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Pt. 2
Feel like total shit, mood plumits, depression kicks in
Other housemate walks in a few seconds later and calmly reminds me he mentioned not posting photos as well and asked me to take them down...
Be mad for the contrast in reactions and how I felt guilt tripped when I was already having a bad time by someone who I pulled a knife out of their moth the night before and who told me they cared and where there to support me during my difficult time the night before that..
have social media app open in my hands, right a post about how I'm always on the sort end of the stick and people getting mad at me over nothing and I'm over it and sick of apologising
Tensions rise
Make a brief unaccepted apology as girlfriend questions if I mean it with a angry tone when I say sorry for the post and the photos
Asks if I mean I'm sorry again
Yell out to her that this is what I'm talking about with the post, I try to apologyse and it's never good enough, theirs always drama, always something wrong
Go back to my room
Next day try studying for exam
Be confused and emotional
Doodle some rhetorical negative affirmations about girlfriend and how I think she hates me and thinking I might have to move out
Continue studying, flipping past doodles
Have to make intense call to ask my boss for my job back and after forget about doodles in my notebook
Go out for food
Get a txt from my best friend telling me nice to know what I really think, telling me to get F-ed for hating his girlfriend (which I don't) and that he don't want a terrible friend like me
Girlfriend sends me message telling me how I think and how I feel and what is in my head and how I'm the problem and bad and that she wants me gone
Tell them I'm going to move out asap to get away from their crap and they respond with good.
Feel terrible, want to try and maybe make amends
Confront them
Girlfriend fully wants me gone, I agree that I am guna move out, over drama and all this shit

Pt. 3

Turns out 'in general'I have been making girlfriend feel unwelcome even tho she never mentioned it to me even when I asked about how she acted Wierd and asked if I was doing something wrong
Turns out best friend said get F-ed etc. to me because I have made his girlfriend want to go back home overseas and break up with him
Start getting teary, apologyse and walk off
Best friend tells me a few min later that I'm forgiven? Whatever that means..?
Realise I can't move out right now so tell them that since I'm impacting them negatively I will no longer be their friends and not take on their baggage, and them me, unless they want to try patch things up
Best friend replies saying too bad I don't care about our friendship as much as another friend
Say I'm confused as I thought I was toxic and making your girlfriend want to break up with you and leave and I needed to leave, so I assumed even after being 'forgiven' that the situation still stands that I'm a bad friend and our friendship is screwed
So be 2 weeks latter
Can't be in same room as best friend now
Still feel terrible, feel like circulation to a limb has been cut off and it's slowly dying from lack of blood flow
Share house use to be welcoming and I could just sit in the lounge and all the housemates would hang out and have fun and laugh
Now I can't be around my best friend he is still out in the common area hanging out with everyone ells having a good time while I'm just chilling in my room
All my friends say grilfriend is manipulative and just has a grudge on me or something
Just want my best friend back but at the same time I sorta hate him for all the pain I feel
What to do?

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>>17398239
>>17398240
>>17398243

Tl;dr
How can i stay in touch/connected with my bf if we can barely have contact?

You could write letters?

>>17398219
Suck it up, it's just until spring.
It's not like he's enjoying his compulsory levy!
If you can't even deal with this for a short while, you'll find a lot of shit you can't deal with, later in life. So, try to become stronger.

>>17398136
You have your right to not play the game. Also, you might give them a thought experiment in trends as an example. Think of something generally outrageous that might become a trend, like incest or oversexualized corporate clothing, I dunno.

>>17398136
Go is neat and all, but you are under no obligation to like it. It's still only a pale imitation of what Pokemon is anyway, and even then, Pokemon is not for everyone.

Atm Go is basically like excessive drinking - it's popular, but that doesn't make it a good thing or something you should like. Just make up your own mind about it and stick to your guns.

>>17398156
>you might give them a thought experiment in trends as an example
What?

http://webchat.freenode.net/

>>17398133

I used to use the #NEETadv channel. Don't know if it is still around. Also, bump for good channels.

What are your interests, OP? It really depends upon that because there are thousands out there.

You fucking moron, the drugs are almost 100% the cause of the siezures, if it was epilepsy you would have almost certainly shown signs of it as a child.

Go to a doctor immediately and never touch any drugs again unless your doctor prescribes them.

>>17398115
I haven't been doing any drugs for a while before all this happened I just like them generally. I also think that epilepsy can turn up at any age although I could be wrong about that.

>>17398126
While it is possible it showed up late, it is highly unlikely to never have a seizure and then suddenly have 2 so close together.

More than likely you either did permanent damage to your brain with the drugs, you you have something a fuckton more serious going on like brain cancer or some other disease in your brain. You absolutely have to go to a doctor and get checked. Seizures in this kind of situation are not something to fuck around with.

Get better friends.

>>17398081
Are they into it if you say you like girls jumping on trampolines?

>>17398081
If they screw with how you roll, are they really your friends? Why should you care what others think? Ecchi all you want and fear no retarded feminist oppression, for if they are adequate (which I doubt, all feminists do nowadays is rant), they will accept your freedom of choice. Otherwise, they will discriminate you which is hypocritical and reeks of double-standarts. Have faith in yourself, anime anon!

>>17398055
Those things aren't supposed to be pretty, just love it as it is. For the person who deserves to have sex with you it wouldn't matter what your vagina looks like.

>>17398070
And yet the majority of women's vaginas do seem to be pretty, all neat and tucked away? Surely I'd be more desirable if I didn't have the ugliest thing on the planet?

