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i cant imagine what on earth you are describing. peopel spitting on you on a plane? people calling you a retard at work?

are you sure you're not exaggerating a little bit? where do you live?

I avoid people and keep a distance to an extreme degree because I'm afraid of getting those kinds of reactions, but I get them anyway and they become intense and hostile.

My psych said that I should go to group therapy for social anxiety because exposure therapy is the mechanism through which social anxiety is relieved, but the thing in my case is that exposure does not make things easier.

I become increasingly paranoid and distrustful with time. The people around me sense this cageyness and are freaked out. They might interpret me as being shady/shifty and mentally broken in some fundamental way which causes a feedback loop of mutual distrust between myself and those around me that produces extreme dislike despite my best efforts to keep to myself to avoid being hated and abused - they always do end up abusing me and hating me intensely.

At this point I'm suicidal and afraid to leave the house. I'm losing my mind. I dont know what to do. I cant leave the house and engage in the most basic interactions. Even tellers and cashiers of places I go frequently seem to develop this uneasiness around me. I cant even go at midnight for food at a gas station now. I'm terrified of even those most basic of transactional interactions.

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>>17399248
I live in New York (not NYC, a small city).

When I was 16 I went on a plane and I was bugging out because I didnt know where to place my eyes or what to do, and then one man turns around and looks over his seat at me with this look. He goes back down and then two guys look over me and just start spitting at my face.

I thought it was a dream for a long time, but it was real. I know it was real.

I went to a public library as a teenager and these girls there are having a conversation at a table while I'm studying. They stop talking after awhile and then start calling me names - making fun of my ears, or calling me other stuff.

Another time I went to the same library as a teenager and I went to one of the seats in the aisle and used the wifi. Two girls were talking in the other aisle and then one calls me a weirdo and her voice is filled contempt and hatred. Then I cock my head in her direction and she says "Oh, he hear me" and I can hear her voice seething with contempt . She doesn't care that I heard. I'm not even a human being to her.

I didnt go outside for months after incidents like that.

>>17399222

what? nothing? hes doing nothing wrong just let him do what he wants, god damn, why do you think he has to subscribe to some specific set of dad law?

my mother recently got in to self defense and survivalism. my dad recently got into pixar / dream works type 3d animated movies. people are allowed to have tastes outside the norm, and our generation of everyone playing pokemon GO has more or less proved that.

unless they do something actually destructive, let them explore. what are you going to do
>DAD, YOU ARE NO LONGER ALLOWED TO LISTEN TO THIS NEW MUSIC, CUZ I FEAR YOU MIGHT BUY A SPORTS CAR!!1!'

and i mean fuck, if they have the money for a sports car, who fucking cares? stop letting family guy and other TV memes dictate yours, or rather everyone elses life.

ITT: awkward teenaged OP is embarrassed to realize he likes the same kind of music as his dad.

>Babybommer listening to Pearl Jam=midlife crisis
>Generation X listening to M83=midlife crisis
>Millenial listening to new album from Taylor Swift's daughter=midlife crisis

>>17399202

what everyone else does: move on.

its not going to stop hurting anytime soon. but you can find other things to fill your life that make it a smaller pain. one that isnt as relevant because you have plenty to be happy about.

you're like the guy from 'i love you man'. go out and make some dude friends and spend a lot of time with them.

>>17399202
she probably wants to bone. But, just keep her as a side bitch. Don't fall for her, just fuck her occasionally.

In the same situation as you, I have no interest in anything at the moment, I feel so broken and alone
She said we weren't seeing each other enough, and when I recognize my mistakes and try to fix our problems she's done with me
I don't know where to go, I'm lost

Just don't get married. It's a stupid trap meant for woman's security, and humans aren't even naturally monogamous, so you'll hate being married a couple of years in.

>>17399173
Get a prenup or don't get married.

>>17399182
>prenup
I thought those things were useless?

