So i am with a qt for a few years now but as time passed she started to get really unstable, too clingy and selfish. She avoids serious conversations by pulling the drama card, if things don't go her way all she has to say is ment to attack me.
She is starting to drag me down mentally although i have always been the most optimistic person, she even stresses me out with completely unecessary arguments right before exams (student). She has been living with me and never made any friends, she acts like she has breathing problems but is just anxious of any physical activity.
At one point it took me so far that i hit her. She wants kids one day, i really don't see a future where she would be able to raise a child instead of a special snowflake.
I pitty her, i believe in her even though nothing changes, i can't end it but i feel like i should then again it will make me empty inside.
I believe she can't make a living herself, i have to financally support her too even though i am a student.
I need an opinion other than my own, i can't really understand my situation quite clearly anymore.
Break up with her.
>>17387265
I forgot to mention, she even refuses to do most of the household even though she works a 5 hour day.
>>17387268
How would i go about that, i want to make sure she can go on with life properly first.
>>17387274
You're not her father.
Do you honestly think she will give a fuck about you, your financial or emotional state post-break up?
No.
You don't owe her anything and vice-versa.
If it's OBVIOUSLY not working out, cut the cord.
Simple as, Anon.
pity =/= love
>>17387274
Sound's like she needs to learn to look after herself, if anyone does it for her she won't learn. >>17387289
This anon is right, drop her in the deep end and you'll be doing both of you a favour. It's basically what her father should have done in the first place.
>>17387289
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>>17387310
Thanks for the advice. I guess i needed to hear that, otherwise i wouldn't feel confident enough about my decision. I entrusted her with so much and reached out my hand and she always went for the arm.
One detail i left out, i am married to her, she started acting like that right after that day, how much does a divorce cost >_>
>>17387327
YOOOOO THATS A VERY IMPORTANT DETAIL
>>17387327
dayum boi
>>17387327
>One detail i left out, i am married to her, she started acting like that right after that day, how much does a divorce cost >_>
Holy shit, you are completely fucked. You will probably pay for your retardation for the rest of your life
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>>17387965
Hahahahahaha, these fucking reactions made my day!
>>17387327
pls be a troll
>>17387327
The good news is that somebody will be financially supporting her. The bad news is that person will be you lolololol