>>17398091
You would be surprised how dopamine-intoxicated perverted human minds transform the ugliest things into nice perks for their point of view. I'd probably find you special, were I the man who pleaded his affection to your persona.

>>17398052
And why exactly you no date co-workers?

>>17398054
It complicates the workplace, generates favoritism.

>>17398052
Don't destroy your career over an infatuation.
Try to be rational about this.

Take the high road and become a sociopath, just like the normies!

Weltschmerz is a natural stage of progression into general apathy. It's incurable, and irreversible, unless you somehow find God again or suffer major brain damage in a near-death situation.

>>17398015
You are actually angry at yourself because there's stuff that you need to change inside .

Your penis should be ok. The foreskin is meant to be pulled back behind the glans, and during arousal during secks this should happen automatically. You might be experiencing problems simply because you haven't done it before. The medical attention is your call. I'm no schlong scholar.

Sounds like phismosis..

>>17398010
If you can masturbate, you can have sex. Worst case scenario you'll need some lube.

>>17398138
This person is probably right. If you've never done it before, your skin may just need time to get stretched out. If it doesn't hurt, you probably don't have a medical problem. Try to GENTLY pull it back 1-2 times a day, be careful not to hurt yourself. Take it slow, take your time. If it's still difficult after a month, consider seeing a doctor.

If you think that you have schizophrenia then I really suggest that you go and see a doctor, and because of the fact that you seem very depressed.
Is it okay if I ask why your gender matters to you so much?
I hope that you'll feel better though

Sounds like you got a lot going on in your head. You need a professional.

Transgenderism in the west tends to be a manifistation of a host of underlying problems, most blatant here is poor self esteem.

You sound like you are also being heavily influenced by some of the more extreme areas of the internet. The only advice I can give you outside of seeking professional help is to make sure you exercise, eat well, sleep well, and get off social media. That and stop defining yourself by your gender.

Anyone I knew who defined themselves and their character on gender or sexuality were shallow and unhappy. Try to stop it.

>>17397980
I know this is a trivial point but ain't no link about being a mummy's boy and BDSM, you got all sorts in the latter, and I myself have a negative knee-jerk reaction towards mommy's boys

That aside, can't lie that desiring a female physical body can be hard for you. Surgery ain't perfect and it's costly, plus we know have no idea of how to did the mind- though I heard CBT might help. Honestly, try surgery and/or hormones if it's that bad, but just crossdressing sounds like a less painful and more reversible bet. Personally, I find that most post-op on-hormones MtFs still don't look female, but you go take a look yourself, and if you would be satisfied with that, why not

Schizo is unfortunately unavoidable, but if it hasn't hit you, why not try to make the most of what time you have left, just to see if you can? That is, to see if you can really achieve your dreams, rather than die regretfully- that's the meaning of life anyway. At least put the effort to see if you fulfill your girly BDSM dreams, at least have that happiness before anything may strike

When you get there, the resulting resilience and confidence may help you with the dating pool. While you do need a lack of shyness to begin with to pursue your dreams, I suggest you do that first before trying for heartbreak

Git good, fucklit.

>>17397978
How often do you masturbate? Be honest.

>>17397999
Four times a week. Not as horny as I used to be.

Don't fuck the lot lizards
Don't become a lot lizard
Everything else will go well if you follow those two easy rules

>>17398023
I hate to be that guy but what the fuck is a lot lizard

>>17397968
"A female who sales her body by going from truck to truck at Truck Stops usually selling pussy or blowjobs what ever the truck driver can afford."

>>17397963
It is not morally okay to brainwash any person and impair their freedom of thought. There's no right and wrong which can be dictated, there's an opinion on that matter. An opinion of the individual. So, as long as you abide the law enough to not get into trouble, you're pretty much fine. Enjoy yourself and be happy.

>>17397974
Hmm that's definitely true, but here I am worrying myself with a similar hypothetical- what about those who thought that what (sexual stuff) happened to them as a child was actually ok, but appear to live happy based on that? On one hand, you now have people who somehow think that child sex is ok, which is quite alarming. But how do you explain against that, without the eye-rolling re-traumatization? Hmm, now that I consider it, perhaps it's possible that the explanation can be delicate and careful enough, to reach a good balance

>>17397983
Well, in some cultures, especially ancient, it is/was considered pretty much ok. Depends on the view. Not that I promote that certain kind of view. The thing you should keep in mind is that a child is not fully responsible for his actions until certain age hence they are thought to be unable to make good decisions. Also, sex before puberty is somewhat unhealthy (presumably both physically and mentally). That's most probably why it is shunned and looked upon. Seems quite logical to me. The thing is, moral should not be dictated emotionally rather than logically. There is some emotion in it, of course, but you don't have to synonimize disgusting and immoral. For example, eating your pet cat which died in a car accident is certainly disgusting, but is no way immoral, since actually nobody really suffers from it. The cat's dead anyway, so what's the deal? Same thing would apply to brother and sister both willing to engage in a sexual relationship without producing children. I mean, why not? Who actually suffers from it if they both like it? But, since the children are a sensitive topic for almost every government authority, I humbly restrain from elaborating this particular situation. Point made.

>>17397959
You're fine. Apart from our being immune to most of our own resident bacteria, what you swallowed (if you did) was too little to matter.

Stop using meth, stop eating like shit, and go to the fucking dentist.

If you've swallowed pus you could die so you're probably fucked.

>>17398198
I have never heard someone dying from accidentally ingesting pus, and frankly the stomach acid would take care of most of them, or OP would be puking everywhere by now.

OP go to a dentist ASAP before shit gets worse. A hole in your wallet is far better than the pain you can end up in doing nothing.