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/adv/, care to offer he
everyone says i look fucking 15 and it's killing me. how do i make myself look my actual age of 19?
if it means anything i'm 5"10 150lbs
pic related
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>>17399557
we cant take you serious with that hair cut
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>>17399565
how should i cut it anon
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>>17399557
You look about 17 to me. Get a shorter haircut, a little length on top but very short on the sides. Your current hairstyle is not good and very frizzy. Copy the fashion of guys 18-22. Be happy that you have youthful skin. You're handsome, a bit young looking (I'd have guessed 17) but there's nothing wrong with it. It'll be an asset.

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Sorry about the blog post but this needs a decent amount of context.
>part 1
My bf and I are from two different worlds. I grew up in a very poor trashy town and a shitty druggie family. He grew up in a much more wealthier well off family. After his sister died of cancer ( it still haunts him everyday) he became depressed for years and years then he met me and we got together. He is also deaf in one ear and he lets it consume his life, he is also extremely bi-polar and has anger issues even though he won't admit it. We stayed at his mother's for a bit because he was taking care of her, but we got kicked out after he punched holes in the wall. We got our on place and things are decent, I do all the cleaning and cooking and he works very hard at two jobs. The thing is, is that over the year and a half weve been together he has been trying to "help" me and "teach" me how to do things right an dlive better since I grew up teaching myself everything coming from a gross druggie home. He constantly calls me retatrded and a stupid bitch and nit picks everything I do to death. I know he has shown me the proper ways of cleaning, speaking and doing things, but it's really hard to remember everything new, and I make a mistake everyday. He thinks I never listen to him because I constantly forget things( I have very severe anxiety) and hence why we fight every single and he screams at me on the phone and calls me names and blames everything on my upbringing and my shitty parents.
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>>17399551
He just just calls me names everyday and yells at me everyday because he says that's the only way I will listen and make a change, that he tried being nice ( for like a month lel) and that im unperceptive and refuse to change. He makes everything A big deal I mean everything. He blames me for every problem in his life and can never be wrong. I know im extremely forgetful, awkward, can't ask for help and I can be insanely distracted and sometimes lazy, but I do my best everyday. I make him lunch for work everyday, give him hemorrhoid cream, do the laundry, dishes, make dinner, put out his clothes and I still fuck up there. I know he has been through a lot of hardships and when he smokes pot ( big stoner) he's 100% fine and we can have really nice days and he does support me and do really nice things for me ( im going to to school for being a CNA and he is supporting us) Also I was severly sick and could not work for a few months so he helped support us, and he wants me to pay him back 5k which is fine I understand, but he constantly brings it up every fight. I'm so fucking sick of being screamed at everyday and called names, iv'e been so depressed and having bad thoughts and I tell him and he literally says he doesn't care and just do better. Idk maybe I am just retarded and not learning and making the changes fast enough but I feel like im trying to hard everyday. I live on eggshells everyday, even when we wake up he can just storm off and go look for things to bitch at. Now he is made because I won't message someone I slept with years ago and ask them a sexual question, like he is so fucking pissed I won't do this even though I said that is awkward as fuck and I don't want to.
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thats abuse
get out before it gets worse
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>>17399551
From reading that all he is doing is blaming you for everything and taking out his anger on you which is unacceptable and is not a relationship worth being in.

I ordered a phone from ebay and I got 2

What do? Do I get in trouble if I don't tell the seller I got 2? I kinda wanna keep/sell it but don't wanna get in trouble
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>>17399527
he probably gave u a shitty 1st one
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>>17399583
No, it works fine
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>>17399527
What kind of phone is it?

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We have a lot of severely depressed and suicidal people here. Might I suggest a sticky with resources such as suicide hotlines and things like that? I'm not familiar with everything there is, but having a place here with ready help and information may be helpful. Just a thought.
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>>17399523
I'm digging this. Bumb
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>>17399523
i dont think people want to call up someone and be like i feel ugly and i have no girlfriend
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>>17399589
lel'd

Also "Posters: 2", stop being autistic.
>>17399523
>>17399575

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Hi /adv/, I have a dilemma here with my roommates and maybe someone with more experience with this can help me out.

