>17384930
Side-Note you'll need to be drinking a FUCK load of it depending on your skin condition.
So I could give u a fair assesment of hown long it would potentially take for ur face to clear up if u post a pick.
Btw before I hopped on this, my parents must have spent a few hundred on my cremes n shit that didn't do that much and also made my skin oily.
>>17384934
The current creams I use are pretty good. I mean, they swiped the shitty stains from my face, leaving quite a few now.
The problem is my oily face. I fucking hate it.
Roaccutane is in my country. Are you from eastern europe by any chance?
What is this and how do I get rid of it?
Hair. Shaving helps.
That looks like a form of razor burn, you're either shaving too roughly or your skin is just sensitive
Use lotion on your face after shaving, shave with cold water instead of hot (Sometimes helps) and just drop the money on a really nice expensive razor, it'll last you a long time and won't fuck up your face, it's worth the money.
>>17384893
Samata
There's a waitress I work with and I want to ask her out. I asked another waitress if she knows whether or not this other one has a boyfriend, to which she responded that she does, but she also had the impression that she's unhappy with him, how she "feels stuck" etc. So my question is simple: should I ask her out tonight even though odds are that she rejects me (but this may also plant a seed of hope for the future); or should I just wait around until they inevitably break up?
Just do it.
>>17384935
/thread
I need some coping skills ASAP.
My relationship is very weird. First of all, my gf has a very low libido, she doesn't masturbate at all, and we have sex like once a week. When we do, I normally don't cum, because she "has enough" and gets tired (I'm her first). So I have to jack off later on. She's also not available for most of the day when she works/studies, and when she gets home, she can take up to an hour to respond. She's also kind of cold.
All this makes me act clingy and feel insecure in response. I do not like to feel this way. I don't think I normally am this way. But it feels inevitable. Right now it's 12 PM here and she hasn't even gotten out of bed yet.
How do I cope with this?
>How do I cope with this?
By realizing that you care more about her that she cares about you.
The more clingy you get, the more she'll distance herself.
You need to stop investing so much in the relationship. Expand your social circle, get out more. Find new hobbies.
She sounds like a bad choice for a first relationship, by the way
It sounds like she's not into you.
or she's actually gay and doesn't realise.
If you are pretty young both these scenarios are very likely, moreso than low libido.
This girl I have a crush on told a mutual friend that I remind them of Christian Grey. Not really sure how to interpret this cause I don't really know anything about 50 shades of Grey except the guy does some bdsm shit. Does she think im creepy?
I haven't seen the thing, but considering how many girls like it, she probably thinks you're super hot
>>17384832
It's a 'you're hot' to 'I want you to do pervy things to me' signal.
The guy is just a standard main character in a bad romance book, that fucks the slutty protagonist without her having to do much of anything so she doesn't feel like she's a slut.
>>17384832
>This girl I have a crush on told a mutual friend that I remind them of Christian Grey.
Run. Run away, quickly. Either you're creeping the hell out of her, or she's crazy in all the bad ways. Neither scenario ends well for you.
I think porn fucked up my mind
I have untatainable standards and even with a real naked girl in front on me it is very hard to maintain an erection
Can i become normal again?
I tried reducing porn from multiples times a day to one every two weeks but i see no improement
>>17384826
U r gay