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So I did some really stupid shit a couple weeks ago on a trip apparently, but I have no recollection of the events that took place. I had no control over myself. My doctor gave me meds, and apparently that's one of the rare bad side effects which caused it. Stopped taking them obviously because it was only getting worse.
One of my friends simply wont forgive me for what I did, but I have no idea what it is because he wont tell me. He acts like we're cool on social media, but when I try to talk to him he reads the msg and ignores it. I've apologized a million times, but I haven't told him what caused it because I think he might not care.
Help please.
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Does he know you're medication?
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Try to tell us what you did.....?........
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>>17397167
Must be some real gay shit if he refuse to talk aobut it.
You sucked his dick OP.
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I did it lads / I really fucking need advice now 2016-07-27 04:33:07 Post No.17397153
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I did it lads / I really fucking need advice now
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Lads, I fucking did it! But the rocketship to the moon is not complete yet - I have a few questions
1. What do I wear?
2. How do I get booze at 19?
3. Am I really in? or does she think I'm actually teaching her chess? (i know, you guys have no way of knowing. but do your best pls)
I will answer any questions, and report results if things go well in the coming days.
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second part of the conversation, third part incoming.
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Third and final part. Last few questions: what do I wear? should I schedule for the night? take her to dinner at all or just show up? I'm so confused
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>>17397153
I feel like I've seen this already. Is this a copy pasta?
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Hi I'm a gay guy 18 years old
Am i depressed if I'm not horny and don't enjoy sex? Does it mean I have bad mental health or something?
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You're probably not gay
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Might be depression, might also be a more physical issue. Go to some specialists, turns out I had a thyroid disorder. Missed out on YEARS of sex
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>>17397149
I'm gay
>>17397163
Well I think I'm kind of depressed or something. I talked with a psychologist who said I don't have any mental illness though
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Is it impossible to break out of culture? 2016-07-27 04:23:16 Post No.17397116
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Is it impossible to break out of culture?
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Where you are born mostly will depict how you act and think. Is there a way to break this or do you just have to follow the culture you are born in to be happy?
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It's not going to make you happy. Problems like this always come internally. You will always, always be unhappy until you recognize this and rectify it.
It's like alcoholics thinking they can stop being alcoholics if they move away from a place where they think encouraged them to drink. There is no geographical cure or in your case, a cultural cure. The problem will always be you. Figure it out and solve it accordingly.
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Culture is not genetics, it's just a bunch of ideas and customs. You may accept those ideas or you may not, I don't really see how it is a problem.
I live in a region very fond on soccer and wine. I was also raised catholic. But right now I'm agnostic, I don't care about soccer and I don't drink, not even for the traditional toast right after new year (I think it's called toast in english).
Maybe I'm misunderstunding your question but I don't think it's even close to be impossible.
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I think the problem you are raising is that to go against cultural norms, you have to be comfortable or braced for negative reactions. To not be what the majority are comfortable being means they will push you to return to the norm. You then have to be sure of yourself.
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Kissless virgin here. There's this girl i like and she likes me too, it's always been kinda akward between us. I wanna ask her out but if she says yes, what the fuck am i suppose to do with her? How am i supposed to behave and what am i supposed to do?
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Back massages lead to making out.
>Give her a back rub.
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>>17397130
Advice from another virgin.
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Basically once she has said yes you must perform an elaborate mating dance. If, and only if, the dance is successful will your penis uncord itself and open up like a magnificent orchid. She will drop three heavy stones into it. Then you will have become a man.
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What does one do when you want/need to leave the country (currently in the US)? But you have a disability that prevents you from being employable? Nor do you have any known family members outside in the world?
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Why do you want/need to leave?
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>>17397094
No country out there will want another welfare case. Maybe try being less of a faggot and let us all know if that works out.
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>>17397103
Certain potential presidents being elected.
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Hey /adv/
I want to claim my computer's warranty to get it replaced for a new one, what can I do to break it without opening it or spilling something over it (warranty doesn't cover accidental damage just "normal" usage deterioration).