So I'm living in a flat here in Milan for university with another guy and two girls. I'm leaving for summer in August and they told me they want to sublease my spot to a random guy we don't know for about 15 euro a night.

First off I don't want anyone sleeping in my bed as I usually leave some stuff here, second they told me they intend to split the rent or use it to pay off bills, which seems unfair as it's my bed he would be using.

Thing is though, if I tell them not to I'm afraid they would do it anyway and keep the money.

Should I do it against my will to try and get some money out of it or say no and risk them doing it anyway behind my back? Sorry for the wall of text btw, here's a cute doggo
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>>17399522
Fuck no.

I would never let someone do that to me. Don't touch my shit while i am gone.
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>>17399534
That's the point, I don't want to but how can I prevent them from doing it behind my back?

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Those of you who live in US, particularly western (CA) HOW THE FUCK DO YOU GET AWAY FROM THE HEAT?!!?! I live in Fresno, CA. While it's dry here (thank for for that at least) the heat is unbearable, staggering right now at over 105 FUCKING DEGREES. FUCK. What sucks is that it barely rains, too. I want to go somewhere where there's rain, but not have to spend over $200 fucking dollars.
Any ideas? The heat makes me lethargic and angry. It brings out the worst in me.
I was just thinking of taking a trip to the bay, but it's expensive to stay there so unless I couch surf I'm fucked.
tl;dr where can I go that is cloudy or rainy around CA but won't cost me an arm and leg to head to?
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>>17399507

nowhere really, there are no 200 dollar vacations even at hostels.

just invest in AC. mine was 275 bucks, and its a 'floor unit' that i just stick the tube out my window and its all good. not sure how much its gonna fuck up my bill but my room is small enough taht i dont need to run it all the time.
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>>17399507
buy an AC like everyone else does. Yeah its expensive, but its that or live at the mall like all the other pisspants.
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>>17399513
Thank you for responding, anon.
I live in a big house with my family, though my room isn't that big. My dad said an AC takes up a looot of electricity so I'm skeptical. Where did you buy yours from? I'm on a budget because I'm trying to move to San Diego soon, too.

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I've come to the realization that my BF is bi (likes traps,futa, would joke about strap ons)
i'm willing to try anything with him but i'm very submissive and have no idea on what to do
we also have a huge height difference

>tl;dr how do I peg bf
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>>17399500
Start small fit domination. Sit on his face. Slap him. You'll get more comfortable with this as you do it more.
For pegging, there are probably beginner guides you can look up. You aren't the first short woman to pound a taller man in the butt
And congrats for being an awesome girlfriend!
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Start out really small... make his least favorite food and make enough so that the next day so you can say "leftovers for dinners XD"

THAT is femdom. All this strap-ons and sex (ew) is misguided. He's put so much time, love, and money into making you happy and he dosen't even get a good meal in return.

Fuck yeah. That's hot
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>>17399654
No. Just kick him in the balls and fart in his face like a normal girl. None of this weird, perverted 'coooking him a bad dinner' crap

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I got drunk when i shouldn't have, i became confident as fuck and i got this hot girl's number.

Too bad i'm normally an antisocial retard

I'm new to this whole texting thing, tell me /adv/, how do i do this? how do i even begin?
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1.Get drunk again.
2.Keep texting
3.???
4.Become alcoholic
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>>17399475
"hey i was wondering if you wanted to hook up for some coffee. we met the other night."

I find it interesting that alcohol make normal people act dumb, but make sperglords act normal.
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>>17399475
Text a bit and get more girls numbers

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How can I get my old Youtube account taken down? I forgot the password/email and now it's just there.
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>>17399458
google youtube help center.
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>>17399476
I tried. I got no help.
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Is there any way someone can
Flag the videos to the point that it gets deleted?

