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>>17398483
Try calling him by telephone, record the audio. Record a video of he threatening you, but don't let him notice.
And when he is not doing anything wrong to threaten you, call the police and show them everything, so they can arrest him while he is vulnerable.

>>17398490
If it doesn't work out, just move the hell out of there.

Stop being weak. Settle it like a man.

>Male
>21
>Neutral, we sometimes message each other on facebook
>I like her but there are somethings about her that I just don't understand, she was never particulary bright but sometimes she made no damn sense at all
>That I didn't fuck her more, she was and still is the most beautiful girl I've ever met

>>17398462
>Male
>18
>Friends, yea plenty
>I think she's a bright and funny, but is damaged and not fit for a relationship. Still stunning
>Not really

>>17398462
>male
>33
>none
>love her
>that i wasn't there to protect her when she died

>>17398435
It would entirely depend on if anyone from real life that you know checks this site. But if they don't highly unlikely.

>>17398435
Cover your camera.

>>17398442
keked

also, just alter small details that don't change the problem you search advice for. for example, if it's about realtionships, say you are together a month more or less than you actually are. or say she has a brother when she has a sister irl. it will make it impossible to track it to you

You start by making friends. Hang out with your coworkers or find people with similar interests/hobbies. From there, maybe a relationship will blossom. Friendship is the first step though.

Make some friends.

>>17398387
I want to rule the world, literally.

Value: family, wealth, free time, privacy.

Aims: Marry a qt in next year, startup my own company, a good work/life balance. Nofap going strong 16days now, aiming for 90.

Purpose: Maintain assets, see my parents retire and enjoy having grandkids/ free time.

Activities: Sex and more freaky sex with qt wife, whisky, gardening and growing crops. Visiting my village and farmland "back home".

>>17398476
so essentially, to live a life everybody else lives
enjoy your emptiness

>>17398356
When you can't imagine yourself achieving said dream or putting a realistic plan in action.

You have your entire life to achieve your dreams all the way until you are incapable of moving your body to achieve them. Look at all of the actors who didn't start until they were 60 years old. Sure, they're not A listers but they get work and likely enjoy it. You could paint until you're 80 and maybe when you're 80, that will be the point where you are skilled enough for people to take interest in your art. There is never a moment where you should give up on your dreams.

>>17398356
You're never too old to give up on your dreams.

> be early 20s
> I had spent months working on dating someone i really loved, things were starting to go great spending every weekend together and going on dates
> I introduced my love interest to my best friend
> All 3 of us go out clubbing the following weekend
> me and love interest go back to my place while friend stayed out
> Suddenly love interest decides to go 'home'
> Find out next day from another friend who was out that love interest showed up at the club after we left
> A week later I find out best friend is dating love interest

That's the story of how i lost my best friend and the only person i honestly think i have ever loved.
It has been over 5 years and i have not trusted anyone since.

>>17398321
Buy some display cases and use it to house an ever-growing Bad Dragon dildo collection.

Build a ten million piece jigsaw puzzle.

>>17398321
Build a rig and just have an office/chill room.

>>17398317
OP, looks are not all.
Once you meet someone who makes you feel truly good, and you can see yourself spending your life with them, it doesn't matter all that much if they're a 6 or a 8.
Even if you're less attractive than her, you fulfil all her needs and make her insanely happy. She clearly values this more than anything.

>>17398353
>Even if you're less attractive than her, you fulfil all her needs and make her insanely happy. She clearly values this more than anything.

This. Who cares if she's out of your league. She likes you for you and I am assuming she doesn't care or hasn't noticed the difference in your attractiveness. If you want to be "more attractive", work out if you don't already and dress sharper. Also, there is the possibility that you are better looking than you think you are.

>>17398317
>She used to work as an aid for people with disabilities
>We ran into one of her old friends that she hadn't seen in years at the park last weekend
>The friend hadn't met me yet and assumed I was a client
Sorry, OP, but I laughed. I had the same problem until I recently got dumped. Several times people said to her that she was out of my league, we was at a club once even, and some random girl said to her that she could do better. However, I noticed that only other women ever said anything, other guys only ever gave me nods of approval. At the end of the day though all you have to do is put a little bit of effort in cleaning up, and beyond that it shouldn't be a problem.

>>17398300
Lel you could be bi? I don't know man. I'm just a horny fucker in general. When I'm drunk it's even worse. Reckon you'd still fuck tall cis women when sober?

>>17398311
I'm not really down to sex with strangers regardless, got a mental block on sex that may or may not be trauma-related and my psychiatrist isn't gonna go there for the time being.

I just wanna touch them, make people laugh. If a girl got boobs on level and size of my head I'm good.

>>17398322
Hmm would you see yourself dating one then? If not you're probably just gay and like attention/affection when drunk?

Do you travel?
Are you outgoing?
Do you socialise well?
Do you take initiative?
What are your aspirations?
What are your hobbies?

Try and write stuff that most people would deem good qualities. Leave out stuff that people would see as a potential problem.

It would help if you told us what kind of job you're applying for. The devil's in the details.

>>17398280
"I post on 4chan a lot, and I've enclosed a naughty picture of may waifu and some Sonic fanfics that I wrote"

>>17398294
I see, I see.

Oh, it's a job at a furniture sales place. The job description kept rhyming on about being interested in interior design and coordinating fabrics and colours and what have you, which I am interested in.

>>17398270
All the other spiders in the colony will rally for revenge
You can never use a toilet again, enjoy pissing and shitting outside for the rest of your life

If you live in the city, it'll go down in the sewers were it will mutate. With its new super-intelligence, it'll plot revenge against you

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7skCdp5oTIE

>>17398270
Your shit is your weapon. Finish the spider off with it. You're invincible.

Any woman tells you to leave your friends - you don't. No matter if they were 30 or 16. Fuck that noise.

It's just hornyness and missing that is making you feel that way. Try to hang out with your friends and get your mind busy doing other sutff.

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>>17398249

>has a problem
>doesn't want to spend money to get problem fixed

Cont'd.

I'm a different man now than I was when we were together. I was a 25 yo boy when we broke up, and now I'm a 32 yo man, I've had a lot of experience in relationships after we ended, and my seduction game and sex life is a different beast altogether.
I understand women more than most other people I know, not to brag.

She's ashamed of having these troubles only one year into her marriage, and apparently it's been going on for years. She rarely talks about it with people, and it's easier for her to open up to our common friend, since he's a 32 yo virgin asexual - which means he doesn't really know how to give any advice in the matter, but he's a good listener.

I want to be there for her, and I know a few things that should work, even though this is a same-sex relationship. I mean, women are women, right? My mate tells me he doesn't believe that's the case, and that lesbians are exposed to more testosterone when they're developing in the womb, therefore their brains are more male than heterosexual women's.

>idkman.png

Should I talk to her? I think it's such a shame that two beautiful women (positively the hottest lesbian couple in town, both feminine) can't share a boiling hot sex life. I believe that with little effort anyone can improve their game, and my advice doesn't rely on gender, I want to talk to her about seduction in general, and specifically in LTRs.

It's not my business, I know, but I care about both of them.
Shut up and see them fall apart, or try and do my part for my good friends? What do?

>>17398241
No, it's not really your problem, so I don't know what kind of advice you're looking for here. I just recommend being respectful, receptive and not shitty about it.

>>17398251
Oops, pt 2 just posted. Hang on