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Whatever you try, they've seen it before. Do you really think you can outsmart them?
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put a cockroach in the vents, it will make a nest inside and will eventually kill the motherboard.
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>>17397086
Well... voltage variation is covered. i just don't know what the fuck that means or how to take advantage of that.
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I was diagnosed with mild cerebral palsy as a child and have had absolutely no problems with it my entire life, but because I was diagnosed with it I will not be able to join the military.
To anyone that knows, is it possible to be undisclosed with Cerebral Palsy. Like I said, I have never had a single problem with it my entire life. I have absolutely no problem doing physical labor or anything physical in general. I speak clearly.
I haven't spoken to any recruiters but from what I've read online they will immediately reject me for having been diagnosed with it.
So yeah. Thanks for reading and please respond if you know anything about this.
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>>17397076
Found this after a quick google search:
"By signing the dd2807-1 form while enlisting you give the military access to your medical history.
they might not find anything if you had something done at some hospital in some random state years ago... but if it does come out eventually you can be kicked out under a fraudulent enlistment charge."
Your medical history is not classified, they will figure it out. You're better off being honest with the recruiter and seeing if you can serve in some other capacity
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>>17397085
I didn't and don't plan on lying about it, but yeah. I will talk to a recruiter in the near future and see what opportunities are presented.
Thanks
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Housemate doing/selling drugs in living room. 2016-07-27 04:10:24 Post No.17397070
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Housemate doing/selling drugs in living room.
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Evening advice. I hate to come to you guys about something like this, because I know a lot of yall smoke weed for problems that you can't control (and just for the fun of it).
Here's the situation. My housemate is a pothead. You know the type, wake up, smoke (cough a lot) bring his friends over, smoke, sleep, repeat.
I hate the smell of weed, but I can tolerate it because that's what you get for not being able to afford your own apartment. Things have changed though.
I just saw my housemate selling his weed to other people in my apartment complex. He keeps our doors and balcony open because it's hot in the living room and to air out the weed stink (he smokes inside, even though I've told him not to. I get he doesn't care, so w/e.)
I'm afraid that our neighbors (who are also college kids that smoke weed, probably) are going to call the cops on us because he's selling drugs. I'm trying to find a new place, but in the meantime I dont want to get hit with a federal offense because his stash is in the 'living room'.
I want this guy out, obviously. But I dont know how to navigate the legal landscape. Do I just call the cops next time he's selling and go from there? Should I call our landlord and leave an 'anonymous tip' that there's a heavy drug user in our apartment?
Should I contact a lawyer? How would I do that anyways?
I'm not sure where to start. But my goal is to kick this guy out, or leave before shit gets worse.
Also, the roommates are foriegn exchange students, so they don't really seem to grasp that getting hit with a drug offense will strip their financial aid and more than that.
I know that was a lot, but please help!
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MY GOD PLEASE
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My alternative is to turn your place into a full blown traphouse.
Learn how to cook crack and employ the foreigners since they don't know better.
Get the whole apartment complex involved if you can.
Play OJ Da Juiceman very loudly.
Trap your ass off and be a rich, successful man.
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thats not advice
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Do Match.com/eHarmony actually work? 2016-07-27 04:06:55 Post No.17397064
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Do Match.com/eHarmony actually work?
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Just curious /adv/. I'm an average looking, straight 26 year old male in a largely suburban area north of Denver. Kinda geeky, kinda shy. I've toyed with OkC and PoF but responses are exceedingly low. Am actually looking for a relationship, not some pointless hook-up.
Do any other (preferably male) anons have experience with online dating sites? Are paid ones worth it? Is the response rate better or still terrible? What advice can you give me?
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My personal experience is that eHarmony sucks, Match is ok, but OkCupid is awesome.
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>>17397064
Obviously, otherwise they wouldn't still be in business
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Aren't these dating sites just based on looks and super picky? I mean, if you have a literal list of possible people to talk with, aren't you just going to pick the absolute cream of the crop?
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Hi, I'm awful at meeting people, and I am wondering is tinder worth it? Any general tips/info I should know before I even touch it?