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is it a trend that old women and minorities talk shit about other coworkers? how can i avoid these kinds of people for my next cuck job?
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>>17399448
Everyone talks shit about everyone at a workplace whether you hear it or not.

Welcome to the human race.
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>>17399460
it is impossible that other jobs have people who complain other people doing nothing all day and ask about their time sheets. my job is literal shit and i work in my community college.
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>>17399465
>i work in my community college

wait till you hit the real workforce bro.

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Hey guys, I'm going to college (first year) on the other side of the states. I don't know anyone where I'm going and I'm not really that close to anyone, including family. I'm really nervous and my anxiety is coming back. Is there anything I can do to feel more comfortable about diving into something completely new by myself? Yes I have used google, but I'm interested if anything as worked for you personally.
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>>17399442
A fuck ton f people are going to feel just like you.

Socialize as much as you can regardless of how scared you get.
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>>17399449
thanks, Ill try my best!

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how do some fat women have big butts because some of them are supposed to be flat
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>>17399419
high heels, stairs, body type, exercise and/or genetics.
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>>17399425
high heels and stairs dont make your butt bigger otherwise my butt is dyslexic cause i take the stairs everyday
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Because where your body puts fat is a matter of genetics. Women as a whole tend to have more fat around the hips and butt, men as a whole tend to have more fat around the stomach, but this is not universal. It's also genetic whether more fat is subcutaneous (under the skin) or visceral (around the organs).

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Me and my best friend have just finished our degrees and are thinking to start renting a place together. Do you think it would ruin a friendship, living together? We get on really well and have done since we were 16. I'm just concerned that we'll break our friendship and the dream bubble of two dudes finally away from parents, livin' the dream, will burst horrible in my face.
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>>17399402
depends entirely on the people moving in together.

Insert every tv show episode of 2 friends moving in together and finding it tough.
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>>17399402

it depends on the people like the other anon said. being friends and being roommates are two very different things. but sometimes you happen to align the qualities.

its easier to be friends with a roommate then it is to be roommates with a friend to be honest.

i had a friend, we got along great, but moving in together ruined that. namely because I enjoy and appreciate my alone time, and he'd get mad if i say, watched family guy, without him.

getting on really well doesnt tell you if you have similar habits in terms of cleanliness or noise or sleep or what have you.
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Think about a few things. Looking back at being at his house, does he keep his room he same way you do? Where are his clothes.. put away or on the floor? What are his eating habits? Has he been away from mommy long enough to know how to live on his own?

Compare the answers to you and see if there's some compatibility. If you're someone who likes a fairly nice place and his room is always a mess, or if he likes to dump his jacket and shoes on the floor at the front door, it ain't going to work.

Having said that you could try and put a one-year limit on it, but under the worse conditions, one year will seem like a lifetime.

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Can I pass my driving test if I only have a week to prepare?

I've only driven a handful of times, but I plan to drive at least once a day until my exam
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>>17399401
Yes.
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>>17399401
yes, driving is about how much force you put on the accelerator not your steering wheel.
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>>17399410
No.

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Hey /adv/,
I am moving to a new place soon and I will have to get a new job. I am going because of college, so I am working part time. The problem is that my right leg and back are super fucked from an accident that I had a few years back, and I can't stand on it or walk a whole lot at all. I was able to live here because I had an easy desk job as an office clerk, but now I don't think there are any in the area I am moving to. Some have suggested I get some aide like disability until I finish college, but I dunno, I never really liked the idea of mooching or getting hand outs. What do you think I should do?
TL;DR: Leg and spine bad and need new job soon, can't stand so average job is no. wat do
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>>17399391
Call centers
Cashier
driving jobs.
Security desk jobs
data entry
customer service

lots of options. too lazy to list them all.
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>>17399400
The problem is that I can't seem to find any of the like in the area I am going to. Cashiers excluded, but they make you stand all day, and I can't do that.
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>>17399406
then disability or look harded

>but i don't wanna/can't find anything.

Then your either lying and just lazy or you need to nut up take disability or end up on the street.

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