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This girl I talk to keeps talking about her exes and always tells me how much she misses them and I've already told her how I like her, and she's told me that she likes me, but she still keeps thinking about her ex. Most of the time I can deal with it, but now it's gotten worse and now it's getting annoying.
What should I do? I'm not great with feelings and stuff. Should I forget about her and find someone new? Should I at least try to help her? If so how?
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shun her, it's the best for you because fuck that noise and it's the best for her because maybe she'll learn to act less like a fucked up garbageperson in the future.
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If it bothers you that much, don't talk to her
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>>17385809
Forget about her and make sure you do move on
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Car advice for the PNW 2016-07-23 22:39:32 Post No.17385770
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Going to be moving to WA early next year, and my current car ('00 Odyssey) is on is last legs.
I have considered the Subaru a lot because everybody and their mom has one, and I imagine the awd is good to have. I have heard that it's not critical however.
To save money, I'm also considering Corollas and Honda CRV's, all within about 5 years old.
Just looking for people with advice.
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Japanese cars from the mid-2000s are probably good, they're reliable and cheaper than a car from 2010 onwards
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Now, I am not really into self pity and shit like that but some things have started bothering me more and more.
I am fairly social person. I have enough friends, some of them very close, am ok looking, have a job, one of the better students of my generation. Generally speaking I am quite satisfied with my life. But, and that is the thing that is bothering me, it just seems that for some reason it is impossible to me to have gf. And because of that extreme feeling of loneliness and dread follows me every now and then.
Now, I did have sex with multiple women and am often described as having some alpha qualities by friends. Some of them even telling me they envy me about some of those qualities. And yet, all of them have/had girlfriends while I never came even close to anything like that. I seem not to be interested in almost everyone I meet when going out, and those that I do like are almost always ones I can't have for whatever reason.
I do have both OCD and depression ( genetics, half of my family has those) but both of those are in complete control, and are unoticable to people. In distant past those things were out of control, but since then have put my life in order, suddenly almost everything was great. I have experienced lots of stuff that I missed then, my self esteem increased significantly, and yet idea of having girlfriend just seems impossible to me.
So, my guess is I am just subconciously fucking something up but I can't figure it out. Psychiatrist wasn't much help either.
What do you think /adv/?
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b-bump
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>>17385736
It's a cruel joke, thank evolution.
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There isn't a formula to it. A lot of people seem to think this kind of thing is destined to happen, but it isn't. Sometimes it happens to some people, sometimes it doesn't, and when it doesn't it could be for a variety of personal reasons. You just gotta deal with that I guess.
Just went on a fantastic first date with a really cute girl. We sat there for 3.5 hours just chatting and laughing. When we left we made out for a bit and agreed to go out again sometime next week
I'm thinking of taking her to the amusement park but I would also like some good date ideas that I could use for the future
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Drive in movie
If she isnt a slut I'd wait till the third date for this one though. It usually leads to finger popping and getting head.
>be me
>let this person know I've liked her for a while
>get told "I'm flattered" and "I haven't really thought about this"
>ball is now in my court
>mfw I don't want to ruin the friendship
>mfw I don't want to ignore her and not try to be with her
/adv/ how fucked am I rn? Seriously, what the fuck should I do now? Going to college and being a dumbass is stressful as well as being dangerous, at this rate my stupidity will cause me to not be around for two years. I'm fucking trying, what should I fucking do?
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>>17385721
bitch you're fucking retarded for even making this thread
ur telling me u confessed ur feelings to this girl and then when she responded positively u dont know what to do
why did u even confess in the first place
also reminder that this board isn't a diary for your teenage drama
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Math/english teacher, english teaching in Japan, social work, or economics?
-Procrastinated in Uni. Those are my only options now.
-Was working to EE + JP minor. I may kill someone if I see another formula.
-I hate people(especially kids) but my newfound hate for mathematics trumps the feeling.
Is teaching english in Japan okay idea for an Asian American man from California?
Money isn't a big deal to me.
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>>17385714
I have two friends who are doing this, and they are probably older than you.