>>17399159
lol

>>17399159
i lol'd
australia, is that you?

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Now seriously.

Whats the best lube out there? My wife and daughters vagina's depend on it.

Do you think about $500 would appease the poor minorities? Maybe that and some free pizza?

Go Hillary go!

>>17399138

assuming you arent already six months behind you can simply not pay. y ou can call them and talk about what defered payment options they have. you could let an old dude suck ur dick for 150 bucks and pay it off, or sell something of yours or apply for benefits.

>>17399141
he aint lying, there's a big gay community on craigslist and it seems old dudes are always on the look out, but you might have to suck his dick if you're the twink looking type.

>>17399160

not true. im a short tiny skinny twink looking boy, and i dont suck dick. you do not become a top as you get older. your body type does not define if you are a top or a bottom.

there are tons of bottoms who are now old dudes and all they want to do is suck cock, and they are willing to pay for it if it comes from a young twink.

i cannot tell you the number of old dudes who just want qt little twink boys to fuck their throats and asses.

>>17399099
Nothing will happen.
If you're scared, go ask a neighbour to remember the crazy woman that barged in, do you have a witness. Save a copy of your post, wrote down what happened, have your sister and your mother (whatever she remembers of the phone call) do the same, so nobody can say your confused or don't remember. Seal, and send it as a letter to yourself to timestamp.
And stop hanging around your friend, she's not your friend anymore.

>>17399127
Btw, I'm not a lawyer and this might not be worth anything in a court of law, but at least you'll do something , re examine what happened, and feel better about the whole thing.

>>17399127
the only witness is was my sister nobody else was outside we were she stuck the middle finger at me also so i said somethings back im assuming i can still get in trouble for that what trouble could i have caused there?

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>>17399096
>/adv/ - Advice

>>17399096

depends on your definition of friendship, and i suppose your definition of illusion.

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>>17399100
>/adv/ - Frogs

Tim is too stupid to notice he is fucking her?
Poor Tim, he's being used.

if tim isn't even able to notice amandas dick in his ass, is it reallllly cheating?

Did you have any of it at least once?

consider swearing off them for three months and seeing what happens. force yourself to go to things you dont consider 'interesting'. dodgeball, movies, local events, etc

>>17399082
Yes i had 2 months relationship xD 10 years and oral sex 8 years ago

>>17399070
Turn off computer. Go outside. Get active hobbies.

>>17399111
''Smile. Stop complaining. Stop being depressed.''

>>17399070

quitting. if you dont have someone you live with who can supervise your time online, simply cancel your internet plan.

>>17399060
If you talk with your boss the goal should be to give him an heads up that you're going away, and only do this if you're on very good terms with your boss and are 100% he won't screw it up for you.
What would be a realistic raise, 10, 20%? And being singled out as the guy that forced his hand? Just move on.

>>17399087
My boss wouldn't screw it up for me at all, he's trustworthy and you can go to him with anything.

So basically, tomorrow should run something like: "I want to make you aware that I've been approached for a job elsewhere and will be going ahead with the application"

Would that be a fair thing to say?

14.5k a year? That's like what I made at 8 bucks an hour or some shit.

You're getting screwed mate.

>>17399049
Start looking for a new job

>>17399049
They were justified in sacking you, even if your boss was being a dick he was still your boss.

you have shown that you disregard the hierarchy. instead of addressing the issue civilly you were kinda a rude bitch.

yes, he was also a rude bitch. but he was the rude bitch in charge. 'he started it' doesnt work. especially when what you described was him doing his job

Where to even begin on the issues of this message

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>>17399024
>Overwatch
Yes, you fucked up.

>>17399029
>>17399028
Hahahahahaha holy shit don't judge me for the random crap pieces of media I put there.

And I know it's a shit message, but if at all I just want to come off as trying to be nice, not as trying to do something with the ex of my friend. Which was more or less the mindset I had when I sent it but I regret.

>>17399016
www.polishmywriting.com