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It can't hurt.
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What are pros/cons, if any? Anything to look out for? I want input and information, quite honestly.
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Advice: none of it matters, message as many matches as you can and don't take it personally/give a fuck if they don't respond. It's a numbers game. Oh and like at least 50% of the girls you hear back from will be bots eager to hook up.
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Stay or break up with girlfriend? 2016-07-27 04:03:45 Post No.17397058
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Stay or break up with girlfriend?
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Hey /adv/,
I'm in a rut right now and I need your opinions on this:
I'm thinking of breaking up with my girlfriend of 15 months. About halfway into the relationship, I really saw a future between us.
I mean, I still kinda do, but barely.
So here are the pros and cons of staying with her.
Pros:
>very devoted towards me, basically tries to spend most of her time with me and isn't afraid to show her love for me
>loves to listen to me (when I was younger, my parents never bothered to listen to me)
>clingy as shit, loves my company and literally would rather die than cheat on me
>my "therapist"
>lost her virginity to me
>loved me even if I was an asshole
>was able to be truly myself around her
>my family treats her better than her actual family
>somewhat got her into exercising (OP's habitat is /fit/)
>gone through a lot of shit with her, but came out strong together
>9-10/10 sex, willing to do it anytime, anywhere (thinks sex with other guys is disgusting)
Cons:
>clingy as shit, basically interferes with my daily activities (cooking, hanging out, especially the gym)
>not as committed to exercising (ie. NY Resolutioners' mentality)
>loses her shit when I simply bring another girl's name into a conversation (currently furious at me for telling her my friend (who happens to be a girl) wanted me to train her at the gym)
>anxiety attacks and overly emotional
>emotionally blackmails me at times
>cuts to "take away her emotion pain
>goes into ignoring mode when pissed at me
So I've been wrapped around this thought for days and I saw two options for this:
The first one is I break up with her, and go back out into the dating world, but will never love anybody again since I honestly felt love towards her for the first time and it would only remind me of her if I try to replace her
The second one is I stay with her, but I basically have to carry her around , but I'll stay mostly happy even if I have to deal with her bullshit
So, what do you guys think?
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>>17397058
shes crazy, anon
you stuck your dick in crazy
youre not supposed to do that
you had better get rid of her before you knock her up. if that happens, all is lost
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>cuts
Get out ASAP.
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>>17397058
Happy devoted slut waifu material.
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>Just interviewed for a job in Northern California
>Hear stories about insanely high cost of living
How much do you need to make to reasonably support a family of 3 around Pleasanton?
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If you want to live in California, live in Sacramento.
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>>17397063
I have a bit of choice in where I actually live
Main requirement is I need to be able to drive to the Bay Area for appointments and shit during the day
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Also, what's better about Sacramento? Lower cost of living?
Hi /adv/
My opiate use is out of control. Trying to take a break and get my tolerance down. Every time I'm sick my parents clue in.
"Why are you so irritable?"
"Why are you sick, whats wrong?"
"You look really unwell lets go to the doctor"
I use to get well and tell them I'm fine. Then they leave me alone. I cant moderate my use since I've moved back in with them. Living with my parents is making my heroin problem worse.
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you gotta tell them what's up. they're gonna find out sooner or later anyway. if you really really can't face them, then call your local social services department and ask what your rehab options are (I'm assuming if you moved back in with your folks, you have no money). if your options are dependent on your household income, then you will definitely have to tell your folks. if you are worried that your parents will kick you out once they find out about your heroin problem, then you need to tell social services that and ask them what help you can get if that should happen.
just, whatever you gotta do, get some help. get yourself checked into rehab ASAP. if it was just booze I would say maybe try to find an outpatient substance abuse counselor. but heroin withdrawal is notorious for being shitty. you will want to be somewhere safe where you don't have to fend for yourself.
good luck OP
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3 gf's later and I'm still not over 'her'
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So?
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>>17397046
>3 gf's later
It's 3 girlfriends later BECAUSE you're not over her
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Stop wallowing over the past and look forward to the future. Nothing good will come of sulking over things you cannot change