If you can handle the commute and the culture of living there, go ahead. You don't even need to know that much Japanese for the job, because most of the time they expect the students to speak only English in the class.
If you will do it, it's worth the investment to visit Japan a few times first to understand the culture and how to live there.
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>>17386014
I'm 21 and have never traveled out of state before so yeah, good idea.
Did your friends complain to you about anything specific? Also do you know what age range they worked with?
Do you ever feel like a robot mimicking other people's behaviour just to fit in?Just to be socially acceptable?I pretend to laugh at people's jokes.I pretend to enjoy socialising more than I actually do.I pretend to empathise when people are having a shitty time.It worries me.I mean,don't get me wrong,I can feel empathy,joy,sadness,all the colours of the rainbow of emotions.I just don't feel them that strongly.Other people seem to strongly express emotion.Generally I don't feel anything in particular,I just sort of am.But I get the feeling that most people feel the same way.Do we perhaps play up our emotions,put on some sort of facade to exaggerate our feelings,one big circle jerk where we pretend to give a shit.Not necessarily looking for advice,just want to know how other people perceive it.
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>>17385653
I feel that any animal or machine that mimics humans too closely should be destroyed. I have no idea why i just feel that way.
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>>17385656
I agree,it's kinda unsettling
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Try doing the myers briggs test,it might be your personality perhaps.We are all different but similar at the same time.I feel the same as you do.
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what the fuck do I do? 2016-07-23 21:49:01 Post No.17385624
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so green text to shorten the story, I also posted some questions a few weeks ago
>bro and his wife get hooked on pain killers
>this leads to heroin
>bro loses job, house and kids
>kids staying at grand parents place by court order
>bro and wife have nowhere to go
Do I let them stay with me?
He isnt a terrible person, I think he has good intentions but his wife is a kind of a bitch. She stole from her own kids to get drugs... This scares me
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>I think he has good intentions
Why do people say this shit? How does having good intentions make up for something if it doesn't manifest itself in good choices? If he had good intentions, he wouldn't have fucked up his life like this
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NO!
My brother has been a junkie for most of my life, I'm 21, still live with my mom because she has severe arthritis so I have to help her.
My brother has been taking advantage of my mom and her disease that makes her weak and squats in her house. Brings other junkie girls, fucks them and does drugs with them all day.
I've gotten my laptop, tv, and jewelry stolen. Save yourself and let them go their own way.
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So this is a stupid thing I guess, maybe I put too much time into it. Anyways:
So my friend had a laptop laying somewhere with a fuckton of junk on it and asked me to back up some pictures and reinstall windows like usual. Like a retard, I decided to format the save drive where I put those pictures, so when I realized that I lost them after having done all that work, I told her that I would try to recover some shit, being really incompetent and all. And so I did, pictures and more pictures. A bunch of junk that I had to filter through and just delete (it was about 200k files).
So, I noticed some questionable stuff. Not nudes of her specifically, but as I was randomly cleaning up, I noticed at least one file that had some shit that I may not be supposed to know about, maybe. So there's this gigantic folder, still with about 25k unsorted images and I'm not getting into anything personal here. She was fine with just looking for the files she wanted herself (I also do this for free in any case, so she wasn't mad at me) so I can just put this folder on some usb drive and get done with it.
The thing is, some cunt a few years ago spread rumours about me fapping to pictures I made of her because she asked me to. Suffice to say, not only would I rather fap to walls, that ain't true, and my friend right here never trusted her either.
However I can't help but think that if she notices this, she might think I'm keeping those private pictures and have a suspicion due to that rumour I talked about before. Like, she can put 2 and 2 together and think that I'm somehow not as trustworthy anymore. Like I said, not pictures of her, but still.
So what would be the best course of action?
-Investigate whether there's more, pretty much get into the nasty stuff and delete all more questionable pictures, since from what I know they weren't there in the initial backup
-Leave it that way with all the junk
-Tell her what I saw
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>>17385592
Be oblivious.
This will bite you in the ass if you claim to know shit. not 100% but better safe than sorry.
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>>17385641
Aight, I think I'm enough of a good actor. It's a pile of pictures anyways.
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How do I motivate myself to get a job?
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>have bills
>want to buy things
>want to not be a neet faggot
>want to move forward in life
Pick as many as you'd like.
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>>17385572
not being a lowlife degenerate did it for me
also not starving to death is nice
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>>17385581
>have bills
Living at my mum's right now
>want to buy things
I've got savings and I'm not very materialistic
>want to not be a neet faggot
Eh maybe
>want to move forward in life
Eh maybe
>>17385587
My mum buys food so I'm not that motivated really
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Anyone knows any link to a full play of the book of mormon? 2016-07-23 21:34:27 Post No.17385570
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Anyone knows any link to a full play of the book of mormon?
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I heard that it is pretty great.Anyone has any source?
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It's pretty awesome. You can find the torrent of the soundtrack pretty much anywhere. That's the exact same cast I saw in London.
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>>17385591
Do they still play it in London? I want to see the thing,and London is just 2 hours on plain.
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How do i quit my band? 2016-07-23 21:18:29 Post No.17385522
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I play the guitar in a band, but i don't want to anymore. It's not like i don't enjoy playing music, but i don't like being in a band, and don't want to spend any more time and money for it, since i'm also starting college in september.
How do i tell my bandmates that i don't want to be in a band anymore? Do i tell em via text/internet or irl, face to face? Thanks
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>>17385522
Just text "i'm quitting, sorry. I wish you guys the best of luck."
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>>17385522
if youre a cool, grown-up guy you tell them face to face, explain yourself properly and they will have to respect your decision.
if youre a beta faggot do >>17385538
. it works but it will leave a bad after-taste.
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>>17385522
>I'm playing a real instrument now like cello. Goodbye cruel world.
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I need a girlfriend or a girl they can talk
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go outside more even if its just for dumb shit.
They are outside you are inside....do you see the problem?
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It is silly as if some girl Street to talk me out
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Need an expert advice 2016-07-23 21:03:41 Post No.17385491
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Hello guys,
I would like some advices, and I know that you all are the only ones who will be able to give me an objective solution haha
Last week I met a girl from eastern europe, we spent time knowing each other, went outdoor togheter etc... she even asked me for a hug two days ago
But Im afraid to fall in the friendzone and would like to know what should I do to conclude with her ? Knowing that shes going to leave the country next week
Thanks !
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>literally american pie
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Hi /adv/
So I'm in school right now, and I spend a lot of time at a nearby coffee shop studying.
I've been going there enough that you could say I'm friends with some of the baristas and first name basis with most of the rest.
So one night I was chatting with one of my friends there and he commented that I should try and get a job with them.
My actual job is a driver for this pizza place, and I actually make pretty decent money in tips, but that's about it (No benefits, etc.)
I actually thought about at least putting in my name to this place, but my concern is that I'd be potentially shooting myself in the foot if I actually got the job.
So I'm asking /adv/, have you guys been in similar situations? what did you do?
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>>17385490
Do you think you'd enjoy working for a coffee shop?
Do you feel like the job satisfaction you'd get from being in such an environment would outweigh the potential decrease in money earned?
Do you think the unshackled train of social interaction working as a barista compared to being a pizza driver would get under your skin after a while?
To my mind, change like this is good. Working in coffee shops is pretty chill, if they're little independent places and not copy-pasted franchises. In answer to your question, I was working as a security officer for about four years and used to spend most of my time off at this cheap little arthouse cinema where the tickets were about as cheap as the coffee. I asked them for a job after about six months, which is also about as long as my job with them lasted once I got it. Working there definitely put a dampener on my appreciation for the place; once you've experienced life behind the scenes, it's never quite the same. I haven't been back there in about a year since I left, save one or two special occasions.
These are just things to consider, though. It entirely depends on how much you dislike the actual job of being a pizza driver and how much you think you'd enjoy brewing beanwater for eight hours a day.